Random Thoughts
1) It's been a couple of weeks now...
Remember what I posted?
What We Actually Know.
1. Creepy pics of gross director with his arms around Kristen
and kissing her in her car.
2. Kristen's apology to everyone she hurt...
and her desperate love for Rob.
I said that was all we actually knew.
What have we learned in 2 weeks?
3. Rob's reps will come out and talk about
Rob's upcoming appearances with Cosmopolis.
They will discuss his job.
His promotion.
His work.
Not the intimate details of his personal life.
Not the intimate details of his personal life.
That's what we know.
I can tell you what we don't know...
EVERYTHING ELSE.
No matter what you read...
Where you read it.
Good Gossip
Bad Gossip.
The key word is
GOSSIP
Where you read it.
Good Gossip
Bad Gossip.
The key word is
GOSSIP
That includes those beacons of
honesty and truth
People and US Magazines.
2) Rob is making an appearance on The Daily Show and GMA
People were ALL aflutter about 'poor' Rob.
'How is he going to handle it??'
Rob is a grown man.
He knows EXACTLY what he is doing.
He's working.
If he doesn't want to discuss something...
He won't.
How much simpler does it have to be?
He's promoting his movie.
Something he is incredibly proud of.
Part of the job.
And honestly...
Wouldn't it be GREAT to see him smile??
Yes.
Yes it would.
3) I admitted that I was WAY over invested
in this relationship.
I never thought I would react the way I have.
But at least I have learned something from all this.
Keeping it at arm's length from now on.
It's kinda like I'm sitting on the edge of a pier...
My feet just dangling in the water
barely touching the surface
Enough to get wet
Enough to feel how cool the water is...
But I'm not diving in
I'm never going in too deep again.
I've always said the lunatic fringe were rabid hyenas....
Ripping. Shredding. Devouring.
Picking the meat off the bone.
Guess I was right.
Look at them circling... going in for the kill.
Acting like Kristen personally punched them in the gut.
Predictable behavior is... well... Predictable.
Fucking scavengers.
in this relationship.
I never thought I would react the way I have.
But at least I have learned something from all this.
Keeping it at arm's length from now on.
It's kinda like I'm sitting on the edge of a pier...
My feet just dangling in the water
barely touching the surface
Enough to get wet
Enough to feel how cool the water is...
But I'm not diving in
I'm never going in too deep again.
I've always said the lunatic fringe were rabid hyenas....
Ripping. Shredding. Devouring.
Picking the meat off the bone.
Guess I was right.
Look at them circling... going in for the kill.
Acting like Kristen personally punched them in the gut.
Predictable behavior is... well... Predictable.
Fucking scavengers.
This post is brought to you by Faith.
I have it.
I have faith that Robert knows what he is doing.
I have faith that Kristen is doing the right thing.
I have faith in love.
I have faith in forgiveness.
I have faith that everything isn't as clear cut
as you think it is...
I have faith that everything will be OK.
I have faith in Rob and Kristen.
I also have faith in Tom Sturridge.
I just do.
Because I want to.
Shut up.
I don't have any song lyrics to close this out...
But I do have a quote that I've used before.
It fits.
And as we all know in life
It's useless to obsess over things
over which we have no control.
We don't.
We can hope.
We can want Rob and Kristen to be OK
and to find happiness
But it's useless to obsess over something
that in the grand scheme of things
really shouldn't affect our lives.
No matter how badly we want something
This belongs to Rob and Kristen.
The Good.
The Bad.
No relationship is perfect.
Nothing good ever comes easy.
Until next time.
Bye for now
Here comes the Sun.
And it's all right.
I have it.
I have faith that Robert knows what he is doing.
I have faith that Kristen is doing the right thing.
I have faith in love.
I have faith in forgiveness.
I have faith that everything isn't as clear cut
as you think it is...
I have faith that everything will be OK.
I have faith in Rob and Kristen.
I also have faith in Tom Sturridge.
I just do.
Because I want to.
Shut up.
I don't have any song lyrics to close this out...
But I do have a quote that I've used before.
It fits.
And as we all know in life
It's useless to obsess over things
over which we have no control.
We don't.
We can hope.
We can want Rob and Kristen to be OK
and to find happiness
But it's useless to obsess over something
that in the grand scheme of things
really shouldn't affect our lives.
No matter how badly we want something
This belongs to Rob and Kristen.
The Good.
The Bad.
No relationship is perfect.
Nothing good ever comes easy.
Until next time.
Bye for now
Here comes the Sun.
And it's all right.
564 comments:
«Oldest ‹Older 201 – 400 of 564 Newer› Newest»@Robert - you are a funny funny man - a much needed break
I just have to say thank God she dropped out of that movie. Thank God - cause that was the worst thing for her right now.
Ginger - I agree 100%
yall are talking about the uk premtere of OTR right?, she didn't drop out of cali, did she?
Don't know if it's 100% accurate or not but I read that Kristen is dropping out of Cali. If it's true I just want to say how proud I am of her for doing what she thinks is best for herself. Work will always be there but her well-being and personal relationship is what's most important. Good for her!
Dottie - ITA <3
@Robert - It looks like she dropped out of Cali - it looks like she is getting her priorities and life in order - I say good for her
dottie, leni,ginger i know yall are right but this makes me really scared for her, because she never ever backs down from a challenge
@Robert - I look at it as her saying what is more important to her now - the career can wait - maybe she is finally putting herself and her relationship 1st.
i swear i have never seen anything like this
i just don't know how much she can take
Robert, I see it as her prioritizing and letting go of what's less important to focus on what's most important.
Robert...I'd say with this news that we're seeing exactly that...the fight in Kristen Stewart.
yeah yall are right i know it just makes me sad that it had to come to this
and the fallout from this is going to be vicious
Hello, everyone!
I'm calling it "good", as I try to do with everything unknown. :)
hey DK, did you like my playboy story? i meant to dedicate it to you for no other reason than i thought you would get a kick out of it
Trying to do business as usual, rarely works, per the usual.
@Robert
I'm blushing. Have you checked the 100 emails and jokes I have sent you?
i just read my last post
could i be any more full of myself?
i have been checking my email all day, but here i go running off to check it one more time
@Robert
Stalker? Who me? Hardly able to walk and talk.
@Robert
Full of yourself? Certainly! No one else can do that for you, especially if you don't.
@Robert
Although I can chew gum in any position, bar none.
She dropped out of Cali? Good for her. There's no way she would be able to focus on filming with this looming over her head.
@Robert
So build me up
(build me up)
Buttercup
Don't break my heart
Robert you are too funny...I enjoy your wit.
Hi DK!
Hi, Maria, ye smarty hearty!
You know you are getting old and fuddy-duddy (like me), when you don't even want to think about a faked porn film about snuffing off for kicks!
That would and does in reality, suit certain tastes and makes all involved big $$$$$$$$!
My take on that, worth nada.
After it is made and shown, the film will probably become a cult classic, and I will bow to Ebert on that. But I won't eat any of my hats!
DK i i i need you more than anyone darlin you know that i have from the start
and before anyone tells us to get a room
one last thing tho' i loved the joke, still laughing, now i am off for an overnight stay at the doctors for a sleep apnia test. wish me luck
@Robert
No one has told me that in years! Funny and giggly, and comic relief.
@Robert
Some sleep you'll get in that test room! But breathe on, slaymaster.
Posted by K2 Robsten Angels-snapped up by me!
JOKE!
"A man is driving up a steep, narrow mountain road. A woman is driving down the same road.
As they pass each other the woman leans out the window and yells, "PIG!!"
The man immediately leans out his window and replies, "BI.TC.H!!"
They each continue on their way, and as the man rounds the next corner, he crashes into a pig in the middle of the road."
Today is a weird day - Now all those wedding photo's are out - weird I say - just weird
One More Joke, then I'll laugh while doing my laundry (sigh):
A man buys a lie detector robot that slaps people who lie. He decided to test it at dinner:
Dad: Son where were you today during school hours?
Son: At school (robot slaps son)
. . . Son: Okay I went to the movies!
Dad: Which one?
Son: Harry Potter (robot slaps again!)
Son: Okay I was watching indecency.
Dad: What? When I was your age I didn't even know what indecency was! (robot slaps dad)
Mom: Hahahahaha! After all he is your son!(robot slaps mom)
@Ginger
Those pics are old, right?
Beautiful mom, Sienna, and tiny blackhaired Marlowe!
@DK -Kinda - they are from June but these weren't released before. It is just weird that we got Cali, then the pics back to back it felt like.
I also forgot to say howdy - sitting at work multitasking
@Ginger
What wedding pictures are you talking about ? I don't do twitter is that where there from ?
Just seen were she may be dropping out of Cali, wonder if she will still be on as a producer.
@Ginger
I saw some before this but love the little black dress that K rocked. Such a to do was had over too casual at the reception back then. Happy pics, no matter when they appear, are just that, happy.
You are magnif. at multi everything, I'd bet my usual hundo on that, too.
@Ginger where i can find the wedding pics?
I think is a good move for her to drop Cali, her role was to be a porn star. She doesn't need that now. She needs to put her head in the place and be ready to lie on the darkness, this is a role who can give her awards .
@Pam - they are from the NJ wedding
@DK - I had seen some just not that many - there are a bunch I hadn't seen before.
Lied again, I'm predictable-one more joke:
After a quarrel, a wife said to her husband,
"You know I was a fool when I married you."
The husband replied,
"Yes dear, I was in love and didn't notice."
(This fool is going to vamoose!)
@Isis - I saw them on http://www.robstendreams.com
I’m in total agreement with everyone else, that dropping out of Cali is great news. I was really hoping we would hear this. I agree Dottie, I’m proud of her for doing so. I hope this allows her to focus on her own health and well-being - the things that are truly important.
Morning everyone. I just read She dropping out from Cali. Agree with Freddie,Dottie,Ginger, Maria, Isis, I think its a good thing for her too.
But seing the wedding photo in NJ, and remembering its just a month ago, just makes my heart breaking and crying all over again. Sigh, deep breaths, I need to go to work with good mood today :'(
I think if it is true she has dropped out of Cali then it is a good thing. She seemed really excited about it but I was thinking that of all the parts for her to be playing right now.
As much as we may want to support Kristen, playing a porn star after being caught up in a cheating scandal would be like chumming the water right now. In any event it may be more about her respect for the filmmakers and producers. Indie movies have a hard enough time as it is and if her being associated with it would at this point be more of a hinderence than a help she may have removed herself to give it the best chance to succeed without being dragged into a scandal involving her personal life.
I'm not sure whether Kristen was going to attend the UK premiere of OTR but if she did bow out again it would likely be that she didn't want her presence to cause damage to a film she is so passionate about.
Hi Roseland!!!
Good evening!! I'm very sad about the news of Kristen dropping out of the movie, Cali. However, hope this will be good for her and possibly, good for "them."
I see we have quite a few living in LALA LAND now!!! Welcome to the party. Let's twirl!!
Perhaps R & K are making some plans to get away after he gets back from Iraq? Doesn't hurt to dream.
Liz in NC and LALA LAND!!
I support both Rob and Kristen in whatever decisions they make and whatever it takes to help them find their happy again....however that may look. Wishing for peace and kindness for them in all of this.
Have to say that Sienna really looks wonderful with sweet baby Marlowe all snuggled up. :)
Take care everyone. <3
Hi everyone. I've followed all of you here for quite a while, and I want to say you all are wonderful people and have always been so supportive of Rob and Kristen. I think the stress of the past two weeks is taking its toil on everybody, not just here but at other places as well.
No one ever said that their fans weren't outspoken, enthusiastic about what we believe in, we care and we aren't ashamed to show it. We all have different opinions but at the end of the day we care about each other.
I have many friends that I have met all over the world the past 3 years, and I'm sure you do too. We all came from different places and met up all over the internet through blogs, boards, twitter, and all the other sites out there. Some came because of Twilight and others came because they saw love and who doesn't love LOVE.
We've had a wonderful time watching them and seeing love grow between them and waiting for more good things to come. Today we can honestly say we don't know anything about what is going on with them but we're still watching and waiting.
So many emotions have been shown the last two weeks. It's ranged from hate, anger, disappointment, sadness, unforgiveness and forgiveness, some are even happy but I can't imagine why anyone would be happy to know that two people are sad even if it wasn't Rob and Kristen.
Even with all of these emotions goodness has come from it. We've learned that we will survive when something like this happens to people that we love and support.
Something more important than anything that has been shown during all of this and that is we have made genuine friendships that will last a lifetime. The day this story broke, we could have just walked away from all of this, walked away from all the friends we have made, put three years behind us and never looked back.
Why didn't we? I think it is because we all have hope. Hope that these two will be happy again whether together or apart. Love is a powerful thing and it can bring the strongest man to his knees. It can reach into a world filled with hate and find goodness.
I think back on Rose's post and the thing that comes to mind is these words...."Nobody said that it would be easy...they just promised it would be worth it."
I have Faith. The substance of things hoped for, the evidence of things not seen.
Hello all.
I know that Kristen will break sooner or later.I don't know it seems like she's not going to survive this without Rob's help.As I said it before I'm worry about them without each other,they seem to be dependent with each other.I will continue to pray for both of them.(now I'm emotional)
@Ginger,how are you,I'm glad too that she drop out.I want her to focus on her personal life.This is just proof that Rob is more important to her than her career.
@torrimarie i applaud you for your concise and well delivered response to valeria
T xx
Wow, why is it ok to call Rupert Rupig and Ruperve, yet you all feel sorry for Kristen...It takes two and no one forced Kristen, because the one thing I always agreed on was she was opinionated, stubborn, and childish to the point of no one is going to tell her what to do or make her do something she didn't want...So um it must be ok to say Krispig and Trampire...No need to make her feel left out or unequal...Don't be hypocrites, and yes by saying Kristen was victimized in this your all hypocrites...SHE WAS NO VICTIM...If anything she played with Rupert like a little toy...He looks like a love sick ass, while she plays the perfect Vixen...But this two are both disgraceful with their infidelity...Both are equally to blame...
Also I have a question for Rose...Just curious as to why you never show your beloved Tom's woman Sienna...I know how you have said she is disgraceful because she is a home wrecker and I believe a whore or perhaps that was someone else in your fandom...Any there was a picture today of her and Marlowe, ya know Toms little girl...The couple who truly express their love for each other, so much so they have a child now...Why is it ok to say these things about Sienna, yet defend Kristen for doing the same thing, and for breaking Robs heart whom you adore so much you have a blog devoted to him...Yet it's ok that Kristen took part in infidelities and help destroy a marriage with children...Not sure how your mind works...But I am curious what your answer is...Though because it's a realist question you most likely won't be able to answer it...I'm glad you are an optimist though, it's good to feel positive...Unfortunately when your fantasy couple don't reunite I'm sad that you may end up in a dark depression... So to all you who actually think Rob will go back to her and I don't mean for publicity's sake for BD2 promo, but in reality, don't you think it would be better to prepare yourselves now...Because Rob despises cheaters, and he looks to his family and their longevity, where Kristen seems to look at her parents who are not together...
@Torrimarie;
I agree with another comment you made about two groups, those that love Kristen but hate her for what she did to Rob and those that love her regardless, okay make that three and those that have always hated her because she is with Rob.
I love the guys very much; i am the middle road and always have been. I love both Kristen and Rob and respect them both equally. I did put this across the other day, would people's reactions have been any different if it had been Rob who cheated, or would one of the groups believe Kristen drove him to it?
My answer is very simple,
When you hurt someone it doesn't matter if the male does it or the female, people get hurt. It's harder for a woman to overcome being the one who cheated, because she will be forever labelled a ......
whereas a man cheating, well in time it is seen as many things including a 'mid life crisis' a time period where a man is losing his youthfulness and heading towards getting old.
Woman have it a lot harder and when a woman is cheated on, she doesn't get over it nearly as quickly as a man does.
In simple terms;
both are hurting and there is no way Rob would want Kristen going through this kind of vilification and hatred, but he is a silent person and believes in working things out privately. He has not sent Kristen out to face the wolves and they devour her, hence she has not been seen, she knows right now a lot of people hate her for what she has done, but no one hates her more than herself right now.
Private problems are sorted out privately, hence all you are getting in the media right now is speculation and spun half-truths from people who know nothing and will tell you a story and hope you believe it.
To @Annie;
His silence is NOT hurting Kristen, the media and the haters are.
As i stated, when you have a relationship you have problems you sort them out PRIVATELY. You don't hash it out in the media, you don't take walks to the supermarket for the whole world to see. You do it in the confines of your own personal space.
These two have lived reluctantly under the media spotlight for over 4 years and each time they have not tried to allow anyone to sell any part of it. So do you seriously think Rob is going to do anything publicly to change that?
Think again, anything that has or will be said and sorted will be done with the utmost respect for their privacy.
YES Kristen made a very public statement and in doing so, publicly shamed herself for her wrong doing, she did right in my eyes.
She told the world she made a mistake, she told the world how sorry she was and she told the world she LOVES Rob. That was humiliation enough for such a young girl who has always guarded her privacy with her life.
Rob's silence is not seen as an attack or a disgust or even a mark of humiliation for Kristen, he is private and is dealing with everything privately.
@Robert and DK,you two made me laugh.
@Tempest,I glad you posted something new today in your blog.Continue posting and ignore the lunatics.
I'm just going to leave this here b/c it says exactly what I'm thinking at the moment...
http://www.twitlonger.com/show/ioafnh
and this:
H.O.P.E.- Hold On Pain Ends
and this:
Faith is the bird that sings when the dawn is still dark. ~Rabindranath Tagore
and this:
Forgiving is love's toughest work, and love's biggest risk. If you twist it into something it was never meant to be, it can make you a doormat or an insufferable manipulator. Forgiving seems almost unnatural. Our sense of fairness tells us people should pay for the wrong they do. But forgiving is love's power to break nature's rule. ~Lewis B. Smedes
and finally this b/c how can you not smile:
http://24.media.tumblr.com/tumblr_m8en75hIwt1rcpluqo1_250.gif
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DK, Robert and Ginger (from the other day)- Thanks for the laughs. We need it right now with emotions running high.
Such sweet pics of a tiny baby girl with her mum. Wishing the new parents lots of sweet moments discovering little wonders daily.
@Holy - waves - I am good how are you today?
@ Nina Pearl - ahh how are you my dear - can't say I missed you. I will answer that question on the Rupig - please go through every post I have said on here and I have called him it once and it was in response to him going out in public - carefree like nothing just happened. I have not called him a name in reference to the kissing incident (that is what we see and all we know - someone as simple as you can see that too). I called him that because he is a 41 yr old man that has not said anything and has allowed people like you to call her names and trash her without stepping up.
Heard that Kristen has dropped out of Cali. If it is to focus on her life and getting Rob to trust her again, I say GREAT! If it is because she is beating herself up over something she can't change, I say don't do it. Also heard that she is not going to the London premiere of OTR. Please, fans, let's let her know we still love her and want to see her as she has truly giving her acting chops to bringing MaryLou alive for us. Let's tell her she needs to be there; that we will support her. I think she has suffered enough for her transgression.
Melinda- Thank you. That pretty much sums up what I'm thinking too. I have faith in Rob and Kristen...they know what their doing. Still wishing them all the best...
@Melinda
Like a fresh breeze blowing our way, what you shared. XO
Lauryn Hill
Tell Him
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=KIgDtNM4Sg8&feature=related
Now...
Good morning everyone from the laid back land of WA.
I want if you will allow me to address some things first.
Rob and his silence;
I have heard so many debates about this and why you haven't heard from him or his camp. Well i think i covered it in a previous post but i will say it again;
Privacy at this moment in time is what is paramount for Rob and indeed for Kristen.
She made a very public statement 2 wks ago and that has been it. Nothing more and nothing less, despite what the stupid rags are confessing up right now (jeez i hope none of them are religious?)
Everyone wants to weigh in on this and it's making it worse, for Rob's part in all of this, what do the fans expect him to do? He is not a fame hungry actor who has to sell his soul for a little bit of exposure, he is a man, a very private man and this is a very private situation that has happened to him. He can take it on the chin and focus on his work and his career, or he can sort out this mess privately and then focus on what needs to be done - career.
SO many have both of them so high up on a pedestal that now when one of them has fallen, the shock and righteous disgust is in abundance all over the place.
They are humans and they are not machines. They have careers but their careers are not what define them, they define them (if that makes sense to all of you lovely people in here)
Too many fans expect too much, i believe that was the basics of Rose's post - investing too much, taking an interest in too much and then blurring the lines a little.
Kristen, god bless her little heart, is fighting a battle right now to put right what she did wrong. She is suffering a lot of inner turmoil and the last thing she needs is fans standing outside with a nose to hang her with. She did wrong, she knows she has, and she has hurt the one person in her life she loves more than anything. More than her career.
Right now, if the rumours are actually true and not gossip fodder, then she is doing the right thing for her and for her relationship (if that's the only thing she wants to focus on)
She wants to put right, she wants to make better, she wants to stop the hurt that is affecting both of them.
There is no 'poor Rob' and 'hate Kristen' they are both hurting right now, Kristen for what she has done and Rob for what has been done to him. IF by some miracle they come out of this stronger, and i do believe they will, it will redefine their relationship on a more secure footing, no longer Robsten (hate that word) but Rob and Kristen, not part of some monster that took over their lives, and the fans, need to respect them and take a very big step back and allow them to do this for themselves. Both their careers will always be there, both are incredibly proud of each others achievements, but THIS right now for Kristen is what is most important and i stand by Rob and i stand by Kristen. She needs support, not ridicule, she needs love not hate, she needs Rob.
Wow @NinaPearl did something really bad crawl up under your nose, your indignation for a girl - simply incredible that you can get out of bed with all that hate swirling around in your head. Oh and Rose has spoken about Tom's significant other so i think that argument is mooted as well.
Sorry to be missing the party over here but I'm at a FB Release party for my friend's new book which came out today. I was one of the editors so I'm just a WEE bit proud!!!
Laters, y'all ...
Free drinks in LALA LAND!!!
Not Fade Away
Buddy Holly:
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=SalfvYY-Z4Q
Ok...correct me if I am wrong, but I was under the impression that Kristen's parents were still married to one another. I read that a few years back because it was mentioned that unlike some HW/LA raised kids, her parents were still together. If I am wrong, please let me know.
@LIZ
I'll join you soon in LaLA and raise you one.
Congrats to your friend on her book!
@Tempest
That feels right, privacy and less fan attention and debate. No more time to wallow in the mire, rather inspire!
@Liz,congrats my dear.
This Liberty woman is enjoying the attention. She's been photograph by the papz almost everyday with a big smile on her face.This woman probably have the papz on her speed dial.Sorry guys she just made me sick.
Hi ladies – I hope everyone has had a good day.
DK – thanks for the jokes earlier. I needed them and had a good laugh.
Tempest – thanks again for your perspective. Your words are very calming.
Melinda - I haven’t forgotten ….I’ve asked some people at the office (actual Torontonians) to give me their recommendations on the best restaurants in TO. I’ll post something for you in a couple of days, if not sooner. You may have your itinerary all planned out but in the event you are looking for a couple of things to do, here are some suggestions:
- Royal Ontario Museum (ROM)
- Canada’s Wonderland – it’s definitely not Disney World but it’s not pretty good – they have some good rollercoasters if you are into them.
- Art Gallery of Ontario
- CN Tower – formerly the tallest free-standing structure in the world – we were eclipsed by a tower in Dubai, I think
- Toronto Zoo
- Shows in the Theatre District or if you have a car and feel like traveling you can go to Stratford for theatre
- Niagara Falls – about 2 hours southwest of Toronto. Lundy’s Lane is pretty cheesy with the wax museum and haunted houses, but there are also two good Casinos – Casino Niagara and FallsView Casino - not to mention the falls themselves
- the harbour front is also a nice area to go walking or you can take a ferry to Toronto Island to get out of the hustle and bustle
More to follow…..
After reading through so many comments in the past few days, I thought I would add something that has been inspiring my own hope for Rob and Kristen. I do believe that they had/have a true love, and on that merit I draw inspiration and hope from this:
"Love is patient, love is kind. It does not envy, it does not boast, it is not proud. It is not rude, it is not self-seeking, it is not easily angered, it keeps no record of wrongs. Love does not delight in evil, but rejoices with the truth. It always protects, always trusts, always hopes, always perseveres. Love never fails."
1 Corinthians 13:4-8a
"And now these three remain: faith, hope, and love. But the greatest of these is love.
1 Corinthians 13:13
The line that refers to love always protecting, always trusting, always hoping, and always persevering, - love never failing, means a lot to me. I know that the situation they are currently facing seems to contradict this part of love, but I truly believe this is the aspect of love that will see them through to the other side of these dark days. I have been in Rob's shoes. I know the type of pain and heartache that he has experienced, and I can honestly say that trusting in the love I believed in and giving it a second chance was the best thing I could ever have done. No regrets.
Don't walk away without giving it everything you've got - not doing so is where regret will seep in. As Rose said, It's not easy, but it is worth it. Most definitely!
Hi DK
Geez...I just got home. It's been a long day and I come in and start trying to catch up on all the posts...I keep thinking that everybody will start to calm down about all of this but it seems like everyone is on edge and it just keeps escalating!!!
Maybe I'm wrong here but we all need to just back off all of this....there is nothing to be gained by beating a horse to death....TO DEATH...it's just getting everyone on the blog here stressed out and unhappy...
We have analzyed this thing from every angle imaginable. It can't be un done. NO good is going to come from our continuing to argue about what we think they should or shouldn't do....
I am concerned for Kristen...her well being and her safety. Their team of consultants will advise them on how they should best handle this situation and there are many factors involved I am sure that WE KNOW ABSOLUTELY NOTHING ABOUT!!!! So that being the case, we need to trust that they will handle this in the best way and BACK OFF!!!
ALI MAC
Thank you for pointing out that its closer to the weekend than I originally thought!!!! Yay!!!
@Loui...thank you.
"Look around you, look up here
Take time to make time
Make time to be there"
Lady
Little River Band:
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ze6zm1MUtOA
Thank you/ShockingPoetry
Hi Super!
Totally agree...what could be said has been said. Now we are just running around in circles.
Thank goodness for Robert's and DK's jokes!
Annie, thank you for your sweet comments, very classy. Tempest thank you.
I know I am probably just in a mood, who knows but Nina, a couple of things if you don't mind please.
First off, the name Rupig, was given to Mr. Swine...er Sanders by a person who has been very clear in the fact that they are not absolving Kristen of anything, so please take note of that. There is a lot of validity in some of your comments, but that leads me into the second part of my comment.
What does Sienna, Tom and Marlowe have to do with this? It seems to me that you have some anger issues towards Rose for whatever reason involving Tom, Sienna or Marlowe and I would like to suggest that you send a private email to her about that, because as far as I know Tom, Sienna nor Marlowe have weighed in on this situation at all. I also would like to say that I once again find it very classless and disgusting for someone to use children to make a point for their own personal agenda. Now if you'd talked about how cute Marlowe is or how wonderful Sienna looks that's one thing, to use them to make a point in a vendetta is another.
I agree with some of your comments but bringing someone's child into this was wrong.
DK...how big is your music database file?!?! You appear to have an endless supply of inspirational selections.
On a completely off subject - I totally ship Mulder and Sculley - I miss the X-Files
@Ginger...you watching reruns? Hubbie and I watched xfiles all the time! I miss it too. Now he's into Fringe.
@Marie - nah there is a rumor that Gillian and David are together now - I want to watch it but it would scare my little girls
RA Joke from K2
"A young woman was visiting her blonde friend who had acquired two new dogs, and she asked her blonde
friend what the dog's names were.
The blonde responded by saying that one was named Rolex and the other one was named Timex.
Her friend said, "Whoever heard of someone naming dogs like that?"
"Hellooo," answered the blonde. "They're watch dogs!"
Sorry everyone just noticed something else Nina said that I want to take issue with.
Nina, if you don't like Kristen, far be it from me to tell you that you have to, but where do you get off in talking about Kristen's parents? What have they done to you? What do you know about them?
Kristen's parents love her, and she loves them. That is all you have to know about it. How dare you judge them? How dare you do that?
How dare you sit in judgement of them? You're a classy, classy lady, talking about Tom's daughter and Kristen's parents. That's wrong. These people have done nothing so leave them all out of your agenda.
Now you've gotten a reaction from someone, congratulations, you must be so proud, I hope you enjoyed it, because I no longer feel the need to waste my energy talking to a hatemonger.
@Loui - that is sweet :)
@torrimarie...thanks for setting the hater straight. She through me for a loop with commenting on K's parents. True or not, it was classless.
@.........., i agree with you. i can not believe that some are blaming rob for this mess. "he needs to say something" "he needs to protect kristen." rob is one of the most private celebs out there. he is not going to broadcast his emotions to the world. odds are he is talking to kristen. they need to focus on what they have vs patting fans on the head saying it's going to be ok. the media is making this worse, but now rob is the one the rags are going after. they are saying he is getting drunk, depressed, etc. as for whatever choice he makes about this it will be his choice, not his teams. he has said many times his team gives him advice, but he doesn't always listen. that is why he doesn't have a pr rep. he doesn't want to be told what to do. i just have a feeling if rob breaks it off you will see the true nature of many robsten and kristen fans. kristen is an adult, her and rupert fcked up big time, and now many in the fandom are blaming rob. give me a break.
@ Ginger,
I always saw Mulder and Scully together, too. Could totally board that ship. Fringe is one of my favorites, but I have to wait for the DVD's because I keep missing the actual shows. Great writing, with fun twists and turns - Leonard Nimoy was a nice touch as well.
@Loui - they were perfect together - I couldn't watch the episodes where Mulder was missing - they just weren't the same.
I stand behind what I said I support them both - I wish them both happiness - I wish them both peace of mind. Enough hate out there in the world - good vibes are better
absolutely G&S and i stand right beside you on this one!
@Maria
My database continues to grow with the new tunes others request or play here (including listening to Kristen & Rob's music choices, when they give them!)
I've had years, and years, and tears, and fears healed through music. Sharing what I know. :)
@torrimarie I only brought the beautiful Sienna Miller up because Rose has called her a home wrecker...She has done the same this as Kristen yet she defends Kristen to the ends of the earth...I just wondered how she differentiated between the two...I also happen to think Sienna is much more talented than Kristen, but I still do not condone he affairs either...I don't condone cheating at all no matter who it is...I have nothing against Rose I was wondering about the hypocrisy... I wasn't using the child or at least I felt I wasn't...Rose adores Tom as she does Rob and her motto is to like and love the ladies in their lives...Unfortunately Miss Miller had little Marlowe in a baby pouch facing her and all I could see was a little bit of black hair, Sienna was smiling and looking naturally beautiful...I'm sure the little one is beautiful too...I meant no disrespect towards speaking of them...Like I said though I don't condone what Sienna did anymore than Kristen...Cheating is just the biggest deal breaker in a relationship in my opinion...Loss of all trust and without trust the strength of love is diminished...IMO
Nina - I'm not sure what to make of you. On the one hand, someone with such cemented, immutable opinions is usually the product of a small mind. And that may be the case here, but I mostly think someone has seriously wronged you. I can see no other reason for your projecting your feelings onto Rob and Kristen as though you have any earthly idea who they really are or how they really feel. I can see that you're trying to get the poison out, but given that you can't go more than a few hours before coming back here day after day after day harping on and on, saying the exact same thing over and over, I don't think it's working. Have you considered kickboxing?
Either way, I will pray for you to get over whatever it is that compels you to come back to repeat your hate for Kristen on a daily basis. We get it, already.
@torrimarie, Yeah I definitely spoke of KS parents out of context the way I wrote it...In all a honesty I know better than to say that becasue someones parents who last means the child will have a better relationship...I totally call bullsh#t on myself, as I in no way believe that theory...I get so swept up in my emotions of infidelity that sometimes things I write come out the wrong way...When I'm wrong I admit it...
Yesterday is dead and gone, and tomorrow's out of sight. I don't be alone, help me make it through the night. WE aren't alone here in Rose's Land, are we?
Help Me Make It Through The Night
Johnny Cash & June Carter:
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=df9lIfWSqTE
Thank you/Carters01
Just checking in before bedtime. Things are really hopping here! I have a hard time keeping up!
Melinda, Your comment was just right. :)
xoxo
@Nina - Now who is the hypocrite - Sienna is lovely and Kristen is a trampvire. Good grief - don't choke on the vomit as it comes up (I swear as I say it, I see that judgmental chick from Witches of Eastwick). You have been here several times calling her several names and even took the time to make fun of her mannerisms. Good thing she wasn't in a relationship with you.
For Nina (With Love)
Wake Up Little Susie
Everly Bros:
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=CByPkTZtnzU
Thank you/Oldiessixties2
Holy hell they make an icon for every thing
Hi Guys...It's 11.30 a.m here in Bali, Indonesia.
@Nina Pearl...it's Rose's blog. She can talk her own opinion.
@Valerie...don't waste your time. If you hate Kristen...do it in another blog.
I guess Rupert and Liberty had been in problem before they knew Kristen. I upset about what Kristen did but they have a weak marriage.
I saw a picture in daily mail, Liberty has shown in very stylist way...with another guy (friend, family...we don't know). She looked OK or She pretended to be OK. We don't know.
Same as Monica, Kristen Stewart is kind of sister/family to me. I blame her for what she did but I will never turn back on her. I'm glad if it's true that she get off from Calli, I hope from Snow White too. She has to stay back. She has to give the paps treat as they aren't exist. Don't flip to them, it will make them more excited to catch her doing wrong. Just ignore them (learn from Jennifer Garner, Jennifer Lawrence). The paps even booed her in cannes and she booed them too. It's not wise, I guess (Tempest..what do u think).
Her PR team must point this out to Kristen. Make a good relationship with media. They mean to actress who they don't like/respect.
One thing I'm afraid, Breaking Dawn Part II don't get the huge box office as the studio expect and she will be blamed once again.
I hope the Twilight fandom will give their support to the film for other casts involved if they hated Kristen so much.
And guys (Ginger, DK, Robert, Tempest, Torriemarie, especially Rose)...Terima kasih (thank you in Indonesian) for being here in very hard time for me and the fans of Kristen.
@Sydney, This is my third time here...My first time was about three months ago and I posted on one of Rose's things pertaining to R/K and basically said K would end up breaking Rob's heart someday, just by the way she treats him...But I see the negative things as well as the positive unlike most you who see only the positive...My second time here was five days ago...So you over exaggerating how often I frequent here, or perhaps your confusing me with someone else... Yeah my husband of 14 years got up one night and just walked away from me and our three children...Absolutely no signs that he was having issues...He went missing for a month when he finally returned only to say he couldn't handle being in our family anymore...Basically he was a coward because times got tuff do to him getting laid off, taking us into a huge financial tailspin, and leaving me a complete emotional mes...We lost two cars, our, house, and our lake cottage our kids had to be taking out of their activities, we had to sell our boat, ATV's seedoos, and yeah my kids and I lost everything...He didn't cheat on me in fact he didn't start partying and whoring himself out for another three months...Yeah there's more to it but why bother...Cheating however has to do with many of my family members and I have bared witness to it far to much...
@Ginger with a Soul, I was simply stating that if it is ok for people to call Rupert those names why is it wrong for those who call Kristen names...It wasn't how I personally felt about either of them...They are cheaters, and were unfaithful to there supposed true loves...AND NO I HAVE NOT BEEN HERE SEVERAL TIMES...I was here about three months ago for the first time, and my second time HERE was five days ago...When have I made fun of her mannerisms...I called her a frigid bitch but I don't believe I have said anything else...Beside a cheater...
@DreamerKind Right back at ya... :-)
Nina,
I have seen dozens of comments from you in the past several days, as well as several of your comments about Rose which lead me to believe you are a long standing lurker, at the least. It is not uncommon here for one person here to post under numerous aliases. And your dedication to repeating your hate for Kristen is nothing new.
I cannot begin to tell you how sorry I am for what you've suffered. And even sorrier that it seems to have taken your compassion. I wouldn't wish that on my worst enemy, but not every situation, motive, betrayal is the same.
Most people find cheating to be a deal breaker. But that doesn't mean all do...or that there aren't extenuating circumstances. It sounds to me like your husband was not contrite. It sounds to me like Kristen is. It is not up to you or me to judge her. Women hate on women enough! I'm tired of them using this as a free-for-all. I hate to see someone who has been dealt such pain seem to gleefully bask in the pain of another. Peace to you and all.
This is for you DK - you lead I follow, I have ginger jokes:
Q: How does every Redhead joke begin?
A: By looking over your shoulder!
Q: What do you call a redhead with an attitude?
A: Normal.
Q: How do you get a redhead’s mood to change?
A: Wait 10 seconds.
Q: Why aren’t there any more redhead jokes?
A: Someone told them to a redhead.
@DK....never alone.
@Nina...you are correct in feeling that being unfaithful is unacceptable, and we here are definitely not blase about it. What Kristen did is wrong and we acknowledge it...and so does she.
What we're continuously discussing in various degrees is the importance of forgiveness, especially when the person that has sinned sincerely regrets their actions. The act of forgiveness effects both the giver and the receiver. The giver, by forgiving, hopefully releases bitterness and resentment for being wronged. For the person that is forgiven, it allows them to forgive themselves for their mistakes. Doesn't mean that the sin has been forgotten, just that it no longer is allowed to dominate their life.
@Nina - Liar liar - we went back and forth for 2 days straight when you beat the horse to death on how horrible of a human whore Kristen is. Today is 3 that I can say off the top of my head - 3 equals several as in more than a couple - that is just this week
@Nina Pearl
What a beautiful moniker you chose and I see why.
My heart goes out to you and your family, as anyone's would. My friend got a note posted on her front door saying Adios, after 20 years of marriage with two young ones. Blindsided!
Speaking your mind, which you have will be enough. Stay around but temper down, would ya? (Hugs)
@Sydney No posting under different names is childish, and I don't hide how I feel obviously...I have never said I hated Kristen, but I have never thought she has had a talented bone in her body(I did like her as Joan Jett)I have never denied she is beautiful, but I am a Rob fan, and yeah what she has done to him pisses me off...It doesn't matter to either of them what I say, I'm simply stating MY OPINION as all of you are...I refuse to feel sorry for her or Rupert...They got and that's what they regret...I stand by my feelings of if you truly love someone you could never hurt them so much as to cheat on them...And the last day I was here was August 3rd and three months before that...That's it...
@Nina - you called her an eye rolling frigid bitch and that was not in reference to the incident. Oh and pretty sure you said you never liked her which who cares you don't have to at all but that is really the bottom line - you never liked her - you never have.
@Ginger... (snicker)...:-)
Oh my bad, I was here August 1st...It was just all on the same topic, and since I don't sleep my days all run together...But no the name calling I did not do other than frigid bitch and cheater...
Nina...I know all you've said about Kristen. You've repeated yourself at least a dozen times. I hope you can let go of all this unhealthy hate. Dwelling in negativity has never helped anyone. I choose forgiveness.
@Nina...there are many ways to hurt someone you truly love...none of us our perfect.
Nina, I choose to believe your comments about being out of line when talking about Kristen's parents are sincere, so thank you very much for admitting that.
I don't know if it's the heat, the topics today or the fact that we're all just, for whatever reason so stressed out by this and it's causing friction.
I feel like at some point and time today we've all been snapping at each other and I think it's time to stop. I mainly say that to myself because I am by no means without fault when it comes to the mood of the blog today, I am moody and I took it out on everyone else, I do apologize.
I am hoping that tomorrow I can regain composure,restraint and maybe a little grace.
I will try and keep in mind that we can all disagree with each other and remain friends. The world would be a boring place if everyone agreed with each other all the time who wants and all vanilla world? (now I want ice cream)
And I hope that people who are wanting to leave comments will have enough respect for the innocent not to mention anyone's children when making their point.
Have a wonderful night ladies.
@Nina - I am also big enough to say you didn't deserve what happened in your life no matter what. I feel bad because it is a hundred times worse when kids are involved
Okay then, let's forgive Nina Pearl and go forward?
Yes, DK. Let's! How about Misty May and Kerri Walsh? Very proud American moment tonite!
Sorry for the interlude back to ginger jokes
Q: Whats the difference between a terrorist and a ginger?
A: You can negotiate with a terrorist!
Q: How do you know when a redhead has been using a computer?
A: There’s a hammer embedded in the monitor
Nina Pearl-- I've talked quite a lot about Sienna on this blog... And I've never called her names. I have always stated that if Tom is happy... Then I'm happy for him. I don't spend my days trashing and bashing her. She's the mother of Tom's baby... I respect her place in his life.
Seriously... Why do you place so much importance on my opinion anyway? It's really not that serious.
It is really hard to find clean jokes - wow
Yesterday, scientists in the United States revealed that beer contains small traces of female hormones. To prove their theory, they fed one hundred men twelve pints of beer and observed that 100% of them started talking nonsense and couldn't drive.
@DreamerKind, Well my name is Nina and my favorite band is Pearl Jam whom I have a very good friendship with...I am deeply sorry for your friend, as there is nother worth than being blindsided in a relationship...Especially one that has been devoted to for so long and have children...I just get so angry that so many feel Kristen is the victim...It was her choice to do what she did, and the consequences no matter how ugly are all do to her and Ruperts disgraceful choice...I also feel her apology was an even bigger slap of humiliation to to Rob...For me that was almost as worse act the act itself...If that were me I would of been even more embarrassed by the apology...But that's me...See I adore Rob...I love that light in his eyes, his, laugh and smile are so infectious, and I am afraid it may be gone, and that will make me so sad...But I hoe I am wrong, and it will still be there...We will see come Monday...And thank you for your kindness, I'm not an evil person, and for the record I don't think Kristen is Evil either... :-)
@Ginger
Funny jokes! Spicy ginger that heals our systems, renews bile flow and knocks men/women for a loop (those redheads!). Consider me a new DK since meeting you!
I don't see where people get frigid bitch. Why, just because she doesn't have a phoney smile and act like a twit?
I saw her as standing up for her individuality. I applaud her for it. She was serious when she had to be, but still there is warmth and playfulness in her demeaner. Am I thrilled when she flips off the paps and drops the f bomb in some interviews? No, but she's in touch with her inner tomboy, and considering I've let loose a few colorful metaphors over time, I can't be critical...just hopeful that she'll grow out of the worst of it.
And I don't believe in the saying..."once a cheater always a cheater". You can't generalize something like that.
@Nina P
Aww, darlin' of course you're not. We adore Rob, too and Kristen takes responsibility. That's all we know. We're lovers here.
@Rose
That's right.
@DK :) - You are always so sweet - I adore you
Ok here is proof I can even post the jokes that I ugh yeah don't agree with but whatever
Q: Why are the Harry Potter films unrealisitc?
A: A ginger kid has 2 friends!
Q: How many Ginger people does it take to change a lightbulb?
A: None. They prefer to sit in the dark.
Q: What’s the fastest way to a man’s heart if you’re a redhead? A: Through his ribcage.
Q: What’s safer: a redhead or a piranha?
A: The piranha. They only attack in schools.
@Ginger with a Soul here is my exact comment and I never said anything about eye rolling...
"Was your comment aimed towards me?
"I am waiting on your 3 part paragraph DAMNING, KARMA riddle speech to the 41 yr old married man who CHEATED on his wife and not just this 1st time. I am glad you don't make the laws as to who is forgivable or not because I would need to reserve my spot in hell since I have done my share of sins in my short 37 yrs of life. I am so glad I surround myself with people willing to forgive me, help me and not shame me when I feel shammed enough and in return I would do the same for them any day without them having to ask. FYI the ONLY person she OWES anything to is Rob not you."
I certainly never said anything about death threats...I also included Rupert in what I said about deserving all the negativity she an he brought upon themselves...I never said Kristen owed me anything...I don't feel celebrities owe apologies to the public for their personal lives...Perhaps maybe political figures who run our country do as we are supposed trust them...The fact that both Kristen and Rupert made public apologies was an even bigger slap in the face to Rob, and also to Ruperts wife and children...Those were most likely forced upon them from their PR teams...The only thing I believe right now are the pictures that I have seen, and nothing that has been written by a source or even a rep...They cheated on their so called loves and that is undeniable by the photos...Rupert and Kristen are both at fault for this disgrace...I never claimed to be perfect as I am far from it, and I don't see Rob as perfect either...NO ONE IS PERFECT...My point was why do people feel Rob should forgive Kristen...But of course you all believe they both were totally in love and committed to each, where I never believed that...It has always been one sided...Her eye rolls, her wiping off the his kiss, closed mouth kisses, denying his hand and taking Taylors...No I don't know what she was like behind closed doors, perhaps she i sweet and warm vs. her public show of frigid bitch...Rob wears his heart on his sleeve...No, it's not up to me to say what they should do...I just don't believe in cheating, there is no reason for it...If your not happy in your relationship then get out of it...Like I said it doesn't matter who you are cheating is a major relationship deal breaker...If you cheat your heart is not fully committed to the person whom you cheated on period...If Rob did it I would feel the same way...I'm not saying her fans should stop supporting her if they truly enjoy her acting, all I'm saying is why would you support her to get Rob back, only for her to go and do it again, and yes she would...She has proven it twice now, once with Michael A. and now with Rob..."
@Maria
My generation and many others (of women I mean) always have fought to balance the powers, of men and having some of our own. It's an ongoing reality to find in the end, we cannot BE without each other. Well said.
@Ginger with a Soul her eye rolls were in reference to what she does to Rob when he says something funny or crass and she rolls her eyes...She also rolled her eyes after he tried to kiss at the WFE premier...It was a fact...I have never liked her acting, as I do not know her as a person...
Hi Rose. Nice to see you pop in!
@Nina...I don't see us as victimizing Kristen. We just express our concern in regards to her safety from lunatic fans hellbent on revenge...and from our worry as to how far she'd beat herself up over this...such as doing something extremely dangerous to herself because she hurt Rob. Even though she wronged him, it is okay to worry about her. That's part of being compassionate.
@Ginger with a Soul perhaps it's why I am so bitter towards this subject...It's not hatered towards KS it's anger in the fact that I hate the pain of broken relationships, and I look at Rob as someone who seem generally happy and honest and loyal...He truly seems like one of the good guys...But in all honesty he could be an abusive asshole behind closed doors...
@NinaP
No one would believe you, if you said you saw R&K in love, knowing what you just told us. Doesn't matter, it's not our truth. We're speaking about yours.
Believe me, love is real and I found it at 48 and you may, too.
I wave my wand to make it flow into your life. Feel the power of "Yes, I can!"
@Rose Thank you for your answer, and I apologize for thinking you had called her trashy...I just was curious as to why you never posted a picture of Tom and Sienna who displayed their love happily...That's all...
Thank you DK.
@DreamerKind thank you and I'm not sure if I ever want to try love again right now...My main focus is my kids and bringing someone else into there life feels wrong to me right now...I truly believe Rob loved/loves KS...I saw it in his eyes, but I never saw it returned, but that's me...I' TRY to keep my anger down and read gingers jokes and smile...Thank you all...
@Ginger
You think I am sweet, after hearing for yourself my donkey's laugh? Hee haw! Ass forward, march!
@NinaP
Yeah, just try to let a laugh happen, even if it sounds empty, you will again fill up with something else, whatever tickles your funny bone. Bone deep laughs for you and your sweet kiddos.
Where is a piece of cheesecake when an old lady fancies one?
Oh, I have Italian milk chocolate wiith caramel filling. Did you guess that my 2nd glass of wine compliments almost life itself?
@Nina...she has posted pictures of Tom &Sienna together.
I am sorry that you went through such a horrid time, no one deserves that. But I'm afraid its made very bitter and critical, maybe I'll even go as far as to say cynical. You are justified to feel hurt, and I truly wish that you and your children hadn't gone through that heartbreak. But all situations are not alike. And with Rob & Kristen, things are not black and white.
Unfortunately, personal experiences can cloud how we perceive things. And making harsh judgements based on few facts, and those purposely meant to cause rage, doesn't improve the situation.
If you are a true fan of Rob's, then trust his judgement and respect his decision.
@DK you are sweet - you got to hear that I sound 14 on the phone lol
@Nina - people do weird ticks when they are nervous - she rolls her eyes a lot when she is embarrassed. You see her being disrespectful - I see her in many pictures looking like the man walks on water. I see her as trying to right her wrongs and working her priorities out. I see a woman madly in love that is fighting for love not walking away.
I also don't believe in absolution's - I cheated before - would I now - nope I wouldn't because I'm not that person I was before. I have kids too - have dealt with divorce - no he never did to me what I did to him but we all have our reasons behind our actions - nothing dissolves them but hopefully we learn from them. No we didn't split from cheating either. I don't see myself as a whore, someone less than human , or a person beyond redemption. I see myself as someone that has lived, tripped, got up and never gave up.
Some of these jokes are just ----bad
@Ginger
You do sound fourteen, it's uncanny.
You've earned the opinions you share by experiencing outright grief and suffering, after paying your dues (which may last a lifetime but you're willing.)
@DK - Grief at my own hands lol - I was after all a class a enabler
Ladies...its 1:10am here...I've got to go hit the hay.
Hugs and goodnight to all.
@Ninapearl...I wish you happiness. Don't turn your back on love. Some day a man worthy of you will enter your life, you just need to have faith, and it will happen when you least expect it. My best wishes to you and your children.
'Nite folks.
@DK - there were no victims in my marriage - just 2 bulls in a china shop both wearing red
Night Maria
Willin'
Linda Ronstadt:
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=c7eSvwsT41s
I been warped by the rain, driven by the snow
I'm drunk and dirty, don't you know
But I'm still willin'
Out on the road late last night
I'd see my pretty Alice in every headlight
Alice, Dallas Alice
And I've been from Tucson to Tucumcari
Tehachapi to Tonopah
Driven every kind of rig that's ever been made
Driven the backroads so I wouldn't get weighed
And if you give me weed, whites and wine
And you show me a sign
And I'll be willin' to be movin'
And I've been kicked by the wind, robbed by the sleet
Had my head stove in but I'm still on my feet
And I'm still willin'
And I smuggled some smokes and folks from Mexico
Baked by the sun every time I go to Mexico
Ah but I'm still...
Willin'
To be moving
Thank you/ rockpopjazz007
@Maria
Rest well in the knowing. There peace lies.
@Ginger
You two will never be over doing that tango, wearing red, in any shop or street. Why would you? 18 years matters! 18 seconds does.
My happiness tonight is that I can go one month without doing laundry. I have that many clothes and towels. But alas, not as many shoes as SUPER!
@DK - I will say it matter because I have 5 lives that matter to me more than anything and maybe I will have more fond memories when he allows me to breath. I am positive he will be a awesome person with someone else - hard to have a relationship with someone you wouldn't even be friends with at the end of the day.
On a side not I really am liking RDJ
Robert Downey Jr @RobertJrDowney
If you didnt see it with your own eyes or hear it with your own ears, don't invent it with your small mind & share it with your big mouth.
Climb Higher
Mountain Of Love
Johnny Rivers:
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=2q2Mg5I-Tcg
Standing on a mountain looking down on a city
The way I feel is a doggone pity
Teardrops fallin' down a mountainside
Many times I've been here, many times I've cried
We used to be so happy when we were in love
High on a mountain of love
Night after night I'm a-standing here alone
Weepin' my heart out till cold grey dawn
Prayin' that you're lonely and you come here too
Hoping just by chance that I'll get a glimpse of you
Tryin' hard to find you, somewhere up above
High on a mountain of love
A mountain of love, a mountain of love
You should be ashamed
We used to be a mountain of love
But you just changed your name
Way down below there's a half a million people
Somewhere there's a church with a big tall steeple
Inside a church there's an altar filled with flowers
Wedding bells are ringin' and they shoulda been ours
That's why I'm so lonely, my dreams gone above
High on a mountain of love
That's why I'm so lonely
High from above
High on a mountain of love
Thank you/rwells47
@Ginger
RDJ? Pure manly awareness. Suffering and redemption. Not always able to survive, like Dean, Belushi, Ledger and Phoenix. That man found love.
@Tempest 08/08/12 8:03PM Thank you so much for so eloquently speaking so much truth! I don't think it could have been said better.
If you have not read that post by Tempest, GO READ IT NOW! Or, re-read Rose's post above.
@Nina and @Valerie, again, hatred affects you, not us on this blog. Eventually, I am guessing and suspect that everyone here will ignore your rantings as that of a lunatic. Is that really how you want to be perceived?
Are you really helping Rob heal and get past his pain by coming here to spew hatred for someone you don't even know!? (rhetorical--I don't need nor do I want your answer).
Move on, it is time for ALL of us to give Rob and Kristen priviacy, space, healing, and most of all our love. If you are truly a Rob fan, then you would know that is the correct course of action.
It took one of my best friends today to tell me in an email that I was being too invested. And I was/am at the moment. But, I will now longer be like that. I will continue to post here, because I find it cathartic, but I am going to try to stay away from the "speculation" of Rob or Kristen's personal lives.
Off to bed, good night everyone.
Peace! :-)
@Nina - hug your babies and I know sometimes it is hard to see a future out side of pasts but I believe if you want to find love again it will knock at your door - everyone deserves love in their lives. It is hard to start again but I hope you find it.
@ irisheyesmasen night
@DK night sweetie. Feel free to smack me via e-mail if I turn to Ginger (quick temper with fast fingers). Spin me pretty song - one that sings of better days and brighter tomorrows.
For Ginger
I Want Love
Robert Downey Jr:
http://fan.tcm.com/_Robert-Downey-Jr-in-34I-Want-Love34-Video/video/911740/66470.html?createPassive=true
I want love, but it's impossible
A man like me, so irresponsible
A man like me is dead in places
Other men feel liberated
I can't love, shot full of holes
Don't feel nothing
I just feel cold
Don't feel nothing, just old scars
Toughening up around my heart
But I want love
Just a different kind
I want love, won't bring me down
Won't brick me up
Won't fence me in
I want a love
That don't mean a thing
That's the love I want
I want love
I want love on my own terms
After everything I've ever learned
Me, I carry too much baggage
Oh man I've seen so much traffic
So bring it on, I've been bruised
Don't give me love that's clean and smooth
I'm ready for the rougher stuff
No sweet romance, I've had enough
A man like me is dead in places
Other men feel liberated
But I want love, just a different kind
I want love, won't bring me down
Won't break me up, won't fence me in
I want a love, that don't mean a thing
That's the love I want
I want love
I have always supported Rob and will continue to so. I liked that K made Rob happy, seemingly, but time will heal his wound. I will applaud him for every interview he does in the next few weeks because I know how hard it is to put on a brave face when something like this happens. I continue to pray for all parties involved, particularly Liberty, the kids, and Rob.
As for the VMA, performers have always pulled themselves together, and I believe RK will do the same here. I remember watching an old Sonny & Cher show when they were going through their struggles - all smiles in front of the camera, and going their separate ways after the show was over. They are professionals after all.
Lastly, it has been reported that K has pulled out of the premiere for OTR and her project Cali...it also 'appears' Liberty has filed for divorce...enough damage has been done to all parties, and I pray they find some privacy do handle the difficult road ahead.
Regarding Kristen drops out of Cali, I wish I could be optmistic like you guys. I am afraid that she did this to herself as self-punishment. Seeing poeple come to this blog and spill their hatred and ager towards Kristen breaks my heart all over again.
Yes, she did very wrong. Aren't all that public condemnation enough? You wish she'd never be forgiven? You keep posting negativties and doing it for the sake of justice?
She said She's sorry. SHE IS SORRY OK?! What do you want from her???
Seriously, what do you want? You want her fans all abandon her? You want her to suffer for the rest of her life?? Then you would be happy? Then Rob would be happy? Please~~ Enlighten me.
For God's sake, I'd like to ask WHERE IS YOUR HUMANITY??
p.s. Sorry for being emotional. @Giner, I also want someone stand out and call out the hate too. It's just ridiculous. Guess they would never stop unless Kristen was nailed on a cross.
Monica from Asia
SUPER That step back needs taken big time in my opinion. Roseland is full of people being to quick to jump on what the other is saying at the moment. My hope is a return to normality ASAP.
It would be nice if for 24hrs we stopped discussing this subject and took a bit of space for everyone to enjoy some normality. A one day break is not much to ask but Roseland used to be an enjoyable place to come and read what everyone was up to. I'll keep my fingers crossed that people will do this.
Have a great day everyone xx
Feeling the love here. Like I said the other day you can find good in everyone even those who are angry and filled with such harshness towards someone they don't know. There's always a story behind the anger. All it takes is taking the time to listen and no matter if you agree with them or not we have to make sure that the bitterness doesn't cause us to be as well.
Nina I am sorry for what you have went through. I pray that you can get past these feelings that you are having. I think underneath all of this you're just like everyone else who wants to feel love and happiness. You hurt when you see others hurting, but yours comes out a little more outspoken than most. That's probably coming from what you have been through.
We just have to realize that this is their relationship and it isn't up to us to say what they should or should not do. I just want them both to be happy again.
We all love Rob and his happiness is important to us. You may not care for Kristen but many of us do. I love and care about her and if the two of them decide to be together then I'm all for it. I'll always support them no matter what, together or apart.
I hope you find forgiveness in your heart someday because I think you do have a heart that is hurting and it shows in your posts. I wish you good things to come and most of all a loving heart.
Time to go to work. The weekend is almost here...and you all know I love my weekends. Stay Strong everybody.
Ginger keep the fun going..Hugs to you.
DK play me a song..something with alot of heart in it.
Love to everyone...TTYL
Morning.
@Monica:You're not alone in how you feel.
Now........(Soapbox, stay right there.......I will try not to use you but you never know)
KRISTEN STEWART! Yes, I'm using caps lock and an exclamation point)......
Unless the director and those associated with OTR asked you to not attend the premiere in London next Thursday, I suggest you get up, dust yourself off and do whatever it is you do to prepare for a premiere.
You were handpicked for the role of Marylou, spoke of it as being the role of a lifetime for you and from the reviews you seem to have gotten the essence of the character and made her not a victim but a woman who was not afraid.
Do the same for yourself and don't hide away.
I'm done.
Good morning to all!
Just passing through to say hello. Enjoy your day.
Laters.
@annie - kristen doesn't pull out from Uk OTR premiere. She never was expected to attend. If nothing of this drama happen she would not go to the premiere the same way.
Anyone knows if will be a US OTR premiere?
We need to run from the gossip sites with false stories.
If you want read something about this , read from reputable sites. I found this two articles from sites reputables, with real experts, people from the business. Their opinions are more important that the stupid gossip sites telling that all twi-hards fans will boycott her.
EW.com- article : the kristen stewart scandal: why it hurts her image and helps it.
The writer points very well the haters, why they hate her. It's everything that we been talking here.
hollywoodreporter.com
article: KS scandal: PR experts assess her chance of recovery.
This article has REAL Pr experts, people who works in this business for years, and are PR from celebrities. They REALLY know what they are talking.
@Isis:
I didn't know that.
So, where is this nonsense coming from that she pulled out?
It reads as an official statement from her.
Annie - I *think* she pulled out of Cali, but was never expected to go to the OTR premiere.
Annie - I believe that "story" originated with Radar Online. I don't think it's an actual premiere, just a film festival
Leni and Angelica: Thanks. :)
For Oneheart-A Treasure
Young At Heart
Frank Sinatra:
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=BG7suS4YJWk
Good day, Oneheart, Annie, Leni, isis, Maria, ali mac, Monica, angelica1, shoegal and those who wander into Rose's land.
"Will it be? Yes, it will. Maybe just by holding still, it'll be there. Come on, something great."
Pardon my dust but sleep I must..
@Annie- @Leni and @Angelica they are right. This is come from radaronline who are like hollywoodlies the ones behind all the false rumours, about the dog fight, Gio home, and soo many.
We need to prepares ourselves for more hate, this willcome today. Peoplemag site and us mag site have in their articles on equote that kristen gave on the new EW cover mag, before the scandal. She said : " I don't like Fake people."
I don't need to say nothing more to you all. I think you all understands what this quote means in this particular situation.
Good reason to stay out from the stupid gossip sites and blogs who have haters.
Good morning! (It's morning in my world, anyway) We're 1 day closer to the week end. Yay!
Sweet dreams, DK. You have such a lovely outlook on life. Roseland is lucky to have you.
Waves, hugs, and high fives to all my pals! :)
Good day for you too @DreamerKind : ) and @leni, @Angelica @Annie .
This 3 weeks have been a chalenge. And the most curious is that i was not a obsessed fan. I was a robsten fan who liked to go to robstenation to see photos of them together and read about their projects. I went to robstenation, rose blog, robsessed, youtube to see R/K fan videos. This was my daily routine. I never in my mind tought this will affected me soo deep.
This is why, like many of you, i don't see the problem to come here and talk about my feelings from all this situation. To be honest you all help me a lot with your posts and kind words.I'm not gonna say that we are the perfect fans but we are better people than all the suppose fans who adore them and on the first, FIRST AND ONLY MISTAKE they abandone her. How is possible that this people who for 4-3 years follow all their steps, don't find strange all this situation. We are in third week and i still can't believe what happen. I'm not in denial but this is not the kristen we love. And i see this very clear. Something bad happen. Soo why they can't see that too?
@isis, EXACTLY!!!! They called themselves fans. They turn their backs without any hesitation. They claimed that they loved her. And their love evaporated overnight.
Monica from Asia
@Isis and Monica -
She has plenty that are upset or disappointed in her actions but they stuck with her. She has plenty that support her regardless cause this is not their cross to bare but the ones that now hate her and trash her - they were never her fans and you know what - who would want a fan like that anyway.
I think they have pretty much confirmed the Cali pull out - lets pray she takes this time for her and I have faith that they both know what they are doing. If she did this for her relationship - she is showing him he is her priority. I want to see them happy one day soon, so I hope this is her step in that forward direction.
Morning - waves and hugs to everyone on - Dottie - Ditto - tomorrow is TGIF !!!
so there was this cajun doctor named dr. boudreaux. he had hisself a little practice dere don in breaux bridge louisina for right about 60 years him being 85 hisself an' he never took a vacation not once in all that time. so his nurses got to talking one day and they decide that dr. boudreaux need to take hisself a little vacation. so they tell him this and he rub his chin a little bit and he goes "i believe you may be right, you know i always did want to go to africa and go on safari." so he does and he's gone for two weeks and when he comes back the nurses mob him "dr. boudreaux, tell us all about you trip." so he says "let me tell you something beb one day on the safari we come to a clearing and we stopped, dere at the other end of the clearing sat a lion
RRROOOAARRRR--i shit my pants" "dr. boudreaeux when the lion roared you shit your pants?" "no baby, just now when i went RRROOOAAARRRR
i shit my pants
@Robert - you funny funny man - I tried to find funny clean jokes last night - it was rough
Bless yer little cotton socks Robert :)
Ginger---
it is tough. here's an oldie but a goodie. an elderly couple from south louisiana are seeing the country when they stop in a full service gas station in colorado
the guy comes to the window and says "hey, how can i help you guys?"
the old lady yells "WHAT HE SAY?"
the old man calmly says "he wants to know if he can help us"
"yeah fillerup please"
"ok you guys want regular or unleaded"
she goes "WHAT DID HE SAY?"
old man's getting annoyed now and says "he wants to know if we want regular or the other thing" "make it regular"
so the gas station guy does and he goes to collect he says "i see you folks are from louisiana, you know i had the worst blow job i ever had in my life down there
"WHAT DID HE SAY?"
"HE SAYS HE KNOWS YOU"
"Bless your Cotton Socks"?!!!
Ali mac may I use that phrase, I love it?
Go for your life Torrimarie :)
Hey yall:)
Love the post, Rose.
Hope everyone is having a good week. I sent my oldest off to start his third year of college this morning. I guess I'm no longer needed to help get him set up as I was not invited along for this particular trip! Sigh...I guess they have to grow up sometime. Now, I'm sitting here with my youngest, who starts first grade tomorrow, and he's trying his best to convince me that his belly aches and he surely won't be able to go to school. On the first day. Seriously.
Robert...I'm liking these jokes. Probably more so because I happen to hear that La accent every day:). I'm from TX but have lived in La for the past 13 years.
Anyway, I'm enjoying all the jokes and music. Hope everyone has a great day today!:)
Hi all! When I first read the news that Kristen wouldn't be doing Cali I was shocked. I thought on no, what next. But then as I go to thinking that perhaps this isn't a bad thing after all. She needs time to work things out with herself, her family and Rob. Kristen is showing her priorities are in the right place. Good for you girl! you get yourself together and go get your man.
Rose colored glasses are still on!
Can't say often enough how much I love your posts, Rose. It uplifts my spirit. I hope that some way and some how Kristen and Rob will know how much we care about them. I will always wish them well. I hope they will find love and respect they truly deserve.
Hi All,
Liz in Lala Land here ....
I just saw a video from my homepage about how Kristen isn't doing the OTR London promo because she's ashamed. And, that TomStu will be doing it instead.
Apparently, we already know that Kristen wasn't SUPPOSED to be doing that gig.... I just hate that some many other people who won't know the difference will think badly about her.
In spite of the fact that I live in "Lala Land" I know that what she did was wrong, even if it was Ruperv's fault. Whatever, she's 22, she made a mistake, I FORGIVE HER!!! I believe that Rob will forgive her eventually, also. And I'm sure that her family and close friends have already forgiven her.
Liberty appears to be enjoying her newfound fame .... has been papped 4 out of the past 5 days.
Laters, y'all, gotta do some work!!!
@Robert...you have my sides splitting. I ended up laughing outloud with your old couple joke and my kids wanted to know what was so funny. Well....I told them I just read a funny joke...
"Can we read it?"
"No."
"Why?"
"Its dirty."
"How dirty?"
"Dirty enough that you can't read it."
"Aw come on! Dad lets us all the time!"
My husband has been home with the kids all summer because he was laid off back in February. So, I've been working during the day...my children are 13 and 10. Though the 13yr old is too smart for his own good, the 10 yr old doesn't need to be enlightened that way.
Hubbie is so going to get it.
Hello, Roseland!
I'm home, trying to knock out the beginnings of a Summer cold, yuck!
Hey, I don't see that anyone commented yet. The brothers that own Hollywoodlife got super busted, its kind of funny. Their antics sound like an 80's party movie!
@Ginger w/a Soul and DK - I ADORE RDJ! Talk about a walking poster for redemption and forgiveness! No doubt he had people turn their back on him left and right. He amazes me.
I just wish we could all trust that things work out eventually. It has over and over. We stress and worry, wring our hands over this and that.
I think its good K pulled out of Cali. Timing not good, I'm afraid. She doesn't NEED the work! :)
Have a good one, Roseland!
maria, jentoo, and ginger
thanks for the kind words.
maria,your kids are funnier than i am.
jentoo, you live in louisiana?
ali mac, sorry i didn't see you there and anyone else i may have missed
that dropping out of Cali is great news AND rob promo for cosmopolis is great news .
this is a BIG contradiction !
kristen priorities and robert priorities are diametrically opposite .
Oh I would love for Kristen to come out of hiding and hold her head up high. I miss her and it's time that we get to see that Beauitful girl again. We will see Rob in less than a week and for that I am certainly happy but I want to see Kristen also. :(
Ah, Roseland - how I've missed you!
Back to school is kicking my Boo-Tay! Sure wish I could stay in LaLa Land with Liz & the gang...
I am amazed at this wonderful board. So many big-hearted people, so many wise souls. So much hope - and I'm with you all.
As for the latest - all is for the best - things will work out; I can just feel it!
@Litmom -- Don't worry, LaLa Land will still be alive and well when you can join us. Actually, I'm working almost 24/7 right now so very difficult to "get my fix" here.
I feel so bad for Kristen because of all the bad, untrue, press she's getting. We KNOW she wasn't supposed to go to the UK for OTR but most won't bother to look that up.
I think we just have to be patient and before we know it, we're going to be twirling again with Rose!!!
Okay, back to work, now.
Liz in LaLa Land, is it time for free drinks?
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