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Sunday, July 22, 2012

Rob and Kristen-- In the Circle



I've decided to write BEFORE the Teen Choice Awards tonight.
Why?
Do I expect epic PDA from Rob and Kristen?
Not really.
Besides the fact that the word "epic" has lost all meaning.
There is Rob and Kristen.
That is enough.


I do expect Robert to look handsome and sexy as usual.
The guy can't really help it...
He was born that way.
I do expect Kristen to be wearing the hell outta some
hot edgy clothes...
Looking young and gorgeous.
I'm hoping for a few surprises...
But that's just me.
And I always look forward to seeing the
Mrs McDonald/Robert/Kristen dynamic.
But again...
That's just me.
So yeah.
I will brave the screaming loud screeching teens
just to get a peek of Rob and Kristen.
I enjoy seeing them together.
They make me smile.




What is this picture from?
I'm guessing you already know.
Don't we kinda assume they will hold hands now?
Rob and Kristen went out to see Bobby Long
the other night.
Surprised?
No.
But why shouldn't they go see a friend perform?
There were a lot of tweets from inside the venue...
Most were just the usual PDA we've come to expect
from Rob and Kristen lately.
Hugging... Holding hands...
A kiss here and there...
Nothing any other young couple in love 
wouldn't do.
Of course...
We did get the occasional tweeter
embellishing on what they saw.
Or heard.
"I was really close to Rob and Kristen and
I heard him say 'I love you baby'... I really did!"
While I'm sure Rob says that to Kristen ALL the time
I'm kinda doubting he was overheard in a loud bar
surrounded by a ring of friends.
But that doesn't really matter... does it?
How many times have we heard the same tale?
"Rob and Kristen were so cute with each other"
"Rob had his arm around Kristen and kissed her"
"Rob and Kristen were holding hands"
And seriously...
After this


After seeing it with our OWN eyes in Cannes....
Is there any doubt that his type of behavior 
between Rob and Kristen is just how they ARE?
How many more times do you have to hear about
how sweet and adorable and cute they are together
before you finally BELIEVE??
There is NO denial.
There are no excuses.
This is what Rob and Kristen DO.
Like...
ALL the time.
So it shouldn't be a surprise anymore
when we see them doing it...
Again.


This is a pic from the latest Rob interview in "Blackbook" magazine.
I have a thing for black and white Rob.
I just do.
But anyway...
There was an interview in the magazine...
But I'm not sure what to exactly make of it.
The interviewer took the part of Rob's beating heart.
Yeah.
So.
It was strange.
There were a few quotes from Robert...
But they were put in the article
and then the 'heart' gave its impressions.
Did I say strange?
The pictures were good though...


Tattoos on Rob are interesting.
The "bad boy" look is good on him.
But I'm not sure it suits him.
Who knows.
But as random and odd as this 'interview' was...
and I do use the term loosely
I did have a favorite quote.


“My circle of friends narrowed pretty quickly.” Says Rob, 
“I like to be the parasite, not the other way around.”

I like that.
It shows me that Rob doesn't put up with bullshit.
It shows me that Rob hangs out with a narrow circle of friends
because he WANTS to.
Not because he has to.
He's picky.
Not everyone gets to be in his circle.
And it should tell you something...
when Kristen is ALWAYS in the circle.
The fucking CENTER of his circle.
His circle pretty much revolves around Kristen.


Yeah.
That should tell you something.


I was going to write more...
But I believe the TCA red carpet starts soon...
And who knows what fun stuff we will see tonight?
(only the shadow knows)

This post is brought to you by Circles.

Rob and Kristen
Inner Circle
Circle of Love

Red Circles 
You know those red circles of ridiculous on pictures
that people feel the need to circle a plant
or a wall...
or a crack in the sidewalk to prove something
that doesn't fucking matter anyway.
and this post is brought to you by...


My undying adoration of all things Tom Sturridge.


Let the games begin.

Until next time

Bye for now

163 comments:

Groovie said...

Just waking up from a nap to watch the TCA carpet.
I was up entirely too early this morning at the humane society adopting a bunny for my sister for her 16th bday. She now has an adorable, sweet lil bunny named Darth Raven. He also peed on her ex-bf (which made me happy lol)

Love the pix from the new Rob shoot. The article was kinda lame but oh man, Rob with tattoos is nice!
I fully support that idea should he ever choose to get one!

Hey to all the regs, hope u are well and have fun with the TCA if watching!

LIZ said...

GREAT POST, ROSE!!

Kay said...

Looking forward to all the TCA goodness and interesting dynamics....I am sure there will be plenty of giggle worthy moments....twirly ones, too. :D

Take care and have a great week, everyone!
<3

ali mac said...

I really wasn't fussed on the article in Blackbook, I thought it was a bit presumptuous (just my opinion)

I'm looking forward to some red carpet pics, it's 1am here now and if I could just see one pic I'd go to bed happy lol

enjoy the end of the weekend everyone xx

Litmom said...

Yeah - kinda strange article, but awesome pics. I'm sure Rob's contributions were not as strange as the text indicated. Guess the writer was aiming for "cool" or "cutting edge"? Whatev...

Soooo - TCAs - I try to watch every year, I really do. The only things that ever hold my interest are Rob and Kristen related, so we'll see if I can last through the whole thing.

Hope everyone had an amazing weekend. We did - Sox was in hog heaven visiting the Civil War prison site. And it was wonderful seeing my daughter and son-in-law.

Litmom said...

Oh, and I have an avatar now... that's my daughter, my husband, and me :-).

wig4usc said...

Like the rest, loved loved the new pics of Rob, and I loved the edgy tatooed look, the one you showed, Rose, the black and white is my fave though.

I have to see if I can grab a TV to watch the Teen Choice awards, looking forward to any glimpses of The Bubble!

Hope you all are having/had a nice weekend, Roselanders!

Oneheart said...

Hi everyone. Loved the "Circle of Love" Rose.

Wow Rob looked good in the Blackbook Magazine. The article was different unlike anything I had read before. Pics were my favorite.

Off to watch TCA...Hope everyone has had a good weekend.

katy said...

Great post!

Watching the TCA to see Rob and Kristen, who hopefully will show up, so that they can put an end on my misery...coz boy, this award show sucks. But anything for them...they never fail to make me smile, as well.

The Interview was kinda hard to make sense...not Rob's fault of course, but I am in love with Rob's blackbook photoshoot. He looks incredibly hot. And I really really love the fake tattos on him.

Take care everyone

Barbara Fenwick said...

Great post, as usual.

I hope we do get something good from the show tonight, because it is really hard to sit through all the teenage screaming.

I love all the pics we are getting from Rob and Kristen, but I know it must be horrible to have cameras stuck in your face wherever you go.

I love Rob's latest photoshoot, but it was hard to make sense of the interview---it was really weird.

I hope everybody has a good week. Until next time--

Super RN Gas Passer said...

ROSE

Just watching the TCA's and surfing around with my I Pad...so of course I have an overriding compulsion...to check the blog occasionally ( eye roll).... Ok, even I don't want to admit how many times a day I just check it..just to see whats going on....

ROSE... I LOVE lack and white ROB also!!!!! God...

ROB?..How brilliant you are!!!!! I'm like thinking that you really have to store a lot of those surf boards and what do you do...you give yours away and then Kristen follows suit....Wonderful idea! You are so smart but I knew that already! Good to see you handsome!

Love to ALL

Super RN Gas Passer said...

Oops... What happened to the b. in black? Sabotage...

Melinda said...

Oh these awards shows. Man it hurts to watch them sometimes. I don't know how Rob, Kristen and company deal. I'd be doing some pre-show shots or something.


They looked cute in their color coordinatedness. I loved the Twi montage. Made me sigh that it is almost over.


Have a super night!

Oneheart said...

Rob and Kristen looked hot in their matching colors, loved the blues and the blacks..Love how they always do this.

Nice of them to give their surfboards away. Made a couple of people very happy.

Hard to suffer through the TCA show, the screaming goes on and on. However, anytime you can see Rob and Kristen it's worth it.

Good night...

Dottie said...

Hey Roseland!

I missed the TCAs but saw some pics. LOVE Rob and Kristen's clothes, hair, makeup(K),... They are such a beautiful couple - inside and out.

Groovie, Your bunny story was so funny. I hope Darth Raven enjoys his new home.

My boys come home tomorrow! Yippeeee!

Hellos and Hugs to all the Regs!

Litmom said...

Well, we suffered/lived through the TCAs again. Yes, Kristen and Rob - we love you enough to watch these shows. :-)

Total cuteness, though- watching them give their surfboards to the fans.

DreamerKind said...

Like They Often Do

We Match

Gabe Bondoc:
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=8RgbVkfvM98

We match ya know
Together watchin the fallin snow
Stayin warm by the fire
Lookin out the window

Lovin everything you say and do
And tell you when and say you do
I wanna say your the one
And that my search is done

Cause you
You make me feel
That everything is goin right
That I can go to sleep tonight
And I wait to find you here

You make me feel
That everything is goin right
That I can go to sleep tonight
Waken to your voice
Down blankets and pillows

Love the heat, the warmth, the sun
And I completely agree with that one
Dry heat, and a hung hammock
Between two trees

From the dimples to the smile
From your heart all the way to mine
We fit, we match, we go
I think you oughta know
Think you oughta know

You make me feel
That everything is goin right
That I can go to sleep tonight

Thank you/SJCL93

DreamerKind said...

Maybe It's Not Enough But Still True

Look Good In Blue

Blondie:
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=fx0929oUcNU

You look good in blue
It matches your skin
Your eyes dripping with pain

Someone like you
Getting off on the lies
'Cause it dulls your surprise again

If it's alright with you
I could give some head
And shoulders to lie on
You look good in blue

I know what you mean when
You say you've seen the end
Someone like you been at it again
You knew what was up in the end

If it's alright with you
I could give some head and shoulders
To lie on

Throw your weight on me baby
Don't complain on me baby
Escape in me
Next to me

I'm tired always tired
And I got not place to sleep
Don't mind dividing down the line
Can't say that I'm complaining

'Cause I got no place to play yeah
Don't mind dividing down the line
You look good in blue

It matches your skin
Your eyes
Dripping with pain
If it's alright with you

I could give
Some head and shoulders to lie on
Yes I could give some head
And shoulders to lie on

Thank you/FallingDown08

DreamerKind said...

Awards Surfboards Hoards

Give It Away

Red Hot Chili Peppers
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=LY4uMZKG4no:

What I've got you've got to give it to your mamma
What I've got you've got to give it to your pappa
What I've got you've got to give it to your daughter

You do a little dance and then you drink a little water
What I've got you've got to get it put it in you
What I've got you've got to get it put it in you
What I've got you've got to get it put it in you
Reeling with the feeling don't stop continue

Realize I don't want to be a miser
Confide with sly you'll be the wiser
Young blood is the lovin' upriser
How come everybody wanna keep it like the kaiser

Give it away give it away give it away now
Give it away give it away give it away now
Give it away give it away give it away now
I can't tell if I'm a king pin or a pauper

Greedy little people in a sea of distress
Keep your more to receive your less
Unimpressed by material excess
Love is free love me say hell yes

I'm a low brow but I rock a little know how
No time for the piggies or the hoosegow
Get smart get down with the pow wow
Never been a better time than right now

Bob Marley poet and a prophet
Bob Marley taught me how to off it
Bob Marley walkin' like he talk it
Goodness me can't you see I'm gonna cough it

Give it away give it away give it away now
I can't tell iff I'm a king pin or a pauper
Lucky me swimmin' in my ability
Dancin' down on life with agility
Come and drink it up from my fertility
Blessed with a bucket of lucky mobility

My mom I love her 'cause she love me
Long gone are the times when she scrub me
Feelin' good my brother gonna hug me
Drinkin' my juice young love chug-a-lug me

There's a river born to be a giver
Keep you warm won't let you shiver
His heart is never gonna wither
Come on everybody time to deliver

What I've got you've got to get it put it in you
What I've got you've got to get it put it in you
What I've got you've got to get it put it in you
Reeling with the feeling don't stop continue

Realize I don't want to be a miser
Confide wisely you'll be the wiser
Young blood is the lovin' upriser
How come everybody wanna keep it like the kaiser

Give it away give it away give it away now
Give it away give it away give it away now
Give it away give it away give it away now
Give it away give it away give it away now

Give it away now
Give it away
Now

Thank you/RHCPFreaklol

DreamerKind said...

No Choice It's Coming In November

Hesitation Blues

Hot Tuna:
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=_aQtq-BnK6c:

Well, a nickel is a nickel
A dime is a dime
I need a new gal
Lord I know I won't mind

Tell me how long, dear
Do I have to wait?
Can I get you now, dear
Must I hesitate?

Well now, the eagle on the dollar
Says "In God we trust"
You say you won't obey me
You wanna see that dollar first

How long, dear, do I have to wait?
Can I get you now, dear
Must I hesitate?

Lord, if the river was made of whiskey
And I was a duck
I'd just swim to the bottom
And I'd never come up

Now there's rocks down in the ocean
Ad there's fish in the sea
I know you mean the whole world to me

How long
Must I have to wait?
Can I get you now
Must I hesitate?

I got them hesitation stockings
I got them hesitation shoes
Lord knows
I got them hesitation blues

Tell me, how long do I have to wait?
Why, can I get you now
Baby must I hesitate?

Thank you/MPRdotOrg

DreamerKind said...

Good Morning!

Missed the TCA's but watched my favorite Trio on video. Loved the little handholding, boogieing onto the stage bit. They deserve all 41 awards! Hundreds more to come, imo.

Now just a'waitin' on BD2. :)

Fun post, Rose! Lots of fond wishes out to Smitty, Gruff, Syd & ya'll.

ali mac said...

Super lol at your "B" sabotage :0)

Dottie enjoy your time with your boys, I hope you have the kitchen stocked!!

It's a grey and damp Monday morning here, hope it brightens up later.

Have a great day x

Super RN Gas Passer said...

MELINDA

I just read your avi....I guess they better go pay their fine....first!

Happy Monday Everybody:)

Super RN Gas Passer said...

ALI MAC

It happens all the time! Happy "afternoon" over there!

DreamerKind said...

Hey, Super & ali mac
May your day be brighter!

@Litmom
Great family portrait avi!

I'm flying towards bedfordshire and waving the wand for us all.

ali mac said...

DK sleep well Zzzzzzz....

Hi Super, I take it your off to work if your up this early!!

Litmom your family pic is great, I love it when we get a little look at the people we are talking to on here :0) (I must put one up, just find it hard to find a pic that I like myself in lol)

Birdie said...

There is no doubt.

Good morning all!
Well they did it again. Such an beautiful couple. Nice touch giving away the boards. I'm sure those fans were thrilled.
Very nice photo shoot! Man, these two are incredibly photogenic. The article? A bit odd, but I take all these printed interviews with a grain of salt.
Hope you all have a great week.

Leni said...

Great post, Rose!

I loved the photo shoot, but the interview was really a bit strange.

I couldn't bring myself to stay up and watch the TCA's, so I just watched the video a couple of minutes ago.
Rob and Kristen were really sweet giving away their surfboards and how awesome were Kristen's clothes?!

I got to see Cosmopolis on Saturday and I have to say that it's one of the best movies I've ever seen and Rob is just fantastic in it! His best performance yet <3

I hope that you are all happy :)

Thoughts and prayers for all the victims of the shooting in CO.. so terribly terribly sad :(

Melinda said...

Super- I loved the irony of the sign so I decided to make it my avi.


LitMom- Sweet family pic. Missed that somehow last night when I was posting.

AliMac-I'm with you on the posting a picture of myself. Never like any of the ones that are taken. Hope your weather get nicer soon.

Leni- We get Cosmopolis Aug 17th here in the states I believe. It and Rob are getting such great reviews. Excited to see it finally.

That article Rose was talking about. I finally read it. Thought it was weird. I wish writers wouldn't do "gimmicky". Rob is certainly interesting without it and can sell an article by just being himself. Truthfully I'm not a big fan of print articles because they can be so distorted. However I did like the photo-shoot.

Have a great start to the week.

Super RN Gas Passer said...

DK

You are so clever with your song selections !!!! R and K were so cool looking in their color coordinated clothes!!!

LENI

I am looking soooo forward to Cosmopolis!!!!! I have heard nothing but excellent reports!!!

ALI MAC

I hope the dampness subsided and yes, I set the alarm every morning for 5 am and leave for work between 6:15-6:30 . I have recently changed my routine around and I'm a lot happier..I have gone back to showering and washing my hair at night so I can have a leisurely breakfast ( whilst posting ) then makeup...that takes awhile...lol, styling my hair, clothes, and out into the brave world I go!

ali mac said...

Super I'm the opposite, I have to have my shower in the morning, it wakes me up otherwise I'm like a zombie and I need to be tip top to get the kids sorted :) I also do the checking the blog while eating my breakfast lol

Unfortunately it never dried up today and tomorrow is to be more of the same, but then we are to get a few good days.

Litmom said...

Super, ali mac -
ANother morning person here, but I HAVE to shower in the a.m. to get charged (like you ali mac). I'm up at 5:15, out of the house by 6:45, then check the board when I get to work. I am, however, SHOT by 4:30 p.m.!

This is NOT me is the summer, however... :-) .

DK - You were very clever with your tunes last night!!!

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DreamerKind said...

It's a new week!

@ali mac
Isn't Ireland cool and damp all year, so it can be verdantly green, too? Even so, I wish you some summer sun and sweet dry air.

@Super
Not so clever peeps, ofttimes long to seem so, and do things like that. Happy to fool you some of the time.
You are SO lovely, that no showering or styling, would have changed that, even in caveman times!

@All
Who upon awakening are zombie-like and must shower back into human. Me, too, whenever I do and am. Our exclusive club is worldwide.

@Rob, Kristen & Taylor
Congrats!

Award List

Choice Female Movie Star of the Summer: Kristen Stewart - Snow White and the Huntsman
Ultimate Choice Award: Kristen Stewart, Robert Pattinson and Taylor Lautner - The Twilight Saga
Choice Movie (Romance): The Twilight Saga: Breaking Dawn – Part 1
Choice Movie Actress (Romance): Kristen Stewart - The Twilight Saga: Breaking Dawn – Part 1

Oneheart said...

Litmom that is a very good pic of the three of you. Sox has the brightest smile. All the pictures that I have seen of him he always has that big smile. I think he's a happy man and he knows what a wonderful lady he has as his wife.

Super RN Gas Passer said...

LITMOM. And ALI MAC....YES ..I hear you and I agree....I have changed because not only am I lazy but I am finding I sleep better...which is a challenge for me...it's the hair thing mainly though,and I can always jump in the shower in the am if I want to...

DK.....I promise you I NEED THE MAKEUP!!!! Hahaha
HUGS to you anyway FGM cause it is actually YOU besides Kristen of course who is the Fairest of them ALL:)

Super RN Gas Passer said...

Hi ONEHEART

Did you have a nice day?

Oneheart said...

Hi Super it was a typical Monday at work, very hectic. LOL I was glad when the clock clicked over to 5 o'clock. It's always a sign when you here everyone saying is it Friday yet. LOL

Are you feeling better? I hope so because there is nothing worse than being sick with a cold or something in the summer.

Did you watch the TCA's last night? I sat there and thought only for Rob and Kristen would I put myself through this. If you don't have a headache when it comes on chances are you will before it goes off.

Are you getting the severe storms. I had to drive home in one this afternoon. Wow, it was raining so hard I could barely see to drive. Makes me nervous when everyone starts stopping on the shoulder of the road. I've done it before but it can be dangerous. My usual 45 min. drive turned into over an hour. A long, long hour. LOL

Super RN Gas Passer said...

ONEHEART

There was a brief downpour about 5:00 here...that's all...It has been exceptionally nice the last few days. Yeah nothing like trying to get in the groove on Monday. Sorry you had such difficulty getting home. What type of work do you do?

I watched the awards while I finished up some ironing ...I don't EVER want to miss ROB in " real time"... I'm sure it's insanely unique and awesome to see him in person but it gives me a lot of satisfaction to know I'm watching him in virtual real time...lol. I'm not a needy fan!!!

Super RN Gas Passer said...

ONEHEART

I have had this cold for two weeks. I had a chest X-ray on Thursday just to make sure I didn't have walking pneumonia...lol...The doctor assures me I don't...I admit to being a big whiner when I'm sick.

Litmom said...

Yeah, Super - how ARE you feeling? I actually started feeling better last week (right about when my summer is coming to an end, wouldn't you know). I hope you're doing better, too.

I'm with you - I prefer watching "live" over watching videos the next day - however, I DO watch the videos the next day ALSO...

Oneheart said...

I work in a doctors office. I do a little bit of everything. I am the personal secretary to one of the Specialist. I also do the Accounts Payable for the practice, order all supplies, Operator, the events coordinator.

The only thing I don't deal with is insurance. Wow, when we have our meetings and someone brings up insurance...I get that deer in the headlights look. LOL

You are in the medical field too aren't you? How long have you been doing what you do? I've been in the medical field 10 years. I use to work in a factory and at the age of 43 our work was sent to Honduras. So the factory closed and I went back to college.

It was the best thing that could have happened for me. I was scared going to college in my 40's but it was fun and I graduated with a 4.0

I bet you're sorry you asked me what I do...LOL. You didn't know you'd get my life's history. LMAO

Oneheart said...

Super I know what you mean when it comes to being a whiner. I whine everytime I get sick.

If I have a headache you can bet everyone within a mile radius is going to know because I am constantly saying I have a headache, Oh wow my head hurts, I wish this headache would go away. One day at work one of the technicians said I know you have a headache, you haven't mentioned it but a dozen times. LOL

Super RN Gas Passer said...

ONEHEART

I enjoy hearing the details...some are more comfortable than others since this is a public blog so I respect each persons feelings ...Good for you. 4.0!!!!! Outstanding....sounds like you are the GO TO GIRL...you keep it all running efficiently ...not always easy to do!

I am a Nurse Anesthetist...for more years than I want to admit to and then to add insult to injury....haha..I have a business with my daughter which you are welcome to Google if so inclined. That's why I can't really hide anything anyway since we have a web page and are very active on FB and the Internet with the business..You can email me if you are interested at. Etna@sc.rr.com

Super RN Gas Passer said...

ONEHEART

You sound just like me...lol...

Oneheart said...

Hi Super I love learning about people I talk to. I have met many interesting people and each person has their own thing that makes them unique. I just don't want to ever come across as being nosy, I'm just a friendly gal who happens to like people.

Wow you are a Nurse Anesthetist, you have a serious job, and a very important one also. . You should be very proud of yourself for doing it for so long. It means you enjoy it and that you're good at it. Have you had any scary moments. I would be on the floor passed out if I had to be in an operating room assisting. LMAO

I would love to look at the business you and your daughter have together. I will email you and get the info. I am definitely a shopper. LOL

Super RN Gas Passer said...

ONEHEART

I promise you...Lots of scary moments over the years!!! The only time I curse myself for going into the profession is when we have a post op bleeding tonsilectomy,which happens once or twice a year to me when I'm on call..I will spare everyone the details:(. I absolutely LOVE it though...If I had the chance to go back and do it over, I would still want to do that...I am already fretting over the fact that I am on the last leg of my career....bummer...

Super RN Gas Passer said...

LITMOM

GOSH...I just saw your post...I didn't mean to not respond! I am 80 percent better. Lol...I can still complain about the 20....how about you?

I am all for watching the videos so I can enjoy a second time or more:)!!!

Oneheart said...

Super if what you described about the worse part of your job involves alot of blood count me out. LOL I passed out one time because they pricked my finger for a blood test. That is the honest truth. LOL

So nice to read what you wrote about your job. You'd do it all over again. That's nice to hear. While some are waiting for retirement you are sad because yours will end.

I love my job but the one thing I would have loved to of been is a teacher. I know the pay isn't always that great, depending on where you teach, but the rewards from being a great teacher are priceless. To make a difference in a child's life would be one of life's greatest achievements.

I sent you an email...

Super RN Gas Passer said...

ONEHEART

I am in awe of teachers!! We have several here..besides LITMOM, there is IB, OLIVIA..I am sure I will leave someone out! About the blood, let's just say it makes the BD birth scene look like a walk in the park...

Good Night everyone:)

Litmom said...

Oneheart and Super -
You guys are so sweet. I always knew I wanted to be a teacher (well, I really wanted to be a Broadway star, but my mother put the kibosh on that - LOL!), and have done it for over 25 years (it would be 33, but I took some time off when my daughter was little, although I taught preschool then, just not public school). I'm just now getting tired.

Not of teaching, and not of the kids - just tired. Tired of paperwork, tired of bureaucracy, tired of discipline, tired of parents. If I could just go to school every day and excite my students about reading and understanding the nuances of literature, and help them deal with and compensate for their learning issues, I'd do this for another 30 years.

DreamerKind said...

@Litmom
Exceptional teachers are always appreciated, in demand, and you could retire offering your services in a consulting capacity, I believe. You have a very valuable perspective.

@Oneheart
How I admire your gumption going to college later, and becoming essential in your medical field work.

ali mac said...

DK
Yes we are know as the Emerald Isle for a reason lol but normally we get a few weeks of good summer weather with an odd shower here and there, unfortunately this year a good bit of Europe has been caught up in so much rain (something to do with the jet stream) so we are even lusher than normal :)

Oneheart said...

DK..thanks for your sweet compliment. I have always admired you. You manage to do so many things, your work and I know you do it well, moving, and wedding planning, and still find time to bring joy to our lives. You're awesome.

meadowgirl25 said...

Hi everyone~Rob's article from Black Book...I wasn't quite sure if I was reading an article or The Tell-Tale Heart by Edgar Allan Poe! (Hi to litmom) LOL, well at least the interviewer was trying to be creative but how much was invented to fit the tale we will never know.

I adore that hand-holding pic.

Litmom said...

Meadow!!! Hey!
Poe is def one of my faves and high school kids LOVE HIM...and I know what you mean !?! Or Kerouac...:-):-):-)
Guess I'd better start getting into a Poe frame of mind....

meadowgirl25 said...

Ok, litmom, get this...for my high school speech class final(100 years ago, LOL) I gave a dramatic reading of the Tell-Tale Heart, 100% memorized. I did get an A+ but thank God no one got it on video.

Hope everyone has a great day.

Super RN Gas Passer said...

ONEHEART

You sound like Bella Swan in the Twilight book! Lol

LITMOM and MEADOWGIRL

I loved Poe when I was a teen...Have you read Abraham Lincoln, Vampire slayer? Poe is in that playing himself!!!!

MEADOWGIRL

Please allow me to WELCOME YOU to ROSELAND !!!! I am delighted to roll out the red carpet...please come in and make yourself at home!

ALI MAC

I hope I can come see all the greenery myself one day!!! The pictures are so beautiful!!!!

Happy Tuesday ALL

meadowgirl25 said...

Thanks Super!

I have ALVS, I'll get right on it

ali mac said...

SUPER if you ever make it, bring some sunshine in your suitcase lol
We are a very friendly bunch ;)

Meadowgirl Welcome (())

Oneheart said...

Hi everyone. LOL Super, I did sound like Bella. I thought it was so funny that Bella had a fear of blood and yet fell in love with a Vampire. If I recall she also had a fear of needles and dancing. That also sounds like me. LOL Especially the needle part.

Meadow..Waves to you. Glad you decided to join in. How's things in Twilight country? Yes the article in Black Book was very different. You are right it did have a Poe feel to it.

Speaking of Edgar Allen Poe, I don't know why but he creeps me out. When we first got married we lived in Baltimore for a short time and we would often ride by his home which is a museum. I would creep down in my seat as soon as we got near it. Yes childish I know but for some reason it was so eery to me.

In school we had to memorize The Raven. Oh how I hated having to spend that much time with that poem.

These words still haunt me..
Once upon a midnight dreary, while I pondered, weak and weary.........and then the end of that verse these words...
'Tis some visiter," I muttered, "tapping at my chamber door--Only this and nothing more."

The fact that his house use to be near a purple funeral home didn't help things. Funeral homes and Poe have a connection, in my world. LMAO

Litmom..you'll have to help me get over my Poe Phobia. LMAO

Litmom said...

Oneheart!
You're so funny! I teach The Raven every year! Poe had quite the way with the English language - I use him to show kids how to manipulate language and words in rhythm... he, Shakespeare, and a few others...

Lots of STRANGE legends about that fella. I think that's why the kids like him so much :-).

Groovie - speaking of Ravens - How's the bunny?

Hope all in Roseland have had a great day! Too, too hot here.

Super RN Gas Passer said...

LITMOM

I would bottle up some sunshine for you if I could...Right this minute though, it is POURING rain!

MEADOW

Do you live in Forks????

ONEHEART

Poe is scary stuff and I have been having nightmares the last two nights...Hubs has had to shake me to wake me up! Lol. I've got to figure out what's going on...I have just started a few new supplements....I think the cart has toppled over...lol...you know, I haven't had any alcohol in several days...maybe I should have a glass of wine!

Super RN Gas Passer said...

Oops...LITMOM. I meant that comment for ALI MAC... How are you today?

meadowgirl25 said...

Thanks ali mac!

I think we all need to drink some wine and read some Edgar Allen Poe. I'll recite the Tell-Tale Heart for you all. LOL

Yes, I live in Washington State, though not in Forks. I lived in Seattle for a long long time and now live a bit farther east. But I have been to Forks, La Push, the reservation, Portland, Vancouver and all the places in between in the film and beyond. I've been to Multnomah Falls (the falls in the baseball scene) several times. That's one of the reasons I saw Twilight. I thought, oh, I've lived here and been to all these places. It will be interesting to see it on film. And then I got totally hooked on Rob and Kristen and Edward and Bella. It seems so strange to me that everyone knows about Forks and La Push.

Jenny said...

Wow... what the fuck is going on?
Rose...?

This is so getting out of hands... Why is Kristen's rep taking so long to clear this up? She's being trashed everywhere... every gossip site is reporting this and everyone is believing it. If her safety was an issue before, I can't imagine how it's gonna be now. Oh man, I hope this silence doesn't mean that this story is true... Rose...?

DreamerKind said...

To me, love always wins in the end! Ignoring the crazy, which is the opposite of being loving, for it is a lie.

"Nothing real can be threatened. Nothing unreal exists. Herein lies the peace of God."

Kay said...

I give Kristen and Rob so much credit for having the grace to live their lives under the constant scrutiny of people that are always ready to judge them. Wishing both of them peace in this shit storm, no matter what.

angelica1 said...

Kay - I couldn't agree more. I can't imagine tryimg to deal with that kind of scrutiny. People need to accept that they actually have no idea what is happening in their lives and have enough respect to let them manage their own affairs. That said, I really wish I could give them both a massive hug right now

DreamerKind said...

@Kay & angelica1
Respect them, so true. Roseland group hug for R & K.

DreamerKind said...

No Stones Left Unturned

Hold Your Head Up High

Nomy:
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=l7kjGr6e3tY

You said you're just
One in the crowd
But your laughter is way too loud
You fill the darkest room
With light

Life is complicated too
But you know just what to do
The light you give is not in you

Hold your head up high
And this pain will die
Somehow, somewhere, just try

You're living in the dark
Where no one can see your tears
But hold your head up high

Can you tell me that I'm wrong
Don't keep
Your broken heart too long
Deep inside you're growing strong

Look beyond your life today
Can you see yourself this way
When the wintercold is gone

Hold your head up high
And this pain will die
Somehow, somewhere
Just try

You're living in the dark
Where no one can see your tears
But hold
Your head
Up high

Thank you/Joontish93

Jenny said...

So it's true after all. Wow. How could she do this to Rob? Cheating on him with a fucking married man... This is not just a "mistake", this is huge. And how could she be so dumb to be caught in a fucking car in a public place??? Wow, who is this person I admired for so long? I don't know who she is anymore. She probably has ruined her life and her career and the hate she will get... I almost feel sorry for her. Almost. I hope Rob can find someone who really deserve him.

DreamerKind said...

@Jenny
Unproven, all conjecture, so fuck off until WE call you back! (FAT CHANCE!)

meadowgirl25 said...

I kno

meadowgirl25 said...

I know that I am new to post here, but I am not new to reading Rose or to being a fan of Rob and Kristen. I do not believe these lies about Kristen. Not in a million years.

Groovie said...

Wow, thanks for that Jenny, I'm sure Rob appreciates u (note the sarcasm).

I'm not here to judge and I won't comment on all the rumors and shit going around.
I'll just say; I love Rob. I love Kristen. I respect them both.
If anything is going down, that is between them and for them to handle on their own as they see fit.
None of us matter. Its their lives and their decisions.
I will continue to love, respect and admire them both and be a fan of both regardless of any drama.

I hope people respect their privacy (although I fear that is a futile hope) and I wish them both the best, especially if they are indeed dealing with difficult things. And I'm sure I'm not alone in these sentiments!

And that's all I have to say...back to my Captain & Coke now.

DreamerKind said...

@meadowgirl25
Never in a hundred, never in a thousand, never in a million!

I lived in Gig Harbor, WA and also visited Forks BEFORE Twilight and oh, the beauty. I am keeping the beauty and love, of it, for them, for me!

Dottie said...

I don't pretend to know or understand what is going on right now, but I just want to encourage everyone to send out good thoughts and prayers. Whether this story is true, false, or somewhere in between, it is a terrible thing to go through.

Not making light of the accusations AT ALL, but I can't help but think of the stupid things I did in my early 20s and how lucky I was that people didnt give up on me. What a tragedy that a person's whole life can be ruined by something they did at such a tender age.

I wish them peace, grace, and healing.

Hugs and hopes for happier days ahead for all of us.

wig4usc said...

Well, Roselanders, Twitter is a scary place right now, I have to step away! One thing I noticed, there are two primary sources, US and People. US pulled the story off their site.

Who knows, like others said, I support them both, Heaven knows I've done stupid things, especially in my 20's, and I'm thankful there wasn't a camera or paps to record it all.

I've seen true love conquer all before, and I'm sure I'll see it again. Time will tell, good night!

DreamerKind said...

@Dottie
It's a mad, mad, thing going on. Sure, like you I've been down some long winding roads, too. They do lead home in the end.

@wig4usc
Goodnight!

Having a toot or two, before my night is through.

DreamerKind said...

@Groovie
I second that emotion. Love rules! Captain & Coke does, too.

DreamerKind said...

Hugs for Rose, Smitty, Gruff, Syd and Everyone!

Goodnight.

30 said...

Hi ladies, I am a bit disturbed on what came upon my Facebook from gossip cop last night. I have no idea what to think nor is it my business to be honest, but I cannot say I am not disappointed if these accusations are true. Sending lots of positive thought for Robert and at this time.

Melinda said...

Not sure what to think. I for one will not add fuel to the fire speculating on what is truth or not. What I'm sure of is that there are some hurting hearts out there and I just want to hug the shit out of all of them.

Wishing peace and healing right now, no matter what.

Freddie said...

Hi ladies,

What a surreal past 10 hours.

Melinda - I totally agree. I won't begin to speculate at this time. I'm terribly sad for those involved, whatever the situation.

Sending out positive thoughts to those caught in the eye of the storm.

30 said...

I am not going to post the pictures I just saw from the magazine out of respect for Rob and Rose but this is just so disappointing more for me because this is a married man.

Super RN Gas Passer said...

Hi Freddie and Company

I am just going to make some generalizations which may or may not apply here.

We are all members of the human race so we are all prone to make mistakes

If alchohol or any other substances are part of the mix then quadruple the Results

Adversity makes us stronger and helps us to overcome the next challenge which is just around the corner

What good can come from this? Alot. Humility, tolerance understanding forgiveness and the list of virtues can be endless!

Regardless of anything I can tell you this. At the end of the day. I will still be a fan of Kristen and Robert they have brought me so much joy just by their acting profession and following their progress. I'm proud of them and as George Harrison once said. All things must pass.

Annie said...

Morning:

I am very rarely left speechless but I am now..........This was with a married man with two small children.

I have to be honest here and say I am disgusted by that.

Couples do overcome cheating but for this I can say that I NEVER expected Kristen Stewart to be linked to anything like this.

DreamerKind said...

Sleep has eluded me, so here I am.

There is some thought that the truth will emerge and be stranger than fiction.

Let there be light shed on this, and us all. Remember the love, so often expressed, felt and chosen. Choose again.

ali mac said...

At the moment I'm choosing not to believe this story, just the way I've never believed the stories about Rob cheating. Maybe I've missed something, but it looks to me like a Tabloid just making stuff up. If I'm wrong .............

Litmom said...

DK,
You are a wise woman.

I just want to say - Pics - real or fake - are merely a split second in time. Humans can read so much into that split second, and many times our reading comprehension skills are not the best.

I wait with faith.

Leni said...
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Annie said...

I don't know what to think about the pics.
I have the US Weekly in front of me and I can't stand US Weekly.
It's definitely Kristen snd Sanders though.
I just.......:( :(

DreamerKind said...

@ali mac & @Litmom
Me, too, am waiting for the world to change. I happen to believe it is...but am taking a few moments to "rest my eyes", while it does.

"You gotta have heart, miles and miles, and miles of HEART."
(Damn Yankees Musical 1955)

DreamerKind said...

@Annie
It is very hard waiting, for sure.
<3

DreamerKind said...

I'll be back later. Steady on.

faa said...

this is hard time for all of us
still, i will wait with faith..
coz im still not giving up on ROBSTEN!

Leni said...

Sorry my delete.. comment came out wrong.
I believe that there is more to this mess than we know just yet.
I'll be waiting for more information, before forming an opinion.

ali mac said...

Annie you have one up on me having seen the article and pic, which I won't be able to see over here, which makes it harder to get an idea if it's real or false.

Annie said...

Hi Ali: I refused to open the pages of that magazine for a good while when I got it.
There are seven pictures.
The article says they were kissing like crazy but surprisingly none of the pics show that.
He is nuzzling her though.


As hard as it is to look at these pics, I expected the pics to be more salacious based on how US Weekly sold it.

ali mac said...

I think we will just have to have patience and see what happens. (not easy though)

Super RN Gas Passer said...

ROSE

HUGS. Everything will be fine. Even if there ends up being any truth to it we are not talking about some monumental affair. An indescretion. Sure. Does it erase a deeply felt and completely serious relationship ? No it does NOT. And what about this director dude??? He has to be twice her age. Why isn't anyone coming down on him?

Leni said...

Super - that's probably what annoys me most.. everyone is blaming Kristen, but IF it's true, Rupert is without a doubt the biggest asshole here

Litmom said...

Ditto, Leni and Super.

Litmom said...
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Annie said...

I was cheated on and I just cannot be objective right now. I am going to take a step back.

Suffice to say that one survives cheating and many times partners find it within their hearts to forgive indiscretion.

My only thought is that Rob knows the truth about what happened and wasn't blindsided by this.

Have the best day you can everyone.

Bye.

Super RN Gas Passer said...

LENI and LITMOM

Without a doubt That guy has been around the block quite a few times. I'm sure. You guys have a nice day.

Leni said...

I'm sorry Annie :(

Super - ITA

Dottie said...

How is it possible to feel this heartbroken for people I don't even know? I still support Rob and Kristen and hope that they can weather this storm. I hope the same for Rupert and his family.

I just can't wrap my brain around Kristen doing something so self-destructive. :(

Cyber hugs for everyone.

olivia said...

Will continue to support Rob and Kristen in all that they do, together and individually.
As always, wishing them strength, peace and calm.
Hugs for Smitty, Gruff and Syd.
Rose, a big hug for you and also, for all of Roseland.
Life is what happens to us as we are making plans.
This too, shall pass.

Michelle said...

Let's step back for a minute ladies....here is an incredibly young girl whose life has become a goldfish bowl. The scrutiny around her private life was without precedence. I myself can still not fathom why i got so caught up for the last 3 or so years watching this young couple. Robs love for Kristen is to me such a rarely special noble thing.
But he's human and not perfect...neither is Kristen.
I don't believe Kristen or her Director set out to hurt anyone. Perhaps this was a way for her to keep a part of herself separate as an entity to all that has become "Robsten". A way to explore what it might mean to simply be Kristen.
A family man with young children is while on face value not ideal...but what are her other options? To hook up with some younger single dude who will sell her out?
And far from severing things with Rob, a couple of discreet liaisons may be the difference between staying and committing to Rob for the rest of her life and staying true only to have a mid life crisis and remove herself later.
Exploring other possibilities may actually give Kristen the closure to commit to Rob exclusively. After all they are not yet married and she didn't get to do the college thing. Her every move has been scrutinized..this behavior perhaps a total F....you to shippers..nonsense...paps...alike
For those brief moments she got to forget about the media circus that is Robsten and to go back to Rob ready to go....you know what? Now I KNOW I'm ready to be with you (or not...time will tell).
No I don't condone her behavior but more because the silly silly girl got caught! What was she thinking?
Perhaps Nikki Reed will indeed have the last laugh in this sad state of things.

PL said...

Ladies this is a sad day because people are hurting. Unlike you, I cannot give Kristen a pass on this or make excuses for her. So many passes have been given to her for inappropriate behavior because she made Rob happy. We all have had flirtations but those truly in a committed relationship know where to draw the line. And young? How many of you were married at 22 and still are?

Perhaps Kristen has started to believe the hype about herself. It's too bad if that's true because that hype just got negative. I think we all have to accept this for what it is and not act like the nonnies who dispute every fact before them. Kristen apologized in People but, come on, she got caught.

I know I'm not expressing a popular sentiment, but I can't condone this. While we don't know what the state of their relationship was prior to her indiscretions, break up if you aren't happy. Don't cheat.

It's up to Rob now, does he forgive it or not. If he chooses her then I wish them both all the best, but if he moves on I hope he finds happiness soon with someone worthy.

ali mac said...

I have to say in no way do I condone anyone having an affair with a married person, I truly believe in the sanctity of the union. And both sides are equally to blame for the decisions they make in an affair. I just find it hard to believe Kristen would do this.

We may never know the truth either because I don't see this making R & K any more likely to start talking openly about their relationship. probably the opposite.

Wildhart007 said...

It's none of our business ...

beacullen said...

I hate this! I totally hate it! I hate that this is splashed all over the crap magazines, I saw it on tv, and the internet. I hate that Rob, who obviously cares very deeply for Kristen has to see this, I hate that she has to publicly apologize for it. But I don't like that her excuse is that it was a lapse in judgement. I find that hard to take. Rupert is 41 and married with 2 kids, how do you explain that to your kids? This whole situation just sucks for all involved, I hope they're able to work through it. I'm not sure I could be so forgiving. UGH this is just so frustrating.

Robin said...

I'm deeply sorry for both Kristen and Rob. I have loved both of them for three years and wish them the very best during this difficult time.
Many of us have lived vicariously through Kristen since we first became aware of her romance with Rob. And now I feel a bit like I did when I found out about Bill Clinton and Monica Lewinsky in the Blue Room of the White House: What were you thinking?!
This was a sad and serious misstep for Kristen and one that may not be recoverable . . . in a number of ways.

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angelica1 said...

While I would never in any way condone infidelity,I don't believe anyone has the right to condemn someone when they have no idea of the true circumstances. I like and admire Kristen for herself, not because of Rob and the fact that she has human failings like everyone else, isn't going to change that. While not absolving her at all, I find it..ironic...that while she's being publicly crucified, the other party with the wife and children, does seem to be getting something of a pass.My heart goes out to Rob, Liberty and the 2 kids caught up in this mess and yes, to Kristen too, she's made a mistake which she readily acknowledges and her remorse is clearly genuine. I really hope all parties will now be given some privacy to work through this dreadful situation and start rebuiding their lives as they see fit. I also hope that people take a long,hard,look at themselves to ensure they've led blameless lives before judging others who they don't actually know.

Leni said...

I'm at a loss for words right now..

Leni said...

Couldn't have said it better, Angelica

Rhonda said...

Angelica- I couldn't agree more, well said!

Super RN Gas Passer said...

ANGELICA

I really liked that last sentence.

Dani said...

Rose... I'm looking forward to read your thoughts on this subject :(

This is really hard for me. Yes, I guess I’ve been a little bit over invested on them and their relationship… weren’t we all? :( Although I've always liked Rob, I was, first and foremost, a fan of Kristen. That's why this is so hard. I'm so fucking disappointed right now... I´ve always liked her because she seemed so different from the other HW stars, so genuine and so authentic. She seemed to have so much integrity... The things she has said about relationships, loyalty, Rob… even about cheating…! How many times she has talked about honesty? It all feels so fake and hypocritical right now.
I can never look at her the same way again. Sorry, I just can’t. I feel I’ve been fooled, if that makes sense. I feel sick when I think about the amount of time I’ve spent on the internet defending her over the last couple of years.

She cheated on her partner. Someone who clearly adored her. With a fucking married man twice her age with small children. Married with a woman she knows and with whom she has worked just a few months ago. How fucking selfish and disrespectful is this??? I can't understand cheating, I just can't. Never had, never will. If you want another person in your life, at least own it and be honest with your partner. Give him the opportunity to chose what to do! Cheating is just such a coward thing... How could she humiliate Rob like this? She’s devastated? She sure doesn’t look devastated in those pics. She’s fucking laughing and smiling in those damn pics. And knowing that this was not a “momentary indiscretion” makes it even worse. She met him in a specific place and was seen making out with him for hours. She fucking knew what she was doing! And in a public place… what a fuck was she thinking??? So “protective” and private about her relationship with her boyfriend and so carefree with this guy??? This is surreal.

I feel so much for Rob… he’s adored and desired by so many women all over the world and he fell in love with a person like this… I wish him all the best and I hope he can find a woman who really loves and deserves him.

As for Kristen Stewart… I don’t know who she is anymore. The sad thing is that she has most probably ruined her life and most certainly her career. As far as I can see, she has lost the majority of her fans. She will be forever known as a cheater and a homewrecker. What a silly girl she is, she fucking had everything and she ruined it all…
I will probably feel sorry for her when everything calms down, but right now I can't help feeling like this. I’m sorry. I just had to get it off of my chest, I’m so disappointed. I'm sorry...

Brenda said...

I agree with Dani although I don't think Kristen has ruined her career, just her wonderful relationship with Rob.

DreamerKind said...

I can only imagine the pain and distress felt by the ones involved.

My opinion is worth less than zero, really.

I can only heal myself, after taking that life long-lived, hard look within, as angelica1 suggested.

I'm finding I have more forgiving of myself and others, yet to do.

Embracing that truth, and getting on with it.

Love ya.

Dani said...

@Brenda

I don't know either if this will ruin her career. It will, at least for a while, in my opinion. She had many fans in common with Rob that are now very angry at her. Even if she is given the opportunity to be in good movies, will she have a significant audience to see them? I just don't know... I was a huge fan of her and I can't tell you, for now, if I'm going to support her future movies... well, a SWATH sequel I will not, for sure! I don't think I'm going to see BD2 either... that one she certainly ruined, at least for me! I think she is a very talented actress, but... I just don't know if I'm going to be able to get over the disappointment I feel over her as a person.

Kay said...

One of the things people here have said they love about Rob an Kristen is that they are "real" people....we love it and identify with it.

Well, this is real life for them....real life is hard...it's messy, and it can be painful, sad, and heartbreaking. We've ALL made mistakes and hurt the ones we love.....but none of us have to live through it in front of the entire world. Maybe others are perfect, but I am so very thankful that thousands of strangers aren't defining my entire life and worth by my darkest moments. My heart aches for both of them....it is entirely up to Rob and Kristen whether or not the love they've shared for so many years can overcome and fix this.

We don't get a say in this as fans....this is their life and their relationship....I will continue to care about both of them. Personally, I am hoping that love, forgiveness and healing are possible. Real love is ALWAYS worth fighting for, even in the face of human failings.

Groovie said...

Kay, your last comment was perfect! I couldn't agree more.

My heart goes out to both Rob & Kristen, I hope they get the privacy and space they deserve to deal with this in their own way. All my best to both of them.

Tired said...

I am old so no one will be interested in my opinion; however, I will give it. There is something off about this affair. Why does a girl who tells Fallon your too old for me fall for Rupert? Why did she look straight at the papz and still meet with Rupert? And why did it seem Liberty was aware of things but a little unsettled by the pictures? Wow. My statement would be a lot worse than WOW. Why has there been rumors about a tell all book , recently? Why was there a meeting just before TCA? Why when the whole Twi fans were providing Kristen and Rupert with an out did they suddenly issue apologies? There are too many questions that are not being answered.

bcaceres30 said...

@Dani I know what you mean. I dont think I will see BD part 2 which angers me because I love the Twilight Saga.

Dottie said...

Kay, Your comment was perfect.

Leni said...

Absolutely perfect comment, Kay

Sydney said...

Funny how we all end up here...where it started. Want to put my arms around all of you. So much I don't understand. So much not my business to understand. Regret is the most bitter of all pills to swallow and I wouldn't wish it on my worst enemy. Nothing I could say, no judgment I have, could possibly make this worse for those involved, so I will refrain from saying what I really think.

Just wanted to come here today. A place of such joy and comfort in the past for me. Thinking about all of you.

Hope said...

KAY
I totally agree with your thoughts. LOVE IS WORTH FIGHTING FOR and it is up to Rob and Kristen to decide the fate of their relationship.

Having said that, I am sickened by this news. We all make mistakes for sure and I am glad Kristen apologized, but this is hard pill to swallow.

ROSE....You have always told us that Rob and Kristen always end up together. My prayer is that this will hold true down the road.

Thinking about all of the REGS here and how long we have posted our thoughts over the years. Love to all.

Litmom said...

Kay, I love what you said.

Thank you for those wise words.

Birdie said...

Just as I can't understand how I have been drawn to these two, I am a bit overwhelmed by the sadness I feel for both of them.
I can almost physically feel the pain they are going through. I have been in a relationship where I was cheated on. It is devastating. Did I forgive? I think so, but I will never forget. It just isn't raw anymore.
I can also say that in my life I have regrets for choices I have made. It took a long time and some soul searching to forgive myself and move past it. I know I am a good person and I did learn from my mistakes. Not everyone does and that is what defines you.
Angelica and Kay,
I liked what both of you had to say. We have no idea what goes on in their lives. She is a 22 year old girl/woman living a somewhat surreal life. Kristen may have made the biggest mistake of her life and the fallout is not going to be pretty. I am sure her anguish is unmeasureable. Can she learn a life lesson from this? I hope so. I don't doubt that all the things we admired about her were real, but so are her flaws. I do not think anyone is incapable of learning and I hope she can.
Rob...that pain I do know and my heart goes out to him. He is the only one that knows what is in his heart and he will have to choose what is best for him. I am so sorry this is so public and hope they can remove themselves from that and do what is best for them.

ali mac said...

Hope, I'm thinking of all the R&K fans too, not that it is anything close to the pain of those involved but we have all invested so much into following and supporting them that it really is hard.

Big hugs to all my Roseland friends, as we will probably all see this from different angles and have our own opinions caused by life experience/beliefs etc. It helps to talk about it though.

Unknown said...

What I think is great is that this blog is still open for comments. I am a "lurker" and rarely comment but am as devoted a Robsten fan as they come. As all of you have said, I don't know why I have this connection to them, and I haven't had an interest in any other couple but Rob and Kristen. I don't know how else to describe my feelings right now except as heartbroken. I cannot imagine what Rob, Liberty, and yes, even Rupert and Kristen are experiencing right now. I wish them all the best in finding love, peace, and happiness, wherever that may be. For more selfish reasons, I'm thankful for this blog where I can "lurk" and be heartbroken with others who understand. It gives me some comfort to know that others have such true and loving spirits that they are also upset about this...if anything, it's a validation of how true their love is...even in it's faults. I still honestly believe that they truly love each other and unfortunately they are now having to deal with this deep transgression in the public eye. I think that grieves me the most. Thank you for having this blog open so that others can vent and share in our own (even it is selfish) pain at this news. I tried talking to my sister, who has no real connection to this, and she basically just rolled her eyes and said "That's Hollywood." And I wanted to argue bc I have never thought of RK as "just Hollywood." It's nice to come on here and see I'm not the only one...so, just, thank you. <3

PipDancer said...

I feel so much heartache for both Rob and Kristen. Their lives must be lived in the public, with media on them 24/7. No opportunity to go through experiences without the scrutiny of the entire world. Actors are just people like us, they just happen to have a very public job. I know I couldn't stand paparazzi's eyes on every move I make.
Kristen must have been smitten by Rupert or she wouldn't have been involved with him at all. In those moments - MOMENTS - she wasn't thinking about the Twilight franchise, Rob, her family, her friends, or the fact that this idiot is married with children. She was being a 22 year old with a crush.
Kristen didn't realize how rare Rob's love for her is. Complete devotion. Adoration. Now she'll learn one of those hard lessons - that she killed the best relationship she'll ever have because I doubt with all my heart that Rob will take her back. For one simple reason: how can he ever trust her again? And without trust, especially in their occupation, there is no hope no matter how much love there is.
Sad day for Robsten fans, but ya know what? They're only human, we're the ones who put them in an other-worldly status.
I'm still a fan of Kristen's work, she's an amazing actor. Give her the space she needs to reflect and grow, and Rob the space to think. I send them both my love and positive thoughts.

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DreamerKind said...

Sharing with you all, this well thought out and kind commentary:

http://takemetobliss.wordpress.com/

Reading all comments and feeling the comfort of our connection, too.

(Group hug in process)

30 said...

I just read Kristen's apology I really think I am to disappointed in her right now to say anything further. I refuse too bash her, I will not become "one of them" No, we are not perfect, but we do need to as women own up when we fuck up. That is how we learn, that is how we grow.

If I could give her some advice though thinking she might actually see it. I would tell her to be HONEST with Robert about it ALL even if it is going to hurt he deserves the full truth and once there are no more lies, the healing can begin and he can decide what he wants in truth not lies.

I just want to add this director guy is a fucking piece of shit. Kristen is 22 he is 42 and married he KNOWS better. Period.

Litmom said...

DK - I agree. That was a lovely commentary from Take Me to Bliss.

Leni said...

DK - thanks and ITA
((hugs)) back at you

gwen said...

Great words Angelica and Kay.

I hope they can withstand this trial in their relationship. I cant say anything about this issue since I dont know all what went down, only those people involve but I wont pass judgement to them. People just made a big deal out of this because they're famous. But cheating happens to everyone. Im just disappointed to what the other fans reaction though. Maybe they just said them because they're hurting too, maybe they put Rob and Kristen on the pedestal. They're human too, make mistake.

A big hug for Rob and especially for Kristen cause out of this, she's the most hurt. Hope and pray they both have each other right now to weather this storm and strong enough to withstand this. But with the love I see in them, I have faith to them.

To Rob and Kristen, f@ck what people say or think, what only matters is yours.

luckystrike87 said...

I had not intended to comment on this subject, until that is, Kristen released a statement. Then I felt sick knowing that the gossip was actually true, and I had to say what I am feeling, one last time.

I am saddened today, I was one of the people who have endlessly defended Kristen over the past few years. I felt that she was misjudged by critics and fans. I saw a tendency for people to attack her for no reason at all, which sickened me, one day I got enough and I began to defend her.

I will admit that over the last few months I have, at times found it becoming more and more difficult to defend some of the things she said such as:
“Because I didn’t go to f–king school, I feel I would have had a bit something extra if I had,” she says. “Maybe because my life is so perfect, when I see the other side of life, it just seems like, almost like I want…” Stewart struggles for words. “You can learn so much from bad things. I feel boring. I feel like, Why is everything so easy for me? I can’t wait for something crazy to f–king happen to me. Just life. I want someone to f–k me over! Do you know what I mean?”

HOWEVER I tried to excuse that comment as being misunderstood, surely she wasn't hoping something bad would happen to her or someone she cared about....right? So I continued to keep defending.


When she was quoted in a magazine saying “You can Google my name and one of the first things that comes up is images of me sitting on my front porch smoking a pipe with my ex-boyfriend and my dog,” she says. “It was taken the day the movie came out. I was no one. I was a kid. I had just turned 18.”

“The next day it was like I was a delinquent slimy idiot, whereas I’m kind of a weirdo, creative Valley Girl who smokes pot,” she continues. “Big deal.”

I started to wonder why I kept on defending her. It IS a big deal. Kristen Kids and teens go to Twilight movies, they watch and emulate YOU, whether it's fair or NOT itIS a BIG DEAL!!Kristen whether you like it or not you are a role model.



I am through defending her. I do not hate her, as a mater of fact, I wish Kristen and Rob NOTHING but the best of luck. I sincerely hope that they can work things out because they seemed like a wonderful couple.

I'm sorry I just can no longer continue to defend the actions of Kristen, I don't understand them. I don't understand how it is that you could, no matter how caught up in the moment you are, do things with a married man that are at the very least inappropriate, not only is he a married man but a father. WHAT a selfish and self-centered thing to do!

I know this is NOT going to be a popular point of view, and I have tried very hard to be respectful in my wording, but for me, the bottom line is this. I can no longer continue to defend someone who has turned into a person I don't recognize and truth be told I don't like.

I am sick of the comments of "She's only 22" as if that excuses bad behavior. It doesn't. I no longer am willing to give her the benefit of the doubt on anything. I think she has become arrogant, self absorbed and quiet frankly ...no other nice way to say this...bitch. I hope she straightens up and I hope that she and Rob can make things work, they were a good couple.

That is their call. What is mine and the only power I have is this I am no longer a Kristen Stewart fan, and her movies will not see one dollar of MY money, I refuse to show her one ounce of support in anyway. Which is MY right as a fan who is disappointed in her actions.

The worst thing about today is this FIRST time she that she finally publicly admitted to the world that she is in love with Rob, it's attached to a statement apologizing that she was caught cheating.

How many people waited for those words "I love him I love him"? How many of us thought that "I am so sorry" would follow because she cheated even if it was simple kissing and heavy petting.

Unknown said...

^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^
THIS!!!! Yes, that is what broke me completely too. She finally admits there is a relationship only when she is caught being unfaithful in it. "I love him. I love him. I'm so sorry." The combination of those statements are gut wrenching. Heart-broken.

Kathy said...

I honestly thought I'd NEVER see this day Rose and right now I am literally sick over this. SO sick. I feel like I have no where to turn to express my feelings over this complete devastation. Poor Rob. How COULD she do this to him? I just DON'T get it. I don't. Rupert Sanders? REALLY? I saw the pic this morning and it looked photoshopped. I thought MAYBE it really was. I thought about it all day at work and it just didn't make sense to me. It still doesn't. I actually prayed on the way home for it NOT to be true. Then I get home and see her official statement. I broke down and cried, and punched the wall. I am SO damn mad at her. I am. I want there to be hope for them. Forgiveness. A fresh start. Everything feels ruined. Breaking Dawn Part 2. RUINED. For me at least. The way HE loves her. Looks at her. Smiles at her. ALL ruined. NOBODY understands how I'm feeling except all you wonderful people on this blog. I'm SO sorry for Rob, and Bear, and Tom, and ALL the people that are affected by what she did. Things feel so hopeless to me right now. Sounds pathetic, I know. I always thought their relationship was nothing short of classic, epic, one of a kind. Now, that's ruined too. Please comment soon Rose. If you're able. Maybe you could start a support group (I know, NOT funny, but seriously true) Doing some serious praying for Rob so that his broken heart will soon heal. xoxoxoxoxoxo

Freddie said...

I feel very conflicted about this whole mess. I’m trying really hard to reconcile my emotional response to the news with a more considered take on things – as many of you wise ladies have in your earlier comments.

I’ve always liked and respected Kristen as an actor and person, and have certainly felt protective of her when people attacked her unjustly. So, it’s sad for me to admit that the emotional side of me is thoroughly disappointed in her for this most public of indiscretions. It doesn’t make sense to me. This isn’t the Kristen that I thought I knew. I feel sadness and concern for her – yes, but more than anything, my heart goes out to Rob, as I’m sure he’s devastated by this unexpected betrayal. I wish I could say otherwise ladies, but that’s how I feel. I would feel the same if the roles were reversed.

What makes this worse is that this is playing out in “Hollywood” – land of spin, damage control, media relations and pursuit of the almighty buck. I’m troubled, because at this point, I really don’t know what to believe. Kristen issues a public apology. Is this sincere or is she being required to do damage control to salvage Breaking Dawn? I would like to believe the former but she has given us reason to doubt.

That’s what the emotional/skeptical side of me is saying. At the same time, I’ve read and re-read many of your comments and you are correct in pointing out that we are all human. I too, have made my share of mistakes. If this truly is a “momentary indiscretion” then she absolutely deserves our understanding and compassion. Am I disappointed in her? Yes. Do I wish her ill? – Absolutely not.

I hope that with time that they both find a measure of peace again – whether together or apart.

30 said...

Hi Kathy

I think all of us fans are just heartbroken right now we have invested so many years. I was always on Kristen's side. I cannot be on this one I will not defend this. I know she is hurting right now and ya know what she needs to be, THAT is called a consequence.

I just hope Rob is with real friends and family at this difficult time. He loved her so much we all could see it ,that kind of love is precious, fragile once in a lifetime. Kristen is too young too "get that"

Boogie with Stew said...

Howdy my Rosie friends... haven't popped in few quite sometime..

I have read till my eyeballs are ready to fall out.. I haven't seen the pics but heard the apology..

Somehow I just feel in my spirit, there's more to this...honestly with the paps on your coat tails all the time.. and to " get caught" maybe I'm in denial... I think it's a diversion...

Boogie with Stew said...

oops hit the enter button

love to all I have missed everyone
Peace and love and many Twilight
memories


Boogie with Stew aka Mary Jane

Norma Rae said...

To me something is not right with all of this, I mean, Why did she make a public apology for a relationship she has never publically admitted to being in? She could have just made an apology to her family and his family??

Another thing is, it was said (if I remember correctly)they met behind some old buildings or something. Kristen is a smart girl, she knows the paps are watching her at ALL TIMES, so why would she do this in broad daylight.

I am a fan of both Rob & Kristen, none of this craziness will ever change that!

I just had to get this off my chest because it makes absolutely no sense. Maybe we will find out more later.

With all that said, I wish Rob & Kristen nothing but the best and pray that this will all blow over soon and they can get on with their lives. (hopefully together)

Kathy said...

@30..Totally agree with you. I've always been on her side as well, but not now. She's sorry alright. She's sorry that she got caught and now all of a sudden she publicly says she LOVES Rob. I'm sorry but right now she disgusts me. She just lost THE BEST damn thing that will EVER happen to her. THE BEST MAN. EVER.

Fanfic said...

I'm glad we can still comment here...I've been hoping for Robstenation, but she's closed her comments.

I didn't read all the comments above, but I read a few. There are those that are disgusted with her and those that aren't.

I've set up camp in the latter. I don't hate her for what she did, I hate that she did it. I, as many others have indicated today, am a little too invested in this relationship. I was completely unproductive at work today. I barely slept last night for checking the various blogs.

This really just makes me very, very sad. I've shed a few tears, which is absolutely ridiculous because these are people I've never met and will never "know".

I was still hoping that her people would come out with some scathing rebuttal, expressing her disgust for the media for saying these things about her. When the apology was issued, that's when I lost it. That's when I knew it was, without a doubt, true.

Ever the optimist (with regard to Rob and Kristen, only, ironically...), here is my theory:

She's mentioned before the fact that honesty is important to her. While I agree that whatever she was doing in the first place is dishonest, she didn't let this go when it was brought to light. She (nearly) immediately owned her "ish". She came right out and owned her mistake. She didn't make up things or try to pass the buck, she owned it. Now, for the apology.

I have always wondered if it was her idea to keep their relationship quiet. He seemed to want to shout it from the rooftops, but acquiesced to her (imo). I think this might have been her first major step in making amends. I think this was her showing Rob that she is very serious about her transgressions and wants to fix everything she can, as soon as she can. She wants to show him that he isn't her secret and to prove that she went to a very public place.

The public apology doesn't seem like something that she would normally do (as she values her privacy so highly). I think that should speak volumes.

I won't stop loving her and Rob, together or apart, but this just really sucks.

I can't take on all the people out there that hate on her, so normally I just shut my mouth, and feel secure in my own opinions. But it bothers me that Rupert seems to be left pretty much alone. There isn't much hate out there for him, but the skinning she's getting seems wholly unfair. They were both involved, they both made this choice. In my opinion, he had much more to lose, with a wife and children. Granted, she could potentially lose the love of her life, but overall, she didn't have the family ties that Rupert did.

Today I was really, really hoping there would be something bigger that would come by and take over the internet.

The second wave of pics made my stomach churn. Seriously. I thought I was going to vomit when I saw the one where they were obviously kissing.

I feel for Rob. Half of me wants them to get through this, while the other half agrees that she deserves the boot. I'd never let my husband get away with this, so why should I expect Rob to?

Sorry for the novel, I just needed a place that didn't completely hate Kristen where I could lay my feelings out.

Thank you to anyone reading!

Mirah121178 said...

Thank your guys....Reading your comments make me feel better. Whatever happened, give the best support to them. Yesterday, I thought i wouldn't open robsten blog anymore. I want to say...i don't care but in fact i care for them so much.....my suggestion...leave the fandom for a while...give your heart time and space for healing. And then let's see........

isis said...

It's the first time that i'm going post here. I have being post in robsessed.
It's friday and i'm still feeling sad and sick. I can't sleep well and i am eating very little, i don't have appetite. This could be ridiculous for a lot of people but this is how i feel. I don't know them and i never tought that i would fell this way.
This is a nightmare that you can't wake up.
If i feel this way and this is nothing about me i can imagine Rob. And nick, steph, ruth, tom ,marcus, sam, rob's parents, rob's sisters, kristen patenst and brothers. People mag report that he move out from the house and is heartbroken and angry. I think the reason that we the fans are reacting so emotionally and deep sadness is because we know that he is completely broken. I don't need any pic of him right now to get this conclusion. She was in the pedestral for him. No one was more beautiful, cool, best actress, honest than her. This is why her fall is so huge and devastated.
The trust is lost forever, there will never be the same. It's impossible even for a true love. There are things that even a deeply in love person can't accept and deal.When i stop for a second to think about this i still can't believe. And i'm sure that most of his angry and heartbroke is because not even him believe that she did that, he didn't saw the signs, he didn't knew nothing. Like us he never saw this coming.

isis said...

Peopel mag said that he don't have any contact with her, so i believe that Monday when he found out, he and his team nick, steph, all come to seclusion.And ever since she doesn't have news from him. I believe she is desperate. She can't talk to him, explain what happened. So her statement "i love him, i love him.i'm so sorry." is the way she try to get contact to him. But nick and steph will not give this to her. In this moment looks like she is alone with her team to do damage control.

isis said...

next week they will be in every cover magazine. In the next weeks will be tories about them giving a second chance, rob saying that he hates her, rumours, false quotes. Until something happen and the media attention moves on. look the example of tom cruise and katie holmes, now the things are more calm.
Rob is going to fim a movie about irake.kristen has Cali to do this year,i think.They will have to greeve their pain and go back to work.
And then countdown to November, BD part2. They have 4 months until the premiere.
In this 4 months, millions of things will happen. The drama will fade away. We the fans gonna calm down too and prepare to be excited for BD part2. I'm writing this last part and the sadness coes to me like a rockete. But deep we know that is true, this will pass away. We all have or had big problems in our lives and we survive.

isis said...

About the premiere in November:
I don't think kristen will be on the premieres, not US, maybe europe but i don't think so.In NOvember the fans will be more calm, not so deep broken like we all are now feeling. I'm not saying that we will forgive her and want to take a pic with her.But you all know what i mean.
I believe she will going to make a statement, telling that she is very proud of the movie. But i don't believe she will be on the red carpet smiling for the cameras, with rob and taylor by her side and signing autografs.
I can be wrong, but this is what i believe. One more time i'm letting my sad feelings talk because this is the way i feel in this moment. But in 4 months, November, i don't know what will be my opinion about her presence in BD part2 promotions. Maybe in November i feel different, we don't know what will happen between them.

Even tata no one is telling this i truly believe that they are over. Not people mag or gossipcop said they are over. But i think any fan not going to be surprise if in this next days we read on people mag or gossipcop that they are completely done. To me is the best solution in the moment.
There are too muchpain, angry and the feelings are completely confuse.

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isis said...

Hippotetically:
If they will back together, this will not be in the next 4 months. There are too much pain, angry, disappointment, even with the love that they have for each other, would never work.
They need to heal the pain first, they need to move on from the cheating.Rob has to forgive kristen and kristen has to forgive herself. They need to know what they really want and their feelings foe one other. Kristen need to see what is wrong with herlife,what she is missing and what she really wants.And Rob special, when all this fade away and everybody had move on from the story, only him alne can know if he still have strong feelings for her. If he still loves her deeply. If he can go out has a date with her and not fell embarassed. If he can move on from the cheating and still deeply in love with her. If YES, he can make his mind to give her a second chance. Everyone deserves a second chance.

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