Rob and Kristen- When You Say Nothing At All

I'm not really in the mood today.

So much bitterness.

So much anger.

So much foam.

I had read that Rob's parents were spotted in Vancouver.

I guess someone had taken 'secret' pics of them out and about.

Kinda like... followed them and stuff.

(and stuff)

Can I just say...

CREEPY.

Rob's parents seem like a lovely couple.

Rob obviously adores them.

They obviously adore their son.

Why must people insist on dragging them into the fuckery?

So they came to visit their son.

OK.

Did you HAVE to stalk them?

I don't know.

It just seems so wrong on so many levels.

 And of course the action of one person

is suddenly blamed on everyone!

I'm actually shocked that Kristen wasn't somehow blamed for this.

You know...Because she is the one who is always out to 'GET'

Rob and his family by leaking pictures all the time.

How fucking tedious.

(And step off the soapbox now... OK?)

Just leave Rob's parents alone.

They don't deserve to be stalked

just because they produced the most beautiful

decent, thoughtful, gorgeous man on the planet.

They should be revered.

Honored.

Not harassed.

You know?

The debate is still ongoing about this Daily Record thing...

Yeah. Rob bought a puppy because of his CRUSHING lonliness.

(which of course means Kristen isn't up to task)

OK.

Does Robert really have time for a puppy right now?

Although it's nice to think he saved one from death.

I guess we will see soon enough... right?

I was sent this from a friend...

(PR PRO you did it again)

Here’s how news pools work – The owner  of the Daily Record, Trinity Mirror Publications, either sent a single reporter to the press day or more likely paid an licensing fee to get a transcript of the interview.  NOTE that Trinity also owns the Daily Mirror as well as 240 regional  publications.

Note that there’s only a passing mention of WFE --  that’s because the WFE references are most likely under a time embargo to ensure that they are printed closer to the date of the film; however anything not specific to the movie is fair game.  Or its also possible that the paper violated the embargo.  It happens all the time.

Rick Fulton (who is credited as the writer) was almost certainly not in the room for this interview.  Note that it never says “I asked Rob” nor are there any  comments on any details such as facial expressions or mannerisms.  Plus the structure reflects that it is basically a collection of excerpts stung together.

Each reporter  who writes from the news-feed content chooses the angle he or she wants to emphasize so it doesn’t seem like the same story appearing over and over again --  Fulton honed in on the puppy.

However ,writers do not write their own headlines – they submit their copy and another group writes the headlines.

Headline editors have one mission --  attract eyeballs to the story. That means you go for the most sensational thing you can find, regardless of its relationship to the rest of the story.

Bottom line:  the story is probably accurate, but not exactly; the headline is subjective and exaggerated.

See how it works?

And the VF interview.

Well.

People.

Relax, OK?

The VF still hasn't been seen in its entirety

(at least at this writing)

And people are fucking whining about it.

Shut up.

Please.

Robert doesn't talk about Kristen.

Deal with it.

Neither one of them talks about the other.

They don't DENY a relationship.

They don't CONFIRM a relationship.

They just don't fucking talk about it.

They haven't in quite some time.

So stop reading drama and controversy into every word

It's not there.

Believe or don't believe.

Just stop lying and making shit up to fit your agenda.

Someone sent me the following...

(no idea who wrote it)

Kristen was with him on NYE last year (and this year), her birthday in Budapest, his birthday in Laguna, living together in a rented house on Stone Canyon Reservoir, her visiting him on his WFE set, him visiting her in Montreal and New Orleans, the kissing pics, attending that wedding as his date, staying together in Brazil, Baton Rouge and Vancouver while filming, same flights everywhere they go..Rob must know that we know they are a couple. No one does all those things together if they aren't a couple, not even good friends and co-stars. These are the things that couples do. Not just friends and not just co-stars in the same crazy situation.

Yeah.

All of that.

THESE ARE THE THINGS THAT COUPLES DO.

If you think back to all the pictures...

All the sightings of them acting like a couple...

The comments about them from people who know them...

The fact that no other man has consistently been in Kristen's life

as much as Robert as been with her.

The fact that no other girl has consistently been in Robert's life

as much as Kristen as been with him.

It's as plain as the nose on your face.

Rob and Kristen aren't hiding ANYTHING.

It's all right there in front of your eyes

They just don't shove it down your throats 

like so many other couples seem to like to do.

They aren't going to 'perform' for you.

Rob and Kristen don't discuss the other in the press.

How many times have they said this?

It's not even ALLOWED in interviews.

So... tell me again...

HOW DOES PR WORK IN A RELATIONSHIP
WHERE THEY REFUSE TO DISCUSS THE OTHER?

Right.

Pretty obvious that they figured this out together.

Safe to say they are on the same page.

They worked out their game plan.

They know EXACTLY what they are doing.

You don't agree with how they handle their relationship?

Tough Shit.

It's not for anyone else to dictate what is right and wrong

in how someone lives their life.

Maybe as fans we would like to see 'more'

But that's just selfishness on our part.

We aren't thinking about their happiness...

We are being greedy and thinking about what makes us happy.

Well...

For me

Knowing that Robert and Kristen are happy

is enough for me.

I'm good with that.

It makes me happy... too.

 I don't fantasize about their relationship.

I don't confuse them with Edward and Bella.

It just makes me smile to see two people in love.

And isn't that better than being all 

bitter and angry and foamy all the time?

I think so.

And you know I had to end this with Tom.

Because this is my blog...

and I do what I want.

And I want Tom.

So.

In fitting with our magazine cover theme...

This is the closest I could get.

And I know I have posted these lyrics before...

But to me...

This is kinda how I see Rob and Kristen.

When You Say Nothing At All

Alison Krauss

It’s amazing how you can speak right to my heart
Without saying a word you can light up the dark
Try as I may I could never explain
What I hear when you don’t say a thing

The smile on your face lets me know that you need me
There’s a truth in your eyes sayin’ you’ll never leave me
The touch of your hand says you’ll catch me if ever I fall
You say it best when you say nothing at all

All day long I can hear people talking out loud
But when you hold me near, you drown out the crowd
Old Mr. Webster could never define
What’s being said between your heart and mine

The smile on your face lets me know that you need me
There’s a truth in your eyes sayin’ you’ll never leave me
The touch of your hand says you’ll catch me if ever I fall
You say it best when you say nothing at all.

Bye for now

♥♥♥