This is one of my favorite pictures of Rob and Kristen.
It was the beginning...
I really don't have any pithy comments anymore.
I'm kinda tired of the endless twitlongers
expressing anger/sadness/regret
about something that doesn't concern us.
I'm tired of all the judgement and accusations
about a relationship that we have only seen minutes at a time.
I'm tired of the undeserved hatred that Kristen Stewart has been
getting in this fandom from day one.
I'm tired of the assumptions and speculation made by
people who just want to profit off other peoples pain.
I'm tired that people seem to forget that Rob and Kristen
are flawed human beings...
and they have feelings just like you or me.
All I will say is that I want Rob and Kristen to find happiness
Wherever that road leads.
Yes.
I think when they come out on the other side...
They will be together.
But that's just me.
This fandom is incredibly selfish.
We don't want what is best for Rob and Kristen
We want what is best for us.
Let's face it...
The outcome we desire
whatever that may be
Isn't based on what will make Rob and Kristen happy...
It's what will make us happy.
I just want them to be OK.
No matter what I want or think will happen.
They deserve happiness.
I want people to just fucking leave them alone.
Rob is going to be on TV next week
promoting Cosmopolis.
I wish people could just focus on that.
I wish people could let Rob do his job
without having to put up with people screeching at him
about private intimate parts of his life...
Like they think they are entitled.
Next week is about Cosmopolis.
Rob is proud of this movie.
Rob is so proud of this movie that he is willing
to subject himself to some of the worst
this fandom has to offer.
Good Luck Rob.
I hope you have a LOT of security around you.
(and maybe some silver bullets?)
(and maybe some silver bullets?)
Final thoughts.
Normally I wouldn't post a pap picture of someone's baby...
But since you can't see baby Marlowe
I wanted to comment on something that I love about this picture
(Besides Tom... hair knot and all)
How protective Thomas is.
Look at him.
His arm is wrapped around the handle of the buggy...
He is holding on tight to his little girl.
He is holding on tight to his little girl.
How fucking adorable is that?
How adorable is HE??
Green Sheep.
Fucking forever.
2. I leave for Hawaii tomorrow morning.
I will be gone a week.
So...
I doubt I will be posting anything in that time.
Unless I'm sitting in a chair like the picture above
(which I plan on doing a lot, I may add)
and I get on my Ipad and post a picture or two.
It will definitely be hit or miss.
I have a dear friend watching the blog for me.
So all is taken care of.
Aloha!
Until next time.
Bye for now
And if you don't know where you're going
Any road will take you there
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For Rob and Kristen,
Even the best fall down sometimes...
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=P2MoLOJegx4
Whew! I thought I would check in before I turn out the light.
That Rose better get home soon or this comment section will hit an all time record.
There are some awfully wise, compassionate women (and gents) here in Roseland. Now that is what this world needs more of,love.
Syd,
So very happy to see you here and that is an understatement. That your friend was able to feel the love and support here is a gift to her and in turn a gift to Roseland. That is how it should be. Faith. So glad that you are happy and busy,as you should be.
I think I am going to have a good night's sleep.
Ding dong the moth is dead...and my daughter is finally in bed! She's ten and freaks with all insects. I have no idea who she takes after.
@Tempest...have always wanted to visit Australia. Its on my bucket list. Will definitely check out your blog.
Life can change in a heartbeat. Mine took a sucker punch today with some horrible news.
Hold on to the ones you love dearly. Let them know you care.
If anyone is interested;
http://doidazzle-you.blogspot.com.au/2012/08/rob-and-kristen-poisonous-hatred-of-one.html
the post is now up.
(( waving at Tempest )) preach sister.. Why do unhappy people always have to throw a turd in the punch bowl? jeez I snort laughed @ I Believe's glue comment .. glad I popped in tonite, lots of good advice and humor, it has made me laugh out loud...
Hello Sue Bee (( hugs )) have not talked to you in many moons, I am sorry for your sucker punch.. hoping things will get better and your are surrounded by loved ones..
hello everyone!
SueBee sorry to hear you got bad new today.
Dk here is a song for you to check out. "light outside" by wakey!wakey! hope you like it.
Beware Tempest...I have bookmarked you.
@Tempest-I can't wait for you new post in your blog.
Syd glad to hear that your friend is feeling little brighter and found comfort here. They are lucky to have a friend who care as you do.
@SueBee...I am sorry that you received horrible news today. I hope that things begin to look brighter soon.
(((HUGS))) SueBee <3
@B&S because they don't have lives of their hunny and project their unhappiness on other people - sad really but very true.
Thank you.
Still reeling and trying to process it. It will get worse before it gets better so I'm kind of at a loss right now.
Thankful for my friends. Sincerely and truly.
Tis true wise one.. no life = misery + meanness or shit stirrers
not sure how Brits would say this ... but seems Roseland attracts some of them like moths to the light...@ Maria you bug killng adventure made me think of that one..giggles
Hello again Roseland.
Oneheart~I can also verify that your words are from the heart and are beautiful, thankyou.
Tempest~the posts you have made and the truths you have told us have kept us all going. Big Hugs
Marla~I loved your post about starting over with the one precious dish. And I also loved what someone else said about sitting beside Kristen and helping her put each piece back piece by piece. How beautiful.
Syd~thx for your post.
Litmom, LOL, very funny dog story. Also, I am going to apologize for my tirade earlier. I've spent a long time trying to delete it and nothing works. So to make up for it I thought I would post my favorite poem.
Here is the poem. I'm sure many people already know this poem.
Footprints in the Sand
One night I dreamed I was walking along the beach with the Lord.
Many scenes from my life flashed across the sky.
In each scene I noticed footprints in the sand.
Sometimes there were two sets of footprints,
other times there were one set of footprints.
This bothered me because I noticed
that during the low periods of my life,
when I was suffering from
anguish, sorrow or defeat,
I could see only one set of footprints.
So I said to the Lord,
"You promised me Lord,
that if I followed you,
you would walk with me always.
But I have noticed that during
the most trying periods of my life
there have only been one
set of footprints in the sand.
Why, when I needed you most,
you have not been there for me?"
The Lord replied,
"The times when you have
seen only one set of footprints,
is when I carried you."
Mary Stevenson
@ Sue Bee I'm at the other end of the boat waving at you... I'm waiting for the next shoe to drop at my house.. hang in there
@DK here is another one wondering what you thing Jana Kramer "i won't give up"
@meadowgirl...that is one of myfavorite poems. I have a bookmark that has the last part on it.
DK sorry last one OneRepublic - "Marchin On"
Suebee - I'm sorry to hear that you've received bad news. I hope things will work out for you.
Boogie...glad to be of some inspiration.
Goodnight everyone. Sleep well...I have a gut feeling that brighter days are ahead of us.
Thanks Boogie. Hope things get better at your end of the boat.
This one is out of my control. My husband and friends are wonderful support though.
Thanks Freddie.
If I forgot anyone, I'm sorry. Thanks for being nice.
(( more hugs)) Sue Bee, thanks I am wearing my big girl pants but it will get worse before it gets better, I am thankful for family and good friends... & Roseland..
I wave my swatter in high five
@ Marie for inspiration
Hello Freddie
Thanks Tempest for sharing
and everyone else hello and good nite..
sweet dreams
((HUGS)) to you, too Boogie/MJ
Hoping for peace and strength for all of the hurting hearts out there.
<3
Hey everyone, hugs all around.
@Pardido, I hope you will give me liberty and consider reading my post. It is going to be loooooong, and I apologize in advance for my drivl, LOL. I just have some things I hope you will allow me to share with you.
@Syd you are an absolutely wonderful friend. My best friend is my roommate, sister, and closest confidant. We have known each other for 23 long years. I would fall on a sword for her, that is how special she is to me. Your friendship seems to be the same.
First, can I just say that I am so proud to be accepted by all of you. I may not post often (I usually write a book, because I am too busy during the day to get the opportunity to participate in conversations, LOL), but when I do I know I am welcomed with open arms.
You should all be proud of yourselves in providing solace, words of wisdom, differing points of view, compassion, straight up honesty, and being the voice of reason for Pardido. She needed it badly.
@Pardido "The hardest lessons learned are learned in the hardest way" and "When you fall, pick yourself up, brush yourself off, and move on, because nobody will do it for you."
Yes, I know, they are typical cliches, but they are TRUE!
Now for my very true story...
continued...
continued...
My older sister is married to an identical twin. His twin brother lost his wife to murder in the late 90s. My sister and her husband moved to where he lived (on a ranch in the middle of New Mexico btw) to help him out and help him get through his loss. He still had two teenage boys (14 and 17) to raise. And yes, they found her in their home after school, all very sad... anyway, my sis and her hubby moved there... Needless to say it was all very difficult. Her husband had to work out of town and was rarely home, she was a housewife/mother to all the kids (hers and her brother-in laws'). Because of that, she became very close to her brother in-law (he was always around). Before long, this man, who looked, sounded, and had the exact same mannerisms etc... as her husband, started coming on to her. At first she rebuffed him, but all of a sudden she responded. And this was not just awkward kissing...sex happened fast. To make a VERY long story short. Three years later and so much turmoil you can't even imagine... she finally moved on from it. She is still married to her husband, he forgave her. They are happier now than they were when they were young and before it happened. Married 25 years in June 2013. The moral of the story is, she went through hell and back (and I do mean hell -- she lost almost her whole immediate family because of it, including me, my younger sister, parents, and her kids and husband). She is now a successful English Teacher who loves her job and her life. She has problems, everyday problems, but nothing will ever be as hard or compare to that stupid decision she made to be with her Brother In-Law.
Why I shared that story is because of the utter devastation of it all. It was morally so much worse than what Kristen has been through. And she survived it. She is still reminded of it often, and of course she will never forget it. And honestly, I would never have thought she was capable of doing what she did with her Bro in law. But she did, she moved on, and she is the same sister that I will always love no matter her how badly has and will fuck up in life.
She got past it because she needed her immediate family more than she needed the affair. And she really did still truly love her husband.
Careers matter, but the people in our lives matter more. Rob is willing to work at the relationship, move forward, and try to not look back.
Kristen owes it first to herself to FORGIVE HERSELF! Next, she has to trust and believe in him. She owes him the respect, dignity, and maturity to pull up her big girl panties and be an adult. She has to OWN IT, take her life back, and be BETTER than the rest of the world and how they reacted to the situation. Show everyone she is above it and will not let it defeat her.
Continued...
contined...(last one, I promise)
She is humble, kind, loving, caring, and above all else worthwhile. She has to know that about herself to move forward.
The minute her and Rob put this behind them, the entire public at large will too.
Will it be hard? HELL YEAH it will be....
She has always said she wanted to be like Katherine Keaner or Jodie Foster. Where are those two women today? I'll tell you.
They are NOT mega stars that are tabloid fodder for the twittering tweens and cougars of our society today. They are respected for their work, for living private lives, and for being themselves. Jodie said it best today, "Just to set the record straight, a salary for a given on-screen performance does not include the right to invade anyone’s privacy, to destroy someone’s sense of self."
Who cares what this indiscretion means to Directors, Actors, and Industry people. It is those that love her PRIVATELY that matter. Not me, not the women on this board, and not the public at large. Her loved ones that she holds the nearest and dearest to her heart.
Kristen: Go back to what you love -- your indie roots. Your comfortable there and you thrive there. The Hollywood machine will keep churning blockbusters with or without your "big celebrity" status. Besides, "the celebrity" life was not one you ever wanted anyway. An neither has Rob.
hugs and xoxo
Goodnight everyone, yet another crappy long day ahead of me tomorrow. I am accountant and I have a never ending Joint Venture close to deal with tomorrow, so I probably won't get the chance to post again until the morning or tomorrow night.
Take care Roseland.
Oh and we miss you Rose, but I am so jealous of you, I wish I was on that beach with you. My job is kicking my ass right now.
@Irish - Thanks for sharing your family's personal story. It inspires hope.
Syd - I'm so glad you dropped by and extremely relieved to hear she's doing a little better, she's been weighing heavily on my heart.Send her back any time you think she needs it :)
Morning to everyone!
Not one brain cell is alert but one thing I know..it was a good day.
Night!
Wow, it's empty in here, the problems of living on the other side of the world from everyone else.
Okay, since i am here and it is late afternoon in sunny Western Australia this post is for @Perdido.
I have now had a chance to look over your posts and have been able to see the pain and confusion you feel for Kristen in all of this. You made a very good explanation to how you see Kristen's emotional feelings - broken china all over the floor.
Okay, so we have the mess lying there and Kristen's belief that she needs to get down on her hands and knees and pick up the broken china (her life her mess) and clean it all up.
You feel that she believes she needs to do this by herself - her mess her responsibility to clean it all up. But what if someone is offering to help her clean it up, even though she is the one who took the plates out of the cupboard and smashed them to the ground? What if this person doesn't care, that two sets of hands can clean the mess up a lot quicker than one set, plus making sure Kristen doesn't get any more cuts on her hands in the process?
If anything we learn as children it's that God is forgiving and so should we be. It's so easy to believe that if we make a mess of our lives, it's up to us to clean it up. Even when people around us offer to help. It's so easy to believe that when we make mistakes it's our fault to put them right, even when a helping hand wants to aid us in making it all right?
We push people away when we feel we have no right to their compassion and empathy, we feel they are only doing this out of pity but it's not always like that. If Kristen believes her life is like broken china that she threw on the ground and is now trying to clean it up by herself...it's going to take a long time to do that. Keeping Rob at the door so it's safe and he won't get harmed, is only going to frustrate him because he wants to help, he wants to help clean up the mess. Trying to protect him from the hurt that she is feeling is only going to make him feel less of a man than what Kristen has always believed him to be, and in my eyes, Kristen believes he is very strong.
Cont...
@Perdido - if he is as strong as it is believed then don't you think it's about time that Kristen leaned on that strength, learnt to listen to him and him alone?
If she is listening to people who have only her career interests at heart then she is listening to the wrong people. Remember put right what is wrong first.
Kristen's life may feel like its all over the place right now, indecisive and confusing, but it will get better. The people that love her know the truth, the people that want to help her know the truth and everyone else is just simply noise.
If she believes she is poison and will only poison Rob's life, isn't that up to Rob to decide if she is or not? Surely he of all people will want what is best for his life, he will want to be happy and have that happiness over his career any day? Seems to me the only people i feel are poisoning his life are those who are influencing his decisions and ridiculing a young girl for something so fleeting? Of all the worlds greatest scandals - this is nothing but it's been allowed to be blown out of proportion by everyone who has had an agenda.
I put Anne Boleyn up on my blog post today a shout out to British hierarchy and how bad it once was. She may not have been the best Queen and wife in the world, but she loved King Henry passionately and she had very strong views in how she believed his life should be. She was forced to bear a son and failed, and this was her downfall. The church, the people all wanted rid of her, said she poisoned King Henry's mind with her childish stubborn ways.
Henry ignored everyone initially, that was until he fell in love with Jane Seymour and needed to find a way of getting rid of Anne. It's amazing what gossip does, amazing how so many believe in lies, instead of looking at the truth. Anne paid for indiscretions she never did, she pleaded her innocence but it was too late - her fate had been sealed with a letter of execution signed by Henry.
cont...
@Perdido - Rob isn't King Henry, he is signing no death warrant. He is not listening to the lies of the gossip mongers who are filling the world with lies and half truths,
I believe he knows the truth and has already made up his own mind. He is not being advised by people who mean him well and he knows this. His counsel are only after what is best for him, not what will make him happy. And from what i have seen, Kristen Stewart makes him happy.
This...problem will soon fade away, but if anything will be learned of this it's not to allow those who are only using your ear for their own needs and not listening to you and helping you.
Kristen is not poison, she made a mistake and got herself into a situation that she had no insight into knowing how it would turn out.
I would highly doubt a man like Robert will allow a man of considerable age win this, allow this to be rubbed in his face. What glorious way would it be to be able to stand up together - ignore the hate and the outcry and unite as one. It will give the media something to choke on, the haters something to spew up over and the man who in my opinion, is the villain, the poison in all of this win.
I highly doubt Robert Pattinson will allow of person of so little meaning, so little conscience best him in keeping the one woman he has always wanted - while the other...loses everything.
Tempest - Thank you for your words! I love reading your blog.
Syd - Thanks for being such a good friend <3
I'm so happy that Kristen will be at TIFF :) It's crazy how much I miss her.
I miss Rose too.
Hope you are all well and happy :)
Good morning all.
I meant to be here last night but I was so exhausted from the day and the sleepless night before.
I have so much catching up to do.
PL: Welcome back, it takes someone with a really big heart to do what you did........welcome back.
To everyone else excluding
(bluewhateverthehellsheisgoingbynow fool) what a great bunch of women and men you are.
--------------------
Cheers everybody........Coffee is calling! :)
@IEM...thank you for sharing your story.
(((( hugs ))))...from one beancounter to another.;-)
Goodmorning Roseland.
Read jodie foster's essay yet?...hope webloid and tabloids will shut up
I wish a support rally for k is possible...
Tempest - Upon reflection one of the things that saddened me most about Perdido's perception of the situation was the view she's apparently being given from someone incredibly misguided it seems, of how people see her i.e."poison". Aside from the small but loud group of rabid "fans" who,let's face it,jump on anything to rant about Kristen and/or Rob and are frankly irrelevant, I'm not hearing that at all.Most people I know and I interact with a lot of people, aren't invested in celebrities personal lives at all, they just go to the cinema if they like the actor or the plot of the film and amongst those there's an awful lot of sympathy for her,they accept her assertion that it was "momentary" quite readily, they respect the fact that she apologised immediately and took responsibility for her actions because most celebs don't, they respect the dignified way both she and Rob have handled this and they assume Rob will stand by her be it as friend or boyfriend, not because they think he has to but because they're "a lovely young couple" who always have an "us against the world" demeanour, I can't tell you how many times I've heard those sentiments over the past few weeks and also a lot of outrage that she's taking so much flak when they don't consider she bears the primary responsibility. Most also view the tabloids as next week's chip wrappings and know full well that once they've milked this we'll be back to the cycle of married/pregnant/breaking up/whatever Brad and Angelina are up to and they also know it's mostly crap. Something else that's been said to me quite a bit is that with Twilight almost done,they're both moving into more adult roles and what they'll take with them are the people who are actually fans of their work and those people are not interested in who they are or aren't dating. I put this to the bluntest person I know and their take was "It's not my business, I've seen each of them in a few things and I think they're really talented young actors and they seem pretty normal,their relationship is their business,whatever's going on in their private lives would never influence whether or not I watched their films anymore than I'd stop watching Chelsea because John Terry's been a naughty boy" I hope over time,seeing the more reasoned response from most people will help Kristen gain some fresh perspective.
Wow, I've gone for one night and there are 400 new comments. Finally go through them all.
You ladies are amazing. So much patience and kindness. And thx for putting the hater if her place~
@Tempest, I started reading your blog too. Brilliant posts. But too many haters in the comment section for my liking. I find haters really interesting as they kinda repeat themselves agin and again.
Well, to the hater who came to spread her venom on Rose blog, dare I say Kristen Stewart is still better than you. At least, she owned her mistake and apologized while you know nothing about compassion, kindness, commiseration and forgiveness. Isn't it entertaining see them sound all morally superior? :P
Monica from Asia
Morning all, just wanted to pop in and say hello before heading to work...
Tempest- can you stick around forever?
It's a clear blue morning here. The sun is already up, and I'm feeling like it's going to be a great day :)
Hello Roseland!
Thank you TEMPEST for your thoughts. <3
Good morning, RHONDA! Hope you have a great day.
I read that CNN spoke to fans who camped out for the Cosmopolis premiere and they ALL supported Rob AND Kristen. So happy that the normal fans are being heard instead of just that lunatic fringe who would hate her no matter what she did.
Waves and hugs to ALL!
Hi @dottie, @Monica, @Rhonda, @maria,@Annie, @Leni, @Tempest, @angelica1 and all the lovely ladies : )
Oh my god finally good news about kristen: ) She will be on the toronto festival. Who cares for the VMAs, i will tell you all that i was praying for her not come there, because they have public there and we all know how huge crowd of people can be cruel.
The toronto festival is a excellent sign of her reaction to all of this. She will NOT give up of her career. She is fighting back. For her, Rob and her career. She always has been fearless, and she never gave the impression of someone who would give up soo easily.
The wind is changing but we all knew this would happen. It's part of human nature, first you judge severily, and when the person is down , the same people who give the hate will give the simpaty to the person who is hurting. You help to put someone down but you want to help to get up too.
Good morning everyone!
I am mostly a lurker but have posted some. I just wanted everyone here to know what a blessing you are to me and I'm sure all the people who just lurk or comment. You are all classy, sympathetic, loving and most passionate about the way you feel. Your words have been a comfort to me for a long time (even before the indiscretion). Going to other blogs where all you read is how hot Rob is blah blah is not where I want to be. Here with Rose's wisdom and the rest of you ladies and gents is the place to be. Just wanted to say thank you for this haven.
I've come to realize that for me it's always been Rob AND Kristen and from that grew to like them separately. I think that is why it's so hard for me to push away the sadness I feel. I believe in them, support them and pray for them always. It's not my business (my head knows this, but my heart...) but I just want them to be happy. Coming here helps me cope and I do appreciate you all.
Have a great day everyone!
@Angelica1;
I do hope that with the right people around Kristen, with the right perspective, she can move away from the negativity that is surrounding her right now and dragging her down and she can look forward and not look back :)
@Monica;
the haters don't bother me, they are kids playing with the grown ups but the grown ups are much wiser and yes, their repetitive nature kind of springs them to be a handful of or the same person just posting under the same name, the age where the only time you will get listened to is if you post in loud shouty caps LOL
@Rhonda, lol i will try my best. Rose and i are sort of serial bloggers and we are both on twitter so we have known each other a couple of years since her blog was up before mine :)
I will be here as long as i am needed, a bit like Nanny Mcfee :D
@Tempest...Absolutely love Nanny Mcfee...big hugs to you...please don't go anytime soon.
Happy Thursday to everyone! I must depart for work...
@Monica *bows* and the same to you, it's Thursday evening here in the sunny WA xx
Good Morning, Roseland-
I sense a feeling of calm on here today...
SueBee - Thinking of you as you struggle with issues.
Tempest - PMd you back elsewhere...
Dottie - thanks for the info on the CNN fan interviews! Excellent!
Have a great day. It's Thursday! Which means it's almost Friday!
I just wanted to say how fascinating it was watching the video of the Times Q&A with Rob and David last night. I absolutely loved it, and I am so excited for how much this movie is going to make me think! :)
Take care and be safe everyone. <3
This blog and the people here are incredible. The way compassion, clarity, perspective, love and support for both Rob and Kristen are expressed is amazing. What an awesome group of people!!! It's is a special place.
Syd- It's great to see you pop in if only for a moment. I think you have eased up some worried minds here, mine included. Happy things are busy and wonderful for you! Take care.
PL- Yea for coming back! You are not the only one who has apologized over the past couple of weeks for things said. I say you are in good company (that's cause I'm in it, lol).
Tempest- Thank you for providing professional wisdom. Your words are soothing to the soul. Glad that I now know of your own blog and will enjoy your thoughts.
AddisonMcGee- You mentioned Tom and Rita last night when talking about celeb couples. Did you know that when they met he was a married father of two? They had a "full blown" affair for 2 yrs before he divorced his wife. He rarely talks about it (the fact that he cheated on his wife) and has managed to have a very successful career. Just a little trivia in case you didn't know.
Nina- I don't know if you will see this but I really don't want to get into the Jen/Brad/Angie thing (I could care less abt any of them). However I will say this and then I'm done. Angelina is a mother and her choice to become involved with a married man effects her child. Children are affected by the choices their parents make. That's a fact. That is the only point I was trying to make when I responded to you. I should have been clearer the first time.
Boogie- Sending you a cyber hug.
Also I just have to laugh at the mere idea of Nikki and Paul being classed in the same light as those other marriages. As if!
Hello everyone
Finally some positive news about Kristen going to TIFF, we will get to see her soon :-)))))
@ deb & Holy
Let's add to our dream that Rob will show up and support her and TomStu. Gosh people would have a heart attack!!!!
Does anyone know if Bobby had a concert in NYC or if he came just to hang out with Rob? I hope he stays till he is done with promo there, I feel better knowing a friend is with him.
Hopefully know news is good news
I don't see how they could make up anymore crap since Rob has given them nothing to go on.
@Karen in NJ- Big kisses to you honey : )
Thank you Isis you are very sweet and wise! Love your comments, I love everyone's comments! You all say it better than I ever would.
I agree with the calm. I think seeing and hearing Rob has been medicinal. We see he's ok (his eyes, tho....maybe just tired) and hear his responses even with the awkward interviews (just keep to the movie guys). And the support for Kristen, what a turn around, is a good sign to me.
Th Q&A was excellent! Love DC! I think he definitely has always had Rob's back.
Is the Josh interview in NY or LA, anyone know?
It sure has been a positive place around here lately and it's nice to see so many of the regulars that we all came to know back in the days when a lot of us were lurkers. Not so many arguments with the positive either so thats a double plus.
meadowgirl,
Last night you said you were still trying to delete. Please don't worry about it anymore. It's buried by now.
Pam,
You asked about Bobby Long. I think he lives in NY now that he has a recording contract. Not positive on that, but I thought I read it somewhere.
I have a little headache this morning from too much fun last night, but it was worth it. See, ya.
@PERDIDO
Baby we understand you pain. Believe me, we do!
We LOVE Kristen, we've been her REAL friends for so long and it isn't with this rough nightmare we are going to give her up. We learned to love that girl with such a passion. We know she didn't ask for this 'role' of being a model for teens, and it was given her anyway.
We just love her, unconditionally... We all have our sins and regrets...
PERDIDO is a PORTUGUESE word and it means LOST...PLEASE don't feel this way. COME TO LIGHT bb!
KRISTEN Remember:
"When you find your path, you must not be afraid. You need to have sufficient courage to make mistakes. Disappointment, defeat, and despair are the tools God uses to show us the way."
"When we least expect it, life sets us a challenge to test our courage and willingness to change; at such a moment, there is no point in pretending that nothing has happened or in saying that we are not ready. The challenge will not wait. Life does not look back. A week is more than enough time for us to decide whether or not to accept our destiny." FIGHT
" When we first begin fighting for a dream, we have no experience and make mistakes. The secret of life, though, is to fall seven times and to get up eight times."
"When you want something, all the universe conspires in helping you to achieve it." WE ARE HERE WITH YOU Conspiring TOGETHER bb
"Love is the force that transforms and improves the Soul of the World. … It is we who nourish the Soul of the World, and the world we live in will be either better or worse, depending on whether we become better or worse. And that's where the power of love comes in. Because when we love, we always strive to become better than we are."
PERDIDO you seem so sad... I've already had two family members of mine that went to that path, it's not a path we choose, it just happen and when you see everything seems dark and sad. It was my dad and sister, we had dark days in my family, but Thanks God we fought together and won this battle against the evil... FIGHT my dear!We are all sad but we are fighting together, join us!
AND NOOOO, Kristen you have to stay strong and stand tall, we need you, we need actresses like you, people like you, who make mistakes, apologize and go ahead. Please, don't give up! We are here for you , ALWAYS, forever and ever!
Kisses for all the lovely ladies from this magic land!!! Roseland!
XO from BRAZIL
BRAZIL SUPPORT KRISTEN STEWART!
@Perdido read Paulo Coelho, he is a Brazilian author/writer, he has some good books and quotes. I remember my dad became better after reading one of his books. ~The Alchemist~he was suffering from a deep depression!!!
Sorry my mistakes, Im' from Brazil
Muse bb i'm here!
angelica1 love your words.
Dottie lovely words bb
I wish I could talk about all your comments but I have no time... XO
RKSoulmates-
Great suggestion for Perdido to read Paolo Coelho - awesome.
@iris, heartfelt thanks. Your story gives me hope.
@isis, I heard that too and I have mixed feelings about the news. I'm happy coz I miss Kristen so much. It's about time for the girl to step out into the sunlight. On the other hand, I'm anxious. I know the media will be agressive. I can imagine the embrassing questions they prepare to ask. And I'm also worried. I am not sure about the reaction of the audience in the event. Will they boo her? Will she be publicly humiliated by those psychos? God, I'm already freaking out.
Everytime I look back my comments, I find tons of spelling mistakes and grammatical error. Sorry for my lousy English. How can you guys understand me is a wonder. Ha ha~ :P
Monica from Asia
I changed my avi for Kristen. Phoenix Rising -- And she will!
I hope she will only allow what's positive and encouraging into her mind. No looking at what the hateful fringe or media has to say. They don't matter anyway. The fringe will always hate and the media jump on whatever bandwagon gets the most ratings with no regard for the truth. Soon this story will become old news and they will move on to the next "scandal"
I know it's not their usual way of dealing w/things but I wonder in this case if it would be helpful if Rob and Kristen let it be known somehow that they are still together? (if they are) Just a thought, but I wonder if it would calm things down a bit? I'm sure they will do what's best-they always have. I'm just thinking out loud and rambling.
PL, I appreciated your apology. I meant to tell you sooner but got distracted by all the conversation. :)
Hi RKSoulmates, Litmom, Monica!
Time for me to do something productive. Or maybe just have another cup of coffee. Later!
Morning Ladies
@PERDIDO - This is what I would like to tell Kristen if she was listening - Sweetie - it does not make you weak to let someone else help you. Some times handing control over to someone else to help is the hardest thing we have to do. If Rob wants to be there - don't push him , let him guide you with his hands and heart because you have to trust he knows what he is doing is the right thing for him and for you. You are not tainted, you are not poison, and you do not deserve any of the hate or judgement you are getting. Hate always seems to be the loudest but believe me - there are hands around you all over the world that would be there to applaud you, catch up, or support you. The people that judge you the hardest right now do so because it is easier to pick and dissect others faults than it is our own. When you are looking at that china smashed on the ground you are doing so with skewed eyes - there are not a million pieces - maybe a couple here or there and let that man hand you the super glue and stick the pieces together with you, let him drive.
I am not a religious person but this song fits a lot in everyone's life
carrie underwood jesus take the wheel
Lyrics
http://www.elyrics.net/read/c/carrie-underwood-lyrics/jesus-take-the-wheel-lyrics.html
Oh and morning sweet sweet ladies and gents
DK - you are sweet no matter what you say and thank you for being there to refile through my crazy mess of a mind and listen late at night.
Hi All,
Liz in LaLa Land here....
Has anyone heard that Rob quoted something from WTTR during the Q & A with David yesterday?
Not sure what the quote was because I haven't watched the whole thing, but could be another "clue" that they are together.
Also, did anyone notice that Rob answered the question about them being like Charles & Di with a "no, not really" ... well I think he meant, no, not really because we're not broken up!!!
Back to work for me....
Liz in LaLa Land
Morning Roseland!
It is a bright sunny day here in Upstate NY. I hope we get some good news sometime real soon.........
Dottie~Love the new avi
Can't stay but it's a beautiful day here too........Here comes the sun. :)
Hey guys!
Monica - I do the same thing - every time I post a comment, I look back and am so embarrassed at all of the mistakes. And I'm AN ENGLISH TEACHER for goodness sake!
Dottie - I like the way you think. It could shut some of the ridiculous haters up - and present a strong, united front. But, it's up to them, I guess - :-)
Hey everyone! (on my phone, sorry for typos)
@bubbajoi thank you
@Maria hugs to to fellow bean counter!
@tempest and everyone else - - I think a polling of opinion might help Pardido sort things out.
How many here feel it would be best for R/K to stand united in support of each other however publicly they choose?
Does everybody agree with me that it would shut the public at large up and move on?
And last question, will all of us still go see R's and K's movies as though this whole thing never happened?
For me:
Yes
Yes
YES!
Okay I am outty until I can post again tonight.
Hugs and xoxo to all.
@ Liz
I've not seen the Q&A so I don't know if that happened but would love to know also.
If it did wouldn't it be great if that was Robs way of reaching out to Kristen because I'm sure he knew she would be watching. Just to say I'm thinking of you :-))
Gosh I just wish we had that time machine Rob talked about , to either go back a month and change Kristens ever meeting up with RS or going to the future so all this heartache is a thing of the fast for R/K
@ Lucky
Thanks for answering my question
I feel better knowing he had someone to hang out with while there
Seeing all these +ve comments and how supportive you ladies are, I suddenly have an angry feeling towards some Kristn's former fans, e.g. S from Robstentaion. S starts somewhere else to blog about Rob solely and without any mention of the word "Kristen" in any of her blog post even Rob got asked about her in interviews. Well, I know people have the freedom to choose whatever they like to do but I just can't understand how someone can turn 180 overnight and they claimed they were fans. Is it normal for me to feel betrayed and disappointed? Do I have the right to?
S was a awesome blogger. It isn't my intention to attack her here and it has nothing to do with Rose blog. But I just dun know where to post so I get that out of my chest. :(
Sorry for my mood swing, which has been common for me in the past few weeks.
Monica from Asia
Thank you IB! <3
Just wasting time online and reading so many tweets supporting Kristen. These are just a few.
Scott Mendelson: I defend Kristen Stewart for same reason I defended Megan Fox in 2009 and 2010. Both actresses bring out zealous, irrational, often misogynistic hatred irrespective of their real or imagined sins.
Rob Lowe & Ryan Murphy Applaud Jodie Foster For Online Essay
Molly Ringwald: It might be difficult for some to relate or to sympathise, but I think Jodie Foster articulates it so beautifully
Tom Walter: Disgusted by the way the world works. As if the critics themselves are angels. Ms Stewart has my condolences.
Sasha Stone: Well she's the money so suck on that, Hollywood. p.s. if they weren't going to lose the ahole, I'm glad Kristen Stewart ain't doing it. Beast will have to find another bloody stump to gnaw.
Dayron Leon: Ms. Foster is brilliant and eloquent. I tip my hat to you.
Evil Beet Gossip: Retweet this if you think maybe we should cut Kristen Stewart a break, huh?
Monica - Read the "Thank You & Goodbye" post from S. She is still planning on supporting Kristen.
http://robstenation.blogspot.co.at/2012/08/thank-you-and-goodbye-for-now.html
@IEM - I think it would be better for them to face the media together if they have worked it out - I didn't watch GMA cause I am getting kids ready for school then going to work at that time but I wonder if they all sat and ate a bowl of cereal while discussing the Jodie Foster article - the comfort food thing is so ridiculous - complete mind blowing
I will see their movies as normal and support them both - the only thing they owe me is a good performance - the rest is my own voyeurism
Also, I forgot to include this. I received a work email this morning that had a wonderful quote in it that totally applies to @Pardido's posts.
@Pardido - - this is for you:
"Darkness cannot drive out darkness; only light can do that. Hate cannot drive out hate; only love can do that." - - Martin Luther King, Jr.
Enjoy your day Roseland.
Monica,
I hear ya. It's happened on many boards, Twitter, FB. So quick to turn - and I wonder how many will try to return to the fold when things blow over? Immediate anger and confusion was one thing - but complete abandonment...???
"Fair Weather Fans" **shaking my head**
@Dottie all those tweets were nice to see - lets hope the media steps back.
I'm envious of all the sunshine you all are having. Rain, rain here.
Thank you all for taking me back into the fold. You're very kind.
Monica,
I understand your upset but I think these former bloggers have not abandoned Kristen. I think they just don't feel it's appropriate to be speaking of how flawless she is in light of recent events. They will return when the timing is right.
My thoughts on the united front are, I think it might be a case of what we want, rather than what they want. They have never flaunted their relationship to the public and I doubt they will start now. It would be perceived as a ploy if they did.
They are not a publicity couple. There are couples who say they want privacy but then seem to go out of their way to be seen. Andrew Garfield and Emma Stone come to mind. It doesn't seem genuine to me, but that's just me.
@Leni & @Litmom, IDK. I just went to that site S now blogs about Rob and saw some old regulars from Robstenation there all smile and sunshine gushing about Rob, and with zero mention of Kristen like she never exists. Then I feel angry suddenly.
I know it's not pretty but I can't deny my emotion..... :(
Monica from Asia
Monica - I get what you are trying to say. I can't really understand all those fans who were so quick to abandon Kristen. I'm ESPECIALLY shocked that some of the "only Kristen" fansites did that. BUT I have very high regards for S and think that she is one of the good fans :)
@Leni, well, glad the few I followed didn't (except for Robstanetion >.< ).
Monica from Asia
@IEM...An emphatic triple "yes" from me too.
@IB...woke up this morning to downpours and flash flood warnings. Now the sun is shining thru my office window. Crazy weather...
@Litmom...phone keypads make it nearly impossible to spell without errors.
@Dottie...love the Phoenix
@Ginger...hey you incredible spitfire!
@Monica...don't let it get to you if they are fair weather fans. Stick to your convictions. I never got that impression about S, but this whole chaos may be too much for her to even briefly mention Kristen's name. Easier to avoid talking about her.
"Hi" to everyone else that is on here and I've missed.
Tide is definitely turning. Good to see more and more celebrities voicing their support of Kristen. HW needs a good wakeup call.
@Leni, care to name the sites you mentioned?
Oh, one saying comes to mind,
"If you cannot support her at her worst, you don't deserve her at her best."
They all shared her glory in the past and they leave her when she is most in need. And they plan to come back when things become "right" again? Are you kidding me?
Who support her in her darkest time and try to make things "right" again? It's US!! It's US defending her from hate remarks on sites, continue to go see her movie, order Florabotanica and all that. We do those only to tell studio bosses and the public that she's still marketable! Not sure how these can help her career but at least we are trying!! Those who turned their backs have NO contribution. And they plan to come back?!
Ok, now my anger rise to a whole new level.
I may sound childish right now. Forgive me.
Monica from Asia
Monica - I don't really want to talk about other sites here on Rose's blog :)
@Leni, ok, I undersatnd.
Kinda OT for my previous posts I guess.
Monica from Asia
Don't forget to support OTR premiere TODAY in LONDON!!!
Kristen PLEASE GO TO TORONTO FESTIVAL!!!
We Miss YOU babygirl!!!
<3
Thanks @Litmon
Let me start to apologise to all of you, because I know that this is not going to be a popular comment.
I'm sorry, I just need to take it off of my chest.
Everyone here seems to be writing for Kristen, my words are for Rob:
First of all, I'm SO sorry that this has happened in your life. You seem to be a really wonderful person, a SPECIAL person, and I'm sure you didn't deserve any of this.
My heart aches for you.
I've always thought that one of the most fascinating things about you was the way you loved her, because it says so much about your character. Yeah... you didn't deserve this.
But, you see, my heart aches for Kristen too. So f*cking much. I believe in her apology, I believe that this was momentary, I believe that she did a really dumb thing and I believe that she regrets it deeply.
Does she deserve to be punished because of her mistake? Well, I think that she must face the consequences of her actions, like everybody else. To see your disappointment, your pain, to face the possibility of losing your love. That's the kind of consequences that she should be facing.
But this?
What is happening is way beyond that.
I've NEVER seen something like this, I've never seen someone being treated in public with this level of disrespect and irresponsibility. What is next? Physical harm? She does NOT deserve to be treated like this. Kristen is NOT poison, this twisted society is.
Yes, the general public is starting to see the injustice and to react to the hatred directed at her, but there's a part of the public that is not. Your fans. Not the ones that hated her before, I don't qualify them as "fans". Those will always hate her anyway. I'm talking about the "robsessed", the "sane" ones, that don't seem so sane anymore. As long as they believe that you are hurting and that you hate her (because that's the assumption that a lot of them are making), they will not stop to spread hate about Kristen. And they are, not only in sites dedicated to you, but in the comment section of every article written about this. They're angry and they will not forgive her. Not until you do.
So here comes the unpopular part...
Please help her. Publicly. I KNOW that yoy don't have any obligation in doing so, but please, help her. You are the only one who can really save her public image. You don't even need to talk about it. A subtil indication that you have forgiven her can do more for her than a thousand Jodie Foster's articles. Please, help her.
Susan
@Susan, no, in the bottom of my hreat, I'm begging him to do the same thing.....which I must admit we have no right to really.......
Monica from Asia
Susan,
Thank you for your heartfelt plea. It is what we all feel for him.
I agree with you...he is the only one that can stop the madness. A simple hand holding will do.
There is monsterous behaviour out there. What does that say about the society that we live in?
@Monica I'm thinking that since it's a site for the "brit boys" talking about Kristen is inappropriate? (not the right word I know) Sorry if I offended anyone bringing up another site.
@Karen, not that I need them to talk about her but there is not even one mention of her name both in the articles they post and in the comment section. Well, it's just me being irrational and emotional I guess. Ignore my rant.
Monica from Asia
@Susan - I agree - I know it is not his responsibility but at this point I don't think anyone will be able to save her but him - from the public from herself. It is a lot to put on his shoulders and when he is hurt too but I just don't see how people are going to get it any other way then this. But like it or not - the lynch mob will not back off even a little until they no longer feel they are avenging him.
Can I vote on the time machine to just make none of this happen at all?
@Ginger, I'm with you, can we just go back? I still have hope for the Josh interview tonight, maybe a little crumb.
Can her team do anything because as everyone says it's gotten way out of proportion. This has to be killing Rob too to hear this stuff. Even if he doesn't care (God forbid) he cared once and wouldn't be able to tolerate it.
@Monica no problem, we'll just let it go and see what the future brings.
irisheyesmasen -- YES TO ALL
Monica in Asia -- I agree with you about the 180 fans... don't understand it.
Susan -- Yea, I agree that it "appears to us" that Rob could help her. However, I'm not a PR pro who might be able to tell us more. ALSO, if anything, if they are together or will be back together soon, I believe they'll be even more private than they were before. I believe by BD2, we'll see hand-holding, etc. but never anything open.
Right now, I think we'll all be in heaven if we saw hand-holding.
I saw a tweet yesterday, can't remember who from, that said Rob stopped signing autographs when a fan started bashing Kristen and that he said something like "back off". I wish I knew if that was true.
Hello Roseland
maria :)
luckystrike :)
The weirdest thing happened to me last night. It was late after I had left the computer and I was doing the dishes in my kitchen. While my back was turned, 4 dishes fell out of my cabinet and smashed onto the floor. I have some Corelle ware, the kind that never breaks. Well, 1 bowl survived intact and 3 plates smashed to smithereens. Tiny glass shards everywhere. It was very late and I could not use the vaccuum cleaner so I had to get down on my hands and knees and pick up many pieces and use the broom to get the rest. I have never broken so many dishes at once and had them break into such tiny pieces. Well, I can tell you that tears were rolling down my face for the 1/2 hour it took for me to clean it up as I held Rob and Kristen and the wonderful people at Roseland close in my thoughts.
Through all of this the one intact bowl was treated with extreme care.
That this happened is still freaking me out a little bit, but I had to share it with you all here, especially with Perdido and Marley.
@LIZ - it was several tweets and you see him get really mad in the video and leave after but you can't tell on the video what makes him so mad but yeah people there said it was in reaction to someone trashing Kristen
Such Classy ladies - you boo a question but degrade her to his face - ugh
@meadowgirl25...as they say..."everything happens for a reason"...spooky but ironic considering Perdido's analogy.
@Susie - oh my God you make me cry. What you wrote is the ultimate truth. We all here in our hearts knows that. Maybe is unfair to him but he is the only one in the world who can stop this. Maybe not all the crazyness but the crazyness of his fans , that like we all know are the ones in full force behind the majority of the haters comments in sites and blogs, twitters. They feed the monster.
I truly hope that his fans get what they want. I really hope. They want him to date stupid aspiring models, fame whores aspiring actresses, get drunk on the pubs, The conclusion BE A MAN. You know what i mean. In their heads this is the real Robert pattinson to them. Not the one who since 2008 has in his heart only ONE girl. They all saw like all of us in his years with kristen his undeniable HAPPINESS. But they never like it,since the begining that they feel kristen is a treath. And you know why? Because they know that he has a deeply, profound love for her. Yes they know. They only don't admite but they know.
So let them in the next months have the Rob that they dream about. You all saw the pics of him promoting Cosmopolis. He looks HAPPY to you? He looks like he doesn't care about her? I don't see that. I honest don't see. If i felted that he already have move on from her, i would say it. But i can't. I can see the sadness in his eyes. And we all know why. All this sucess of cosmopolis, it's good, he is proud with that. But i believe that the sadness in his eyes that we all saw in the cosmopolis premiere is because he can't share this sucess moment with her. Yes he has his team, his family and his friends and his fans. But looking to him , is that enought? No. I think he wanted more than anything in the world that she would had been with him in the premiere and after party. And yes she was missed.
We will all gonna see in the end all his fans supplicate for kristen to come back. YOu all remember that erica in cannes from 2009, who sells him out to the tabloides, with the pics, trying to sell that something happened between them. Another case more recent was that actreess sArah r. and the pics of them in the car who made all the media and fans believe that he was with her. You all remember everyone on the blogs anlising the pics, his hands touch or not touch her hands. His knees are or not touching her. This was insane. So let their fans have the fame whores who will sell him out to the tabloides. In the end they will cry for kristen. In the end kristen will be Everything for them, the only one who can save him.
I love Rob and i know that he is not what his fans wants him to behave. I just hope that he has the straight to not get influence for the bad people convencing him that he will be better without her. Because for what we saw of sadness in his eyes he will NEVER be better without her.
Ginger with a Soul,
LINKS, please? I'd love to see those videos....
Regarding all the convo about Rob should stand up for her, etc. As much as I'd love to see him stand up and make a statement about leaving her alone, etc.... I'm not sure if their "teams" would agree with us. Where is Real PR Pro when we need her!!!!
Calling Real PR Pro... where are you?
Ginger, links, please???
Melinda, thank you for that information about Tom and Rita, NO I did not know that. Interesting. I guess it goes to prove that even when people make stupid and selfish choices in life that seem so insurmountable when a person is in the middle of it all, that there is light at the end of every tunnel, all we have to do is just pray it's not the train. Thank you for the information, I had never read that.
@PL you're absolutely correct not all bloggers have abandoned Kristen at all it's just the loudest people who get the most attention.
Susie your comment was well thought out and very nicely said and I appreciate the respectful way in which you said it so thank you. Please do not think I am directing what I am about to say to you at all.
I understand that everyone is wanting Rob to 'DO' something to make this situation better, say something make an appearance where he comments about this being hard on everyone. However, I believe that people are forgetting that Rob is in the middle of a promotional tour where he is expected to talk about the movie, he's not someone, from his prior statements who likes to talk about his private life. He has handled questions and people prying with as much grace, dignity and good will that can be expected of anyone. He has to be tired, frustrated and let's face it, hurting. To expect him when HIS life is in so much turmoil to make a grand gesture is unfair of all of the fans, myself included who have watched Rob and Kristen over the years.
IF Rob were to comment about this, it would do nothing to soften the people who are so adamant about hating Kristen right now, because they've always hated her. They will scream that Summit forced him to comment or that someone blackmailed him into commenting. His comments now or ever will not stop those idiots from continuing to hate.
I am a fan who has been angry, I've admitted it, several of us have. I will not apologize for being angry, but I am softening my stance towards her. For me, the Jodie Foster comments went further to making Kristen more of a normal person with feelings, worries and problems, than ANYTHING Rob could say. She spoke from the heart, Rob would too, but her comments carry clout, someone ELSE is standing up for Rob who is resepected and has been in similar situations.
Rob making a comment right now would cause more drama than him not commenting. His private moments with Kristen is what's important.
My sweet sweet TEMPEST Like OUR dear Rose I THANK OUR GOOD LORD for you. Not the best week for me just found out my dad is dying and all this shit with Kristen its nice to read some better though and YES it well get better even with my dad HEAVEN is a BEAUTIFUL place. Please stay with us I LOVE MY ROSE and miss her but love to hear for you to You my friend GIVE ME HOPE when i sometimes feel there is none THANK YOU SO MUCH :) DEB.
addisonmagee -- VERY well said. I agree. I had not really thought about how everyone would say it was PR!!! Same old, same old ...
Ginger -- I'm dying to see one of those videos, please??? Or tell me where to look for them, please?
@Liz -
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=bVnarCXbhzY
start at the 1:00 mark it happens about 8 secs after - he tell them to back away
@Liz sorry we had went to lunch - yeah for Mexican but we got lost finding the restaurant lol
Oh, deb - I'm so sorry about your dad.
Sending you a big hug and lots of prayers.
@Deb - here is a big hug - I am sorry :(
Still catching up on comments but wanted to tell DEB that you have my deepest sympathies. Prayers of peace and comfort for you and your dad.
If you all don't mind I wanted to share a couple more things.
I saw that some were discussing the changes at some of the blogs since all this mess started. I don't think most of them meant any harm but just needed some time to process what happened. KSIBTU posted a nice entry today to let everyone know they will begin blogging again. Their support for Kristen is as strong as ever.
http://ksibtu.com/2012/08/16/how-ill-scratch-my-itch/
Today is the London premiere of OTR. Check out this line! Congrats to Kristen, Tom, and everyone else involved!
https://twitter.com/MissD1817/status/236166894812540929/photo/1
One last thing and then I will shut up. A friend of mine who has been a long time fan wrote a letter to Kristen. Not that she ever dreamed Kristen would read it but more or less to express her own feelings. She's a writer so that's what she does. After much begging and pleading she agreed to let me share it here because it is so beautiful and I think all of you will enjoy it. http://www.twitlonger.com/show/isi6k3
I'm sorry for being so Kristen-focused on a Rob blog. I love him as much as I love her of course. I want both of them to be happy and well and I have a feeling if she is, then he will be too. Besides, I don't think he'd mind at all. ;)
@Dottie - :) I agree
Thank You you guys Don't even know you BUT YOU FEEL LIKE FAMILY :) DEB.
@Isis - Hi sweetie
Deb I'm so sorry for what you are going through right now. You and your dad are in my prayers.
Dottie -
I am so glad KSIBTU is back - I love that blog! Need to go over to Twitter and catch up. I saw the letter, too - :-).
And you're right - I don't Rob would mind that we're sending some love to Kristen. Not at all!
Perdido- we don’t know each other but I read your posts and felt like saying something.
No one should have cared of Rob and Kristen personal life before, and no one should now. But I acknowledge that is so not happening and I also took some fault for it. Not personally, but I mean, I wondered how things could have gone if something was different? If people weren’t so invested into little things like clothes and rings and making up labial sentences that probably never existed. And I wonder if maybe Rob and Kristen got it wrong from the beginning trying to be too private, forgetting that it’s basically impossible in a place like Hollywood, forgetting that you have to make compromises with that crazy world.
I’ve been wondering if hiding and keeping their personal life so covered was a good choice cause the more they hid, the more people wanted. So bad.
But who knows, maybe they wouldn’t even last one year if they had been more public? The point is, Rob and Kristen are human beings, and this shit (and worse) happens to lots and lots of people, with the difference that they only have to deal with themselves and not 3millions of people bashing and making money out of made up shitty stories.
Yes, there was the mistake, of course. But Kristen is human, like everyone else. I’m speaking as a 21 years old girl whose concerns may be to take the dogs out, or make lunch when mom is not home, or deal with sisters’ confession. I’m 21 and I couldn’t even imagine living even half a life like Kristen has done for at least 5 years now.
But I agree when you say we are fans, we are brought to forgive easily. And I can tell you that even now I feel like thanking Kristen, ‘cause if there was one thing I was sure, even though never experiencing it, was that I could never forgive a cheating. And there comes Kristen Stewart, opening my eyes and letting me see shades instead of black and white. And it’s so easy t see black and white and shoot own sentences when not knowing anything. But Kristen is not black. She was not born black and she hasn’t become. And although I’ve been disappointed the first second, I had already forgiven the second later; even though it’s not my right to forgive, not anyone’s actually. But I did, in my heart, change my perspective of life and of situations and that is helping a lot to see the world in a different shape now. To not judge so easily, above all when you don’t know anything and when it’s not your life. I’m sorry that we live in a world where it’s easier to hate and to judge rather than trying to understand and being compassionate, but this doesn’t mean Kristen should give up who she is or what and who she loves the most.
If it’s true what you say, if Rob has already forgiven her and would always do… well then it’s her to need time. I think Kristen must feel so lost right now. She’s always believed in very defined values and shared her opinions and now she feels wrong, like she lost her soul or who she is or stuff like that. If it’s like that, well then all it takes is time. Not for them to forget, not for him to forgive, but for her to give herself a second chance, to forgive herself, to go deep down and stand up to where she really is. We’ve seen people, supposed fans, turning backs so easily and all I could think was how such a shame it is that four years are forgotten so easily for a mistake we don’t even know anything about. After all, we’ve never known anything about Rob and Kristen, fairly enough. Apart from public events, no one knows what was going on into the walls, and no one should now as well. Yet, now everything people know about them is that she cheated and not how supportive she’s been, not how she fought for him; no one knows what might have cost her to choose a much more difficult path in the beginning. I’m sorry for that, but that’s how it works. That’s something only time can heal; after all that why they call it a scandal. They shock people and, again, it’s just easier to judge ‘cause no one ever accepts someone who is better than them, so when you find that one person (above all if known worldwide) who screws up, here comes out that everyone is a saint, but that’s just ‘cause the world doesn’t actually know. So who is the worst here? Who?
I hope Kristen can get the strength to get herself together again, maybe give herself some time ‘cause she may surely need it, but letting Rob go… no.
I think Rob has to be the one to choose… I know what you mean though and it’s very honorable that you think you can love so much to let go, but that’s just fucking shit, like seriously. ‘If you love someone, let him go’ is the biggest lie and shit ever. If you love someone, and if they love you back, you fight for it, okay? Against everyone and anyone on the way, in every possible way. Even if it’s the two of you against the world. Who else should care? And in regard to Rob and how great he’s handling everything, everyone has such a great consideration of him that I think that him ‘taking Kristen back’ may just lead people to believe that after all it’s his personal life and not any of us, but also that he’s not stupid and he knows what he’s doing. This should be no one fucking business but theirs. No one should forgive Kristen apart from Rob, and if he does then it’s only a confirmation that Kristen Stewart is no poison to him.
It should be Rob’s decision anyway and I guess he already took his decision, or possibly never really considered the chance to leave her. I don’t know. And as far as she may believe, like you do, that for his best she should step back forever, I hardly disagree, since it could hurt him even more than going through the shit or the cuts with her… Love means sharing. Joys just as much as pain. Let people you love, and love you back, help you pick the pieces together. Even if it hurts. And Rob will, for Kristen he will and she should just let him in, simply ‘cause I could never, ever, imagine Rob loving someone else has much as he loves Kristen, and the other way round. It’s like when two people are fated to be together. They can be apart all the time they want, but eventually meet years later and find out that all they did was just wasting time.
Time is all they need right now, I think. And people will forget sooner or later. And Kristen stays however a wonderful and talented person and actress and is only 22. She’s young, she’ll have more chances. Her career is not screwed up forever. I just wish they could deal with this like normal people and skip all this shit around, but sometimes the shit is what you need to really grow up and come out stronger. I hope Kristen can do that, with or without Rob, I believe she can and I truly hope that she can reach a point when she just accepts that she’s done a huge mistake, being fooled or whatever, and eventually forgive herself.
“If you respect yourself and you love yourself, that’s the only way anybody else is going to.” So that is like with forgiveness. She needs to forgive herself for people to do that as well, or at least trying. And if they don’t, too bad but it’s what people are. Mean. And I can assure you, (even though I bet you know well) that there are people hating, so much, but there also are people who are human. I’ve been talking with a few friends about this lately (not that I wanted to but the argument came up) and I was actually glad and relieved to hear them saying ‘She’s so young after all… we all make mistakes. I hope they get back together, they are so perfect.’ So don’t be on the negative side, even if it’s bigger. Just have faith in the human one. And for what matters, I’ll always support Kristen, no matter what. Even if she doesn’t want it, even if she feels she’s not worthy enough.
And I apologize for my poor English compared to other posts that have been more ‘highly’ exposed but I wanted to tell you anyway. And I don’t know if you’ll ever read this and if affects your thoughts in any way but take at least the chance to think back, to consider everything everyone here has said.
And please, don’t give up on happy endings, because that’s what we should live for. Love. So if you have the chance to have that kind of love, just live it. May sound like a very Moulin Rouge quote right now but, what’s life without love? And there are so many different levels of it and it’s so rare to find something like that. So pure and true. If you can find it in your life, if you already did, just go for it. Don’t care about the others. Do like Romeo and Juliet (well not literally or just skip the end eventually), run away, stand up, say the truth, speak, whatever! But do anything it takes to fight for it, to have it or to take it back if it got lost somewhere.
But just don’t give up and don’t let the world infect your love in any way. “Follow your heart and you’ll usually wind up where you wanna be”, you know? So, just follow your heart, like Kristen always did.
I believe that. I truly do.
And remember: hate is easy, love takes courage.
DK, Tempest, oneheart, dottie, kay, angelica and everyone else- your words are such a fresh air. Thanks!
Syd- Thanks for stopping by!
So easy to miss this place. <3
@Fiorels...your words are as touching as your Robsten videos. You are a lovely person...thank you.
FIO! I love you - glad you're here! Beautiful posts -
@ Fiorels - Can I say I love your videos !!! What you wrote is beautiful as well
I have to say - my hat is off to Tom
They asked Tom where Kristen was & his response was: "I don't talk about my friends behind their backs"
Good day!
@Fio
You sure took down the big lie about letting love go, for it's own good! Thanks again.
@deb
Thinking of you and your dear father.
@SueBee
May better news appear very soon.
@Ginger
No, I am not! Stop it! :)
@DK - you are and you have no idea. Thanks for the talk off the ledge so to speak.
Thank you Dk and litmom, glad to be back here again.
This place is like heaven right now.
maria and ginger, nice to meet you!
I agree, Tom is a true, caring friend.
Hi guys,
Just a small comment about other bloggers being turncoats. I wasn’t a regular at any other blog and have never posted anywhere else. That said, I did pop over to Robstenation from time to time to catch “the news”. The girl that ran the site did an incredible job and she probably dedicated significant parts of her life to do so - a labour of love that grew into something more. One could almost say it became a full time job.
I truly believe that she was a solid and dedicated supporter of Kristen. Her reasons for moving on to the sister site for the Brit Boys are her own. But perhaps we are too quick to judge. Again we don’t really know her reasons. You know, I think about what so many people have said – that they were too invested in following Rob & Kristen’s relationship – in some cases to the point of being deeply affected and in some case physical ill over to the situation. Even Rose has indicated that she won’t dive in so deep again in following the lives of a real life couple. Perhaps “S” was/is in the same boat – just needing to pull back for a bit and re-prioritize her life.
Additionally, I understand she had a difficult time at the end with people being outright rude and even criticizing her. When that happens it’s understandable how someone might want to take a break and refocus on one topic. As noted above, in her parting remarks she indicated her desire to learn Live Journal and blog about Kristen again one day.
So, perhaps we should give S and other bloggers the benefit of the doubt. Things are not all black and white – as we’ve all come to understand recently.
Just another perspective to add to the mix. Thanks guys and have a great rest of the afternoon.
Deb – so incredibly sorry to hear your news. Stay strong and treasure the time you have.
Boogie – also sorry to hear you are having a difficult time. I hope the trouble passes quickly for you.
FIO, You are the sweetest! I hope somehow someway Kristen sees your lovely words and takes them to heart.
I hope she will turn away from all the darkness that has surrounded her and keep her eyes on the promise of better days to come (they are coming!)
I hope she wraps herself in the love of that sweet man and allows him to be the man he needs to be for her. It's what he needs to do for himself as much as for her, and she has to let him.
I hope she uses his love as a shield against all the pain she feels right now.
I hope she realizes she has been punished enough and lets herself begin to take steps away from this and move toward the next chapter and a fresh start.
Brand new dishes will be bought but she will hold onto that one precious dish that she can't live without and carry it with her always. (I just love that so much!)
Freddie- i totally stand by you in this.
Being someone who makes videos i've been asking if it's about time for myself to step back and just stop...
I guess S and others just realised that it was too much for them, which is funny, in a weird way, that other lives can affect people this much.
But it's a very complicated argument anyway...
People must do what they feel, but also remember that they can be hurt as much as they want but it's nothing compared to what Rob and Kristen are going through.
Deb- i just read up in the comments. So sorry about your dad!
stay strong, and be next to him! <3
Oh, Dottie- love the last image you put in my head.
I hope and believe she will.
You can't just waste a love like that...
but like you said different times it's still too soon for her, or anybody else, to see things properly and be able to think with lucid mind.
@Fiorels,
I only know you from your beautiful video's, all I can say now is "wow" after reading your posts. You always had a great eye in catching the love between Rob and Kristen. Your words are just as profound and touching perhaps even more so.
Hi Everyone,
Deb - I'm so sorry to hear about your dad,my prayers are with you.
Fio - I love you xx
In response to the comments suggesting Rob speak out - my niece has just left, she allows me to drag her along to the cinema but doesn't really keep up with any celebrities but she happened to catch Rob's appearance on TDS, she knows I love the two of them.She tends to be very pragmatic and unemotional when analysing those kind of situations so her reaction surprised me. Her response - "God he's protective of her" When I asked why she said that she answered. "Well the interviewer was fishing but Rob wasn't giving him a thing, the look on his face though,it was as if he had a picture of her in his mind the whole time,giving him strength" She then threatened to slash my tyres if I ever told anyone she'd said that :) I think Rob's doing just fine, he's protecting her without exposing her further, I think that's a good way to handle it.
Sue- you are very kind <3
angelica! - *waves* love what your niece said! i love those kind of comments coming from people not 'into this'. They are very telling in my opinion.
OMG....How are y'all keeping up with all these comments!!?
Company just left...again. I'm going to type quickly before anther 50 comments are added. LOL
First....I am so proud to be a card-carrying, decoder ring owner and twirler of ROSELAND!
Angelica, Dottie, Fio...EVERYONE.....the outpouring of advice, life experiences, kindness, friendship and love expressed in each and every post is staggering.
Bravo...standing ovation!
TEMPEST
Well, you know how I feel about you. Your posts are inspired and a must read for anyone looking for sound advice and TRUTH. Thank you.
SYD
You are so damn precious....thank you for stopping by.
ROSE
I hope you are having a marvelous time soaking up the sun. We miss you and look forward to your return.
I feel left out!!
When did Tom say that about Kristen? Or whatever he said, doesn't talk about friends behind backs, etc.???
GINGER -- Thanks for that video link, he def gets angry but I never hear him say "send it back" like others hear. Oh well ....
Hope, hi! :)
ITA and your name says a lot at this time lol
Liz- there was the OTR UK premiere today, so must have happened there at some point.
DEB
I am so sorry about your dad. Sending you heartfelt prayers to you and your family.
I have to say that I am extremely proud of Rob. He handled this week with such class, grace and humor.
Look forward to seeing COSMOPOLIS....still not scheduled here yet...fingers crossed.
And....good luck with Josh tonight. Love him for always supporting Rob and our beautiful Kristen.
FIO
There you are...I have been missing you! How are you and what have you been up to?
DEB
I am sorry as well to hear of your dad
Hi EVERYBODY
SUPER- yes! here i am!
i have been (still am) busy with uni. i have one only exam left til graduation and it's the hardest one and i'm at the seaside house. Imagine how hard studying is here...
How are you instead?
@Liz - he said it today at the OTR screening in London
Whatever happens in that video - either someone gave him a photo or says something he says get back and shews the person.
Freddie - you're absolutely right.
There are many faithful sites that took a hiatus, and I shouldn't have made such a general statement. I guess the first thing that came to mind were a few folks on Twitter who had previously seemed supportive, but suddenly became so negative, and a few of the K sites that just threw in the towel when they could have been shouting their support from the mountaintops.
But you are right - this did affect some so powerfully. I do know more than a couple of people who have been physically sick, couldn't eat over this - and that is definitely the time to step back and gain some perspective and just regroup.
I'm just so thrilled to have all of you here - always positive, always faithful - wise, compassionate, sipportive. And not just to Rob and Kristen, but to each other.
FIO
Waving HELLO! Miss you!
Hi SUPER
@deb-sorry to hear about your dad.My prayers.
@Dottie-I love you new avi.I have read all the tweets also.I hope their are gonna be more tweets to come.
Fio-hello to you,please don't stop making the videos.
Tom S.was asked about Kristen and here's his response. "I don't talk about my friends behind their backs" - Tom (when asked where
Kristen is)
Litmom- i was shocked by the amount of 'fans' who became negative in one second. It was impossible to stay there without unfollowing everyone.
Holy- hi to you! <3
DANG IT! sUpportive, not sIpportive. Good grief.
And Fio - you're right - I had a field day clicking that "unfollow" button!
FIO
I am so good!!!!! I can't begin to tell you How glad I am to see you and it has been an emotional roller coaster here on the blog for two days..but I feel like we are all so blessed to come together with love support and hope and that by some miracle, maybe we have helped in some small way to turn the tide of events in the right direction!!!!!!
I wish I could HIGH FIVE every single one of you!
I am thankful for all of the regs, all of the old posters that have returned, the new posters that have come to us from other blogs, ROSE, SYD,SMITTY and GRUFF....I believe in love and possibilities, and NOT BEING BACKED INTO A CORNER AND TOLD THERE IS NO HOPE...THAT ALL IS LOST because IT MOST CERTAINLY IS NOT!!!!
Hi HOPE, LITMOM, ANGELICA,HOLY and GINGER
Everyone, please forgive me if I seem abrupt, rude or whatever, I have been up all night with a sick child and I am exhausted, but cannot go and lie down until my husband gets here. So forgive me for saying this so bluntly, if I was well rested I probably would have more grace, right now I can barely function.
Why is it that everyone is expecting Rob to do anything at all? I don't understand it, and I personally think it's unfair. I would no more expect Rob to say anything about this entire thing than I would expect the sky to be red tomorrow.
Rob is concentrating on his job, he can't say anything about this, to do so would like this thing back up again, haven't we all had enough of that?
As for the anger towards Kristen, it's not fair, but I've felt anger several of us have, bottom line she doesn't owe any of us a DAMN thing and if we are upset by her behavior that's our problem.
So I really wish we could all quit trying to figure out what in the hell happened and just let these two get back on with their lives.
Let's wish them well and stop talking about it in any form. That's the only way it will go away.
Sorry to be so blunt, but the way I see it, even if we're all nicely talking about this, myself included it's just stirring the pot. Let it go, trust that this will work out. But we have to keep our noses out of it. MINE especially.
Fio - <3 <3 <3
Great comments! I missed you!
Deb - Keeping you in my prayers!
Angelica - I love that comment from your niece.
Super- i have to agree. thank god for this place hehe
Leni- hiiiii! missed you too! how are you??
darcusleshea- you are actually soooo right. But that's something we should have done from the beginning. As fair as it should be to step back and leave them be, we can't help having them in our thoughts, just cause they have been for the past 4 years.. and it's way better to talk on here, which is a safe place, rather than twitter or other online sites, i think.
Never posted before, but have visited this blog for a while! :)
I just wanted to share this quote from a review of a book I am considering reading. I thought it so perfectly relates to this whole craziness that is going on the R/K fandom:
"We are all flawed - we let each other down, we do the wrong things, and we fail again and again. This is life. And the only thing to do is keep on living."
I support both Rob & Kristen. Always have. Always will. The only thing I care about is that they are able to continue to do the profession they chose to do which is bring characters to life without being held accountable by the public on what they do off-screen. :)
Great group of fans here! Enjoy reading everyone's thoughts.
Fio - I'm good, thanks :)
Good luck for your exam! What are you studying if you don't mind me asking?
Leni- good to know :)
i'm studying political sciences, but don't know why lol
Fio - That sounds interesting :)
I loved your vid BTW.. totally made me cry, but it was very uplifting at the same time
I was just trying to light some moods up lol give people some faith, you know lol thanks anyway <3
Well I had faith all along, but your vid made me believe even more :)
And Dk you're a wonderful and fun lady, I don't know which nitwit told you to quit posting songs, but give em a huge middle finger and put your lyrics back on here we all look forward to reading them
Haha oh glad to hear that then lol
how's your summer going anyway?
It's ok so far, I had to work most of the time but I love my job so all is well :)
Are you enjoying your summer despite studying?
what are you doing as a job? if i may ask :)
oh i dont complain. I've spent some nice days with friends before coming here and locking up so it's okay lol
I'm an editor for a newspaper.
Glad that you had fun :)
@Ginger- Hi swetie : ) you feel the things are changing honey ? looks now the world are seeing what we have been saying in this 3 weeks. Enought is enought.
Many have comented this and now you can see that is true. She has a HUGE fanbase. Her fans are now getting out of the shock of this 3 weeks. You can feel, in rose blog more people come to support, in youtube more videos, robstendreams,kristen fan sites who didn't abandon her, on the twitter the krisbians, now KSIBTU and many more. I think everyone now are rational than emotional. And is why that we all feel the change.
@angelica 1- Give a huge kiss to your lovely niece. Her coments is very important maybe more than our analisies. Because we are fans we know their love, their bond. But someone who don't have that perception and can see that, it's because we are not wrong. And yes they are fighting for each other and if this is not true love i don't know what is.
Leni- that sounds sooo interesting. It was one of my possibly-job-choice when i started uni but then it faded lol
Perdido- hi! thanks for coming back. Hope you're a little more positive...?
I agree Rob shouldn't do anything; not that we or this 'public media' knows. They just have to solve it between them. That's all.
I love Rob for not speaking a word about it.
Fio - I just started working there (a little over a year ago I was still studying) so I'm still in the process of getting familiar with everything, but I really love it so far :)
Perdido - I hope that all the positive comments could help you a little bit. I agree with Fio that Rob and Kristen only need to solve it between them and I really and truly believe that they will :)
@Isis - Hello sweetie - I am getting ready to leave work but watching the absolute melt down on twitter over a picture of Bear - like cracking up in my cube at people screaming on twitter. OMG
@Perdido - nothing is a sink hole - when we are too close to the situation and too far in our own heads we defeat ourselves. Kristen just needs to let him love her - if he is the man she says he is and she loves him with all her heart it is the right thing...I hope she can see that. She is smart, independent and real. This mistake should not define her , she has to know she is better than that. I want to see the fighter in her - the fight for Rob, the fight for her, and the fight for the life she deserves. Fuck the haters - they are a dime a dozen and not worth it.
Leni- as long as you love it, youll be fine :) definitely a good choice to love what you do, if you have to do it for a long time, or the rest of your life... excited for you :) so good luck on your 'kinda-new' job :)
Perdido - Hi Hon,
I hope you're feeling a bit brighter today, I was worried:)My niece actually came over to calm me down - I had a hormonal hissy fit and fired a dozen eggs at him. We spent an hour cleaning them off the kitchen walls, while trying to stop the dogs eating them! I can see him out of the corner of my eye,trying not to laugh about it in case he sets me off again, poor man :)
Well said Sydney.
Gonna watch a movie with my sister.
Talk later or tomorrow! xx
Bye Fio x
Angelica - LOL
@perdido- i respect your opinion but i don't share the same point of view.
It's obvious to me that you made up your mind about this. I never comment your posts because many wise ladies here have wrote what i think, so i couldn't say better.But you have being made in this days in every your posts very awful comments and now with the "kristen migth not deserve him" and with the air changing, the jodie foster article, the twitter supports and more and more support for her everyday, this made me said to you ZERO tolerance. I don't see the point of your posts when you know very well the strong position in the Rose blog. No one here share the same feelings , what you have to gain to come here to write in every post you make that she has to give up of her life, her love , be a weak, a coward, and make a big favour to the world to stay in a dark room and die alone? Well, i can assure you that this WILL NOT HAPPEN. You can't stop talking about her mistake, it's always there in your posts.
You point of view is not different from the others haters who come here . The difference is that you choose a different form of made your awfull comments being accepted here. You are polite, educated, you said that you love read our lovely comments about forgiveness. How you can enjoy if you don't believe? I don't have any interest to read the comments in radaronline or hollywoolies or any haters places out there. Because i don't share the same point of view. You came here with an agenda. And then you end with "You all are wonderful and sweet." AWWWWWWWW
Please i don't believe in you.
Hi ladies (and gentlemen), I hope you are all well.
Litmon – thanks. I’m sure there were more than a few rats deserting the ship so I understand your perspective.
Fio – nice to “see” you. Thanks for your beautiful comments…beautiful – like your videos. Oh, and please don’t pull back and stop making your videos. You have a real talent.
Dottie – thanks for bringing over all of those supportive tweets this morning. It’s nice to see. My local radio station yesterday reported the now recanted story about Kristen not being retained for the SWATH sequel. Both of the morning DJ’s expressed their outrage that this would happen and that Kristen was being treated so harshly when Ruperv was getting off scott-free. It was good to hear even the male host promise to boycott Universal movies if it were true. The tide IS turning.
Meadowgirl – freaky situation with the plates breaking….
Angelica – love your niece’s objective assessment.
Perdido – I don’t know Rob, but somehow I doubt he sees it as “not his problem” – when you love someone you can’t help but share in their sadness and pain. I’m sure he would do whatever he could to make this better. And I suspect that Kristen would do the same if the roles were reversed.
Well Tom is just the best, isn’t he!!!!!
Hi to all the newbies and regs.
@Isis:
Slow down. Just slow down.
Hi everyone
Fio it's great to see you here. You're vids have put some of the biggest smiles on my face. I always look forward to them
Tom is awesome...I am glad that he's in BOTH of their corners.
@Perdido...we were giving you the benefit of the doubt, but if you're going to continue with your closeminded negativity, then why are you here? Do you thrive on spreading doom and gloom? Your lack of faith in humanity is disappointing. I am sorry, but maybe you should look at the glass as being half full instead of half empty.
Good evening everyone.
@Sydney- thanks for the news. it's good to know that the fans in UK are supporting her. I bet Tom smiled when the audience cheered : )
Hello. I've been a faithful reader of this blog for sometime, and on occassion have shared a joke or a couple of comments. The people here are truly the best.
I've tried to stay away from putting my two cents in because I didn't want to add to the insanity out of my admiration. love, and respect of these two. With that being said, I felt compelled to add a few thoughts today. If I may...
When I read Perdido's comments I finally saw things from a fresh POV. I can admit I felt disappointment when this first broke. I don't condone this type of behavior, but I also can't hate or judge someone for making a mistake. Funny how so many form the wrong opinion of someone from an email, blog comment, or a photo. We all think we know, but the truth is we don't. Truth is not one of us in this world is perfect. Myself included. I don't pretend to understand why things happen to some and not to others. But when it all boils down to it, does the why even matter anymore? What's done is done.
My mom always used to say she thought we live our hell on earth. More and more, I think there's truth to that statement.
If I had the change to speak to Kristen, I would wrap my arms around her and give her a hug of support. I would look her in the eye and say, my friend you really f*cked up but it's cool because making mistakes is part of living life. I would remind her that she is still the same AMAZING person she was before this happened with the exception of now being a little more older and wiser. I would let her know when life kicks you in the arse, and you get knocked down, regardless of the reason, there's only one way you can go, and that's back up. I would tell her stand back up, dust herself off, and start climbing back up that hill taking a new path. It will be exhausting, and frustrating, and at times that road may be bumpy, but I would remind her she is forever changed, stronger, smarter, and will see things with more clarity this time. I would remind her that she doesn't have to walk this path alone if she allows those that mean the most to help pick her up if she stumbles or gets lost along the way. I would remind her that EVERYONE deserves respect, forgiveness, and love. I would tell her to stop letting the actions of a few hardened hearts dictate who she is and how she lives her life. If they don't like what they see, f*ck them, they can look elsewhere. Opinions are like arseholes, everyone has one...
Last I would beg her to not give up on the person who she loves and respects the most, even though she thinks it's what's best. She's not poison and if that's what the haters want to call her I would also remind her that she's his favorite brand of poison. Letting him go will only hurt each other more because you will always live with regret and resentment. Yes this might be a perm asteric next to her name, but an asteric is only a small dot. Now is the time to start rewriting the script.
I thank you all for your time. I'm sorry I got a bit wordie. I just wanted to speak from my heart in the hopes it might help or bring comfort. Cheers!
@Annie - what you mean with slow down?
PERDIDO, Hope you are feeling more positive today. I agree w/you that Rob doesnt need to say a word. I hope he and Kristen will just do as they always have done-live their life together and let people make of it what they will. People will see him as the hero he is w/o him having to say a word. And hopefully those who believed the lies will start to realize that Kristen might not be the villain that has been portrayed. People will follow their lead. If they act like things are fine then people will begin to believe it. One day another young actress will go through something like this and see how Kristen Stewart was able to rise above it w/her career and relationships intact and it will give them hope.(Remember, I know these things!) Hugs and lots of love to you always!
FREDDIE, You are so right. If the tables were turned and Rob was the one in trouble there is no way Kristen would allow herself to be torn away from him. She can't expect any less from him. This could have happened to anyone. Relationships are give and take. It's as important to learn how to take as well as give. Rob and Kristen will grow from this and become even more impressive, compassionate people than they already are. We dont grow when things are easy. It's during the hard times that we do our most important growth as people. Even though in her mind she might be protecting him, in reality she would be doing him a great disservice by not allowing him to stand beside her at this time. He wouldnt see it as protection. He'd see it as a lack of faith in him and rejection I fear. That would be very damaging to him as a person and man.
*Remember the good old days when Dottie would just post and run??? :P
isis - Annie means you're misinterpreting what you read slightly, sweetie :)
@Isis: Don't be so harsh.
Can't speak for Perdido but perhaps it has taken her/him a little longer to get to where we are now.
Remember many of us at the beginning were very much the same as her/him.
@Perdido;
Good morning from Western Australia, i am not from Oz per say but moved here recently when my husband changed his job - we are from the UK - Scotland to be exact so we are finding the laid back life here a bit strange but definitely for the better.
I am one who doesn't believe Rob should do anything but make sure Kristen is safe and she is happy. Yes he did not do any wrong but he cares for her and i do believe his love for her is still very strong and love gets tested and in this case it is being tested now.
I am sure Kristen feels she should be flogged for what she did but we are not in the middle ages anymore and that kind of self inflicting torture is not going to do her any good emotionally.
The strongest support comes from the heart and the loudest support comes from unselfishness and everyone in here and Rose and yes, even Rob - that kind of love is unselfish. We forgive those who have done wrong, we don't accept what they did but we forgive them, because if we were the ones to have done it, would people have been so unforgiving to us?
I have asked my readers a few times, if it had been Rob who had done this, a momentary lapse of judgement - would his fans have turned on him so quickly or would they once again blame Kristen for his cheating?
You see it's a very two faced world we live in and it's so easy to damn the girl and pat the man on the back - wrong very wrong.
So i ask you as a woman as well, if you felt your partner had done this on you, would you have been as forgiving, or would you have been as angry as some incredibly narrow minded as the haters and self righteous people?
Perdido, please be careful how you phrase your words. Your comments are being misunderstood, taken the wrong way.
Please...just positive thoughts. The world is full of negativity. We don't need to add to it.
Angelica: Thank you! :)
BTW: You and the eggs are LOL funny.
Dottie - hi there. Couldn't have said it better myself. Damn straight!
Hi all...
Angelica- loved your niece's take on things. I tend to agree with her :)
Deb- so sorry for what you're going through ((Hugs))
Fio- <3
Tempest- I love Nanny Mcphee ;)
Perdido- I hope you're feeling more optimistic today. I was worried about you. I agree with what Freddie had to say. I don't think Rob would look at this as "not his problem." He loves her, and I hope Kristen will accept that love and let him help her get through this.
Maria: The same advice I gave to Isis, I'm giving to you.
@Brewski- I love your post. It's people like you that we need here. With the same feelings of forgiveness, love and respect. This is we all can learn from our posts. Posts with polite hate doesn't dignify Rose blog.
Dottie- I remember your running days lol ;)
I was also of the belief that Rob should say something BUT only about the hate directed at Kristen.....I am beginning to believe that I am wrong in thinking that way.... Maybe.
Thanks Annie. Not getting my dander up...just giving Perdido a heads up that a few words can have their meaning misconstrued.
I am sorry Perdido if I came across a bit rough. I have a bit of a short fuse this evening. My son was injured during football practice this evening and I just came from the hospital. So I am still a bit on edge.
I promise I'll behave the rest of the evening.
Dottie - Egg throwing seems to put me in a philosophical mood!
I was pondering Perdido's thoughts while sat in traffic earlier.
Thinking about Rob deserving the best - what Perdido was suggesting was that Kristen should maybe step aside and give him the chance to find someone "deserving" but then in explaining the reasoning she was talking about an act so selfless that it could only come from the purest love,what sprang to mind was The Judgement of Solomon, she's saying that Kristen would quite literally do anything to make Rob happy. Where's he going to find someone else to love him that unconditionally? The odds aren't great, that kind of love comes along once in a lifetime if you're extremely lucky.Moreover I'd be willing to bet a lot of money that she'd make it her life's mission from now on to ensure that no one ever hurts him again. How can he better that??
@Annie - it's ok honey : )
But i don't see why you, Rhonda, Dottie accept this? You respond to his posts explaining for the 100000000000000 time That when we truly love someoen we fight for the person. You really think that he does not know that? That he never fight for nothing in his life? Of course he did. He just choose not believe that kritsen has that right. And please you could explain me why you accepted that and you don't accept the others haters who come here with the same arguments?
@Annie I'm not mad with you sweetie : ) is that we all survive together the horribel last 2 weeks fighting the hate, the false rumours, the trolls who came here. And now in this week that everyhting is changig and we all here are starting to feel the love and hope. we accepted someone with hate posts daily like if was nothing?
Great to see fiorels here, I love all your vids and have enjoyed all your positive posts on Facebook too.
Far to much to comment on since I was last on. I really enjoyed the Q&A with rob and dc. I wish I could look forward to his interview with josh, but I rarely get to see mtv vids before they are taken down.
Have a great night everyone x
Maria: So sorry about your son. Was it serious and how is he now?
@Litmom and @Sydney
Thanks for the well wishes.
Some people have shown respectful curiosity about my bad news. It seems unreal that I am typing this but I was told yesterday that my Dad has been diagnosed with cancer. At this time, prognosis is not good.
I'm still trying to wrap my head around it so I'm kind of at a loss for words.
So, in the grand scheme of things, I believe you should love while you have a chance and appreciate the ones who love you.
Hugs back and if I missed a name, I'm sorry.
Susan
Hi Roselanders! Yes, it's me Muse...
Not very sure you know that I lost my loving 90 y/o babe, my beautiful mom last June after 28 days in ICU.
@deb, you are in my prayers, I wish you and yr fam find the strength to deal w/it and most important I also hope he doesn't suffer much. It is an almost unbearable pain that - not gonna lie - breaks you, the bond b/w mothers & daughters is the strongest in the world though I agree fathers' can be too, I was only 9 when mine passed away (I am now 63).
Take care sweetie.
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