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Wednesday, July 29, 2015

Random Thoughts


Sometimes when I have time
(which hasn't been much lately
thank you summer from hell)
 I sift through my emails...
Twitter and read some blogs
And wonder why fandom things 
are so important to some people.

Beyond important.
Like...
Life and death important.
It's fucking serious and this is
Their fucking job important.
They will cry for you
die for you
important.

It's just a fandom.
That's all.

You live.
You learn.
And hopefully the lunatic fringe
will someday learn
that this shit doesn't matter.
Not really.
I learned it 3 years ago.
After being too invested in 2 people
and a relationship.
That wasn't mine.
It's like I woke up.

It's entertainment.
Camaraderie.
It's a hobby.
And shouldn't it be enjoyable?
Shouldn't it be about the laughs?
The fangirling over new projects?
If you're not having fun...
and find yourself angry and defensive 
ALL THE TIME
Why are you still here?

There was a lot of talk about photoshopping recently.
Well...not just recently.
It seems that every time there are pics 
of Rob/Twigs
or with anything that doesn't fit the "agenda"
THE PICS ARE FAKE!!!
(or old, staged... etc etc)

Take this one.


Supposedly this is a manipulated picture.
But why?
Rob walking to a car?
I can see how this is a damning picture
and why someone would want to change it!
If people are going to mess with pictures...
why wouldn't they at least be a bit creative?
Like maybe him and Twigs making out or something?
Hmmm.
I think I will add an extra hand to his reflection!
That's it! FOOLED YA!!!
Everyone will believe Rob is with Twigs now!!!
*insane cackling*


A pic of Beyonce walking by a car...
LOOKY THERE!
There's like a person with 3 faces in the reflection!
Why would they do that???
Are the paps manipulating everyone's pictures??
Or maybe with the curvature of the car
and the refraction of the light and movement...
stuff just gets bent and twisted in the reflection?
Could it be something as logical and simple as that?
Could it??
Can you imagine going thru endless pics
and trying to prove they are fake?

I'm not sure what people even get out
of all the lying and making shit up.
Fandom notoriety?
Hits on their blogs?
Attention they are lacking in their 'real' lives?
It reeks of needy desperation.
Truly.

Personally?
I'm 99.9% certain that Rob and Kristen
are no longer together
(And haven't been in over two years)
and most definitely have no children
(There has been zero evidence to tell me otherwise.)
I was on the "Robsten" ship for a LONG ass time.
And it took a fucking lot to get me off of it.
A lot.
I had to be pushed.
I held on as long as I could.
I loved them as a couple.
Nobody championed them harder than me. 
I loved watching them be in love.
Because I'm a sucker for that kinda stuff.
But when the party's over...
Its fucking over.
You know?
You have to accept it.

How about we promote this...


Because AMERICAN ULTRA is going to 
fucking rock.

Or how about EQUALS
(And fucking A if this picture doesn't make me angsty for this movie)


And Childhood of a Leader


(And yes... Beardy shaggy Rob is a good Rob)

BOTH being premiered at the
Venice Film Festival!

Bottom line?
Rob and Kristen are much more than Robsten.
They always have been.
I look back now...
and see that it had to happen this way.
It was full of drama
and it wasn't easy...
But change seldom is.
Both Rob and Kristen need to be known
For their career choices... As actors.
Not just a relationship.

And look at Kristen now!
She's so fucking bright and shiny 
and slaying the whole damn world.
And seriously
Has she EVER looked fucking better
or happier?



Can't you fucking GIVE her that?

And Rob...
He's going at his own pace.
And that's OK too.
It's what he wants to do.
It's where he wants to be.

They are both where they want to be.
Are they happy?
I hope so.
I think so.

And that's all we need to know.

This post is brought to you by


My constant admiration of Thomas Sturridge.
He might be going through stuff right now.
But I have to believe he will be all right.
Life does go on.

And this post is also brought to you by

Cecil the Lion.


It breaks my heart that he was stalked and hunted
for his fur... for fun.
A magnificent beautiful animal.
Can't people look at him and see he has feelings?
That he deserves to live as much as you or I?
He wasn't just a trophy.
Another inanimate object that you can kill
and hang on your wall.
The man who killed him willfully slaughtered him.
I say we take this dentist out in the wilderness...
lure him out of safety with false promise
Shoot him with a bow 
and then hunt him for days
until we finally shoot him 
skin him.
behead him.
Is that too harsh?
Possibly.
But maybe if these asshole hunters
Who kill for the thrill knew what it was like
To be stalked and hunted...
Knew the pain and agony that Cecil had to endure...
Maybe... Just maybe
They would realize that all living creatures have 
A fucking right to be here on this earth.

Until next time.

Bye for now

54 comments:

PDDmom said...

Robs feet don't touch the pavement in that pic. I know he is awesome but can he levitate? Kris always slays!

Rose said...

What could possibly be the reason to manipulate this picture?

live guest said...

Three things, what the f*ck is the problem of Rob walking to his car. The HKN people need to stop all their photo shopping sh*t. Second, my heart is absolutely breaking for the Killing of this magnificent creature. His cubs are now in jeopardy of being killed without the protection of their father. Third, everyone get out there to see Rob's three movies being promoted, Life, QOTD, and COAL to show your support.

Crystal said...

Every word is true.

Cory Ogden said...

That was a thoughtful mature post to put stuff in perspective you are comfortable with. With 1 exception, I totally agree with you. It should be about their work, K is totally a gorgeous women, and Cecil was a televised atrocity that happens to African critters all the time. Gorillas,orangs.,white rhino,and elephants bought to extinction for one reason of greed,ego,or whim.
Instead of bashing each other for the 1 difference , why can't we focus on our sameness. Seems a shame really.

DreamerKind said...

Friday and champagne! Rob & Kristen! Love!

live guest said...

Such good news of Rob's latest films, LCOZ, Good Time and Trap. Three already finished coming out now and these three for the start of 2016. Way to work it Rob.

ADD said...

American Ultra is just around the corner. So excited.

Jesse and Kristen - Funny Or Die. Brilliant!
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=NNQFJ-3BYI0

Em said...

It's been awhile ๐Ÿ’š๐Ÿ’š champagne kisses to u dreamer ๐Ÿ˜˜๐Ÿ˜˜

Super RN Gas Passer said...

HI ROSE and ROSELAND

I'm looking forward to the new releases and especially seeing them on a big screen !

DK. how about wave your wand and conjur us up a U.S. Release for Life the movie !?

EM. Glad to see you stopped by ! OK since this is cyberspace and I can't find a champagne icon these will have to suffice ๐Ÿท๐Ÿท๐Ÿท๐Ÿท๐Ÿท๐Ÿท๐Ÿท๐Ÿท๐Ÿท๐Ÿทone glass for each poster so far including me. Cheers ๐Ÿ˜Š

Barbara said...
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DreamerKind said...

@Em & Super

Cheers Super! Hi-de-ho Em! Everyone gets a piece of the sky, chasing that old sweet roll! Singing and waving the wand for all, always!

Blood, Sweat & Tears:
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=tiqoaK__hXw

live guest said...

Rob's trailer Life is out in two versions, English and French. Great trailer and beautiful role for Rob who seems very comfortable in this role. Check it out. You can't watch it just once. It's very good.

DreamerKind said...

@live guest
Yes! Life, at last! Excellent trailer and performances. Giddy up! Moo!

Super RN Gas Passer said...

Finally a Life trailer ๐Ÿ˜๐Ÿ˜๐Ÿ˜

...a fan said...

you are so good at this!!

Cory Ogden said...

Barb.was that necessary? Everyone else is enjoying the beginning of a great R and K film release season and you need to insert insults. I'm no troll and most adsuridly not looney, and have never bashed anyone on this blog because I differ with your truth. How superbly rude of you. If you drop the insults,open your eyes, we have way more in common then in what we differ. Try keeping it friendly an you may get more then 17 posts

Barbara said...
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Cory Ogden said...

Barbara, you have every right to post here, I am not the boss, Rose is. However I don't believe I misunderstood, here is your quote

"the phantom babies one and two???? married??? what looneys. love you Rose.xx"

and that my dear is rude. I am not stooping to name-calling

Barbara said...
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live guest said...

Cory, I agree with Barbara and the day you replace your avi with someone or something else, you will then accept that they are no longer together and both have moved on with other people.

Barbara said...
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Cory Ogden said...

Barb, let it go. I'm over name calling, every site attacks someone over a difference of opinion. I called it "I'm right, your wrong, you suck". Here a less.offensive word is used = looney. Because someone uses a word, doesn't mandate you should copy it. I'm on sites where name calling is fashionable also, that does not mean I approve. Cause I think name calling is used when persuasive rhetoric fails someone. Kids resort to it often. Think for you self and don't be a sheep, green or otherwise
You're a nice lady, and you should enjoy yourself on any site you feel welcome.

Live Guest, don't believe you were part of this discussion. But since you wish to join, fine. I know you from other sites,as well as you know me. I call you The Chameleon, think about it. As to your comment, I will not change my avi, cause I believe it is accurate. I am honest, and consistent in what I believe, are you?

DreamerKind said...

To each his own dream of R&K

Dulcinea

Listen here for Johnny Mathias:
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=zAzApJGHhVg

Thanks to/Johnboy Jones

DreamerKind said...

Give and take applies

The Glory of Love

Listen here to Jimmy Durante:
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=RKD2MLn9V1I

You've got to give a little, take a little
And let your poor heart break a little
That's the story of, that's the glory of love

You've got to laugh a little, cry a little
Before the clouds roll by a little
That's the story of, that's the glory of love

As long as there's the two of you
You've got the world and all its charms
And when the world is through with you
You've got each other's arms

You've got to win a little, lose a little
And always have the blues a little
That's the story of, that's the glory of love

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The Glory Of Love Lyrics | MetroLyrics
Thanks to/Tiziano Guinefort

DreamerKind said...

Got a loose connection tonght due to red wine..Johhny MATHIS!

DreamerKind said...

Love's what we'll remember...can't regret.

What I Did for Love

Listen here to Eydie Gorme:
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=qS-0X3SLSCY

Thanks to/Eydie Gorme Music

Barbara said...
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DreamerKind said...

@Barbara
Ah, to hear one clear voice! That's the goal. Yes, great song. Love you, too.

DreamerKind said...

Chopin to clear the mind. Vladimir Horowitz shows the way!

"Ballade No. 1 in G Minor, Op. 23"

Listen here:
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=XhnRIuGZ_dc

Thanks to/Sissco

DreamerKind said...

Kristen said no one knows that Rob is a good dancer. Anything could happen. Two cheeks together can be so divine. Let's dance!

It Only Happens When I Dance With You

Listen here to Tony Bennett:
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=36gUv1LLG6U

Thanks to/#TonyBennett

live guest said...

Cory, excuse me if you think I butted into your conversation with Barbara but since this is an open forum, I felt like I could express my opinion as you do yours. As for being called a Chameleon, I have no idea what you are talking about, for I do not change from one to another. I will always be a Rob Pattinson fan and since I have never had any interest in you enough to call you a name, I won't.

Super RN Gas Passer said...

BARBARA

I have had a glass of wine but I have to ask when you say after the sky fell in you did not falter. Do you mean that you being a fan of R and K and their body of work or do you mean that you never faltered in believing that they are together as a couple ? Which begs me to ask you if they aren't a couple together with a family are you no longer a fan then? Does your need to believe that they are " together together " the condition under which you are a fan ?

DreamerKind said...

Excited! AU premiere tonight in L.A. New "Carversation!" Will be toasting!

DreamerKind said...

@Super

ICU! I hear you! Hugs!

Barbara said...
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DreamerKind said...

'S Wonderful, this night, Kristen, Taylor and all! So much caring to see and feel!

S'Wonderful

Listen here for Diana Krall version:
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=tyK_RfXWY1U

Thanks to/lafleurlola

Super RN Gas Passer said...

DK

ICU 2๐Ÿ’–๐Ÿ’–๐Ÿ’– We have so much fun ๐Ÿท๐Ÿท๐Ÿท๐ŸŽ‰๐ŸŽ‰๐ŸŽ‰

BARBARA

Not that any of your choices are any of my business but I have to say to you that based on your current status as mentioned in the above comments then are you still a fan of hushtruth? I ask because I have peeped in and someone appears to be leading the followers into thinking that two commenters are R and K and that they are divulging private info on the side. I am starting to think these ladies who I think...correct me if I'm wrong ...write fan fic....so has it really come to this? We have bickering over here in this comment section and we have fan fic and we have outright insanity on the other....it is a sad state of affairs in the FANDUMB

I know the golden days are gone forever but what really sucks is all the lying and playing pretend with these actors lives why is it not enough to enjoy the actors movies and leave their personal lives to them to live their truth whatever it is ?

Super RN Gas Passer said...

ROSE

I just checked and I can't believe it but my local theater is actually going to be showing American Ultra on Friday so I am definitely going ! Finally on the B I G S C R E E N ๐Ÿ˜๐Ÿ˜๐Ÿ˜

Super RN Gas Passer said...
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Barbara said...

@Super.When DIDY shut down suddenly we the DIDY posters were in shock and the hushtruth ladies offered us a safe little corner. I had made quite a few friends on didy and did not want to lose contact with them. If you check my posts you will see that my life is hectic and stressful I have a very ill precious husband and a daughter who suffers severe Depression, so I have little sleep at night. I come to the sites as it enables me to relax and forget for just a short time how stressful it is, and remember how it used to be that when my precious was big strong and healthy. The projects Rob and Kristen are involved with has some people thinking that R/K are in some sort of race as to who is making more movies than the other. Why does even making movies bring out the biff? oh yes it is because it's Robert Pattinson and Kristen Stewart. I am just happy that they are both happy and the projects they are involved with.

Barbara said...

​Dear Super Gas.

Thankyou for spoiling one little corner of lightness that I had.

All I have done is follow two wonderful young actors and watched as they fell in love,I admired them for never playing the devils game of selling their relationship to gossip sites/shows. They refused to discuss what was precious and off limits.

I have never believed in the phantom baby 1,2, or the marriage I have said since 2013 that Rob and Kristen had gone their separate ways. I did not swallow the Twigs/Rob PR,I also couldn't work out why Rob was being sniggered at because he was with miss T as she toured.

Seeing as Rob wasn't working what was the problem,then we had the group who attacked Kristen and her friend Alicia, but that is the fandom.

Now you have singled me out because my post was misconstrued. It is rather sad the fandom has lost it's humour and been replaced with those who seem to be Judge, Jury and executioner.



Cory Ogden said...

Barbara, don't let anyone rent space in your head, including me, because I remain steadfast.You seem like a very nice person, who get hurt easily. Blogs are not necessarily nice places. People hide behind their keyboards and all sort of provocative stuff rises to the surface. Believe what you feel comfortable with, and stay true to yourself. If someone messes with you, try to be solid in that belief = your opinion is as worthwhile as the next persons, cause this is fact, we are all just ranting on about our opinion of what these to lovely people are doing with their lives. Yours is as valid as the next. Much more polite then random name-calling

Barbara said...

@Cory Ogden. When you took me to task in what I said in my post, I was shocked, I could never be rude to Rose and her insightful blog. When I said"the phantom babies one and two???? married??? what looneys. love you Rose.xx I was referring to the fools Rose had mentioned in her "Random Thoughts" blog who insist there are two babies and Rob and Kristen are married, I often sign off with "love you and xx"
Thankyou for your courteous response.

Cory Ogden said...

Barbara, I understood what you wrote and that you were quoting what Rose had written. I just took exception to the descriptive adj. "Looney " because in this world that would be me. I am quite sane you see, I just have a different O about our 2 actors. So time to move on. Lots of good R&K movies to enjoy and to focus on. Their personal lives will unravel in their time.

Bobbie V said...

Hello, I don't post here, I've come here over the years. I read your post and thought it to be a great read and I to believe they are not together, but I love them both and I think they are both great actors and wish them every happiness in there lives and career's they both have worked very hard to get where they are, I see only good things for both of them. And Kristen looks beautiful and happy too, I agree with you on that.



Another reason I came here is tonight I got an email from a dear sweet Friend and we call each other Sisters because she is dear to my heart, she was very hurt by you all, I know her so well she would never hurt or say anything bad, but you guy's hurt her very much. I love her like a sister and I'm here to say shame on you all, everyone writes what they think, we all have that right, maybe you all took what she said the wrong way, maybe you all should think about this, she isn't going to come around anymore, and that my friends is a very sad thing. Barb has a very sincere heart, she's very caring and loving to all her friends, she would never say something mean it's not in her bones, maybe you all took what she said the wrong way, I don't care, I care that my Sister was hurt and feels so bad she says she isn't going to come back, to bad it's your lost because she is one of the most beautiful persons I've meet on line and I thank my lucky stars she's in my life. I know you all won't care what I have to say and to tell you the truth I don't give a shit, but I hope you all realize what a wonderful person she is. Guene

Super RN Gas Passer said...

BARBARA

It wasn't my intention to do that at all. I was just trying to figure out exactly where you stand. I'm not familiar with the DIDY people and maybe I'm just more curious than I need to be. I was unclear on some points. Maybe it's because I don't follow things in great detail.

To be quite honest....we'll I guess you don't really want me to be...I was just trying to determine what all this bickering between you and a few of these other people on here was coming from and what all this fussing is about.

When I saw on your page that you follow hushtruth ...I was trying to see if ....nevermind....

It is a sad state of affairs on this comment section for sure Nobody can get along unless it's DK and for what are we actually fighting for anyway? Whatever it is how could it possibly be worth it ?

Cory Ogden said...

Well, that is certainly true SuperRN, it's not worth it. I come here occasionally on that stupid soap box asking, focus on our commonality not differences. Not everyone can stand strong questioning, or is insecure, or whatever. But I feel sure we are here for only 1 reason, we follow 2 lovely actors. It is only in the realm of their personal lives we Fans start teeth knashing at ea other.

BobbyV , I already reached out to Barb above, ask her if she read it? My point Barb, your opinion is as valid as anyones, and if someone questions it, stand solid in your POV. I only get my hackles up when folks use cheap name calling to push their point.

Barb, deep breath, come back. For this blog appears to need some support

Cory Ogden said...

Well, that is certainly true SuperRN, it's not worth it. I come here occasionally on that stupid soap box asking, focus on our commonality not differences. Not everyone can stand strong questioning, or is insecure, or whatever. But I feel sure we are here for only 1 reason, we follow 2 lovely actors. It is only in the realm of their personal lives we Fans start teeth knashing at ea other.

BobbyV , I already reached out to Barb above, ask her if she read it? My point Barb, your opinion is as valid as anyones, and if someone questions it, stand solid in your POV. I only get my hackles up when folks use cheap name calling to push their point.

Barb, deep breath, come back. For this blog appears to need some support

Cory Ogden said...

Well, that is certainly true SuperRN, it's not worth it. I come here occasionally on that stupid soap box asking, focus on our commonality not differences. Not everyone can stand strong questioning, or is insecure, or whatever. But I feel sure we are here for only 1 reason, we follow 2 lovely actors. It is only in the realm of their personal lives we Fans start teeth knashing at ea other.

BobbyV , I already reached out to Barb above, ask her if she read it? My point Barb, your opinion is as valid as anyones, and if someone questions it, stand solid in your POV. I only get my hackles up when folks use cheap name calling to push their point.

Barb, deep breath, come back. For this blog appears to need some support

Super RN Gas Passer said...

ROSE and ROSELAND

We just got back from American Ultra. It does not disappoint. Congrats to K and Jesse Eisenberg and the rest of the cast and crew. You guys made one helluva awesome movie !

Robert said...

hey ladies, did i miss anything?

robert,

the other one
not rp

Super RN Gas Passer said...

ROBERT

Heh. Not much if you are referring to the comment section here. Bickering and people going off the deep end if you ask just a few questions for clarification and you would think the world is ending ... Other than that not much

Glad to see you post and hope all is well with you. Are you still at the university ?

live guest said...

Very excited to see Rob on two red carpets and winning an award along with Elizabeth Olsen. He has turned into a busy man lately and seeing all he has lined up is a treat for his fans.