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Wednesday, July 29, 2015

Random Thoughts

Sometimes when I have time
(which hasn't been much lately
thank you summer from hell)
 I sift through my emails...
Twitter and read some blogs
And wonder why fandom things 
are so important to some people.

Beyond important.
Life and death important.
It's fucking serious and this is
Their fucking job important.
They will cry for you
die for you

It's just a fandom.
That's all.

You live.
You learn.
And hopefully the lunatic fringe
will someday learn
that this shit doesn't matter.
Not really.
I learned it 3 years ago.
After being too invested in 2 people
and a relationship.
That wasn't mine.
It's like I woke up.

It's entertainment.
It's a hobby.
And shouldn't it be enjoyable?
Shouldn't it be about the laughs?
The fangirling over new projects?
If you're not having fun...
and find yourself angry and defensive 
Why are you still here?

There was a lot of talk about photoshopping recently.
Well...not just recently.
It seems that every time there are pics 
of Rob/Twigs
or with anything that doesn't fit the "agenda"
(or old, staged... etc etc)

Take this one.

Supposedly this is a manipulated picture.
But why?
Rob walking to a car?
I can see how this is a damning picture
and why someone would want to change it!
If people are going to mess with pictures...
why wouldn't they at least be a bit creative?
Like maybe him and Twigs making out or something?
I think I will add an extra hand to his reflection!
That's it! FOOLED YA!!!
Everyone will believe Rob is with Twigs now!!!
*insane cackling*

A pic of Beyonce walking by a car...
There's like a person with 3 faces in the reflection!
Why would they do that???
Are the paps manipulating everyone's pictures??
Or maybe with the curvature of the car
and the refraction of the light and movement...
stuff just gets bent and twisted in the reflection?
Could it be something as logical and simple as that?
Could it??
Can you imagine going thru endless pics
and trying to prove they are fake?

I'm not sure what people even get out
of all the lying and making shit up.
Fandom notoriety?
Hits on their blogs?
Attention they are lacking in their 'real' lives?
It reeks of needy desperation.

I'm 99.9% certain that Rob and Kristen
are no longer together
(And haven't been in over two years)
and most definitely have no children
(There has been zero evidence to tell me otherwise.)
I was on the "Robsten" ship for a LONG ass time.
And it took a fucking lot to get me off of it.
A lot.
I had to be pushed.
I held on as long as I could.
I loved them as a couple.
Nobody championed them harder than me. 
I loved watching them be in love.
Because I'm a sucker for that kinda stuff.
But when the party's over...
Its fucking over.
You know?
You have to accept it.

How about we promote this...

Because AMERICAN ULTRA is going to 
fucking rock.

Or how about EQUALS
(And fucking A if this picture doesn't make me angsty for this movie)

And Childhood of a Leader

(And yes... Beardy shaggy Rob is a good Rob)

BOTH being premiered at the
Venice Film Festival!

Bottom line?
Rob and Kristen are much more than Robsten.
They always have been.
I look back now...
and see that it had to happen this way.
It was full of drama
and it wasn't easy...
But change seldom is.
Both Rob and Kristen need to be known
For their career choices... As actors.
Not just a relationship.

And look at Kristen now!
She's so fucking bright and shiny 
and slaying the whole damn world.
And seriously
Has she EVER looked fucking better
or happier?

Can't you fucking GIVE her that?

And Rob...
He's going at his own pace.
And that's OK too.
It's what he wants to do.
It's where he wants to be.

They are both where they want to be.
Are they happy?
I hope so.
I think so.

And that's all we need to know.

This post is brought to you by

My constant admiration of Thomas Sturridge.
He might be going through stuff right now.
But I have to believe he will be all right.
Life does go on.

And this post is also brought to you by

Cecil the Lion.

It breaks my heart that he was stalked and hunted
for his fur... for fun.
A magnificent beautiful animal.
Can't people look at him and see he has feelings?
That he deserves to live as much as you or I?
He wasn't just a trophy.
Another inanimate object that you can kill
and hang on your wall.
The man who killed him willfully slaughtered him.
I say we take this dentist out in the wilderness...
lure him out of safety with false promise
Shoot him with a bow 
and then hunt him for days
until we finally shoot him 
skin him.
behead him.
Is that too harsh?
But maybe if these asshole hunters
Who kill for the thrill knew what it was like
To be stalked and hunted...
Knew the pain and agony that Cecil had to endure...
Maybe... Just maybe
They would realize that all living creatures have 
A fucking right to be here on this earth.

Until next time.

Bye for now