Couple of Things...

Yeah... I'm still around.

Maybe not as much as I used to be...
life has been exceedingly busy as of late

But still reading.

Still seeing.

Still getting DMs.

Ha.

The thing is..

This fandom is kinda like a corny soap opera.

You really don't have to check in and watch it every day

to know what's happening.

All you need to do is peek in one or two days a week

and you're all caught up.

Easy.

Peasy.

Not that there is even that much to catch up on.

Well sure...

Kristen's career is on fucking fire.

(burn baby burn)

So that is always lots of fun to keep up with.

But as far as the fanDUMB is concerned...

It's pretty much 

Same shit

Different day.

It's like some people are on a perpetual 

merry-go-round

They just kinda say the same things

day after day...

and they actually think they are getting somewhere

that what they are saying...

means something.

But alas.

Tis not to be.

All they are doing is going around in circles...

arguing the same bullshit

spewing the same lies.

And never fucking going anywhere.

How sad for them.

But they deserve every miserable

moment they get.

And you KNOW they are miserable.

1. Like I said...

Kristen is on fucking fire.

White Hot.

She was all over the place recently...

and as I'm not a 'fan' blog

(never tried to be one)

I will touch on the things I found interesting.

EQUALS L.A. premiere was July 7th

Lovely.

And being next to Nicholas?

Lovelier.

Does that look right to you?

Lovelier?

Hmmmm...

How about Loveliest.

Yeah.

That looks good.

So do they.

It's obvious to even a casual observer

that Kristen and Nic are close friends.

The comfort and intimacy they share

is nice to see.

No.

I don't SHIP them.

Good Lord.

But I do love seeing them together

and like seeing how they support each other

and how easily they laugh

and are in sync.

So there.

2. Kristen also had a premiere

for Cafe Society.

Rave reviews for this sweet beautiful girl.
LOVE.
IT.

3. Rob turned up in Utah
on a super secret movie.
HUH?
How the hell did he pull that off?
Impressive.
I kinda like when they can make a movie
without the whole fandom watching
every move they make.
Kinda cool.

He looks pretty OK here.
And it turns out it may be a comedy.
Seriously.
Rob in a comedy?
Bring it to me NOW.

4. That brings me to this next thought...

Why are fans so fucking defensive all the time?
You know...
It's OK to not like what someone is wearing...
or their hair
Or maybe you don't agree with what they said.
SO WHAT.
It's not the end of the damn world.
In the past...
I've gotten attacked for saying something as simple as
"Rob looks skinny"
That's all I said.
And the locusts descended on me
like I said something horrible.
What.The.Fuck.
It's not that serious.
Really.

Another example...

This portion of a Twitter conversation
(which I believe was from 2015)
has been thrown in my face twice.
Why?
Well... because this is the worst thing they
could find that I've said about Rob.
And believe you me...
You KNOW they fucking went as far back
as possible to try and find something.
Thing is?
All I said was
"Not my style. But it appears to be Robs."

AND?
So what?
PDA isn't my style.
Never was.
 I'm talking about ME... personally.
And honestly?
I don't give a fuck if Rob or Kristen
or anyone else wants to kiss or hold hands
or whatever they want to do.
Yet...
Asshats keep trying to make this tidbit of a
conversation mean something.
Well guess what?
People change.
If you don't think Kristen or Rob
have changed over the last 3 years
you are an idiot.
Of course they have!
Haven't you?
 I mean...
haven't you changed your mind on some things...
perhaps found new people/places/things to enjoy?
Rob and Kristen are human beings.
They grow.
They change.
Just like everyone else.
Who the hell would want to remain stagnant
and unchanging year after year?


5. Stagnant and living in the past
brings me to my next thought...
The resident fandom crazies...
HKN and the Baby Cult.
Still wallowing in 2009.
Yeah...
Every fandom has that scary group that
embarrasses them all over social media
that has wild conspiracy theories
and will never accept reality.
And I know that some people would rather
just ignore them and pretend they didn't exist.
But I can't.

It would be one thing if these silly shrews
just wanted to believe Rob and Kristen were married
because really... who gives a shit if they want to think that?
It would be another if these crazies
wanted to believe that Kristen has somehow become a Duggar
and is working on baby number 3.
(seems to be the standard GO TO when new pics
of Rob/Twigs or Kristen/Alicia come out)
3 babies in 2 1/2 years.
Okkkkkk.

But the thing that needs to stop is
the constant trashing of Twigs and Kristen (and Rob)
That's really all the Cult do.
They trash Twigs.
Rob's fans come back and slam Kristen.
So then Kristen's fans slam Rob.
It's never ending.
How do these people read what the Baby Cult has to say
and be OK with it?
They are lying.
They don't know any truth... or facts... or anything.
And if Twigs was indeed only an 'investment' by Rob and Kristen
why are they constantly trying to bring Twigs down?
It's fucking lame, OK?

It wasn't right when Kristen was attacked
for years (pre 'scandal' by the way)
and its not right attacking Twigs now.
Twigs hasn't done anything to deserve this shit.
And I'm not saying you have to like Kristen or Twigs... or Rob.
I'm saying be a fucking decent human being
and stop trying to prop up your 'fave' by trashing someone else

Or to further your pathetic agenda.
Kristen doesn't need it.
Rob doesn't need it.
And not one of them deserve it.

6. I was watching a Twilight marathon the other night.
Ok.
So I only started watching Twilight at
"Say it.
Say it OUT-LOUD."

and I did watch all of NEW MOON.

And you know how these movies make me feel?
Happy.
Nostalgic.
No fucking regrets.
None.

This is still a GREAT kissing scene.
(and my lord... ain't they pretty?)

And I STILL get choked up when I hear

"Have I found you?
Flightless bird, jealous, weeping
Or lost you?
American mouth
Big pill looming"

Because they fell in love making this movie.
And it was wonderful to watch.

"Jake, I love you. So please, don't make me choose.
 Cause it'll be him. It's always been him."

*Sigh*


but now we have:

Cafe Society
Equals
Childhood of a Leader
Lost City of Z
Billy Lynn's Long Halftime Walk
Good Time
Certain Women
Personal Shopper
Damsel

It might not be the same
but its more than enough...
and maybe even better.


This post is brought to you by
Acceptance.

You've heard me say it for years.
"With Acceptance Comes Peace"

And it's true.

Rob is happy with his life.
With Twigs.
Kristen is flourishing in hers.
With Alicia.
Good enough for me.

And of course...
This post is also brought to you by
Thomas Sturridge

You know how hard it is to be his fan
if you don't live in the UK?
He makes these wonderful movies that I never get to see
until they are released on DVD
or maybe on PPV.
He's very private about his life
and is rarely seen in public.
I mean...
COME ON.

I still adore you Thomas Sturridge.
Green Sheep.
Fucking Forever.

Until next time.

Bye for now.

Random Thoughts

Sometimes when I have time

(which hasn't been much lately

thank you summer from hell)

 I sift through my emails...

Twitter and read some blogs

And wonder why fandom things 

are so important to some people.

Beyond important.

Like...

Life and death important.

It's fucking serious and this is

Their fucking job important.

They will cry for you

die for you

important.

It's just a fandom.

That's all.

You live.

You learn.

And hopefully the lunatic fringe

will someday learn

that this shit doesn't matter.
Not really.

I learned it 3 years ago.

After being too invested in 2 people

and a relationship.

That wasn't mine.
It's like I woke up.

It's entertainment.

Camaraderie.

It's a hobby.

And shouldn't it be enjoyable?

Shouldn't it be about the laughs?

The fangirling over new projects?

If you're not having fun...

and find yourself angry and defensive 

ALL THE TIME

Why are you still here?

There was a lot of talk about photoshopping recently.

Well...not just recently.

It seems that every time there are pics 

of Rob/Twigs

or with anything that doesn't fit the "agenda"

THE PICS ARE FAKE!!!

(or old, staged... etc etc)

Take this one.

Supposedly this is a manipulated picture.

But why?

Rob walking to a car?

I can see how this is a damning picture

and why someone would want to change it!

If people are going to mess with pictures...

why wouldn't they at least be a bit creative?

Like maybe him and Twigs making out or something?

Hmmm.

I think I will add an extra hand to his reflection!

That's it! FOOLED YA!!!

Everyone will believe Rob is with Twigs now!!!

*insane cackling*

A pic of Beyonce walking by a car...

LOOKY THERE!

There's like a person with 3 faces in the reflection!

Why would they do that???

Are the paps manipulating everyone's pictures??

Or maybe with the curvature of the car

and the refraction of the light and movement...

stuff just gets bent and twisted in the reflection?

Could it be something as logical and simple as that?

Could it??

Can you imagine going thru endless pics
and trying to prove they are fake?

I'm not sure what people even get out

of all the lying and making shit up.

Fandom notoriety?

Hits on their blogs?

Attention they are lacking in their 'real' lives?

It reeks of needy desperation.
Truly.

Personally?

I'm 99.9% certain that Rob and Kristen

are no longer together

(And haven't been in over two years)

and most definitely have no children

(There has been zero evidence to tell me otherwise.)

I was on the "Robsten" ship for a LONG ass time.

And it took a fucking lot to get me off of it.

A lot.
I had to be pushed.

I held on as long as I could.

I loved them as a couple.

Nobody championed them harder than me. 

I loved watching them be in love.

Because I'm a sucker for that kinda stuff.

But when the party's over...

Its fucking over.

You know?

You have to accept it.

How about we promote this...

Because AMERICAN ULTRA is going to 

fucking rock.

Or how about EQUALS

(And fucking A if this picture doesn't make me angsty for this movie)

And Childhood of a Leader

(And yes... Beardy shaggy Rob is a good Rob)

BOTH being premiered at the

Venice Film Festival!

Bottom line?

Rob and Kristen are much more than Robsten.

They always have been.

I look back now...

and see that it had to happen this way.
It was full of drama
and it wasn't easy...
But change seldom is.

Both Rob and Kristen need to be known

For their career choices... As actors.

Not just a relationship.

And look at Kristen now!

She's so fucking bright and shiny 

and slaying the whole damn world.

And seriously

Has she EVER looked fucking better

or happier?

Can't you fucking GIVE her that?

And Rob...

He's going at his own pace.

And that's OK too.

It's what he wants to do.

It's where he wants to be.

They are both where they want to be.

Are they happy?

I hope so.

I think so.

And that's all we need to know.

This post is brought to you by

My constant admiration of Thomas Sturridge.

He might be going through stuff right now.

But I have to believe he will be all right.

Life does go on.

And this post is also brought to you by

Cecil the Lion.

It breaks my heart that he was stalked and hunted

for his fur... for fun.

A magnificent beautiful animal.

Can't people look at him and see he has feelings?

That he deserves to live as much as you or I?

He wasn't just a trophy.

Another inanimate object that you can kill

and hang on your wall.

The man who killed him willfully slaughtered him.

I say we take this dentist out in the wilderness...

lure him out of safety with false promise

Shoot him with a bow 

and then hunt him for days

until we finally shoot him 

skin him.

behead him.

Is that too harsh?

Possibly.

But maybe if these asshole hunters

Who kill for the thrill knew what it was like

To be stalked and hunted...

Knew the pain and agony that Cecil had to endure...

Maybe... Just maybe

They would realize that all living creatures have 

A fucking right to be here on this earth.

Until next time.

Bye for now