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Friday, July 27, 2012

Love Hurts.


What am I supposed to say?
There is so much anger out there right now.
So much hatred.
Yes.
I'm disappointed too.
Obviously I care about Rob and Kristen.
I would never in a million years imagine something like this 
happening between two people that were so in love.
And whether you believe it or not...
They still love each other.
Whether they go forward together or not
isn't up to you... or me.
Rob and Kristen need to figure this out.
I only wish they could do so with some measure of privacy.

All the conspiracy theories and rationalizations
aren't going to change what happened.
All the continuous hatred and bitterness
doesn't serve any purpose other than to 
prolong the unhappiness and sadness.

We all are hurting in some way...
And I understand the feeling of protection over Rob.
The thought of him in so much pain... kills me.
But the truth of the matter is
What Kristen did has nothing to do with us.
Yes.
We can question why
We can be sad
We can be disappointed and angry.
But where do you stop and let it go?
When do you realize that hating her isn't going to change anything?
Because in truth...
All this turbulent emotion is more about us
intruding on their relationship.
Pushing ourselves in... where we never belonged in the first place.
This isn't ours to deal with.
This isn't really even our pain to feel.
I know we all do... I do, too...
But we need to back off now...
We need to let them heal and figure this out
We finally need to leave them alone...
and quit asking for things we have no right to ask for.
We don't have a right to know the intimate details.
We never did.

Final thought.

My father... who is one of the most intelligent and witty men I know...
but completely clueless when it come to 
'entertainment' news...
Actually said to me yesterday
"So I was reading the paper and saw that there
is big trouble in vampire land"
Yes.
He said VAMPIRE LAND.
I just looked at him... shocked.
I finally replied...
"Yeah, Dad... Vampire land is kinda sad right now"
He looked at me and said
"I feel sorry for those 2 kids. I can't imagine having to 
deal with that heartbreak in the public eye."

Compassion.
My father has it.
And he knows nothing about Rob and Kristen
beyond what he has read in the paper.
I know some of you are so angry at Kristen
and want to call her names and hate on her.
But try to look at her...
as she is.
Strip away the fame and fortune...
Take away who her boyfriend is.
Look at her.
She is just a girl.
Who made a terrible mistake.
A horrible choice.
Yes... she hurt some people
And she has to live with that.
She has to make amends.
But she is hurting too.
If you saw her on the street...
Desperate and crying... hurt
Wouldn't you stop and try to help her?
Wouldn't you be scared and worried for her?
Or would you just scoff and say she deserves her pain?
Would you spit on her as you walked away?
Personally?
I would help her.
I want her to be OK.
I couldn't just turn my back and walk away.
And that's where I am right now.

This post is brought to you by compassion.
I hope some of you find some.

If you are without sin... cast that stone.
.........

(waiting)

..........

Thought so.

Until next time
(and there will be a next time.)

Bye for now

P.S.
I still adore Tom Sturridge.
A bright shiny star 
in this dark dark night...


758 comments:

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LJ said...

I love you Kristen.

justme@32 said...

Thank you Rose for your words! Again you speak from the heart:)

angelica1 said...

Thank you Rose, Yes,I would help her

Groovie said...

This post is perfection. Nothing more I can say because you said it all for me.

Love to both Rob & Kristen
And to all of you

Oh and Happy Olympic Opening Day! :)

laurieo76 said...

Rose, I've loved you and your love for Rob, and then Kristen, for a long time. Yes, I would try to help her. But, sometimes helping someone isn't about making excuses for them or overlooking reprehensible behavior. Sometimes it involves calling them out on it. Do I think she is hurting? Yes, because of her poor choiceS. Do I think she is sorry? Yes, for getting caught. Since this was an ongoing betrayal and not a one-time lapse while drunk at an afterparty, it is more serious. And I don't get the vibe she would have stopped the bad behavior or told Rob had she not been forced to. I don't think she regrets her choices as much as she regrets getting caught. Issuing statements to the public involving Rob as a way of reaching out to him when she knows he is a private man shows me she is still more concerned with herself than Rob. I will support Rob in whatever decision he makes regarding his future with Kristen, but she has shown me that all her talk of honesty and not relating to someone who cheats was just that - talk. She isn't who she pretended she was.

hopesecho said...

Yes I love her & am worried about her, I love Rob too! Truth is I was too invested in 2 people I did not even know. But I still ache for them both of them. I will not read about them or watch any entertainment shows right now. I keep thinking of the song "Let it Be" . Thanks for still writing Rose so many have left.

itsyblue said...

As usual,well said. My heart is breaking for both of them.

It's amazing how many people out there are turning on her. I guess they have never made a mistake, never hurt someone they loved or had to beg for forgiveness.

This is for Rob and Kristen to work out, without the anger and hatred that is being sprewed at them.

I know this, as hurt and heartbroken as Rob is, and we don't know if he can or will forgive her, he will be the first one to wrap his arms around her to protect her from all this hate.

I love them both, together are apart. They need time to heal and deal with this.

EBM said...

That was beautiful. Thank you for posting that.

Dottie said...

Thank you, Rose. You don't know how much your words and this place means right now. We needed that reminder. And thank you for not abandoning this blog or removing pictures of happier times. It gives me hope that there are better days ahead.

Instead of worrying or trying to understand why, I'm going to send out prayers and good thoughts for Rob and Kristen. As much as we love and care for them, there is absolutely nothing we can do to make this go away or make it better. But if good thoughts and prayers can help at all, then I'm willing to try.

Rob and Kristen, I love you both.

Take care everyone.

GreenEyedGirl said...

Agreed, I would absolutely help her.

For Kristen and Rob: "Stay Strong, and take care. The sane objective people in this great big world understand and know it's none of our business."

The best way to support Rob and Kristen is to move on from the situation and celebrate their career successes.

I will start now. Congrats on your casting news for Cali.

conflictedme said...

I love the fact that you keep on writing and did't close your blog!!! you said it right! as I said before it's not my place to judge! I feel for him, I support him completely, but I don't think he appreciates the hate towards her, even if it is to "support" him!

We all need to try to move on, and wait and see is his choice not ours.

I would help her too

Dottie said...

Hopesecho, I am avoiding all gossip, photos, and media as well. It really helps and they are usually wrong anyway.

Angelica, I would help, too. I hope she realizes just how many of us there are who wish we could help.

Sydney said...

Agreed.

Anna said...

I would do whatever I could to help her!

Anna said...

I would do whatever I could to help her!

Kay said...

Thanks, Rose.

Compassion....my favorite word today.

<3

Leni said...

Thanks for posting and not taking down your blog, Rose!
I admire the way you handle this situation!

I would help Kristen too. I can't believe the amount of hatred that is directed towards her. Yes, she made a horrible mistake, but I am sure that she is suffering so much right now.

We should all show some compassion towards Rob AND Kristen.

JMF said...

And there you have it, compassion for our fellow human beings, that is what this is about. We aren't making excuses, we hurt, not as much as Rob and Kristen hurt obviously, but we hurt so we are angry. If we could turn back time.......well we can't. I,too, am thankful this blog still exists. Been a reader and follower for 2 years, never had reason to post much but I never missed a writing from Rose. And more than ever we followers need a safe place to vent, to cry and to support each other and Rob and Kristen. Thank you for that Rose.

MLH414 said...

Rose~

Another beautiful post with beautiful words. Your father is a wise man.

Remember everyone...compassion. And take a look at the comments from the last post. Yes, I know there is a lot, but there are some really great, compassionate comments.

I adore both of those kids. They are hurting soo badly right now. Please don't turn your back on Kristen. Rob would not want to hear hateful things being said about her, even in his moment of hurt he himself is at.

~Lynn

beacullen said...

Great post Rose, right from the heart. I really struggle with this, I feel so bad for all the pain they both must be in. True love can really hurt. But I have a hard time looking at it as just a mistake she made. I hate cheaters, I don't understand it, and I have a really hard time forgiving or forgetting it. I don't hate her, I dont know her, but I hate that she could hurt someone who obviously loves her so deeply. It's up to Rob whether he can live with it or not. I would love to see them together,happy, and in love once again. But I think they have alot of work ahead of them for that to happen. Thanks again Rose.

RKsoulmates913 said...

I think nobody hates Kristen more than Kristen herself...and this is sad.
It was painful to see all of this awful situation, yes, I cried like a baby, I couldn't sleep well, and I wanted to kick her ass... but then I thought "WHAT AM I DOING???" She is a human being, who made a mistake, a huge, terrible one, but she is still a HUMAN like you and me, and it is THEIR relationship, they own us NOTHING!
I was a teenager once, and I made horrible choice, I hurt a person that I loved, and if you ask me why and I don't still have the answer. I only REGRET it, and I must tell you, it's a painful feeling, bc you can't chance what you did, but you can try to be better from now on.

"Mistakes are a part of being human. Unfortunately precious life lessons can only be learned the hard way.It isn't the problem along the way that make us or break us. It's how we learn to stand and face them that makes the difference.That's why God created tomorrows for us makes things up.Just because someone messes up once doesn't mean that within time they can't find a way to change for the better."

THINGS DON'T HAPPEN FOR NO REASON, THEY HAPPEN TO TEACH YOU SOMETHING(EVEN IF IT'S THE HARDEST WAY). DON'T PUT A PERIOD WHERE GOD PUT A COMMA.

XO FROM BRAZIL - RKSOULMATES913

Thanks for your words Rose!!!

tufenuf55 said...

I remember in their commentary in Eclipse how Rob said girls are not allowed to have other relationships; that if he found out his girlfriend was cheating, he would break up with her immediately. That movie commentary was one of my favorite dialogues ever. Here's something to think about: What's going to happen at the BD2 premiere? Will Kristen get booed? I wouldn't boo her. Even if she is 22, she has not really had much of a chance to go wild and be young. She's been with Rob since she was 18 and before that with one guy through her teens. I do think she should have just broke up with Rob. But that easy for me to say because I am not her. We fans just got so obsessed and involved with their lives, it hard to let go of them as a couple. They are both great actors and will continue to need their support. I am not surprised that they broke up, because she is so young to be married, etc. Just the way it came about was what was hurtful to fans and especially Rob. I'm going to have to let go but keep up with both careers.

Paulina (sweetie:) said...

First time posting after all these years, feel sad that it had to come to this for me to actually post a comment, always love your blog:

I woke up three days ago to a world I didn't recognize, the world was tilted on its axis and statement like Kristen Stewart caught cheating pics to prove it were being thrown around! My heart was racing, reliable sources were confirming that it was true. Photos surfaced a public apology followed and I am DEAD...Kept telling myself it's a nightmare I can't wake up from..

I don't hate her it's not my place to, she owes nothing to me, she doesn't even know me. I am though disappointed in her actions but I do feel for her.I wish I can make it all go away make everyone involved feel better, I can't> They have to do that on their own. Time, patience, understanding, forgiveness,love-these are the best traitsof humanity and hopefully they will use them, hopefully we will all use them!
And Robert my dear dear Robert I adore you...

Feel like I fell of a cliff and am still falling ... someone please catch me...

Thesabstar1 said...

"I feel sorry for those 2 kids. I can't imagine having to
deal with that heartbreak in the public eye."
I chocked up at these words. Too true.

30 said...

I wonder how Rob is doing? That above picture Rose posted is probably just about right at the moment. I wonder if Rob is on the street crying or writing songs right about now on how his life was turned into hell? I would not want to be in his place for a million dollars. We all know sensitive ROB is we know this threw the years, he wears his heart on his sleeve and loves deep.

Does anyone as a human deserve to be degraded? Made fun of? Bullied NO they do not, but if they are made excuses for, they end up being spoiled, enabled and will NOT learn and GROW.

I hope Kristen gets some counseling I really hope she does this out of character behavior could be from a way deeper reason. I hope she learns, grow and can be the WOMAN I know she can be.

Kathy said...

I guess I'm pissed at Kristen for several reasons. 1)Devastating Rob2)cheating in the first place and 3)bursting the ROBSTEN bubble. Her actions have changed so many lives. The only two that count of course are Rob's and hers. I get that. I love them both. A part of me HOPES that they can work it out. I think, for me, it's been the fact that we've watched this incredible relationship evolve into something so beautiful. I know we don't know what REALLY happened behind closed doors and that we have NO right to know such information. It belongs to THEM and ONLY THEM. NOT us. I just feel SO sad that one of the things I look forward to each day (ROBSTEN info) has come to an end. This is an adjustment that I just DON'T want to make. EVER. But, thanks to you Rose for allowing us to come on here and express our feelings. If I didn't have that I don't know what I would've done. Each day seems to get a tiny bit easier for me, as I hope it does for Rob and Kristen and everyone else. Keeping everyone in my prayers. xoxo

Blondemel47 said...

Nicely put Rose - love your words. Plenty of common sense. Still hurt for Rob tho as he's the one who's been humiliated in all of this & hurt so much more. - but I hope that they can poss work it out. Only time will tell. As you say not really our business.. but we care.. so very much - its like they're our friends.

Litmom said...

Ah, Rose - I love you.
And I freaking love your dad.

I want her to be okay.
And I want him to be okay, too.

beesha42 said...

Well said Rose. Beautiful post. Whether together or separately, I will still support them BOTH! <3

Em said...

Liza thats what she should be hearing from everyone thanks I love her too

Hope said...

THANK YOU, Rose.

YES....I would help Kristen!

The best way I can do that is to continue to extend love and prayers to Rob and Kristen. It is their life, their decision...not ours.

Unknown said...

Awesome post as usual Rose. You have such a compassionate heart.

I truly believe within my heart that Kristen made a mistake, a very bad horrible and out of character for her mistake. I feel bad for Rob, my heart breaks for him because I know he loved her SOOO much. I truly believe that she loves Rob too. Yes her actions speak as if she doesn't but I truly believe she does. Kristen knows that she screwed up and knowing how she is I am sure she is absolutely beating herself up over this and I am sure lessons will be learned after this.

I won't give up on Kristen and Rob. People go through a lot in relationships and make it work. I hope this is true for this couple. (Actually I hope it for most couples who go through bad spots.)

But I do want to give up on the power of Robsten, a pet peeve of mine calling them that but it makes the point. Kristen knows that she messed up and Rob will need a lot of time to get over this but I truly believe that since they love each other they will get through it. It will take a lot of freaking time for them to overcome all of this.

Also one thing that bothers me about this whole thing is that it seems KRISTEN is the one getting the backlash. It takes two people to fuck. What about Rupert? He's 41 years old and married for Pete's sake. IMO he is more to blame than she is! And he will actually end up benefiting from this in the long run. Sadly that is how Hollywood works. We love a manicly depraved Charlie Sheen but women in disgrace remain villified. I know people who still sneer when they say the name
Angelina Jolie.

I am not heartbroken myself though. It has been a good gut check to realize how vested you can get in somebody you don't know. I have been devoting extra time to the people in my life this week. It is so much more rewarding and I haven't missed reading People, E!, Us, Lainey, etc. I am keeping pulse here because of the eloquence of Rose and the respect of the commenters. I loved that this blog started as a way to deal with an interest in a celebrity that you couldn't quite explain. That is what kept me as a lurker so long too.

I believe that forgiveness is one of the most incredibly powerful experiences, both given and received, that relationships can go through. I feel bad for everybody in this situation and hope that the fervor of hate for Kristen starts waning. If Rob decides to stick it out, hopefully there will be more that they both do to make it work. I also hope that with fewer people as emotionally vested in their every move, they can have a deeper, more sacred relationship.

My father even mentioned this in passing yesterday while also talking about the crazy Jackson family and he said that he really felt like there was something more going on in this situation. So I am going to leave them to it.

I applaud those of you who have so bravely shared your own infidelity experiences. I am glad that you have been able to share your pain in a positive way and I wish the best for you all as much as I do for Rob and Kristen. The "everyday" people do deal with these issues every day and it is good to know that bad mistakes don't always define us.

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bluetiffanyxoxo said...

laurieo76

I think you're being unnecessarily harsh. someone's mistakes don't define them- one lie doesn't make you dishonest person. Do you want to be defined solely by the worst thing you've ever did?

to be honest as young as she is, maybe she didn't think at all. maybe she justified however wrongly as not that bad because it wasn't sexual.

and honestly, how much more calling out does she need? she's been called out. more than anyone whose ever kissed a married man has.

sally lava said...

thanks rose...you explain everything and never leave our baby rob/kris...i well support both of them forever....until now i never believe the that stupid us mag and media....in my mind kris is unique and truly love rob...later/2morow sunday everything okay....and have a mercy grace....i know it rose.....

Adriana Castro said...

We all obviously took this very personally, ppl are angry, hurt and deeply dissapointed. But at the end of the day it's none of our business and some of the things I've seen are not only cruel but completely unnecessary.

A love like theirs doesn't end so easily. After the anger and the hurt fade and the healing process begins they'll be able to see things more clearly. It may take them a while, but I think they'll eventually get to a point where they'll be able to talk this through, lay everything out in the open and either giver each other a second chance or get closure and move on.

Only time will tell....and that's exactly what they need....time and privacy.

I'm a firm believer that everything happens for a reason, they'll both be stronger persons because of this and they WILL be ok.

I'm very upset at Kristen's behavior, but I also understand she's only human....we ALL make mistakes. I know my hurt and my anger will eventually go away and I will support her and her career once again (not just yet tho...but I'll get there).

What saddens me the most is the loss and irreparable fracture of the fandom, no matter what happens, no matter if they go their separate ways for good or decide to give it a second chance things have changed for good and that saddens me. I just hope that ppl are able to respect their decisions and reserve judgement on that of what we do not know.

I feel for Kristen...I really do...things are going to be VERY tough for her for a while...much tougher than they will be for Rob. I also fear that this fandom might forgive eventually, but never forget...just ask Nikki Reeed.

This too shall pass...
Time heals all wounds...
Everything will be ok in the end, if it's not ok, it's not the end.

Let's try and a smile a little bit every day until we smile more than we frown! ;)

suse said...

Kirsten Stewart is just a human being and life is a test sometimes - she failed in a very important case - that's true. But this can happen to everyone, everytime. Yeah, I can hear the people scream now: NEVER, would I...Then call yourself a happy person, when you never have found yourself in a tempting situation you couldn't resist - it doesn't mean it will never happen.
She has to live with the consequences now. Don't you think this is punishment enough? I'm sure she is more disappointed about herself than anyone ever can be. I feel so sorry for both of them. And I hope they can work it out and go through it. I wish the best for them. Life is a test sometimes.

Boogie with Stew said...

((hugs )) to you Rose..

Wisdom .... Compassion & healing...

3 words for the day...


peace and love to all...

Now go watch the Olympics in the town our handsome lad is from....

DreamerKind said...

So much LOVE here and there, beneath the pain. It humbles, overwhelms and uplifts me. As love does.

@Rose
<3

Dottie said...

Bravo Unknown! You're right. It's a given that people committed to be together for life will surely go through some dark days together and need to give and receive forgiveness many times. The successful couples are the ones who are able to learn from their mistakes-big and small.

bluetiffanyxoxo said...

having compassion is very different than making excuses.


she did something horrible but let's not forget that she is not the first young girl/woman to do something horrible selfish and self destructive.


look at lindsey lohan. look at britney spears. look at demi lovato. look at nicole ritchie back in the day. Rihanna with her drinking and going back to an abusive partner(supposedly) I could go on and on. you can't
just dismiss the pressure and self destructive behavior that these girls are under.


kristen choose her own way of self destruction

tigger1 said...

Well said...

Freddie said...

Hi folks,

I put some of my thoughts down on paper this morning and was planning to post them when I got home. Since then, I’ve changed my mind. While I have definite thoughts, opinions and questions on this whole mess, I’m pretty sure they are not helpful at this time. The fandom’s response seems to be spiraling out of control a bit and I don’t want to be party to, or inadvertantly adding to the frenzy. Please note, I’m not suggesting that others shouldn’t comment. I understand that it is therapeutic/beneficial for some so I wouldn’t want that to change. I just think for me it’s time to pull back.

You know, we tend to get caught up in this world. For us, following Rob and Kristen was, in a sense, a hobby – something we dabbled in in our spare time, and then we went back to our real lives. Kristen once commented that she didn’t want her life to become entertainment for others, and I wonder if that’s not what it’s become for some.

I fear we (the royal we) are losing sight of the fact that we’re talking about real people here. I would be sad for Rob or Kristen or Kristen’s family, god forbid, to read some of this – it would hurt. I can’t imagine how difficult it would be for them to hear what is being said. In saying that, I’m not giving Kristen an automatic pass and condoning her actions. I remain deeply disappointed in her, but she will have to live with the consequences. I’m just thinking about moving forward.

Above all, I wish them peace and the wisdom to work this all out in the best possible way. With my heart hurting particularly for Rob, I hope he has steady, level-headed support and guidance at this difficult time and that people put HIM and his needs first, not his work obligations.

Freddie said...

Oh and Rose, that picture of Rob at the top of the post, breaks my heart - and sadly that was in a better time.

efka said...

At the beginning – sorry for all my mistakes but English isn`t my first language.
I`m with this blog for two years now – I love it and always been waiting for Rose`s opinions and comments - but never posted a comment before. Never felt the need. Until today. I was out of Internet for two days and when I entered Robstenation today I felt as if someone punched me in the gut. I couldn`t believe what I was reading here and on gossip sites. My head still can`t wrap this.
I mean, I look and look at the photos and try to find something that will prove that they`re fake, photoshopped… and sadly find nothing.
In the morning I was in denial, I waited for some information to pop out about it being not true, misunderstanding or something. But none of it happened…
There`s so many things I don`t understand. Doing such thing of course and then the statement – it seems so out of character for her. Obviously I don`t know her, but I thought, I hoped she was a different person. She always seemed so adult and grounded for her age. I admired her though I`m 10 years older than her. And that`s why I thought that she`s perfect for Rob, so alike him and that they can make it in Hollywood. So this “news” is really really sad for me.
When I try to found a reason to such horrible behavior I can`t shake the thought that something really bad happened to her. All these people praising her for handling fame and success so good for her young age…maybe she didn’t after all, maybe she needs help to collect herself. I mean, for Christ sake, she and Rob were able to avoid papz so many times. Sometimes there were long weeks without any information about them…She was master at this. At the same time she was so aware that they follow her everywhere whenever they have a chance….and she let them photograph her in situation like that???? C`mon, it doesn`t make any sense to me. And yet, there`re this photos.
And then the statement – so odd for her to take care of so private matter in public and admitting for the first time ever her love for Rob. Is this really hers? And if it is, is it sincere or just PR and damage control?
I know that there`s theory that she did it on purpose, that she wanted to get caught to get easy way out of relationship with Rob. I don`t believe it. Looking at all their pictures I just know she loves him, you can `t fake that. Besides she must have realized how many people will be affected by this – not only Rob, but his family. And her family! What must her parents feel right now knowing she had this “thing” with married man and father, not mentioning the age difference.
So tell us Kristen – what happened to you???
As for Rob – I have no words. I feel for him knowing in what terrible place he is right now. I hope he will come out of this stronger and not broken. I wouldn`t want him to change ‘cause he`s so wonderful, smart, talented and honest person. I`m sure he will make right decision for him.
I know that there is life after an earthquake like that, I know that there`s forgiveness for cheating and hope for love and happiness after all, though it`s not easy and takes time.
I hope he will find his peace in whatever decision he`ll make.

Melanie Sapthina said...

Everybody......let's have a big group hug here ({})
I understand exactly what Rose's father talked about. It will be very hard to face this thing with the world watching over very closely.
To get trough this insanity they have to rely on someone. And in my imagination the one who will take Kristen hand to comfort her and hug her is Rob. I know it's sound selfish but i think it's only Rob who understands how Kristen feels right now. And only Kristen who knows what the damages she caused on Rob.
Oke......i'm rambling with no point. I just hope they can get trough this without going crazy. Coz if I'm in their shoes i am going crazy.

And i still believe in love. And what love is??? Robert Pattinson it IS

Thanks again Rose.........keep on posting. We need you and your place to share our feelings.

Big hug..... a.m.s

Ginger with a Soul said...

I would help her, I would help him. As the day goes on I worry more and more about her well being. I worry for Rob as well but her I fear what she would do with the amount of self hate she probably feels. Do I think she loves him...without a doubt. The reason for me is there is no way she would release that statement saying she loved him if she didn't. She could have just walked away and waited for the dust to settle and the next person to take over take the headlines but she put herself out there ...for him. In my heart I believe they will be able to work this out and honestly this kind of gut check will make her appreciate what she has more.

cricrila said...

Amen.

Lanette said...

I just have to say that I couldn't have said it better myself. That is exactly how I feel.

Melanie Sapthina said...

I agree with you dear.....this punishment is the biggest one for her. The self dissapointed will really crush her enough.
Hope the best for them.

Big hug.....a.m.s

bluetiffanyxoxo said...

@ginger


i totally agree with you! i think she's always kinda taken him for granted with the no pda in public and not acknowledging the relationship. Rob has always been in love with her so maybe this will teach her a lesson not to take her charmed life for granted

DreamerKind said...

No one asked, but I'm back into my song posting, silly stories, sharing/caring about Roseland, needing more coffee or wine, as the time of day progresses, state of mind/body/being.

Good for me right? Well, I hope we can all be good to each other, in this incredible place which is good for us.

I vote for compassion! It's a vote worth making, imo, and I love to vote, as everyone knows.

Carry on..

DreamerKind said...

Carry On Wayward Son

Kansas:
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=iQru7oCdYXA

Carry on my wayward son
There'll be peace when you are done
Lay your weary head to rest
Don't you cry no more

Once I rose above the noise and confusion
Just to get a glimpse beyond this illusion
I was soaring ever higher
But I flew too high

Though my eyes could see I still was a blind man
Though my mind could think I still was a mad man
I hear the voices when I'm dreaming
I can hear them say

Masquerading as a man with a reason
My charade is the event of the season
And if I claim to be a wise man, well
It surely means that I don't know

On a stormy sea of moving emotion
Tossed about I'm like a ship on the ocean
I set a course for winds of fortune
But I hear the voices say
No!

Carry on, you will always remember
Carry on, nothing equals the splendor
The center lights around your vanity
But surely heaven waits for you

Carry on my wayward son
There'll be peace when you are done
Lay your weary head to rest
Don't you cry
(Don't you cry no more)

Thank you/ocarinaoftimefan3628

t. from MN said...

I admire you Rose and all of you here for showing compassion to Kristen, not a lot of people are and I'm sure she would be grateful for it. I agree with Ginger with a Soul that she does love him, or wouldn't have said it so publicly...if she didn't mean it all she had to do was apologize and leave it at that. My heart also shattered when I read that. While I don't condone what she did, I would help her too. We all live with regrets.

While these two are not people in our own personal lives, I think as a fan it's natural to care & have concern for people we've admired for so long.

I really hope Rob is alright and coping with this the best he can. I can't even begin to fathom how he's feeling right now. To quote Freddie: " With my heart hurting particularly for Rob, I hope he has steady, level-headed support and guidance at this difficult time and that people put HIM and his needs first, not his work obligations."

Thanks Rose for being here for all of us.

gwen said...

I'm giving the space and time they mostly needed now. Just yesterday I came to a realization I have to stop reading articles about them since its not helping them at all. Those mags are making it worst and many people fall for it.

I pray for peace of mind and body for Rob that he may overcome the grief he feels.

As for Kristen, I will be her Jesus to Magdalene. I refuse to cast a stone at her. I will be in the outside, giving her silent support to the cross she is carrying now. I wont give up or turn my back on her just because she made a mistake. Because if all I think is this, then I am forgetting all the good things that she did. This doesnt define her at all.

Im sorry, this doesnt mean Im choosing her over him or defending her. Im just being a true fan for the both of them. Dont stop being a fan as you dont stop being a family or a friend in times of their weakness.

Let us give them what they want all these times. PRIVACY.

Great words Rose and thank you. Time for me fly and until next time.

ADD said...

@Rose
Thank you for this amazing blog. I'd also like to thank all the other posters that have been talking about their own feelings. Posting here and reading all of your opinions has helped me deal with my own pain.

I wish I could help Kristen. I'd like send her a support message or something. I know that's not possible so I'll post it here. Roger Ebert wrote this about Kristen's statement "She just wanted forgiveness, so she asked for it." I forgive you Kristen. I don't hate you and I won't turn my back on you because you made a mistake. I hope you find yourself again.

I hope Rob and Kristen find a way to heal in private. They deserve that much.

Unknown said...

I agree with you whole heartedly!

sue said...

It's time for reflection, specially my own motives for feeling so heartbroken, not able to focus in work and not able to eat, wishing it was all just a bad dream. I posted yesterday, hoping it would help, it didn't. This morning I felt even more emotional, tears ready to fall. I put my sadness and thoughts on paper asking myself why Kristen? what's wrong? how? what happened to you? Trying to imagine Rob's devastation, disbelief and pain. Affairs happen, I never met a perfect person but hearing Kristn talk about deep honesty, love and respect all the time, I never imagined this to happen. It did though and I have to stop visiting sites I never did before knowing they are lying basterds, plus worse, I was reading the comments too. It's masochistic, sad and torturous. They are vile and feeding of R&K's pain, then there is me helping these scumbags by clicking on their shit. I have to step back from this, it's not who I am and it's certainly not about my hurt, devastation or disappointment, it's about two beautiful young people we loved for so long and are hurting beyond our belief (shit I'm crying again). All the theories/sources/experts/reports mean shit, we know nothing and have no right to either. To make this long story, prob not making any sense, short (hah), I ws staring at my notes still confused by my pain and actions these last days, then I read your new post giving me a reality check, glad I didn't post my notes. Yes Rose, love hurts like hell sometimes. I hope they can find some peace and time to talk, maybe they already are, I hope they can find their way back and work things out. If not, I will always cherish the love. laughter and beautiful moments we've all seen. Maybe in time I can watch the fanvids again, but not now.

diade said...

you know what I really think?

I think it came out after some time what was perhaps predictable!
Is it not true that the story is romantic fantasticamante? ...... maybe we have not all in love with mr. pattinson / edward large and small? ..... 'cause she really should not have?

  time has elapsed then ...... inevitably, the film is finished, other experiences ------ other needs ', what' s strange?
  she 's young and beautiful, but it's still just as he was much more' mature and not by birth!

  MEN because today has become a man, there are few like him, especially at his age '.
  by standing very close to some pubs in london .... but of course at a distance to see him move, speak, laugh (well listened ahahaha) I sent an integrity rare, even without knowing him at all! not even know I exist! ahahahahah

I hope he remains true to himself and do not change his mind whatever he choose!

trust is now fucking for a long time!!!

I wish you a great asset to him especially.

she............. well, perhaps with a little 'of bitterness, I almost changed my mind a bit ..... situational' its obvious!

cheers

olivia said...

Thank you, Rose, for the post today.
Amen. Count me in.
Keeping both Rob and Kristen, and also their family members, in my thoughts and prayers. Continued wishes for privacy, wisdom, maturity, and compassion.
Hugs for y'all, Rose, and Roseland.
Hugs for Smitty, Gruff and Syd.

Ginger with a Soul said...

@DK I have a song for you. I am a huge Incubus fan and of course like the prettiness that is Brandon Boyd but this is so fitting

"Love Hurts"

Tonight we drink to youth
And holding fast to truth
(I don't want to lose what I had as a boy.)
My heart still has a beat
But love is now a feat.
(As common as a cold day in LA.)
Sometimes when I'm alone, I wonder
Is there a spell that I am under
Keeping me from seeing the real thing?

Love hurts...
But sometimes it's a good hurt
And it feels like I'm alive.
Love sings,
When it transcends the bad things.
Have a heart and try me,
'cause without love I won't survive.

I'm fettered and abused,
I stand naked and accused
(Should I surface this one man submarine?)
I only want the truth
So tonight we drink to youth!
(I'll never lose what I had as a boy.)
Sometimes when I'm alone I wonder
Is there a spell that I am under
Keeping me from seeing the real thing?

Love hurts...
But sometimes it's a good hurt
And it feels like I'm alive.
Love sings,
When it transcends the bad things.
Have a heart and try me,
'cause without love I won't survive.

wig4usc said...

That picture, with that caption, yikes. It choked me up.

One point, those that feel angry or hateful, I think they may need to look within at why that is. But couples, relationships, marriages, their successes or failures, do affect other people too. Have you ever had a family member or friend, even someone you know of, who've ended a relationship, been cheated on or divorced? Its painful for everyone around them too, its a reminder for all of us of what may have happened in the past, or what could happen in the future.

I'm starting to greatly dislike the word "overinvested".

I've read enough and see enough, and have followed R&K long enough that I am invested - we all have invested time and emotion in these people. (much to my husband's dismay) :) I feel no shame nor regret, its OK to be sad, its OK to care.

I worry for her, I can recall a time of self-loathing, wanting to just turn back time and not go there, not do what turned the world upside down. Its an awful, dark time and I hope she's not there for long. The same for Rob, I've been on that end too - what did you miss, what clues could you have picked up on, what else has happened, what else will you learn, was it all a lie. And yes, all in public, its agonizing.

Rose - your dad is incredibly sweet to say that.

To my fellow Roselanders, I appreciate that we're all here, trying to process this, and be supportive, of R&K and each other!

sthin said...

i am crying right now, i thought i am over to this one. I cried because of the nice and light feedback i read here at posts. Rose, thank you for the thoughts. I really admire your showing so much compassion to Kristen and Rob. All of us here who commented on the posts are real people who understands what we are dealing with to our beloved couple. Honestly, i could never let go on this feelings of heartache and sorrows. Thinking what can i do to save the people we cherished most and adored. Yes, compassion, standing by their side no matter what difficulty of decisions they will put through. If i could only meet u guys, and hug each other, see our warm support to ROBSTEN, i do not know what else to say, we are so loyal, and devoted and concerned friends of them. Maybe there will be flood on the floor. :'( :)

yesterday i went home from work, ride a bus, the driver played songs on the radio to smooth up our mood while travelling, not expectantly, i felt sadness hearing heartache songs, sad songs and i dunno, i instantly imagine my bb boy and bb girl having this kind of heartache situations. Songs knocked me more are "I will always Loved you" by W. Houston and "When you're gone" by A. Lavigne. I really breaks my heart.

Please hope and continue praying everyday that Rob and Kristen are doing OK, that they are coping up, work whats better for them. For all of this, 6 words i have learned to be who we are: COMPASSION, UNDERSTANDING, ACCEPTANCE, FORGIVENESS, RESPECT AND LOVE.

Thank you so much. I am still here, we will all be still here, supporting them. God bless us all!

parker said...

Nicely put Rose. I haven’t posted here much but I’ve been visiting this blog every day since I discovered R/K just this past February. Even for that short time, I have come to really admire & love these two people and I was so saddened to hear about the news this week.

I had to drink 5 shots of whiskey for 2 nights just so I could sleep. I don’t know how two people I barely know could affect me so. But I’m finally calming down now.

I don’t hate Kristen – I feel sorry and sad for her. I don’t condone what she did – she’s my age and I have had my share of mistakes for the past few years so I can’t cast that stone. Hindsight is always 20/20. In the heat of the moment, it’s sometimes easy to lose your head as logic and reasoning takes a backseat. But learning lessons the hard way is part of life. Even people much older than me still make mistakes. I believe that, despite all the vicious haters out there, right now no one hates Kristen more than Kristen herself. So I hope people can give her a break. I think she did the mature thing of owning up to it right away.

I really admire Rob for his principle and steadfastness. And I hope Rob, being the class act that he is, will find it in his heart to forgive her someday. It will be a long road ahead but if it was really true love, you won’t turn your back just like that – it’s part of the victim’s healing process as well. I’m positive that even if they go their separate ways, they will be able to put this past them and move on. Time is a great healer.

Stay strong Rob and Kristen – there are many real people out there who are not judgmental and are willing to give second chances.

Berry said...

Thank you Rose...and your dad is a smat man!!!

katy said...

I would never turn my back on someone who needed help...so, no I would not turn my back on Kristen, if she need my help.

I truly believe Kristen is hurting and feels sorry for what she did...now, it is up to Rob and Rob only to decide whether is wants to forgive her or not. I am hoping for the best....but I guess it not an easy dicision.

What kills me, it's the thougth that people are sad and hurting...Rob...and yes, Kristen, as well....but especially Rob...the thought of him hurting somewhere, is UNBEARABLE to me.

brivera_1999 said...

Thank you so much for your post. I agree with you 100%. We are all hurting but nothing compares to what they are all going thru right now. Pointing our finger to one or the other won't help us or them. Lets pray that everything works out for them and that whatever the decision is we stand by them. I will love Robsten forever even though I was not feeling like this when I first heard about it. My prayer are with them and all of us who have felt the pain. Thank you again.

bluetiffanyxoxo said...

@ dreamer

mind if i join you in posting songs?

This Time I'll Be Sweeter lyrics
Send "This Time I'll Be Sweeter" Ringtone to your Cell
Songwriters: GUTHRIE, GWENDOLYN


Darling can't you see
What losing you has done to me
Im not the same girl i used to be
Have a change of heart
Don't leave me standing in the dark
Don't let confusion keep us apart
Come back to me and i'll guarantee
All the tenderness and love you'll ever need]


(Chorus)
This time i'll be sweeter
Our love will run deeper
I won't mess around
I won't let you let down
Have faith in me
Have faith in me


Since you've been away
I haven't seen the light of day
Im lost without you can't find my way
So won't you please be fair
And let me show how much i care
Say you'll be mine and answer my prayer
Come back to me
And I promise I'll be
Everything's that bright
And new your whole life through
(Chorus) 2x

Monica said...

Dear Rose,

I wake up from my 3rd sleepless night and visit your blog. I have tears in my eyes reading this beautiful post. Thank you, thank you so much. I find comforting here. Compassion is a human nature. When you see someone hurting (not just Rob but Kristen too; thx for acknowledging that), you can't help the urge to offer help.

As for people who emphasize Kristen should be taught for a lesson for her to grow. Well, practically, everyone outside is doing that. But sometimes, enough is enough. I am sure Kristen is living in the biggest regret of her life now.

Rob and Kristen, I wish them the best.

Peers, I hope you find peace in your hearts.

Monica from Asia

Kerri-Lyn said...

Great post and so true!! Geez I feel like I broke up with my boyfriend!! I never realized how involved I was until I saw the tweet Tuesday night and did not sleep.

Sad for all parties involved but need to Thank You for all that you do/did for the fandom!!

Hopefully this will not be your last post :(

Nora said...

Well said as always...but my heart still ache for rob. Being the man he is as he said in all his interviews robsten probably wont survive this. All i can do is pray and hope and wait.... :-((

Robin said...

Thanks so much for posting again today Rose. You have so much wisdom.

I've been wandering around like a sad zombie since this all happened. I have loved Rob and Kristen so much and am realizing how over-invested in their relationship I've been.

Some people wake up, get a cup of coffee and sit down to watch/read/listen to the news each morning. For three years I got my coffee and sat down at the computer to get my daily dose of R&K.

I was surprised when my husband put his arms around me this morning and said kindly,"The situation with those Twilight kids has really kicked your butt, hasn't it?" I haven't said a word to him about this. He's a truly wonderful guy, and obviously he's more observant and more compassionate than I gave him credit for.

Whatever happens with Rob and Kristen -- and I so wish them strength and peace -- I think my new mantra will be "balance." I need to find some.

dianne wolfenbarger said...

Rose, thank you for your eloquent words and for continuing to provide a place for us to share. I feel so sorry for Rob and Kristen. It seems that he has such a strong support group and once he leaves the embarrassment behind and sees that Kristen had probably reached some sort of breaking point due to the extreme weight she carries, he may realize that she will need help from him to begin her recovery. She seems to be much harder on herself than anyone else could ever be. Even Evil Rupert said in an interview that she seems to carry such a heavy weight and that she carries it alone. He should have known better than to take advantage of such a young soul. Rob has said that she is the smartest, strongest, sweetest girl that he knows. I hope he can remember that in time. I also hope that her support group will remain supportive, caring and vigilant and that they will pay close attention to her in the weeks and months to come. I imagine she must be completely devastated and the media and Hollywood moguls will probably be relentless in their harrassment. I hope peace for them both.

DreamerKind said...

@Ginger & bluetiffanyxoxo

Oh, goodie, more music, co-dj's, and happy to be with you. Anyone can post songs here, I just have all the time in the world, to do it, more often, and all day/night long!

Should I post the actual performances of the songs from You Tube or would you do that along with the lyrics? It is so nice to copy the link, and hear the actual song while reading the lyrics at the same time. What ya say?

By the way, I'm gonna listen to those two selections!

pedrd1 said...

Rose!!!
You have touched with this blog all the thoughts I've been having about this terrible thing! They deserve compassion from all of us and it's been time for all of us that call ourselves fans to step down and let them deal with this on their own terms. I will personally continue to support them in all their future projects whatever happens. They are a couple that have demonstrated nothing but admiration at the support they receive from us, with that statement I retire and hope for the best resolution. Thanks for such kind words amidst all the turbulence of insults. @perdr1

Ginger with a Soul said...

Here is the link for Love Hurts

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Wy-S2WrX-8o

Ironically the name of Rose's Blog as well

DreamerKind said...

@bluetiffanyxoxo
What a glorious voice Angela Bofill has and it is such an affecting song! Thanks.

@Freddie
You'd love this singer's style!

*I*Believe* said...

I heard Flightless Bird today......just heartbreaking :(

chepsee said...

How many of you would like sitting at home reading people talk about YOUR life? You all say you care about Kristen, that much is obvious so why are you all GOSSIPING about your precious Kristen? Just because you aren't talking bad about someone doesn't mean you're NOT gossiping!

You're all sitting around like a bunch of clucking hens talking about what you think happened or what you believe someone should do when in reality it has NOTHING WHATSOEVER TO DO WITH YOU OR YOUR LIVES. Just because you feel like you know someone does NOT mean you have the right to sit around and discuss their personal business EVEN if you're not putting them down, you're talking about THEIR LIVES, as if you have some kind of right to stick your nose into their business, and doing it in loving tones doesn't make it any less intrusive or repulsive.

I have seen more hypocritical bullshit happening on this blog over the last few days and it is sickening, you all think you're so open minded and supportive...but you're only open minded with people who think the way you do, loving towards people who hold the same beliefs as you do.You all talk about how you appreciate someone's comments...BULLSHIT You appreciate someone's comments if and ONLY if those comments mirror yours.

You're all so fucking willing to 'forgive' but ONLY if it's Kristen. You haven't shown one ounce of kindness orforgiveness for other people who have 'made mistakes' in the past.

Where was all of the FORGIVENESS then? Where was the indignant outrage whenever you saw a comment from someone who you ALL adore that was designed to make it look as if someone who had suffered a tragic loss in their life had somehow lied about the whole thing for attention? Where was you compassion when someone came on to the blog and would ask questions like "I don't understand why it is that Kristen wore that outfit." and you attacked them like a pack of rabid dogs, descending upon someone who had committed a unforgiveable sin. Where was your KINDNESS when told that a comment that had been posted on this blog which caused outrage against someone who had been a friend, was copied and put on a hometown website along with all of the cruel words said to them? WHERE WAS YOUR OUTRAGE THEN?


How many of you have turned your back on people you called 'friends' because they don't agree that this is a tragedy of epic proportions?



You all act as if because Kristen is YOUNG it excuses her when in reality it doesn't

But the thing...that has PISSED ME OFF THE MOST IS THIS....this is not a FUCKING tragedy. A Tragedy is a psycho taking a gun into a midnight screening and shooting 72 people killing men, women, and children. A TRAGEDY is a mother who makes her 5th year anniversary from having Breast Cancer to find out 3 weeks later she has stage 4 ovarian cancer. A Child shot at a theater because she wanted to see Batman, a mother whose daughter tells her that after 3 years of trying to get pregnant she is finally going to have a baby, only to have her daughter be hit by a drunk driver on the way home and killed instantly..

A starlet who cheats on her boyfriend who ADORES her with a married man is not a FUCKING TRAGEDY. A celebrity couple you don't know who breaks up is NOT A FUCKING TRAGEDY.

Quit your fucking clucking and whinning and gossiping, get up off your asses and leave this couple you all profess to LOVE so much alone and let them handle this because it's their fucking business and NOT your's. NO ONE DIED...it's not a tragedy.

IF YOU HEAR A LOUD POP THAT'S YOUR HEAD COMING OUT OF YOUR ASS.

Barbara Fenwick said...

Rose, so good to see your post today. During these horrible times, we need to stick together.

My heart breaks for Rob, because I know he is hurting so badly. As for Kristen, I have always loved her and I still do. I don't condone what she did, although I do not understand it, but I cannot turn my back on her. I think she needs help also.

I hope Rob and Kristen will make it through this together..I know the love is there, but it will take time and lots of hard work.

All of this has broken my heart as well,and I feel like I haven't smiled in days. I know lots of you feel the same way. I will continue to support both Rob and Kristen, no matter what happens in the future.

Take care, and see you next time.

Ginger with a Soul said...

I think this song makes me the saddest but yeah, I love love music so I will sit beside you in that DJ chair

"Breathe Me"

Help, I have done it again
I have been here many times before
Hurt myself again today
And, the worst part is there's no-one else to blame

Be my friend
Hold me, wrap me up
Unfold me
I am small
I'm needy
Warm me up
And breathe me

Ouch I have lost myself again
Lost myself and I am nowhere to be found,
Yeah I think that I might break
I've lost myself again and I feel unsafe

Be my friend
Hold me, wrap me up
Unfold me
I am small
I'm needy
Warm me up
And breathe me

Be my friend
Hold me, wrap me up
Unfold me
I am small
I'm needy
Warm me up
And breathe me


http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=hSH7fblcGWM

Tigerlily said...

My Dear Rose,

You are a voice of reason to so many. Thank you for your posts.
What a sad few days it has been. Particularly for the pain that Rob & Kristen are no doubt experiencing and those closest to them.
But I have to say the level and nature of the judgement on Kristen has shocked me and disgusted me.
How would we feel if thousands of people publically commented on our behavior - mistakes- with such vitriol.
I believe that no one can judge us harsher than we judge ourselves. I truly hope that Kristen does not feel alone & that she is surrounded by those that love her , and they are able to help her through this very difficult time.

As a fan I have seen enough of Kristen to know that she is a good & kind person. She does not deserve this level of judgement. Yes it was a huge mistake , but we all make them at times in our lives , most of us can do this with a relative degree of privacy. Unfortunately for Kristen this is playing out in front of so many.

I truly hope this experience hasn't broken this beautiful girl & that she can get through this with firstly the love of her family and also her league of fans who still support & love her.

I equally hope that the lovely Robert is able to heal.

Hi to all. It is nice to be able to come here and share all your comments :)
X

bluetiffanyxoxo said...

@ginger such a sad song.....


my heart feels for her and rob (and destiny of course!)

but for the first time.....i feel hopeful. :)

Ginger with a Soul said...

@Chepsee - Please before you spout any crap about what happened the night of July 20th maybe you should read a few comments as I myself live in Aurora and another lady Sydney lives in Denver so I know what a tragedy is. 70 not 72 people where hurt in that attack and many more spared by the sheer grace of God that night. I got called in the middle of the night from my ex husband in hysterics because our daughter and her fiance were supposed to be at that show - he just didn't know she opted out to study for mid terms. They had 1 friend who died, 3 that were shot and many kids who I have know since they were 5 that still cannot talk about what they saw because they were there and will have that in their heads forever. I complained that the media outlets have made this (the cheating story)their prime story over true news stories and they should be your target to bitch at. I get you don't like Kristen (only a hater uses precious in that tone) but you knew what was being written in here so why act like you are in shock and awe. Let He Who Is Without Sin Cast The First Stone

DreamerKind said...

@chepsee
Sorry you've been hurt by something that happened here. Can't figure out what, from your references, but it doesn't matter really. We are individuals, night and day, human all the way. No one wins, all are still in the game. We're trying, join in.

DreamerKind said...

@Ginger
Once again, perspective from you is so helpful and necessary. Thank you and peace to your family and all who suffer.

30 said...

Your comment was WAY nicer than the one I just had up and was about to post DK. lol

Yeah AH ditto on what DK said!

:X

*I*Believe* said...

God Bless America and everyone! We are so blessed to have freedom of speech so we can state our opinions, whatever they may be.

DreamerKind said...

@Ginger
We, as big time dj's need a stage, lights and hq sound system! Dance party coming up soon, when we can dance.

DreamerKind said...

@30
High five! You once forgave my stupidity, right here on this blog, and I so appreciate that and you.

LIZ said...

ROSE, THANK YOU. I've said it here many times over the last couple of days, thank you for being here for us. Your post always helps us because it's always the words we were thinking but don't know how to put together.

Adriana Castro -- BRAVO!! I, too, believe that they'll survive in the end IF they love each other as much as we think they do. Only time will tell.

Laurieo76 -- YES, she made a mistake and everyone has their own opinions. I don't believe this was an ongoing fling, there has been nothing to substantiate that fact, only some speculation. She used horrible judgement, as a lot of 22 year olds are known to do. We are all forgetting that RS was basically her superior and we don't know the details. The pics appear to show him as the agressor AND the one who set the papz on their trail.

I love you, Kristen and Rob. We will accept them no matter what.

DreamerKind said...

@IB
Here! Here!

Remember when we had just such a free speech challenge here on Roseland, and we discussed who and what could be posted, or if outside interests could tear down those rights?

Lots of concise rhetoric and some arm twisting in cyberlife, blew the obstructionists, out of our Land (of the free and home of the brave-to this day!).

Holy said...

THANK YOU ROSE FOR YOUR WORDS AND HUGS TO EVERYONE.

I have tears reading your post and I know Rose that you will not abandon Kristen.Kristen needs all the help right now.

My heart is breaking for both Rob/Kristen.But I worry that Kristen will probably not be able to forgive herself, for what she did for Rob .I just hope that she will take a time off from work and focus saving her relationship with Rob.I also hope that Rob will be able to forgive her.

@Ginger with a Soul,I agree with you she wanted Rob's forgiveness that's why she said it publicly that she loves Rob.And Freddie was right I hope that the people around Rob will put his needs first that work.

Lynne Knowles said...

Your dad is a wise man...and his daughter is well...HIS daughter.
Thank you for all the smiles, giggles, and especially TWIRLS! We shall do it all again.

luckystrike87 said...

I posted something when this first happened and it was still raw so I might have said more than I should have so I've just been lurking and processing until things were clearer.

I'm not criticizing because I can see you all have definite opinions but I wonder if some of you have considered that the reason you want Rob and Kristen to work things out is because you want it, not because it's best for them. Someone said this has been like a hobby and I think she's right.
Im going to guess that Rob doesn't like Kristen very much right now. Have you heard anyone say I love you but I don't like you at all right now?

I don't know what the future holds but all i can say is if she gets near Rob again she damn well better get rid of that Mini cooper.

DreamerKind said...

Lots Of Time For Good Smelling

Stop And Take The Time To Smell The Roses

Ringo Starr:
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=SGgmA7tkDlY

One, two, three, four.
Stop and take the time to smell the roses,
I said, stop and take the time to fill your noses,

Stop as you stroll through life
("pitter patter, pitter patter")
Stop and take the time to talk it over with your wife.

I said, stop and take the time, take the time to read the label,
Stop, you must remember Clark and Betty Grable.

Stop, there's no train to catch, No there isn't, rose!
No, no, no.

Come on, ev'rybody, you've gotta stop!
Stop on the highway,
Stop when you're in your car on that highway,

Roll down your window,
Look for a man in a porsche and say,
"Fuck it, brother, let's get out and walk, let's go! Can you hear me?"

Stop,
Stop when you're in your ford cortina
You know when you're accident prone,
Nobody likes you.
Wave to a man in a rolls
'Cause he knows how to live, ha! Ha!...

Well, I said, stop and take the time to stop that smoking,
Stop, there's no train to catch,
You won't be blue.
You, you, you.

"Well, I was walking down the street the other day,
You know, and I said to myself, What's all this hurry,

What's all this hustle and bustle.
Why don't I just stop, look at the pretty roses,

Smell them for one moment, take the time to see,
Take the time to smell, have a good time in life.

Don't let ev''rything pass you by, you're only here once
And I've been here longer than most of you."

So stop and take the time to buy this album,
So I can plant roses and smell them all day long.
Stop ev'rything you're doing,
Run to your local record shop and say,

"Give me that record called 'stop'"
I'm going crazy with this record business,
I wanna stop it, you want me to stop it,
Ev'rybody wants it to stop.

Well, I'm leaving you now,
'Cause I just got to stop.
I'm gonna stop it now.

Thank you/piggies1

Boogie with Stew said...

Hello my Rosie friends
DK..30..IB...and some newer folks I am meeting along the way.. Howdy ...

help my menapaue mind..WTF is chesppe talking about? I know I pop in and out..

I am the eternal & hopeful romantic....

DreamerKind said...

@luckystrike87
Mini Cooper-poof! Gone and forgotten, if the end result is desired by them.

Me, I want what they want, and what they want, they know.

So, I am free, you see, and only being here, for the asking, and to play sweetly.

Oneheart said...

Thanks Rose for giving us something to think about. Everyone is upset with Kristen and anger is all around but no one is probably more angry and hating on herself more than she is. How many times must she be kicked while she's down till it will feel good to everyone. When will it be enough.

Today I was reminded by someone who is very wise that none of us are perfect. So I asked myself why do those we look up to have to be. We all have our sins whether they be public or private.

We have no idea what these two are going through. We don't know them personally. All we know is what we see. We saw a love that we thought was perfect, but the truth is nothing is perfect and when we lay that down at a couple's feet, how in the world are they ever going to live up to it.

They didn't ask any of us to be guardians of their love, we took it upon ourselves to watch everything that happened in their lives. When this happened fans and haters did everything but crucify Kristen. While the one person who truly loves her remained silent. Rob is wise. If he had spoke in anger to the media and on the internet like everyone else what great pain they both would have felt, with possibly no hope of healing. Doors would have been closed that could have remained opened.

It's their lives and their hearts are involved, we need to let the only sounds they hear be their thoughts and their decisons. No matter how much you are hurting, dying inside, and no matter how much the one you love has hurt you, you never want to hear words spoken in anger and filled with hate being said about them. Love hurts..it always has and it always will.

"Love that survives dark and troubled roads will create a bond that the easy path can never know." Grant D. Fairley

bellabells7279 said...

I love both Rob and Kristen and I will never change my feelings for them.

Oneheart said...

I forgot to say that YES I WOULD HELP KRISTEN.

30 said...

Hi Boogie! :) I missed you all to be honest. My life has been a bit crazy and I have been out of the loop too, and I haven't heard any pops out of my ass so I think I am all good health wise. lol

luckystrike87 said...

Ok, 30, that was funny.

DreamerKind said...

Give And Receive

A Song For The Asking

Simon & Garfunkel (Live 1969):
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=m-3BOruHq10

Here is my song for the asking
Ask me and I will play
So sweetly, I'll make you smile

This is my tune for the taking
Take it, don't turn away
I've been waiting all my life

Thinking it over, I've been sad
Thinking it over, I'd be more than glad
To change my ways for the asking

Ask me and I will play
All the love that I hold inside

Thank you/mwebber69

*I*Believe* said...

I totally agree about that Mini Cooper!

*I*Believe* said...

BTW, I remember Kristen saying she was renting cars bc the Mini Cooper gave her away and she was being followed all the time...I wonder what changed and why she was driving it again......I'm just thinking out loud...no judgement here.

Boogie with Stew said...

@30 howdy gf.. congrads on your nuptials love the pics you post on fb.. sometimes it takes something sad or bad to bring good friends back together ... I am multi tasking wathcing the opening ceremonies of the Olympics..

Kathy said...

@Oneheart...LOVE your post. You're absolutely right.

Boogie with Stew said...

I'm feeling Beatleasik...is that a word? oh well all that know me know I ain't right...


When I find myself in times of trouble
Mother Mary comes to me
Speaking words of wisdom, let it be

And in my hour of darkness
She is standing right in front of me
Speaking words of wisdom, let it be

Let it be, let it be
Let it be, let it be
Whisper words of wisdom
Let it be

And when the brokenhearted people
Living in the world agree
There will be an answer, let it be

For though they may be parted
There is still a chance that they will see
There will be an answer, let it be

Let it be, let it be
Let it be, let it be
Yeah, there will be an answer let it be


Let it be, let it be
Let it be, let it be
Whisper words of wisdom
Let it be

Let it be, let it be
Let it be, yeah, let it be
Whisper words of wisdom
Let it be

And when the night is cloudy
There is still a light that shines on me
Shine on until tomorrow, let it be

I wake up to the sound of music
Mother Mary comes to me
Speaking words of wisdom, let it be

Yeah, let it be, let it be
Let it be, yeah, let it be
There will be an answer, let it be

Let it be, let it be
Let it be, yeah, let it be
Whisper words of wisdom
Let it be

30 said...

Boogie Thank you:) Speaking of the hubby he is going to be home any second and I better at least say "hello" and get off the internet for a bit. He has no idea the hours I have spent on this page. lol

Boogie with Stew said...

@ Dk... Dj the nite away my friend, music is a great healer..

DreamerKind said...

@Oneheart
Ti adoro! Silence is wise and golden, worth more than words or fine gems.

angelica1 said...

30 - I had hoped you might have had an ass popping wedding :)

Boogie with Stew said...

@ 30 I so understand you are still in newlywed mode... giggles

Samhadi said...

Kristen please be strong. We Love you so much

luckystrike87 said...

I believe,

That does certainly pose a question like a lot of what happened does. Why go to a secluded lot, why take your car, why drive to multiple places.

Not judging, just questioning.

Boogie with Stew said...

now that's funny

Ginger with a Soul said...

My heart can't take the sad anymore for today so here is the question?

"Are You In"

It’s so much better
When everyone is in
Are you in?
It’s so much better
When everyone is in
Are you in?
Oooooh oooooh
Are you in?
Youuuuuu ooooh
Are you in?

It’s so much better
When everyone is in
Are you in?
It’s so much easier
When sea foam green is in fashion
Yooouuuhhhh yooouuuooh
Are you in?
Yooouuuuh oooh oooh ooh
Are you in?

Are you
are you
are you
are you
are you
are you
are you
are you
are you
are you
are you
are you
are you
are you
are you
are you
are you
are you
(everybody everybody in)
(oooh oooh ooh)

Yoooouuuuuuh ooh
Are you in?
Yooouuuuuuuh ooh
Oooh

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=M90tA302X3k

DreamerKind said...

@Boogie
Ain't that the truth and so you are right! Think your mind is just fine, same thinking along the same lines, as mine. Both of us dizzy with stardust sniffing.

Monica said...

@OneHeart, well said, well said~

Monica from Asia

Boogie with Stew said...

good one Ginger with a Soul ..
yep I'm in....the light bulb is a tad dim..but it's on

DreamerKind said...

@Ginger
I'm so in, I'm out! Meaning I need a lavender soaking to cover up my smell (ooh, that smell). Off I go for a while. Forward march!

Boogie with Stew said...

@ Dk you're the bestest..we travel the same cosmos...... my saying for the summer ...it is what it is...

Boogie with Stew said...

happy soaking DK... some bubbly for the bubbles...

Ginger with a Soul said...

ok one more - not to sad but yeah

Avril Lavigne

"Wish You Were Here"

[Verse 1:]
I can be tough
I can be strong
But with you
It's not like that at all
There's a girl
That gives a shit
Behind this wall
You just walked through it

[Pre-Chorus:]
And I remember all those crazy things you said
You left them running through my head
You're always there, you're everywhere
But right now I wish you were here.
All those crazy things we did
Didn't think about it, just went with it
You're always there, you're everywhere
But right now I wish you were here

[Chorus:]
Damn, Damn, Damn,
What I'd do to have you
Here, here, here
I wish you were here.
Damn, Damn, Damn
What I'd do to have you
Near, near, near
I wish you were here.

[Verse 2:]
I love
The way you are
It's who I am
Don't have to try hard
We always say
Say it like it is
And the truth
Is that I really mi-I-iss

[Pre-Chorus:]
All those crazy things you said (things you said)
You left them running through my head (through my head)
You're always there, you're everywhere
But right now I wish you were here.
All those crazy things we did (things we did)
Didn't think about it, just went with it (went with it)
You're always there, you're everywhere
But right now I wish you were here

[Chorus:]
Damn, Damn, Damn,
What I'd do to have you
Here, here, here
I wish you were here.
Damn, Damn, Damn
What I'd do to have you
Near, near, near
I wish you were here.

[Bridge:]
No, I don't wanna let go
I just wanna let you know
That I never wanna let go

(Let go let go let go let go)

No, I don't wanna let go
I just wanna let you know
That I never wanna let go

(Let go let go let go let go let go let go let go)

[Chorus:]
Damn, Damn, Damn,
What I'd do to have you
Here, here, here
I wish you were here (I wish you were here)
Damn, Damn, Damn
What I'd do to have you
Near, near, near
I wish you were here.

Damn, Damn, Damn (Damn)
What I'd do to have you
Here, here, here (Here)
I wish you were here.
Damn, Damn, Damn
What I'd do to have you
Near, near, near
I wish you were here.


http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=VT1-sitWRtY

Boogie with Stew said...
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Boogie with Stew said...

crap see I'm a ditz ..good one Ginger with a Soul.. oh lord and I haven't had a glass of wine..

DreamerKind said...

Quickie "Pop" Bop

MMMBop

Hanson:
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=NHozn0YXAeE

(No lyrics-Am underwater)

Thank you/HansonVEVO

Melanie Sapthina said...

Maybe this is kind of OOC here. But i read @ libenet, that Rob, Kristen and Taylor will presenting award on MTV Music Awards on sept 6th. Let's not get judgemental here. I will support them. And will be glad for every step they'll take.

I just want them to be OK (individually)

I have a big HOPE. Rob is man with a big heart

Ginger with a Soul said...

Oh lord I lied one more

Kings of Leon

Cold Desert

I’m on the corner, waiting for a light to come on
That’s when I know that you’re alone
It’s cold in the desert, water never sees the ground
Special unspoken without a sound
You told me you loved me
That I’d never die alone
Hand over your heart, let’s go home
Everyone noticed, everyone has seen the signs
I’ve always been known to cross lines
I never ever cried when I was feeling down
I’ve always been scared of the sound
Jesus don’t love me and no one ever carried my load
I’m too young to feel this old
Here’s to you, here’s to me
On to us, nobody knows, nobody sees, nobody but me


http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=UA7RKyTSNrs

Melanie Sapthina said...

Maybe this is OOC. But I just found out Robert, Kristen and Taylor will presenting award on MTV Music Awards on sept 6th.
Hope everything will be ok then (individually), I will support them, and won't be judgemental for every step they will take.
Rob is a man with a big big heart, I believe in Rob.....

Melanie Sapthina said...

Oops sorry.....didn't mean to post twice

Boogie with Stew said...

love those dudes...

I read Rob is going to be doing Promo stuff for COSMOPOLIS
in August and he got another movie deal for Rover.. and Kris will be doing Cali...to me they stay so damn buzy.....

Holy said...

@Boggie with Stew,holysh@t I like how your mind works.

I agree, that mini cooper needs to go.

To all our DJ's, thanks you guys for all the songs you're sharing us.

Boogie with Stew said...

@ Holy thanks .. I swear I can't remember if we met so hello.. and if so Hi again I think I am in the begining stages of oldtimers...baaahhhaa..

Mini.... toooodles...a nice shiney volvo.. I know I know I'm bent...

*I*Believe* said...

Great Britain just entered Olympic Stadium....can't help but think of Rob. Oh and Tom too.

Boogie with Stew said...

love it love the David Bowie song and the those jackets..yep thinking of those lads... Howdy IB...

faa said...

Dear Dreamerkind,
Thank you so much for your hugs and kisses. It made my day. I feel way better than yesterday.
I also wish I could be there with you too. And Rose. And all of us.
May times heal all of us and both of them.

Boogie with Stew said...

@ faa hello ...yeah DK she's the bestet... glad you are feeling better... just breath

Boogie with Stew said...

Artic Monkeys rockin the Beatles song come together and the groovy glow wings in the bikes ...

Boogie with Stew said...

meant on the bikes...

*I*Believe* said...

The flying guy looked like ET.

Boogie with Stew said...

ditto IB

tyas titisari said...

Hello everyone, forgive me for not introducing myself previously when i made comments yesterday. I'm from Indonesia. I follow your blog rose, all the time, I made comments but not until now I registered using my name. Because I need to have, like some of you already pointed out, a SUPPORT GROUP.

Allow me to be a bit ramble, out of your posting context rose. I'm shocked how this event is affecting me. And knowing that I share the same intense feeling or even physical (like nuasea, vomiting, can not sleep, lost of appetite), with many individuals here, is a real comfort. I thought, I'm literealy going insane. Even my husband is raising his eye brows witnessing I collapsed like that.

We are all in different part of the world, but yet sharing the same thing. I guess somewhat its quite a miracle. Love and respect all of you here. Hope the pain in our chest will ease as the time goes by. May ROB & kristen have all the care and warmth of their loved ones now, and soon find peace and recover from the wound someday. It will leave scars, but at least it will stop from bleeding.

LIZ said...

I just heard that there are still more photos to come out. Originally, I heard that Famous mag was going to publish 50 pics on Monday. Then the 49 pics came out yesterday so I thought that was all of them. If more pics come out, it will KILL him. By Monday, he could actually be coming to terms with everything, so to add more pics will be like ripping a bandaid.

Praying for them both to find some peace. I agree, Rob seems to have a big heart. I really hope he'll let his heart lead and not his head in this instance. I think he should give her a second chance or he'll always wonder if he did everything he could to make it work. Of course, that's assuming that she loves him as much as we think she does.

faa said...

@Ginger, count me in!

Dear Rose,
thank you so much for your words. Thank you so much also for giving us a safe harbour here to find shelter with each.
I will do what all of us do, give times to heal and compassion to feel.
I love Rob and Kristen. I definitely ready to slay dragons of press with my sword for him; if I can do that.
As for Kristen, I am not turning my back from her. Not before when the world scrutinized her every moves, not now when the world is so ready to crucify her; and not ever, no matter in what condition all of this might be.
May all the force be with them both.

Boogie with Stew said...

la la la la la Hey Jude,,,

*I*Believe* said...

The torch is cool...do you think it will stay like that in the middle of the arena?

Wildhart007 said...

Paul. Mccartney singing "Hey Jude " at the end of the Olympic opening ceremony was wonderful

Wildhart007 said...
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Boogie with Stew said...

Hey Wildhart howdy .. that was awesome...very touching..

Boogie with Stew said...

@ IB not sure how it can stay in the middle of the stadium? good question

Boogie with Stew said...

*I* Believe & Wildhart hope you all sitll remember me? I know I have been MIA for awhile ..hope all is well with you ladies...

Wildhart007 said...

Hi! Boogie and IB
Been so long took me forever to figure out how to delete a comment on the Kindle so had to switch back to the laptop.

Annie said...

Yes! In a heartbeat I would help Kristen....... and Rob too.

KL said...

Sue, you said everything in my heart. I'm crying now,too. Damn..

Boogie with Stew said...

howdy ... Kindle how do ya like it?

Loui White said...

So....I truly do appreciate that Rose and so many here want to 'be there' for Kristen. I get that there is a lot of hate directed at her right now, and that supporting her in her time of 'need' is important. I'm not trying to negate that, but I have to say that I feel like this post and many of the comments seem to be placing Rob and what he is going through to the side, almost as an after thought in relation to Kristen. I'm sure that is not the intention, just how it may seem, at least to me.
DK - there are some songs that keep circling my mind when I consider Rob's feelings in this. I hope you don't mind, but I want to dedicate them to him, and I know how much you appreciate lyrics - just as I do. On that note: The Beetle's - "I Just Don't Understand", "While My Guitar Gently Weeps", "Yesterday", "There's A Place", "P.S. I Love You", are for him. Please don't interpret this as somehow against Kristen, I just feel like Rob deserves some comfort in all of this as well.

Holy said...

@Boggie with Stew,yes I'm a lurker here for a long time,I seldom post a comments,but I enjoy/love/laugh all the times when reading everybody's post.

Wildhart007 said...

Boogie It has been awhile for both of us. I went thru a traumatic bit that I will spare you the details.

Love my Kindle. I carry it everywhere. It gets the web and has room for all my favorite books.

IB I was wondering about the flame in the middle when they were lighting it. Hope you are doing well.

LIZ said...

Loui White -- I can understand why you might feel the way you feel about our comments. Not sure how long you've been reading but over the past few days there have been about 800 comments. So, we have "evolved" so to speak.

I, for one, and believe I can speak for many of us here on Rose's blog, believe that Rob is going through HELL and he has to be in deep heartbreaking pain, almost indescribable pain. None of us are taking that lightly. However, in our comments, the reason that everyone is mentioning forgiving Kristen so much is because of what has happened to the fandom!!! We've lost (either permanent or temporarily) so many websites that have been around for a long time that it's amazing. Even the Kristen Stewart blogs have turned against her.... fair-weather fans, I think.

Hopefully, you understand better why so many comments appear as though we aren't thinking of Rob and that is not the case.

Good night, everyone!!! Maybe tomorrow will be better.

Boogie with Stew said...

Louie W ...good song choices.... I don't speak for everyone but the mindset is that Rob is broken hearted, no side stepping here... but he has a wonderful support system whilst Kristen perhaps doesn't and she is the one everyone i.e. other blogs and mags are blasting negativity...I think that is were all this is comming from...just sayin...

*I*Believe* said...

@Boogie~Yes! I remember you. I too have been MIA...real life, you know.

Boogie with Stew said...

@ Wildhart...sorry to hear you had some trama, hope things are on getting better... I myself have been dealing with alot... but when the dookie hit the fan .. I knew I could come back here and feel safe...Maybe Santa will bring me a Kindle...I will be back I gotta sign off ... it's been nice to see friends again even if it's the virtual world... take care my friend peace and love

fannygilmore said...

Rose, God bless you and your dad. It's so hard to comprehend, but I keep returning to the fact that she is only 22, and only been in two relationships.
I believe they do love each other and what they had was perfect for them these last four years.
I think Rob worshiped her, and maybe this mistake might be a good thing. It may make Kristen realize what he so freely gave her, and it might make Rob realize she's human with faults.
They may never be a couple again, but I'm a firm believer we end up where we are supposed to be.
This may, with some time, make their relationship stronger.
I wish them both peace and love.
Thanks Rose for your beautiful words.

PipDancer said...

When making the choice to let someone into the heart, a major risk is involved. I don't doubt Kristen's love for Rob. I think she loves him absolutely. When I look at the pictures, I see her pulling away when he is attempting to grab her chest from behind. The question of "Kristen, how could you!" becomes simple for me. She's young. She said herself that everything has come to her so easily that she wishes something would happen. Obviously her wish came true. I think she just needed to explore, to enjoy that she's attractive to others besides Rob. Keep in mind that she's only 22. I pray for a reconciliation because they are both young and they have a love greater than human frailties. They can overcome this. We are all such big fans of them because we know what a rarity their kind of love is. Rob knows it from previous relationships. Kristen is now learning. I hope pappz and media will give them the space they need, in order to cope, understand, and move forward. God bless them both. They need us in their corner now, not bashing Kristen. ~ Peace ~

Wildhart007 said...

Just wanted to say DK you are the bestest Fairy God Mother to everyone.

I'm sorry it took something like this to bring us all back together.

My motto is when you wake, it's a new day, a fresh start, full of possibilities. Make the most of it, ALWAYS!
And music always helps(smile)

Boogie with Stew said...

@ I B ...awesome... hope all is well with you as well... we all came home to Roseland...alot of awesome folks gather here...sorta like our virtual " cheers " pub if you will... I will return good nite.. take care...

*I*Believe* said...

Hi Wildheart!

Annie are you still here?

Wildhart007 said...

Nite Boogie

*I*Believe* said...

Bye Boogie!

Freddie said...

Louie - I do actually see where you are coming from and agree that Rob's pain shouldn't be dismissed or overlooked in our desire to support Kristen.

LIZ has explained the situation well I think.

Wildhart007 said...

Hi! IB understand the RL. Looking forward to watching the Olympics and moving forward

Wildhart007 said...

Freddie so good to see you here. I want to ask about your cat but am afraid.
Congrats on your promotion

*I*Believe* said...

Hi Freddie...you are coming and I am going...gonna hit the hay.

Rhonda said...

Thank you for this post, Rose <3

I would help her too...

Loui White said...

I'm not sure why the assumption is that Rob has a huge support system and Kristen doesn't. We don't even know where he is. Maybe he is by himself, suffering in silence. We can't know for sure. Her family and friends certainly seem to be a very real presence in her life. I doubt she is pouring over internet comments, and taking them to heart. I don't know how she is truly feeling, but I hope she feels half of what everyone here believes she is feeling. I don't see the evidence of it, just the supposition. I really like Kristen, this has just undermined my respect and opinion of her, to hurt someone so dear to her, so publicly. That being said, I truly pray that Rob can move beyond this pain and humiliation and forgive her. I believe that are meant for each other, and that this can ultimately be something that strengthens their relationship. Maybe I should add "Hey Jude" to my dedication. Thank you to all here who offer a 'safe harbor' for commenting and supporting this couple. Their love is worth it.

Freddie said...

IB - pleasant dreams, my friend. Hope to catch up with you soon.

Linda - so nice to see you pop by. We've missed you. I'm sorry to hear that you've had a difficult time. I hope that is a thing of the past for you now. Thanks for asking about my cat. He's still with me, but having some problems. Time is a precious thing.

I hope you keep popping in to visit with us.

Freddie said...

Oh – I so planned to stay out of this, but….

PipDancer – I respect your opinion but I can’t accept the notion of Kristen needing to explore as an acceptable premise for what she did. If she needed to explore then she needed to break it off with Rob beforehand, so that while hurt, he wouldn’t have been blindsided and publicly humiliated.

I certainly offer her my sympathy and compassion and I would WITHOUT hesitation help her if she needed it. She has a difficult road ahead and shouldn’t be vilified as she is. That doesn’t mean I like what she did.

Hey Rhonda – hope you are well.

Wildhart007 said...

Nite IB

Long time Rhonda my TN neighbor.

Loui Love is a rare and beautiful gift. We should all treasure every minute we experience of it. It can cause so much pain, also, but would you rather not experience it at all?

Wildhart007 said...

Freddie you always state things so beautifully. You and Olivia(smile)

I'm trying to stay on the side of it's none of my business, because it really isn't.

I understand that we are all in pain and we all have different ways of expressing it. I just wish for healing and hope for everyone. Life is to short.

Freddie said...

You are wise Linda. I really planned to do the same but I slipped. I share your wish for healing for all involved.

Wildhart007 said...

Freddie glad to hear Thomas is still around. Your stories of him howling were great.
Was hoping to chat with DK but I'm nodding out. Will try to stop by more often.

Rhonda said...

Hi Linda- it's good to see you here. How are you?

Hi Freddie- I'm good, thanks. Hope you are too :)

Melinda- enjoy your weekend!

Hope- yes, I love the beach too. We had a great time :)

DreamerKind said...

@Wildhart007
You kill me with your Self. Knew there was stress so sent you emails. No concerns, you matter to me, after all. Send a DM.

I am totally thrilled that we are all here, needing each other and the musica, of course.

@Ginger
I continually lie and post more songs, for divine inspiration strikes or insanity, you choose. I adore your passion.

I never listened to anyone, concerned with my happiness, who would give direction. Why would I?

I was in discovery mode, when young, and now I'm old and I am in assistance mode. Let me entertain you, let me make you smile, like that and serio stuff.

DreamerKind said...

@Rhonda
Are you here with me, now, dear?

DreamerKind said...

@Syd
I see you!

DreamerKind said...

@Rob
I am going to have a Boddington's, just between us, for I have it handy.

DreamerKind said...

Did I warn anyone or can you tell, I am under some damn kind of influence, having to do with taste and endurance?

@angelica1
You are sleeping, and hubs will be home soon or is, and I am toasting your love and not having back surgery thanks to champagne, yes? <3

Robgirl073 said...

Some of you were talking about more pics coming out....what I am afraid of is that they also have a video that they are holding onto for more money! That would be devastating......the paps are always videoing everything so why wasn't there a video??? Unless they still have it! I hope not for Rob's sake, the pics are already more than he should have had to see.

sam powell said...

Thanks for the post Rose. I think you have eloquently voiced out what a lot of us are feeling right now. Everyone needs compassion. I'm very saddened and dishearten by her actions as it isn't the Kristen that we know and love. I hate cheating and do not condone it but I can't and will not abandon her in times like these where I think she'll need our support the most.

I’m sad for Rob that he has to go through this excruciating pain of betrayal by the love of his life but from what we know of him, he is surrounded by a strong support system between his family and best buds. I do hope he will give himself time to register this shock and really sits down and talks to her; he will at least start the healing process.

As for Kristen, man, where do I start? I’m very, very sad, disappointed that she did what she did because she not only jeopardizes the best thing (person) that ever happened to her, but her career and life in general as well. It’s like she just gave up and threw everything away for what? A bloody fling. She had everything going for her and she just ‘f-ed' herself over.

I honestly worry for her because her actions seems so bizarre to what we know of her. Why did she do it? We don't know and probably never will, but it was just so self-destructive.. I don't think anyone hates her as much as she hates herself now and that's a very dangerous place to be in. I really hope that she gets the help that she need and will have a strong enough support system to journey with her during these dark periods of her life and really learn from this. The same goes for Rob. It will get worse before it gets better.

I really do wish for peace and quiet for the both of them so that they can have a clear mind to think things through. I'm a strong believer that everything happens for a reason. If this is the wake-up call needed for things to get better, so be it. They will continue to be in my prayers.

I honestly think that if they can get past this and work it out together, it'll be in it for the long haul. Praying and hoping for the best for their future.

Thanks Rose for keeping this blog alive!

DreamerKind said...

@Loui White
Rob deserves some songs and those are great and let's post them! Meanwhile, I will drink Heineken with Rob (join us everyone) and Becks and Guinness and you get the pic.
Plus Tom will join us and we will all bury our unbearables in hops, which totally works for days upon end.

After all, it's the third Olympics in Britain over a 100 year period and many are still alive, since the first time! Inspiration.

DreamerKind said...

@robgirl073
Money for nothing! Vids not free and we will not watch! Nice you care. Thanks, bud.

@sam powell
Welcome! Worse or better, who knows but good we wish for better.
Pics-smish and pish!

DreamerKind said...

Bullying-no tolerance and no effect and no difference and wait for the moment when we detach and freedom reigns for all, with loving, for certain.

I am so full of it, and it feels so full of It.

Love ya!

DreamerKind said...

From Loui White For Robert P

There's A Place

Beatles:
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=NHozn0YXAeE

There is a place,
Where I can go,
When I feel low,
When I feel blue.

And it's my mind,
And there's no time
When I'm alone.

I think of you,
And things you do,
Go 'round my head,
The things you said,
Like "I love only you."

In my mind there's no sorrow,
Don't you know that it's so.
There'll be no sad tomorrow,
Don't you know that it's so.

There is a place,
Where I can go,
When I feel low,
When I feel blue.
And it's my mind,

And there's no time
When I'm alone.
There's a place

Thank you/beatlesholic

mbogey1970 said...

Rose you made me cry..I love Kristen...no one is perfect and yes Rob and Kris need to work through there own problems and it hurts to see people trasking k the way they are.

mbogey1970 said...

Rose you made me cry..I love Kristen...no one is perfect and yes Rob and Kris need to work through there own problems and it hurts to see people trasking k the way they are.

mbogey1970 said...

Rose you made me cry..I love Kristen...no one is perfect and yes Rob and Kris need to work through there own problems and it hurts to see people trasking k the way they are.

DreamerKind said...

@mbogey1970
3 times is a charm! I do agree.

DreamerKind said...

Standing Room Only

On Holy Ground

Barbra Streisand:
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=xJh)OV4hgXM

When I walked
Through the doors
I sensed his presence

And I knew
This was a place
Where love abounds

For this is a temple
The god we love abides here
Oh we are standing
In his presence
On holy ground

We are standing
On holy ground
And I know
I know there are angels
All around

Let us praise
Praise god now
Praise him anyhow

For we are standing
In his sweet presence
On holy ground
In his presence

I know there is joy
Beyond all measure
And at his feet
Sweet peace of mind
Can still be found
Ooh...

For when we have a need
He is still the answer
Oh reach out and claim it

For we are standing
On holy ground
Are we standing
Yes its holy
Holy ground

In his holy wonderful presence
Hhe loves us in our hour of sorrow
He's our hope
Our hope for tomorrow

We are standing in his presence
On holy ground
Holy ground

Thank you/xanagu69

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