What am I supposed to say?
There is so much anger out there right now.
So much hatred.
Yes.
I'm disappointed too.
Obviously I care about Rob and Kristen.
I would never in a million years imagine something like this
happening between two people that were so in love.
And whether you believe it or not...
They still love each other.
Whether they go forward together or not
isn't up to you... or me.
Rob and Kristen need to figure this out.
I only wish they could do so with some measure of privacy.
All the conspiracy theories and rationalizations
aren't going to change what happened.
All the continuous hatred and bitterness
doesn't serve any purpose other than to
prolong the unhappiness and sadness.
We all are hurting in some way...
And I understand the feeling of protection over Rob.
The thought of him in so much pain... kills me.
But the truth of the matter is
What Kristen did has nothing to do with us.
Yes.
We can question why
We can be sad
We can be disappointed and angry.
But where do you stop and let it go?
When do you realize that hating her isn't going to change anything?
Because in truth...
All this turbulent emotion is more about us
intruding on their relationship.
Pushing ourselves in... where we never belonged in the first place.
This isn't ours to deal with.
This isn't really even our pain to feel.
I know we all do... I do, too...
But we need to back off now...
We need to let them heal and figure this out
We finally need to leave them alone...
and quit asking for things we have no right to ask for.
We don't have a right to know the intimate details.
We never did.
Final thought.
My father... who is one of the most intelligent and witty men I know...
but completely clueless when it come to
'entertainment' news...
Actually said to me yesterday
"So I was reading the paper and saw that there
is big trouble in vampire land"
Yes.
He said VAMPIRE LAND.
I just looked at him... shocked.
I finally replied...
"Yeah, Dad... Vampire land is kinda sad right now"
He looked at me and said
"I feel sorry for those 2 kids. I can't imagine having to
deal with that heartbreak in the public eye."
Compassion.
My father has it.
And he knows nothing about Rob and Kristen
beyond what he has read in the paper.
I know some of you are so angry at Kristen
and want to call her names and hate on her.
But try to look at her...
as she is.
Strip away the fame and fortune...
Take away who her boyfriend is.
Look at her.
She is just a girl.
Who made a terrible mistake.
A horrible choice.
Yes... she hurt some people
And she has to live with that.
She has to make amends.
But she is hurting too.
If you saw her on the street...
Desperate and crying... hurt
Wouldn't you stop and try to help her?
Wouldn't you be scared and worried for her?
Or would you just scoff and say she deserves her pain?
Would you spit on her as you walked away?
Personally?
I would help her.
I want her to be OK.
I want her to be OK.
I couldn't just turn my back and walk away.
And that's where I am right now.
This post is brought to you by compassion.
I hope some of you find some.
If you are without sin... cast that stone.
.........
(waiting)
..........
Thought so.
Until next time
(and there will be a next time.)
Bye for now
P.S.
I still adore Tom Sturridge.
A bright shiny star
in this dark dark night...
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«Oldest ‹Older 601 – 755 of 755So....they are saying that this was not Poopert's first fall from grace....interesting....
Lennon always has the answer
"Imagine"
Imagine there's no heaven
It's easy if you try
No hell below us
Above us only sky
Imagine all the people
Living for today...
Imagine there's no countries
It isn't hard to do
Nothing to kill or die for
And no religion too
Imagine all the people
Living life in peace...
You may say I'm a dreamer
But I'm not the only one
I hope someday you'll join us
And the world will be as one
Imagine no possessions
I wonder if you can
No need for greed or hunger
A brotherhood of man
Imagine all the people
Sharing all the world...
You may say I'm a dreamer
But I'm not the only one
I hope someday you'll join us
And the world will live as one
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=yRhq-yO1KN8
I was hoping Rogue was around. Her theory seems to be coming true. Look how fast the wife took rup back, said it was nothing. I really think Rogue might have been on to something and I figured she'd be here with more thoughts.
and a little Jeff Buckley
"Hallelujah"
Well I heard there was a secret chord
that David played and it pleased the Lord
But you don't really care for music, do you?
Well it goes like this:
The fourth, the fifth,
The minor fall and the major lift
The baffled king composing Hallelujah
Hallelujah, hallelujah, hallelujah, hallelujah...
Your faith was strong but you needed proof
You saw her bathing on the roof
Her beauty and the moonlight overthrew you
She tied you to her kitchen chair
She broke your throne and she cut your hair
And from your lips she drew the Hallelujah
Hallelujah, hallelujah, hallelujah, hallelujah...
Baby I've been here before
I've seen this room and I've walked this floor (you know)
I used to live alone before I knew you
And I've seen your flag on the marble arch
and love is not a victory march
It's a cold and it's a broken Hallelujah
Hallelujah, hallelujah, hallelujah, hallelujah...
there was a time when you let me know
What's really going on below
But now you never show that to me, do you?
But remember when I moved in you
And the holy dove was moving too
And every breath we drew was Hallelujah
Hallelujah, hallelujah, hallelujah, hallelujah...
Maybe there's a God above
all I've ever learned from love
Was how to shoot somebody who outdrew you
And it's not a cry that you hear at night
It's not somebody who's seen the light
It's a cold and it's a broken Hallelujah
Hallelujah, hallelujah, hallelujah, hallelujah...
Hallelujah, hallelujah, hallelujah, hallelujah...
Hallelujah, hallelujah, hallelujah
Hallelujah, hallelujah
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=y8AWFf7EAc4
Um, is it music night tonight?
I'm not criticizing, I just wondered as there isn't much discussion. I'm trying to learn the rules here.
I just post music to calm my own soul. I personally just am kinda on overload on all this stuff
@Ginger
You're killing me softly with your song..
@lucky
We flow down whatever stream takes us on. Music is a big part of it on here, so I've been told by many. What's on your mind? I'm available.
Good evening, do you ladies mind if I hang out here for a while? I've been helping my husband study for a test and I need something to help my brain rest. Torts, writs, and contracts have given me a brain cramp.
@lucky
Gossip Cop which has some sources that maybe are rational has a comments section where I've seen lots of theories talk. Of course, tons of hate and bashing go on to rattle and shake folks, up to the rafters there.
Not here though.
Oh so Dreamerkind, we don't discuss theories here either?
Um, ok then. Good to know.
@torrimarie
I love the sound of torts and writs! My dearly missed hubs studied them, and taught me the lingo, showed me the profession. No brains needed here tonight, scrambled is the MO.
@lucky
Some have and do. If you'll read Roses's post again, we support her stance. We twirled and swirled, and if healed, will again.
I think the theories are interesting - I just have stayed out most of it cause it takes my mind down a dark path and at the end of the day is just for us. I am trying to keep positive and hope for these 2 to make it out of the ashes together and stronger now cause so many sites are a cesspool of self righteous stone throwers that are as pure as snow. I lost it earlier when they were talking about what the new pictures would show which of course was wrong but the things that go through peoples hearts to say that about another human being kills me
shoot... I always have trouble posting from my nook ... well here goes my second attempt...
Good evening everyone in Roseland, hope everyone is doing well despite the hell of a week that it has been. I'm primarily a lurker, and have been since the New Moon days, but have posted a few times over the years when I've been moved to. For the most part Rose and all you regulars say what needs to be said - I nod my head in agreement - and continue to read and be entertained. Can't say that this week has been entertaining, though.
The shock has worn off a little, though the disbelief is still there. Last night was probably the first night since the story broke out that I got a decent nights sleep, but my appetite is still suffering. Needless to say, I've been effected like you all have...grieving for a couple that I've come to love as if they are my own children.
All we can do is send them our prayers and love...things will work out the way they are meant to whether its to our satisfaction or not. We should remember that all couples have challenges that they face that test their love and devotion to one another... for Rob & Kristen its no different. Sometimes the threat comes from outside influence, and other times its our own inner doubts/demons that cause the turmoil. I believe what we have witnessed this week is a bit of both.
Though we are helpless to solve their problems, its wonderful to be able to turn to one another in this forum that Rose has provided. A more compassionate and sensible group of individuals I have yet to come across.
@Maria
I remember you stopping in from time to time. I heart what you said and thank you in spades.
Thanks for the welcome Dk. Think I'll watch the Olympics, lots of swimming, always fun.
Have fun ladies, enjoy your Martinis, I envy you, no drinking for me. **Sigh** But a happy healthy baby is well worth the sacrfice!
@DK and Ginger and all others that have contributed moving music/lyrics...
you've picked just the right music to be a balm to an achey heart
All day Friday it seemed that all music that I encountered on the radio pertained to the pain that both Rob & Kristen are experiencing right now.
I feel like even if they don't get back together they are best friends and share friends so they will always be in each others lives. I believe each others families love the other like their own children, brother, sister and that is also a big part of why I think they will be able to get through this. They my not have been "married" but when you integrate your lives and co-habitat it really is like being married and no short of being a family. I know it is not the same sense but my family has done things that have made me mad, cry and have hurt me but I still love them and when all the hurt fades you remember the good things. You also cannot turn off a love that we all believe they share. I may be delusional but if he is the man we think he is he will not shun her in anyway. I think when the anger fades he will be the one to lift her up as I think he is the only one who can. His forgiveness is the one she wants and needs above all. I also have a hard time believing his friends will shun her, she is part of their family.
@DK - it's always a pleasure to see you on here. You always have such kind words and wisdom.
I did the mistake of visiting Gossipcop earlier in the week ... in my desperate attempt to see if I can find any news on the well being of R & K. The mother hen in me worries for them both. Encountered little compassion and more cruelty than I ever cared to read.
@luckystrike~I prefer Poopert instead of rup.....poop is along the lines of sh^t, bm's...you get the picture....
Goodnight to all...back to lurker mode. Need to put the kids to bed ... chaos ensues ... can't wait until school starts up again.
As well as changing my name, I may have to get rid of my avi of the queen....sniff, sniff....still shocked......
Sorry if I am coming across as a downer but this is the place I am currently at.
IB,
I understand, Rup is just shorter.lol.
I'm going to say something and Im not trying to be controversial or disruptive but I really don't like it when people say something like"If Rob is the man we think he is he'll take her back". That isn't fair because if he just can't find it ij himself to put himself back in that relationship that doesn't mean he's less of a man. To me it means he's making his wellbeing his priority and can't risk being hurt and humiliated again. That has nothing to do with his character, it's what he feels he has to do.
wow just wow - they have a legit news article up with some of these crazy girls that have threatened to kill her - showing their twitter names and pictures for the whole world to see - I have a feeling they are about to feel the wrath they have rained on her. Wait and their shame is public - I think we call that karma
Guys let me start by saying I don't want to offend anyone and please don't beat me up. I know many of you think Rob should break up with her and never look back. As much as I loathe what Kristen did...I can't shake the desire for them to fight for it. I wanted to mention a site I heard about on FB. A psychic predicted this cheating scandal back in November concluding that Rob would break up with Kristen. Now that her prediction has come true she has a new prediction that he will indeed take her back because as we all already know he considers her the one. Her are the links if you are interested. Time will tell if her most recent prediction is accurate but I'm still willing to hope. Some have shared their own personal experience of being the cheater and the betrayed partner and finding a way back to each other.
November 2011: http://www.celebpsychic.com/2011/11/couples-we-lovekristin-and-rob-kristen.html
July 2012: http://www.celebpsychic.com/2012/07/will-rob-stay-kristen-stewart-has.html
Rogue did an FBI style photo analysis and I'm hanging on to psychic predictions. We all have our method of coming to terms with this.
I said for him to be the man we think he is in context of caring about her well being not the relationship - exact quote
I may be delusional but if he is the man we think he is he will not shun her in anyway.
Shun her as throw stones, treat her like trash, celebrate her being killed or act as is he never knew her
Roseland,
I do love it here.
I am ONLY visiting here and my "other" positive, supportive home, and I have unfollowed all negative Tweeters. Only love and hope for me.
Have a great night.
I'm sorry, I guess I didn't read your comment closely enought. I've just seen so much of that line of thinking on twitter here too and I think maybe we're imposing our hopes and dreams on him. It's possible that Kristen will stop and say that she needs time on her own to figure out why she did this and then everyone will assume he wouldn't forgive and blame him for not being who they thought he was.
I am absolutely not a Kristen hater but as I said last night I think Rob's feelings and what he wants to do are determining factor as to what happens and that's how it should be in this case.
I've been praying for Rob and Kristen since I heard the news. I want to thank Robstenation, Robert Pattinson Intoxication and "Robsten" for helping me battle Cancer over the past year. You kept my spirits up. You made me smile and gave me hope and I'll always be grateful for that. I've learned so much over the past year but most importantly that your life can change in a split second. I now that it's not always easy but please forgive yourself and others when you have the chance. Tomorrow is guaranteed to NO ONE.
@Second Chance~Thanks for sharing. I hope you are doing well. Yes, they have touched us all.
Just can't stay away...kids are in bed...and the mind is back to racing.
@luckystrike87...I believe that Rogue was definitely onto something...got the same vibes myself about poopert...I've been refering to him as slimey sqirrel-faced sanders too...sss for short...kind of like the sounds snakes make. How fitting.
Hmmm........
I continue to believe that if positions were reversed, people would be much more forgiving.
It is not my intention to sound like I am diminishing his pain - I think we all deal with things differently. For me it is to be hopeful (and as I have said a couple times that it is my selfish feelings for them to reunite) but no matter what they are going to have to deal with each other at some point in time. I am holding out for love and good vibes but if that is not what is supposed to happen then life is taking it's course. I respect his/her decision no matter what because at the end of the day it is their choice and their choices alone. We may never know what choices they make because what happened wasn't our business to begin with.
I'm going to bed.
Goodnight all.
@Annie I agree that the hate towards him would not be this extreme but I still think in the end people would end up blaming her (not you guys) for not being good enough.
BTW~I gotta agree with Lucky...Rob has got to do what is right for him, whatever that maybe...he was the one put in this position and his well being is too important!
@Second Chance... best wishes for your health.
They have been a joy to watch for all of us here. The love that we have witnessed can't be for nothing. The road ahead will be difficult for them, but if their love is strong, they will rise above this and will be the stronger for it.
Please don't tar and feather me for saying this, but I understand what Lucky means.
My brother is going through this same thing, he is confused because people keep telling him what they think he should do. He is afraid to make a move one way or the other afraid his decision will disappoint someone. I am worried because it's his life, and he has to make an honest choice.
i think all of us want Rob and Kristen to be together. But if that is not in the cards we at least want them both to be ok.
@torrimarie
Not the tarring kinda person and I like my feathers in my pillows. Opinions are opinions - would be boring if we all thought the same thing. I respects yours
Thanks Ginger, being new I don't want to offend anyone.
@Dreamer,yes we can form a moving circle around Kristen.
@Ginger,you're right,Kristen wants Rob's forgiveness.She's also very close to his friends,especially Tom,Marcus and Sam,I doubt that they will turn their back on her.
@Second Chance,I hope your doing better.
Shrugs NP I am new to as far as posting been reading for ever and all the reg posters all seem extremely nice and welcoming
Rob will do what needs to be done. He is a sensible young man with a goodheart. After the anger subsides to the point where they can talk, he'll be able to determine if its worth working it out. Again, only they know where their relationship truely stands.
And as for Kristen not being good enough for him, perhaps that is the very thought that was a catalyst in Kristen's poor judgement? When she was interviewed and she stated that things were boring and easy in her life and she expected/wanted to get f***ed over, its very likely that she wasnt referring to her career but her relationship with Rob. Its as if she was saying that things are too good to be true. Over the years from her various interviews, yes its obvious that her career is important to her, but in her own way she has let us know that Rob is even more important to her. But what if this nagging fear of not being worthy and of him realizing that he could do better, has driven her to do something incredibly careless?
It may sound farfetched, but I had a friend who destroyed her own happiness with her self-doubts. And if poopert was privy to her insecurities...he could place himself in a position to exploit and take advantage of them for his own benefit.
Boy...I think I am trying to make up for my lack of posts!
@Ginger...wholeheartedly agree...the regulars have always been so nice and welcoming.
@Kenzz~I have missed you...figured you were at the Cape...hope you are well...we may need an emergency NE Chapter meeting, given current circumstances :(
On a happier note, I will be heading to the Cape soon.
Okay...now I really have to say goodnight to you all. Its 11:40 at night here and if I dont go to bed now I won't be able to open my eyes come morning.
Wishing you all a goodnight and pleasant dreams. I pray that any news that we hear tomorrow or in the coming week(s) is not worse than what we have heard already.
@Marie Could be - I have thick skin but I am not sure how I would be able to hold up with even half of her scrutiny , I have no doubt she has insecurities and when you see that people think you are ugly, greasy, awkward, appear to never smile, look like a boy (Kimmel had her read a real tweet for a skit on that), and most defiantly don't deserve to be anywhere near Rob in any capacity it's gotta stick in your thoughts at some point. I doubt we will ever know why she did what she did, I just hope they can heal and do what they need to do. I think both are over booked with work too - I know they enjoy it but I am sure they would enjoy it more if they weren't followed so much and could let their hair down once in a while. They should be able to screw up and be human no matter the circumstance without a camera in their face. I am not saying the screw ups will be ok but I use my Halo as a Hula Hoop cause it hasn't been on my head since I stole a pack of gum at 5 so I have no room to judge.
@IB and Kenzz ... I am a fellow NE. Havent hit the Cape yet this year. We've done mostly North Shore beaches. I used to spend alot of time down the Cape when I was younger. Enjoy your time down there!
Okay...this time its for real...goodnight.
@Ginger
I often stole gum my mother kept in a drawer to chew on her night job in a hot factory.
I was very clever for one so young, and only took a couple of pieces, each time.
When she noticed, she sighed and told me how she had looked for her last pieces in the pack and there was only one.
She looked so sad, that I confessed and with a hug she told me I could have a couple of pieces any time I'd like and to take them but not leave only one for her.
And, she promised we would not run out of gum as she would start buying 12 packs. (Dear Mom.)
@Maria
True rationality. :)
The Most Beautiful, Sexy, Rich, Influential etc. titles, don't mean a hill of beans, but they might weigh very heavily upon the shoulders and in the Mind.
@DK then you can wear your halo as a hula hoop with me - we can twirl and play music while doing it :)
Good day all..
@Maria, I somehow thought about that possibilities before. It could be. Kristen might questioned her luck with Rob. Maybe that was one of the reason she did what she did. Only God knows why..
@Groovie, thanks for the youtube link. I looked at it earlier this morning before my court session started. It left a painful twist in my heart from then until now.
I also downloaded all the songs that you girls posted here. I played it via my MP3 in my car. Wow, I was swept away by the lyrics and the emotions that came with it.
I really hope Rob didnt went into shock; as how Edward did in the movies. Somehow I feels he did. Especially with the 'not picking up phone calls from those who works with him', going missing for quite few days now, the silent treatment and all. How I wish his mom or sisters can be there for him. Or his Britpack especially Tom Stu. Just let him be in good hands so that he can think clearly of what he really wants in their relationship now.
As for Kristen, I hope the pics of U-Haul truck in the mags didnt broke her heart. Because it broke mine. May she finds her way back home to her families, so they will be people who could always hugs her whenever she feels her heart empty and eating her inside out. That emptiness is going t be more painful when you realize your love one is leaving; no matter how brief the times it might be.
As for me, I'll keep on breathing.
For I still have an afternoon to finish with my 3 witnesses. Lets put the poker face expression and fight all I might since this is the only fight that I am not helpless at..
@DK - I was watching Sex in the City last night, did you say you were too? I was amazed at how much made me think of this situation. Carrie said something like, "Its not logical, its emotional" about her taking Big back. The themes of betrayal, disappointment, being true to yourself, all in there.
I love the "hula-hooping with your halo" comment, such a funny visual! Love it!
@torrimarie
You made a very valid point about too many voices clouding his mind. With no guarantees of future happiness, we're all in the same boat, the Love Boat. Want to be my sister? You're terrific.
@wig4usc
I was! Me, too. We all have conflicts in relationships. Art reflects life, right.
Watching those scenes made me want a pair of $525 retail shoes, just once in my life. Red shoes. (Only 3 inch stilettos due to ancient joints)
@Litmom
Right you are. Missing your other favorite place, also, and am heading over there for a while about now.
@Ginger
Halo hula!!!
Discoveries Heal
The Scientist
Coldplay:
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=fflsUX93BtU
Come up to meet you
Tell you I'm sorry
You don't know
How lovely you are
I had to find you
Tell you I need you
Tell you
I set you apart
Tell me your secrets
And ask me your questions
Oh let's go back to the start
Running in circles
Coming up tails
Heads on a science apart
Nobody said it was easy
It's such a shame
For us to part
Nobody said it was easy
No one ever said
It would be this hard
Oh, take me back to the start
I was just guessing
At numbers and figures
Pulling the puzzles apart
Questions of science
Science and progress
Do not speak as loud
As my heart
And tell me you love me
Come back and haunt me
Oh and I rush to the start
Running in circles
Chasing our tails
Coming back as we are
Nobody said it was easy
Oh it's such
A shame for us
To part
Nobody
Said it was easy
No one ever
Said it would be
So hard
I'm going
Back
To the start
Thank you/NixMehrFreix3
Ahh DK I have a cold play for you too
"Yellow"
Look at the stars,
Look how they shine for you,
And everything you do,
Yeah, they were all yellow.
I came along,
I wrote a song for you,
And all the things you do,
And it was called "Yellow".
So then I took my turn,
Oh what a thing to have done,
And it was all "Yellow."
Your skin,
Oh yeah your skin and bones,
Turn into something beautiful,
You know, you know I love you so,
You know I love you so.
I swam across,
I jumped across for you,
Oh what a thing to do.
Cos you were all "Yellow",
I drew a line,
I drew a line for you,
Oh what a thing to do,
And it was all "Yellow."
Your skin,
Oh yeah your skin and bones,
Turn into something beautiful,
And you know,
For you I'd bleed myself dry,
For you I'd bleed myself dry.
It's true,
Look how they shine for you,
Look how they shine for you,
Look how they shine for,
Look how they shine for you,
Look how they shine for you,
Look how they shine.
Look at the stars,
Look how they shine for you,
And all the things that you do.
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=1MwjX4dG72s
@PipDancer
Can understand what you mean and feel the sincerity in your rant. :)
@Ginger
Dueling Dj's! Yellow is someone's favorite color. Thanks.
"If we practice an eye for an eye and a tooth for a tooth, soon the whole world will be blind and toothless."
- Mahatma Gandhi
@faa
Poker face for court! Love it. Helping people, helps. ((hugs))
Watching my two cats fighting/playing? Why do they lick each other first, put paws in each other's faces, and then attack? Then, they'll be lying on a chair all cuddled up for hours.
Actually, I'd like to be a cat right now.
Cuddling my pillow tonight is the best I can do, but the best is BEST.
Heading soon to bed to rest my head.
We're once again on a Monday, in July, that's half empty, half full...
^--^
Why am I so bothered by this break up? It reminds me of when I was a little girl and when Sonny & Cher divorced. It was devastating. I've actually lost sleep over this. Guess a shrink would have a field day with this one....
@Lucky I know others answered your question, but it's the norm in Roseland for us all just to chat about our everyday goings on, so I'd say a bit of normality is returning to our little place. So many on here have been friends here for years (I'm a newcomer of only two years lol)
We've been at the seaside in our campervan for the last five days and the long walks on the beach have been great for me, the wind blowing all the thoughts running round my head away. Hopefully Rob and kristen are somewhere with plenty of space to think this all through.
Just passing through to wish everyone a happy Monday. Hope you all are well.
Big hugs to all the regs xoxo
Good morning and a happy Monday to you all.
Crossing my fingers for a brighter week.
@PipDancer....I enjoyed your rant, and felt the same when I saw the pics. They still made me sick to my stomach knowing how they would be perceived.
Good Morning All
PIP. And ROGUE. I think your theories are probable
Even though I have never met her and sometimes you can live with someone your whole life and not really know them my conclusions based on what you guys are saying is the following
Kristen looked up to Director having just finished this huge movie blockbuster
He may be a brilliant director but bottom line he is a dirty old man...I would love for some men to comment on here...I mean do YOU go all the way into your underwear to adjust yourself in a public restaurant and then continue on with your meal????
Kristen trusted him and maybe she had a little alterego that was struggling with her ego...she knew she was taking a risk but she wanted to talk about movies, etc...
What was his agenda? Just a dirty old man who took advantage of a young girl who was star struck???
All of this about him looking into the camera...what would he and his wife have to gain from this...were they in this plot together to bring R and K down as a potential power couple in Hollywood that they might have to compete for in future film projects???? But WHY would they do that when a SECOND SWATH movie was being considered???
So bottom line...it still makes no sense...My best bet is he was feeding his sexual fantasies and ego...ALL common sense and DOLLAR signs....out the fucking window....Because...and now no offense to men when I say this, but they aren't very complex...one half of the brain is dominated by desire for FOOD...the other side for SEX....somewhere in the tiny recesses of their minds lies some ambition and a desire to protect home and family....
Again, I think KRISTEN got caught up in a situation that she was no way prepared for and I agree that up to a point she was fighting him off but then gave in to some point...maybe part curiosity, part admiration of him, mostly a young mind...no match for the experienced director who has done this kind of shit plenty of times before...
Anyone Can Whistle
Lee Remick:
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ncyo8EUUCVE
Anyone can whistle
That's what they say
Easy
Anyone can whistle
Any old day
Easy
It's all so simple
Relax, let go, let fly
So someone tell me
Why can't I?
I can dance a tango
I can read Greek
Easy
I can slay a dragon
Any old week
Easy
What's hard is simple
What's natural comes hard
Maybe you could show m
How to let go
Lower my guard
Learn to be free
Maybe
If you whistle
Whistle for me
Thank you/ZachAndJenFTW
Zzzzz's!
Maybe Poopert was trying to get Kristen on his side to ensure he was the Director on the next SWATH!!!! (that would mean he didn't know about the paps following though) But if she wanted him him one way she'd def want him as the director.
It would be good to get a mans point of view though..
Ok this is more in fun as a get ready to work - not posting the video cause this is for the lovely director
Mr. Grinch
Your a mean one, Mr.Grinch
You really are a heel
Your as cuddly as a cactus
Your as charming as an eel, Mr.Grinch
Your a bad banana with a greasy black peel
Your a monster, Mr.Grinch
Your hearts an empty hole
Your brain is full of spiders
You've got garlic in your soul, Mr. Grinch
I wouldn't touch with a 39 and a half foot pole
Your a foul one, Mr.Grinch
You have termites in your smile
You have all the tender sweetness of a seasick crocodile
Mr.Grinch, Mr.Grinch
Given the choice between the two of you,
I'd choose the seasick crocodile
Your a rotter Mr.Grinch
Your the king of sinful sots
Your hearts a dead tomato
Splotched with moldy purple spots, Mr. Grinch
Your a three decker sour crout toad stool sandwich
With arsenic sauce
You're a rotter Mr Grinch
You're the king of sinful sots
Your hearts a dead tomato squashed with moldy purple spots
Mr Grinch
Your sole is a appalling dump heap
Overflowing with the most disgraceful
Assortment of deplorable rubbish
Imaginable, mangled up in tangled up knots
You're a foul one Mr Grinch
You're a nasty wasty skunk
Your heart is full of unwashed socks
Your sole is full of gunk
Mr Grinch
The 3 best words that best describe you, are as follows, and I quote
Stink!
Stank!
Stunk!
Oh, Mr.Grinch
Mr.Grinch
I read this morning that Giovanni Agnelli, a producer of Kristen's film "Welcome to the Rileys" tweeted the following: "I'll say right now what the manipulative media isn't saying...Kristen Stewart did not have any type of sex with Rupert Sanders. You are entitled to your feelings and beliefs. But to resort to tearing people to pieces is so savage. Don't lose your humanity." I hope this tweet is for real because it would be so nice to hear that Kristen is getting some support from her friends and co-workers.
here is a man's point of view, or this man's anyway.
i think that a 22 year old girl who has been raised to be independent, confident, outspoken, well-read, and ends up only having been with two boyfriends, and can't help but be emotionally stunted then sprinkle in the fact that she's the highest paid and in my opinion, the most talented actress out there, oh and the most vilified and hated public figure, since adolph hitler [at 22 mind you] and oh by the way is also responsible for not one, but 2 movie franchises which have brought in over 300 million dollars.....well
yeah she did it, regardless of the details and she's come clean and apologized.
you know, she didn't climb to the top of some tower and start shooting people....she kissed a guy
sorry if i have offended anyone
Robert - I couldn't agree more
@Ali mac - I exposed myself to being laughed at several times but I asked 3 guys in my life that all have seen different things , 2 have been cheated on, and none of them like twilight (2 didn't even know their names I had to refer to them as Bella and Edward which caused them to laugh more). They range from 17, 19, 26 yrs in age. The problems is 1 is my son, 1 my son in law and one a close friend (but with close friends you tend to find people with your same thinking in general so they are kinda bias). All 3 said they would take back someone that cheated on them if they loved each other and they were willing to work on it - the 2 that were cheated on both took the cheater back - one was kissing one was sex. My son in law who is the one that was never cheated on said to him none of the pictures looked hot and heavy and he just kept asking why Rupart was looking into the camera. He also asked why she looked so uncomfortable in a lot of the photo's. He also pointed out that more than one was a duplicate zoomed in and wondered why there were so few pictures if they were making out for this great length of time. He also made a comment (god I am sorry and I will leave it out for any new future post) that logistically there is not a whole lot you can do in the front of a mini cooper and that if it was you would know what was going on, this is also shared by the 26 yr old who said he has tried to do stuff in a small car and he is 5"8" and it just is not possible (lord my friends). He also asked why the director was looking at the camera. I didn't show the photo's to my 17yr son cause not a topic I want to delve into with him - that is asking to go to a dark place but the other 2 guys in summary were really confessed by him staring at the camera to the point neither wanted to let it go, both said that he looked really creepy looking at her, both thought she looked uncomfortable. Then they both made fun of me. The son in law asked if Chris Hansen was around the corner cause how he was looking.
Morning.
There are things about this entire situation that are causing me to say Hmmmm constantly.
The Britpack clearly loves Kristen. They've always said such complimentary things about her and greeted her with such warmth in the pictures we've seen.
I know many people here and elsewhere thinks that Rob walks on water but........
As much as people say how adoringly Rob looks at Kristen and he wears his heart on his sleeve, Kristen does not always wear her heart on her sleeve but with Rob she did, she truly, truly did!
I read a Tweet last night that's really causing me to ask (as much as I don't condone what Kristen did) whether Kristen found out something that really hurt her and just reacted.
Just........Hmmm.
@PipDancer, God, if I was Papa or MamaStew, I would want to kill that pig too.
@Super RN Gas Passer, yeah, so true. Being curious, impulsive, attracted to someone who is experienecd and (seem) talented lead you to surrender to your inner weakness. You learn a life lesson dearly afterwards but you risk losing something that is so important to you. So sad, so sad. That's youth. That's life. That's human. I sympathize.
Monica from Asia
Thanks Robert for giving us a mans point of view and also Ginger for the three you asked, you were very brave!! lol
I think it's taught us all not to put R&K on a pedestal, cos the higher your up the bigger the fall!!
So if we can say any good has come out of the situation, this is it.
angelica, ali mac
thanks
i just wouldn't to be held accountable for some of the things i had done by the time i was 22 and i thank god the people in my life were willing to give me a second chance
want, i meant
I agree Robert, when it first came out I was so angry at her, but when I had a bit of time to think I remembered the stupidist things I've done SO FAR have been between the age of 18-21 (just a couple of things lol)
@Robert - I would like to meet a person who was their halo firmly attached to their heads that is an adult - it is part of life. Honestly is not about the fall it is about getting up. I think I can do everything by myself - the reality is I need a hand from time to time and have needed a shoulder or two. I have to tell you too - how awesome are you - most guys do not brave chat boards let alone twilight - I think that makes you cool as hell. :) - Hula hoop your Halo's guys cause we are all human
ginger
thank you
well you know.......
women don't scare me
just kidding
they scare the crap out of me
i think you pretty much nailed it though, it ain't the falling down
the measure of a man [or woman] is how he/she handles a crisis
anyways
Thank you, Robert. :)
hey there dottie
gotta tell you i stayed up half the night reading comments and yours were some of the best
Thank you, Robert :)
Ginger - I greatly enjoy your comments!
Annie - I hope that this doesn't sound creepy to you, but I just constantly want to hug you. I agree with everything you've said so far wholeheartedly!
I hope that you can all enjoy this day or are at least trying to!
Responses to Pip's post are interesting. Super has made good points too.
I am sure that the view we take is based on our own current age, gender and relationship experience.
Right now I am leaning towards Super but my feelings swing and may change at anytime.
Facts are facts, though.
Rob has to do what is right for him.
K has to face the consequences of her actions, whatever they may be, 22 years old or not.
Liberty has been put in a sad state and is a victim as well as the children.
Poopert, well, if I told you what I really thought should happen to him.....well...I better stop. (And he is ugly and has a pinched up mouse face...childish I know but heh it makes me feel better....that bastard!)
As of this morning, this is where I'm at with this big whole ugly mess which we should not be in in the first place....and save the "it's not our mess or business" responses bc no matter how you spin it WE ARE ALL FEELING HURT!
HEARTBREAKINGLY.......IT IS WHAT IT IS :(
*end of rant*
PS Hubby has been itching to post his male perspective on all of this but I'm not sure that would be such a great idea.
Annie and Leni,
I know I haven't been here much and maybe my days are numbered after saying this but,
I cannot believe you are trying to turn this around as being Rob's fault. I thought people were fan's of both around here, but wow that is just incredible.
Even if what you are implying is true you are not onlymaligning him but Kristen too by making her a very malicious devious person to suggest this was payback.
Thanks, Robert. I consider that high praise coming from you!
For your own peace of mind and in consideration of Rob and Kristen, I just want to encourage everyone to stop reading and discussing any and all gossip. This story belongs to the people who are directly involved. It's nobody else's business. Any "sources" who are talking to the media right now are HIGHLY suspect. I wouldnt trust them as far as I could throw them!
Jumping off the soapbox and back into real life now. Have a good one!
Luckystrike87:
If that is what you want to take away from what I wrote then so be it!
I really don't care..........For days I've come here and read comments from people trying to avoid asking the same question or having the same thoughts.
Feel free to breathe fire if you want.
@Dottie~I hope I am understanding you correctly....gossip is one thing but we are able to state our opinions, or not?
Please clarify.
@Annie~I was breating fire during my rant..lol
@I Believe
I get you 100% on the age and circumstances or even by the people we are around. Biggest example for me was the cussing, finger flying and attitude towards the press or people invading her privacy. I swear like a truck driver, have frequent flier miles on my finger (more often while driving) and would loose my crap on someone invading my personal space (thinking that is a mom thing more than anything). I have 4 tattoo's (one that takes up most of my leg that is a tribute to someone I loved that died), have had more piercings than should be legal. My friends are like this - my younger sisters are like this - it is not meant in rebellion, disrespect, but just who we are. My boss who is a couple yrs older than me at 40 has threatened to chase me down with Palmolive (I guess liquid dish soap sticks in your mouth more than bar soap) on numerous occasions per her cause she is a true southern lady and that is not how women should act (I get spared cause she still thinks I am a good person just not right in my head). To me some of the things in life are not a big deal that are devastating to others and vice versa. Morals and Religion play factors into this as well. I hope I don't offend you or want you to think I think less of Rob - my staunch support for Kristen comes from the reactions to her. I don't care if she was 40 - I just think the amount of hate going her way (by mostly women) is sickening. This is about cheating on her partner not on me - she didn't kill anyone but from most of the crap out there she would be vilified less if she had. I also have been in her place as a cheater (I never thought I would be until it happened). The cheater carries the shame no matter the reasons behind it, but I just don't feel it is my place to judge her. They had kids no more than 13 on twitter saying they were going to kill her - 13. I am sad that you are sad - the whole situation sucks and whole heartily respect your feelings and opinions. Keep your chin up - even on a cloudy day the sun breaks through.
Lucky when you use the word YOU it sounds like you are accusing us all of sayings it's Robs fault, so I take offence at that as I have never blamed him, so try not to generalise.
Dottie I agree about going to much into conspiracy theories and I keep telling myself this is not my business, but then something comes into my head and I want to see what others think, but I do agree we need to stop if we can, cos it won't change anything we have no control over this!
Luckystrike87:
I said that I enjoy ALL of Annie's comments - not just that one. I am in NO way saying that Kristen didn't do something wrong or that Rob deserved this. NOT AT ALL. Neither did Annie, I'm sure.
I hurt for Rob. I hurt for Kristen.
I'm going to stop now defending myself, because it's not worth it. Maybe people in this fandom should try to not constantly fight each other. Just a thought.
breathing
here is my suggestion ladies
i say we all get up off our asses and check out the new film "step up revolution" nothing really brings out the true meaning of revolution like dance. and hey if we all hold hands across america maybe one of them will burst into song for no apparent reason like in that new tom cruise movie.
who's with me?
I addressed my comment to Annie and Leni so I'm sorry if anyone thought I was lumping everyone together. I know I'm not part of your group here so maybe I should try harder to keep my opinions to myself better. Sorry.
Have a nice day everyone.
Stretch your arms out good and wide Robert cos I'm on the other side of the ocean lol
Oh and I agreed with Annie's last comment about Kristen wearing her heart on her sleeve with Rob and was in NO way meaning to say that it is his fault.
So ridiculous.
Sorry guys, rant over.
IB, I'm sorry. I just meant that since I stopped looking at any gossip or speculation I have felt SO much more at peace. Also. I don't want any opinion I might form to be based on something that isn't true. In addition, I think as the chatter about this dies down things will be better for all involved. I've been so busy I haven't had time to read the last 100 or so comments, so my post wasnt directed at anything I saw here. I wasn't trying to tell anyone what they could and couldnt discuss. Just sharing what has helped me and my opinion of the online chatter. Sorry for the confusion, sweets.
On a off subject - I can't wait to have my 3 youngest go back to school tomorrow since I work from home 2 days a week - I think I might run in traffic if I have to hear one more Justin Beiber song....I wonder if the stork dropped these 3 off at the wrong house.
We may not all agree on every aspect of this situation but if we keep civil to one another it will help :)
Ginger how long do your kids get for their holidays, my two are off for 9 weeks!
ali mac
i gotcha
come on
I am a walking contradiction.This morning I thought things were getting easier but seeing those removal vans totally fucked me up, I burst out crying.
Last night I was so pissed of with the reports/experts/sources, all those sites that have something to gain, they don't give a shit about R&K, they know fuck all. Also angry with myself, my righteouss 'how could she' hypocracy, clicking on sites I vowed I never would. You don't know them, what happened, why she did it. What was wrong in their relationship to cheat, knowing how it would crush Rob? Did she all of a sudden hate Rob, did she snap, living under so much scrutiny? Told myself to stop trying to understand, it is none of my business, maybe they are in hiding together already, talking, who knows. But seeing those vans caught me off guard and all my selfprocessed advice went right out of the window. I suppose more and more Bs is gonna come out, I have to be more aware, the leaches are having a field day cashing in on R&K's demise. I've only seen the earlier pics, not the ones you are mentioning and I don't want to either. I would love to meet that SCUMBAG, slapping that slimy smirk of his face. Reading some of your theories and @Ginger with a soul's 8:49 comment, sort of gave me some new perspective on this. Thanks!
@Ali - they go to year round school - so they go to school 9 weeks then 3 weeks off except in the summer they get 5 weeks off and boy am I ready for them to go back to school - 9,8,6 and all girls = name calling, hair pulling and lots and lots of tears (I think I have sat and cried a few times with them) by time it is school time again.
@Ginger~Yes, we all do come from different backgrounds and different points of view...that was my point....the reason why so many of us have differnt feelings on all of this.
I have been around here a while, this past year more in lurker mode but I am not a newbie (again, not pulling rank but want you to know my past experiences here) That being said those of us who know each other, for the most part, have been able to state our opinions, respectfully agree or disagree and move on. We know the differenced between each other and the troll we would chew up and spit out.
Leni said "Maybe people in this fandom should try to not constantly fight each other. Just a thought." I NEVER viewed stating my opinion in Roseland, where I have felt safe for so long, was "fighting." Maybe I am misinterpreting her statement and the word "fandom" implies out there and not here in Roseland.
So please clarify...no more opinions? Let me know.
Fianlly, you pointed out those wishing physical harm on K...to be crystal clear...I WOULD NEVER CONDONE THAT!
@IB.......You were breathing fire? :)
@Leni: hugs! :)
Nothing in my comment implied I blamed Rob.
@Annie~Yes, breathing fire and sprouting scales. Perhaps I am becoming a dragon? If so, I hope I will be a flying dragon so I can fly away from these troubles.
Hope things are well in the city!
Ginger my two are 7 and 4, a boy and a girl and we still have the name calling and slapping each other!! It's better when it's dry and they can get out to play!!
Robert I'm holding on tight..
I Believe - I think that stating your opinion is completely ok. All I meant is that I don't accuse others who state their opinion of hating Rob or Kristen or blaming one of them or taking sides, even if I don't agree with them. I just would like to be treated the same way ;)
Leni, thanks for your answer.
Do you mean accuse or excuse?
@I believe - Nah - I never ever got that impression of you at all. I just didn't want you too think that since I do speak a bit more about her that I am disregarding him. The hate raises the hackles and the momma in me and on a few occasions made me want to choke a few people through my computer.
It is super sad but it is what it is. For me and me only - I am just gonna look and hope for the good cause honestly it makes me feel better. Neither of these 2 are perfect, walk on water or are anything less than human which to me makes them more enduring. Perfection is boring. I am all for celebrating your flaws - it gives your critics less to use.
Good Morning, Roseland -
PipDancer - I kinda liked your rant. And did Rogue leave? I liked her thinking...
Dottie, like you I have eliminated all negativity from my computer visits and am feeling much better.
Hugs and love to all, including Rob, Kristen, and their families.
Thanks for the music, ladies.
so i got one taker=and an excellent one at that
one=high school all over again
come on now they don't call me lord of the dance for nothing
IB.......:) You aren't alone with the flying away.
Life in the city........Hazy, hot and humid!
I swear I'm wilting. Good grief!
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Gotta go.
Be back with more fire breathing comments later! (Kidding! Just kidding!) :)
Here's to a good Monday for everybody.
Bye.
I Believe - accuse.. sorry, that sentence probably didn't make much sense - my English gets worse when I'm annoyed (not at you) :)
I'm sorry, I know I am new here and I don't know the rules so I hope that Rose can clarify since she is the blog leader. Are the posters here not able to state their truthful opinion about someone else as long as they are respectful?
I understand people not wanting rampant gossip floating around out there, but if it's not to much of a presumption for me to ask, what is different about Rogue posting their ideas, than Blue or say Annie?
I see so many people getting so angry about this and becoming very aggressive towards each other, is that really necessary regardless of which side we're on?
Everyone who is posting here now was new at one point and time, you had to learn the rules and the ropes. I have read the blog for a while and I know that the way the new people here are being treated, people who came here because they wanted to make sense of this horrible situation. That all. We want to make sense of this, and the best way to do that is like what Rogue said the other day, talking about it.
I think Rogue's point of view, was actually very well thought out, and on some level made sense. Lucky and I maybe overstepped by continuing the conversation on blog.
I am not wanting to start an argument, I am sincerly confused, I thought that this was a place where as long as people were respectful to each other that Rose allowed people to voice their thoughts.
Robert,
I'm game for a Step Up marathon. I'm all about the dance world - lived in it for many a year :-) (Dance Mom - but not like the crazies on TV).
ROBERT
I wanted to jump in right quick and say Hi to you!!!!
LENI, ANNIE, GINGER, and IB
I think we are all on edge right now...Feelings are raw...we may say things we regret and if not under such gut wrenching circumstances, we would all maybe be more neutral in our comments. The only thing I won't tolerate is people coming on here and calling Kristen profane names. I know it's not my blog but as a regular poster I won't tolerate that out of respect for ROB , KRISTEN or ROSE
Love to All
TTYL
IB - I'm picturing you as Mrs Donkey in Shrek now!!
Opinions are fine and everyone is going to have a different one. What has saddened me over the past week,on Twitter and the internet, NOT HERE I hasten to add, is that people are literally behaving as if Kristen has committed some heinous crime against the whole of humanity,there are atrocities committed all over the world,every day and yet this is front page news? This is a terrible situation for those individuals directly involved in it but it's for them to resolve. People are reacting without considering any kind of context. Only those directly involved know the true circumstances,reasons, whatever yet people are reading absolute rubbish that they would and have, laughed at, prior to last week. I highly doubt anyone close to Rob and Kristen is commenting on anything at present and they're certainly not going to do it to a tabloid if they did. I've also seen the death threats and invective,often coming from kids and you have to wonder what the hell their parents are doing, not screening what they're up to online and also what they're teaching them that they think that kind of behaviour is acceptable.
Super, I completely agree with you there's no reason for anyone to call anyone else any names. I personally think that people who use profane and crude language when talking about another person are simply showing their ignorance.
Robert I may even do an Irish Jig for you. I've never had a lesson in my life but I can do a good version. I did it once on a night out and got a round of applause and everyone asked me where I'd learned to dance lol
litmom
confession time the reason they dont call me lord of the dance for nothing is because no one ever calls me that in the first place
SUPER
WHHAATTTUUPPP?
Well said Angelica my head comes up with enough theories without adding to it with tabloid crap!
Ali mac
the sound you hear in the distance is me going YYEESSS from across the pond
Ali mac
the sound you hear in the distance is me going YYEESSS from across the pond
sorry about that
LOL - Roberto - I THINK I can dance, but NO - I have absolutely NO talent. I am amazingly brilliant in my dreams, though.
Super~Great opinion as long as I can call Poopert names bc he is a bag of shit...just sayin'
angelica~I love Mrs. Donkey in Shrek...she has such be-u-tee-ful eyes and eyelashes!
Was doing better until I foolishly looked at gossipcop during my break...stupid stupid stupid. Now I have a lovely lump in my throat and cant stomach my lunch.
Its pointless to bicker. We all are entitled to our opinions, but it doesnt make any sense to point fingers when none of us know the truth. Things will play out the way they are meant to. Keep in mind that karma is a bitch...poopert will get his in the end. Hopefully sooner rather than later. Wish I had connections to blacklist the guy in the entire film making industry.
@Robert and ali mac....may I join the dance?
@Ginger...my kids go back to school on august 29th. They have been off since mid June. Football season starts today...and in my eyes so does the countdown to school. Love my munchkins...but having a 13 yr old son and a 10 yr old daughter bored out of their minds is not fun to deal with.
@Marie
Haha I actually made the mistake and tried to argue with the nastiest person I think I have seen in print on there, in the end I was so mad I was chain smoking and the 13rd old (god I hope they were a child with what they were saying or maybe not because their parent really needs a wake up call)was probably laughing at me.
@Marie lol I feel you. I love them to death but there is only so much swimming and outside playing they will do before they get bored then start fighting. Ha - karma from my mom cause my 2 sisters and 1 used to fight like cats and dogs.
maria
of course sorry that took so long
I don't know if we're suppose to bring news in, but this is from People. Though, still take it with a grain of salt. Here's the link: http://t.co/v5h12ZFb
It states that they still have not communicated. :""""( TBH, I don't think Rob has gotten over the 'anger' phase yet, hence he won't be able to have any communication with her yet. I sincerely hope that he has not made a rash decision by doing that People mag has said, but to at least give them both a chance to talk this out. It will be very difficult for BOTH to move on whether to stay in the relationship or to get closure without this.
My thoughts and prayers are with them.
Maria of course you can x
@sam - shrugs I don't know but it says they didn't talk until now and it was to tell her to move out. I just can't believe anyone close to them talking to the press, they never did before I would be shocked if they did now.
as a side note OMG please don't read any of the comments on People - I am not sure if I need to smoke or throw up.
@Ginger with a Soul
I think with the picture included in the article, makes it a little more real, to me at least and I'm back to being down again. :'(
I should vow to stay away from gossip sites starting today. And thank God, I didn't venture into the comments section (I'm definitely not as brave as you). My heart can't take any more heartbreak.
Hey guys~
That "People" post was heartbreaking, but we have to remember to take everything with a grain of salt. We have to remain realistic. We know that Rob is devastated and that they both were probably not at the house anymore anyway. We don't need any gossip blog telling us something that we all could've guessed anyway.
We don't know what will happen in the long run. It's only been a week...there is too much hurt right now to decide anything, don't you think?
Just try and stay positive...better said than done, I know. Just support, be compassionate and hopefully places will back off so they can try to reach a point in private. I really do hope they talk. They do need to...it's very important.
I can't believe I'm bringing up this song, but JB's "Never say Never?" LOL..no one knows what will happen in the future, and that can be a beautiful thing. :)
~Lynn
@sam yeah GC is reporting it too - I just have a really hard time believing either camp laying this willingly in the press or real sources close to them discussing their relationship (god I hope not) like they are saying. Time to bury my head and heart in work - I don't feel like being in the rain - catch you guys later.
@sam powell... if you are referring to Kristen moving out because Rob told her to...well, I'm inclined to believe that moving out is her own decision. She is the one that committed the indiscretion, it should be Kristen to move out. After all, it is Rob's house.
As for them still not talking, please remember that he was blindsided with this only a week ago. This is a huge betrayal no matter how you look at it. The anger and heartbreak will not lessen in such a short period of time. I wouldn't be surprised if it took several weeks for them to be able to sit and talk. Any reconciliation will take time...we are looking at months people...and will only be possible if they have an open mind, have their emotions under control, and have friends and family looking out for both of their interests. Their professional obligations and the media will only add to their difficulties.
Unfortunately.
@MLH414...
well said Lynn.
I hadn't posted here in forever, or updated my own Kristen blog (until now) I had sorta lost interest in the topic. I didn't stop being a fan, but just moved onto to other interest.
Now I feel the same pain (for them) as many of you.
Someone asked me what I would do if I was in Rob's situation. Its hard to say without knowing all the facts, and we have no right to know the facts. But what I would want, if I were in his shoes, is to know if Kristen really wants to fix what was broken. If she truly wants to get to the root of this (and a therapist would need to be involved) then I would certainly want to see if this can be salvaged. Couples do survive situations like this. If their feelings for each other are still genuine, then obstacles can be overcome.
This is so much worse because of the media coverage.
Ok I am over my mini breakdown. They realistically weren't going to be able to live together after this and would obviously need time apart to fix it if they even want that. I think I was more bugged out by the sources comment but you know what I am going to stay positive keep my expectations on the bar room floor for any type of reconciliation (friends or relationship) and stay away from the gossips sites cause the comments make by blood pressure rise. I support them both and I will not turn my back on her even if they don't fix any of it. Not today, not tomorrow.
Yes...keep away from the gossip sights...and that includes People. The sources are just speculations, no different than ours, and only serve to stir the pot. I'm still nursing the stomach ulcer that I got from visiting those sites during lunch. For crying out loud....what in the world was I thinking?
Hi Dano!
I remember you! I too have been lurking for a while and it seems this crisis is bring everyone back to good old Roseland...there are some old friends I miss...here's shouting out to Manjen, Kami and Cate....I miss you all...hope you are lurking!
love your post they teared me up I hope the same I want them to me ok whatever that means your awesome.
i agree with itsyblue she neads her bear he is her rock he always has protected her from the wolves
Even as I write this I know that I have no right to do so. Because me following this couple, or any celebrity, searching in vain for news, pictures and glimpses into their lives, is what helped cause this situation. I cherish that I saw the signs of love in pics and videos caught by the paparazzi. I also hate that I saw this. And that Rob saw this. We don't know for sure what the situation was. We don't know anything. I pray that Rob is ok. That Kristen is ok. And that what is best for them happens, in the privacy they deserve. We have no right to know, even if we want to know desperately. What I do know is that I support them, no matter what, separately and together, and their right to privacy.
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