Kristen is the magnet, Rob is the steel...

Now I've told you so you ought to know... Takes some time for our feelings to grow
You're so close now I can't let you go... And I can't let go

Random Rose.

1. I had this discussion on Twitter yesterday...

About how Rob and Kristen are drawn to each other.

Magnetically pulled together.

Yes.

Stephenie Meyer brought up 'magnets' a few times

in her books...

The way you move — you orient yourself around him

without even thinking about it.

When he moves, even a little bit,

you adjust your position at the same time.

Like magnets… or gravity. 

You’re like a… satellite, or something.

And if you watch Rob and Kristen interact in public...

They are always aware of where the other is at all times

They are always mirroring each others movements

without even realizing it.

They always seem to be in their own magnetic force field

Which is known as the "Robsten Bubble".

With you I'm not shy to show the way I feel
With you I might try my secrets to reveal
For you are a magnet and I am steel

If you have followed Rob and Kristen for the last 3 years...

(and I have)

It's undeniable.

Obvious.

It's been there since the beginning...

And it has been fascinating to watch it grow and blossom.

I think that has been part of the charm of seeing

Robert and Kristen fall in love...

Is watching it happen from the start.

At first they were all cute and flirty

on the set of "Twilight"

To the intense stares...

The shy smiles...

And the constant need to be around each other

Even when they weren't working.

Dating.

Kissing.

Holding hands.

 It's been going on for 3 years...

And keeps going.

And going...

I can't hope that I'll hold you for long... You're a woman who's lost to your song
But the love that I feel is so strong... And it can't be wrong.

Oh...

And please don't send me emails telling me

that steel isn't attracted to magnets

or some such shit... OK?

Lyrics to a song, people.

"Magnets and Steel"

I didn't write it.

I just like it.

And I feel it's appropriate for 

Rob and Kristen.

With you I'm not shy to show the way I feel
With you I might try my secrets to reveal
For you are a magnet and I am steel

2. Where is Robert Pattinson?

Well...

If you believe every lame tweet out there

Apparently he's everywhere!

But seriously?

When was the LAST reliable sighting of Rob?

Anyone?

Exactly.

And no...

I'm not predicting where he will turn up.

But a girl can hope... right?

And again...

I don't even want to see any Pap pics of them.

I really don't.

I've had enough of pissed off Rob

and frightened Kristen.

But say...

If a fan would happen to catch them 

out and about and got them to pose for a pic?

(again... wishful thinking)

That would be OK with me.

With you I'm not shy to show the way I feel
With you I might try my secrets to reveal

 

3. As always with a 'drought' of any kind...

(Sometimes a few days equals a drought)

People get desperate.

Wait.

There is always a cloud of desperation hanging over this fandom.

But it gets increasingly thick and heavy

as time passes without seeing Rob or Kristen.

It's always the extremes who bring the most drama...

Fighting some invisible war...

Hoping to win.

Something. Anything.

Nothing.

I get a lot of emails and DMs

where people are whining and wailing over

details of a relationship

that don't include them.

'I'm really worried, Rose."

Really?

(bible)

Why?

Because I'm pretty sure you don't have a say

in how Rob and Kristen conduct their lives.

You don't get to judge and criticize them

based on your interpretation of what you see.

For you are a magnet and I am steel
For you are a magnet and I am steel

We have no control over their relationship.

Yes.

We can watch from afar...

and we can choose to be happy for them.

We can choose to enjoy the moments they share with us.

We can choose to smile and have fun speculating

on the sidelines...

But we aren't in the game.

So you can cheer for them...

Or you can be miserable and worry about things

that you don't know and can't control.

"For we all know in life, it's useless to obsess about things

over which we have no control."

I choose happy.

And I'm thinking when we see Rob and Kristen

together again?

We will see happy.

A lot of happy.

 

This post is brought to you by choices.

It's pretty obvious there is both a

GOOD and BAD

side of this fandom...

Which side are you on?

And it's my choice to include

Tom Sturridge in every post.

Why?

I adore him.

Come on, people... it's obvious!

Green Sheep

Bye for now