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Tuesday, August 28, 2012

Rob and Kristen-- Just Dance!





Yeah.
Sue me.
I'm all about the fucking sap.
And the Notebook is about as sappy as you can get...
am I right?

Couple of thoughts.

1. Can we stop with the insider bullshit?
Sources
Close to the actor
Connections
In the KNOW

Just fucking stop.
Enough already.
No one 'close to the source connection in the know'
is talking about intimate details
about what Rob/Kris are doing
or how they are feeling.

Whether its stuff you want to believe or not
It's complete BULLSHIT.
Gossip rags are making shit up.
Stop giving them hits.
Stop encouraging them to keep lying.
People you think know something... don't.
Not about this.
Surely you don't believe Rob is talking about
his most inner most feelings with someone
who just turns around and blabs it to everyone else?
Sorry.
Robert and Kristen
Two of the most notoriously private people ever...



Quotes from Rob:

"I've never been interested in selling my personal life"


"Um... yeah, I just think... 
I think that its strange to accept that people try to take photographs and stuff... 
Mainly because people try and sell it and any kind of life
 where people are trying to sell every aspect of your life...
Things that aren't intended to be sold... it just makes me feel tacky...
 it makes me feel cheap...
So I prefer, you know... to keep my personal life personal. 
Try to at least."

"I don't know what benefits there would be to talking about it.
 I mean, in logical terms, if you're just walking down the street
 and every single stranger on the street knew your business,
 and came up and felt like they needed to comment on it, 
like, you'd just be like 'SHUT UP! Like I'm gonna kill you!' 
*laughs* and I mean, it's exactly the same mentality. 
I don't really want to try to sell it either.
Maybe if i was selling it, I'd talk about it more." 




Quotes from Kristen:

“People always ask me if I’m dating Robert. It’s beyond annoying . . . 
What I say is, that, why would I want anything that’s private 
to become entertainment for other people? 
This is what I wanted to show you on here.
 People say that if I just tell them everything 
I’ll be left alone,
but God, you think if I tell people they’ll leave me alone?
 They pick up every little scrap, and that’s much worse.”

"I would never cheapen my relationships by talking about them. 
People say, 'Just say who you're dating. 
Then people will stop being so ravenous about it.
 It's like, No they won't! They’ll ask for specifics."







2. Where is Robert?
Why does it really matter?
Is he in London?
It's possible.
Does that make your day?
Do you feel like you need to know exactly where
Rob is at all times?
Because that's kinda scary.
Not kinda scary.
Fucking scary.
Wherever he is...
It has no impact on your life.
And no matter how much you want to put
some sort of significance to where he is
It doesn't matter.
Sure... there were a couple of tweets
saying they saw Robert "Patterson"
(nice misspelling...makes it more real... intentional or not?)
On a plane... or some such shit.
Possibly.
If Robert flew on British Airways...
would only ONE person see him?
Kinda hard to believe.
Now him flying private makes much more sense.
But in that case...
That tweet was a lie and this is all moot.
So leave him alone.
If you do see him... why tell the world?
Does that make you special?
Or someone who has no regard for another human being?
Don't you look at Rob and see that?
Don't you see a person who has feelings...
when you look at Kristen?

 Someone sent me an email telling me
in NO uncertain terms that she does NOT
condone cheating in any way
and will never forgive Kristen for what she has done.


Really?
Because Kristen didn't do jack shit to you.
You don't have to 'condone' cheating...
Bravo to you.
I'm sure your halo is all bright and shiny.
But I'm pretty sure you're not in a relationship with Kristen...
So...
Why would she want or NEED your forgiveness?

That's the deal with these lunatics.
They feel Kristen cheated on THEM.
Or they are all wrapped up in being all self righteous
and indignant on Rob's behalf.
Get the fuck over yourself.
You're not in this relationship.
No one gives a fuck if you approve or not.
This isn't your life.
This didn't happen to you.
You.
Don't.
Matter.

None of us do.
Most importantly...
None of us should.



3. Marlowe Sturridge.
I debated whether or not to post this picture...
But since you can't see her face
I thought it was OK.
I still struggle with the whole pap thing.
You know that.
I don't go to the trashy sites that publish them...
But I do see them.
I kinda promised myself that I would not post pics
where its obvious that the people in them
are very upset and/or being harassed.
Where the person looks miserable and angry
and the cameras are in their face.
Where the paps are being intrusive and rude.
And as long as they aren't on private property
and in a public setting....
Am I rationalizing?
A little bit.
Because I realize that 99% of the pics
I see of Rob/Kris/Tom
are paparazzi pics.
But I can be choosy about which ones I post.

And that brings us back to this one with
Thomas and his beautiful daughter.
You can't really see her face...
Just a peek of her nose and a swath of hair.
I'm not posting it because of what you can see of Marlowe...
I'm posting it because it shows the love
between Tom and his little baby precious.
And he probably wouldn't like that I posted this...
but I find the connection between
Tom and his baby girl...
beyond adorable.
Brilliantly sweet.

Forgive me Thomas.
For I have sinned.
I promise to behave next time.
Promise.


4. Someone posted this on Twitter.
It made me laugh.
It made me happy.
It made me realize that we haven't had a lot to twirl about lately.
But I have good feelings about the future.
I just do.
Good Twirly Feelings.
I have faith that everything will be OK.
So grab your ribbon...
and DANCE!

This post is brought to you by rationalizations.

We all do it.
But you need to look at why you do it.
Makes a difference.

Until next time

Bye for now

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marley said...

miss not missing** oopps sorry phone typing

isis said...

@Monica- hi honey : ) yes i feel the same : ) you, LIZ, Ginger, Sue always get me in a good mood : )

I answer to you in the other post and today i saw that you let me a mensage saying that you respond to me. So i go now there to read and then i will respond to you agian sweetie : )

kisses

ali mac said...

@Marley and Annie talking about her outfits is one of my fave things. I seen a jacket in the shops the other day very like the black balenciaga leather one and I just might have to buy it for myself ;)

isis said...

@gargamel- you are right, i never tought that way until i read your post. we don't have the perception that even with good intentions because we love them and we will not make haters commnet, just for click we are contributing to the supid media make more false stories. Thanks gargamel : )

isis said...

@Ginger- hi sweetie : )

Annie said...

There is a restaurant here called Le Pain Quotidien and in every one of their restaurants they have a communal table .....,...The point I'm trying to make here is that everyone and anyone can sit at that communal table and for however long it takes them to finish their breakfast, lunch or dinner the've met new people and were exposed to new ideas and great conversation.
The same goes here.

To the newbies, I speak for myself and maybe others as well.......I love having you all here. :)

ali mac said...

Hi Ginger, I really enjoy chatting to you, you are a funny woman, and I love to laugh. I think a lot of people don't know how many regulars seem to have stopped posting and when you have been coming here everyday for the last I don't know how long you do miss the banter with the people you knew well in cyber land. So it's not an insult to any new people at all.

isis said...

@Annie - thanks honey : )

About kristen TIFF outfit : )
i think she will be with hot pants and a gorgeous blouse. Like the new pic from balenciaga. No dress to me. I love to see her in short dresses , she has a gorgeous legs. But to me i will say pants in TIFF.

ali mac said...

Do any of the ladies (or gents) here watch a show called "Hart of Dixie"?

marley said...

i have heard of it but havnt seen it. is it good?

LizzieD said...

ISIS -- I feel exactly as you do about this blog. I'll be around. Unfortunately, I have to work WAY too much.

Monica, Ginger, Ali, Robert, DK, hope I didn't forget anyone...

Good morning to all and LET'S KEEP TWIRLING!!

Ginger, there is room for all in LALA LAND and also, free drinks, even non-alcohol ones, whatever you want!!!

ali mac said...

Marley yeah I love it. I love the clothes that Rachel Bilsons character wears in the show as well. It's one of my must see shows.

ali mac said...

hi Liz, you know what they say about all work and no play lol I'm at work now!! very naughty.

Mary said...

Olivia,
As always, you express the sentiments of a lot of us in such a kind and thoughtful manner.

I feel I have to say something and I hope I don't offend. I know what people mean by missing the old regs and the way it was here before because I've been a part of this place on and off for 2 years. Those of you who say why do we post recipes or talk of other things, the reason is, that is how it has always been around here.

If you lurked as you say, you would have noticed that aside from the first few comments which would agree with what Rose wrote the rest of the comments were just friends conversing. It was like a chat room. If Rob or Kristen had a new movie we would talk some about that, or if they made a public appearance that would be discussed, their clothing choices were discussed. We rarely to never spoke of their relationship or personal life.

I have to agree with Marley, if you feel you "need" to discuss that, then maybe this isn't a healthy thing for you anymore. What happens to them and the decisions they make should not and do not affect any of us. They are actors and only their professional activities should be open for us to discuss. Everyone here seemed to be of like mind on this.

I really hope we can move away from this topic because once again we are beating this horse to death.

Ginger with a Soul said...

@Marley - I proof read and still do typo's doh - nope you guys have been really awesome to me but I think I was just saying in general about the newbies. I can honestly say I have had one misunderstanding that was cleared up real quick and I have only had one person make me feel really unwanted but I think that is just more about who they are than me.

You ladies are really awesome, I would totally bring the desert to the dinner - I wanted to do drinks but I pass that honor on to Liz.

@Isis - helllloooo - are you on twitter yet - and I would never tell you to F off or STFU - you are way to sweet.

ali mac said...

Hi PL, I think you said that really well :)

Ginger, that's a lovely photo on your avi!!

Ginger with a Soul said...

I was so happy to shake my shitty mood last night - how did you like the song choices that went from wanting to punch some in the face to one of the greatest love songs ever. Yeah - that shitty mood is back

Once again for the most part you guys are very welcoming and I have enjoyed talking about everything under the sun with you guys - with a large family and lots of different people in it - you learn a lot from shutting your mouth and opening your ears. I posted a real picture of myself with one of my much younger sisters because she has taught me a lot and she is only 27. I am not going anywhere :)

Sydney - this is to you - please post your recipes - I will pass some on to my son - he is 17 and going to the Art Institute for baking and pastry but he has to do regular cooking classes as well - he loves to tweak recipes and is also looking for new things to try. since we are both in Colorado - watching our Bronco's - maybe I can talk him into making football snacks since we all plopped down to cheer them no.

Ginger with a Soul said...

that was on not no, god I want one post to be gramatically correct.

@Ali thanks - can you guess which one is me? If you guess wrong I am so rubbing it into my sisters face since she is 11 years younger than me ha.

Mary said...

Hi Ali,

Thanks :) I know I sometimes say more than I should and not always with a lot of tact.

I'm off now. I have a brunch to plan for this weekend and the menu and guest list keeps growing. The tastes of those invited range from bland and boring, to the hot and spicier the better. It will be a challenge.


Annie,
Enjoy your water and sun this weekend.

ali mac said...

lol Ginger, I actually know you are on the left cos you had a pic up ages ago of yourself ;) but you and your sister are very alike and feel free to tell her I got it mixed up anyway, being 36!! I wish I had my 20 something face back again, I might appreciate it more!!!!

ali mac said...

PL good luck with your brunch, it's not easy to please so many different people!

gwen said...

Hello all!

Great as always Rose :)

DK- feel better soon.

PL- what you said :)

Havent post here for a long time and I do missed the old time, some of my cyber friends here (hi to my night owl buddies Dk,Birdie and Bren hope you are well). But I have to live the harsh reality of life, LOL. I really missed the games,drunken posts of Syd and convos anything under the sun.

But do continue,everyone is entitled of their opinion. It still fun coming here.

Nite lovelies.

Ginger with a Soul said...

@Ali - LOL - I love you - I am 38 and will be 39 in a couple weeks - :) After 40 I am going to start counting birthdays backwards.

Robert said...

@ali

love Hart of dixie; that and the good wife and new girl are my current favorites.[hmm all about women]


great show. rachel bilson is just the best. btw, if you ever get a chance to see the interview she did sitting with tom when they ask him what it's like working wuth kisten, the look on her face is priceless; she really gets a kick out of how worked up about kristen he gets

ali mac said...

Ginger I can never remember what age I am and have to really think about it if someone asks me :) I like the idea of counting backwards though!!

ali mac said...

Robert, I love the New Girl too!! I will have to look out for that interview, I think Rachel Bilson is great as well, really good actress.

ali mac said...

I've never seen the good wife, is it the one with julianna margulies? I loved her in ER.

Greys Anatomy is another fave of mine.

Freddie said...

I feel very sad at the moment.

I think there are a few things happening on the board right now that are colliding, causing confusion and upset. I feel I have unwittingly contributed to this. I expressed an opinion – respectfully I had hoped – which I stand by, but despite my best intentions, some people took offense to my comments. I am sorry about that and apologize for my role in that.

At the same time, we speak of respect, yet when one person (me in this case) expressed what turned out to be an unpopular position, people reacted by taking offense and threatening to leave, rather than just respectfully agreeing to disagree and to move forward. No one was ever asked to leave.

I mean no one ill will, and whether you believe it or not, my comments were well intended. I hope that peace will be restored and everyone, yes EVERYONE, finds their place at the table, as Annie so aptly put it. I hope we can finally put an end to this discussion

Ginger – I saw your comments and if I’m the one who made you feel unwelcome, my apologies.

Super RN Gas Passer said...

I was simply trying to answer your concern as to why some of us regs went AWOL I didn't know you wanted a sugar Coated response. I deal with the truth as I know it. Sorry. If I come back and post which I feel sure I will I will make an effort to Carrya false facade if that's what makes you happy. Sorry I bothered to give you a heartfelt and honest answer l

Ginger with a Soul said...

@Freddie - It was not you at all. Not at all, not even close :)

We had that misunderstanding once - fixed it all good.

ali mac said...

Super who is your comment for?

Kami said...

I remember something said a long time ago, I believe it was Smitty, and while this isn't the exact quote the sentiment is the same so I thought I would share this to shed light on why those of us who have returned to post are talking about moving away from the negative.

She said: We all know that the negative stuff is out there, we know that no matter what we do or say there are still going to be haters, so why not concentrate on the positive things and comments that are being said? Why not talk about the happy things happening surrounding Rob, Kristen and Tom? She then told everyone that we needed to "Hang on to your Happy"

So we began exchanging recipes, stories, jokes and we talked less about what the haters were saying and more about what we thought.

The strangest thing began happening, we began have fun, not just a little fun but times when all of us were laughing so hard at something someone had said that we could barely type.

No one is saying not to talk about Rob or Kristen, that would be silly. All anyone is trying to say is that since this....whatever we're calling it...eipisode? happened everyone has been so upset and frustrated with the media coverage the events, what's true, what's not. We have all..every one of us, talked about this, none of us are saying that we're talking to everyone else and not including ourselves in these comments.

Maybe if we move on to the fun stuff we will feel better and have a little fun. We post recipes, I loved Sydney's recipe yesterday. I hope she posts more.

Nothing underhanded going on here, if it sounds like we're being cryptic maybe that's because we're being CAREFUL. There is enough bullshit stories out there right now without those of us who haven't posted in a while, coming back and adding gas to the flame. We're being careful.

Off to clean house. LOL My house still refuses to pick up after itself, but I do believe you were right when you said it seems to get messy by itself.

Lavendersings said...

Rose what wonderful words and wisdom to share...Well I have my ribbon and dancing shoes on and
so lets get all energetic and sing and dance to the famous

Chicken Dance


I'm a rooster on the farm Cock-a-doodle-doodle-doo
I'm a happy little hen Cluck, cluck, cluck, cluck cluck, cluck, cluck
There's a comb on my head Cock-a-doodle-doodle-doo
I can lay you many eggs Cluck, cluck, cluck, cluck cluck, cluck, cluck
la, la, la......
We live in a chicken coop Cock-a-doodle doodle-doo
On a big and happy farm Cock-a-doodle-doodle-doo
I say Cock-a-doodle-doodle-doo
I say cluck, cluck, cluck, cluck, cluck
We can do the chicken dance I know you'll like it too.

Kami said...

Lavender LOL thank you!

ali mac said...

Kami I wasn't here back then,, but the reason I started posting was because of all those things you mentioned, the fun and laughs and recipes etc.

Ginger with a Soul said...
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Ginger with a Soul said...

@Ali I like the pic :)

ali mac said...

Thanks ginger, I'll probably change it in a day or so lol

ali mac said...

Ginger hates spelling mistakes lol

Ginger with a Soul said...

So - we are all moving on right - no one is telling anyone what they can or cannot say - it is ok to think for ourselves, say what we gotta say do what we gotta do. We can all agree to disagree and be respectful to each other and handle happy our own way. With the majority of the bloggers being women on here we are all not going to see eye to eye, we all come from different places, have seen different things and have lived different lives. As long as it is respectful I just don't see why there is so much conflict. Skip a post, read a post, use the post as a dart board - to each their own. Things change and with change people adapt and evolve - it is up to each individual person to decide for themselves how they will deal with that change. I will make this stand - as long as the post is not being hateful towards either Kristen or Robert - I am not going to bitch at someone for their opinion or how they feel, if I disagree I am not going to argue endlessly with you I am just going to move on. If it makes me unhealthy to talk about something then those are my issues to deal with, I am grown enough to live with my choices.

Rose

Robert Pattinson and Kristen Stewart


Had to fix the errors - I couldn't hang with them

Ginger with a Soul said...

@Ali OMG you have no idea - they were bugging me out so bad.

ali mac said...

When I was reading it I was laughing saying she will be kicking herself :-)

ali mac said...

Just wondering how Dk is :-\

Hope your ok fgm

Kami said...

Ali we had fun with that and I know we can again.

Ginger, beautifully said, both times lol.

ali mac said...

Kami I believe we can too :-)

JMF said...

Is E News on the list to avoid? Cause after they reported on Ryan Seacrests show this morning I had to run to the restroom and be sick. No joke. I know, I know, don't listen to what any of these shows/mags have to say, but it is upsetting I tell you.

DreamerKind said...

I'm alive! Thanks for caring. Probably was the salami-out it goes.

ali mac said...

Great Dk, glad you could flush out the problem :-)

deb said...

@Kami@PL hay just want to THANK you guys I'v been here with OUR Rose seance the beginning I post every now an then but I love what Kami has said about Smitty i remember. i miss her to Thank's for the flash back Let's talk about ALL THE GOOD we see and read about Rob and Kristen THERE is ALOT you know and I myself love getting new recipes Have FUN you guy's laugh and love This is a good haven place to come to I think WE ALL want the BEST for Robert and Kristen and lets not forget about OUR NEW DADDY TOM :) DEB.

30 said...

Great post Rose! And why oh why does that picture of Tom and his baby girl have to be a pap picture? "sigh" It made my heart melt, I bet he is an amazing Daddy and that baby is spoiled! :)

Hi Rosleand! I missed Syndeys recipe, and why was it deleted? After, reading all the comments then skipping threw a few I will not comment on. I wanted to try it too! lol

HI Freddie! HI DK! Hi PL! HI Sydney!

30 said...

I keep forgetting to ask, was it Super who knew Ryan Buells (paranormal state) Mom? Or was it IB? He has cancer I read. So young, so sad!

Holy said...

Hello guys.

@DK-I hope your okay.

@Ginger-hi,you're feeling better today?

@ali-I like your new avi,you're beautiful.

Super RN Gas Passer said...

ANNIE

If you see this, what are like the top three NYC restaurants in your opinion?

Happy Wednesday Everyone. It is raining cats and dogs here. All day long!

Freddie said...

Hey 30 – how are you? I hope you are having a fantastic day.

Olivia – I missed you earlier. I hope you are well and had a wonderful summer. You and your words have been missed. I’m so glad to hear that you have a wonderful group of students. They are lucky to have you. Take care and I hope you get a moment to breath with the new school year upon you.

Super – I hope all is well with you. I'm worried a tad. I’m not sure if you saw my earlier note, but I wanted to wish you and your friend a great time in NYC.

DK – glad to see that you are a bit better. I hope you continue to be on the mend.

Hi to all the other folks who have popped in that I’ve missed.

ali mac said...

Thank you Holy, I like most women don't like pics of myself all I see in that one is an arm that looks like a chicken drumstick lol

Super are you ok?

Ginger with a Soul said...

@Holy - I am good - :) so sweet to ask

Super RN Gas Passer said...

30

Oh no. I did not know about Ryan. You know his mother is a client of ours but I haven't seen her in several months

I hope you are doing well and enjoying married life :)

Kami said...

Have you ever had one of those days where you feel like you need to go back to school to learn how to operate a new appliance? Yeah I am having one of those days. My washer died and so we bought a new one that came yesterday.

I went to wash clothes in it and the buttons I pushed, I thought were correct but when I went back in to remove my 'clean' clothes, I discovered that instead of washing them they had just been spinning them no water, nothing just spinning and spinning and spinning them! LOL I finally got it working..I hope. I've not been brave enough to go in there and check, but I know it's done, the thing played a tune for about 3 minutes telling me it was finished.

wish me luck

Super RN Gas Passer said...

FREDDIE and Ali MAC

I am fine. Thanks for asking. I am enjoying some Mexican cuisine this evening along with a few margaritas. You know that's my signature drink. Lol. Please feel free to email me with your concerns but I am fine. Hugs to you both:)

Super RN Gas Passer said...

KAMI

When I was young I could never imagine being so excited over a washing machine but I am envious!!!! Enjoy!!!

Litmom said...

"Please feel free to e-mail me with your concerns." You crack me up, Super!

Kami - you sound like me. Anything technical just goes WHOOSH - right over my head.

30 said...

Super, he has pancreatic cancer. He wrote a note about it on his FB page he is in and out of the hospital, so sad.

Married life is good. :) My hubby goes back to college next week. Transferring everything from SC military and college too NJ has been a pain.. in.. the .. ass! lol

*I*Believe* said...

Sorry to say but I'm not over the "elephant" yet.

I see some of you are back to posting and enoying things. Sadly, I am not there yet.

It is what it is.

ali mac said...

Super, I'm glad you're ok.

I Believe if I knew what the elephant was I could answer that, but I'm clueless !!!!

Kami said...

Litmom LOL very true, although I am proud to announce I got the clothes to wash like they should. Now if I can just get them dried.

Hey IB how was your day? That huge creature is beginning to stink huh?

Freddie said...

IB - I'm just trying to focus on the a key reason I posted - you ladies (and few gents). That's all.

ali mac - I hope you are well. Thanks for your calming comments and influence.

Freddie said...

Hi Kami - I'm sorry I missed you while I was posting. Did your clothes come out as you expected?

Freddie said...

IB - typo - I'm trying to focus on "a" key, not "the a". LOL

ali mac said...

Hi Freddie, I'm great thanks. It's 12.45 here now and I'm sitting in bed and I'm starving. Super's talk of her mexican food has me drooling as I didn't get a proper dinner tonight and now all I can picture is a big juicy chicken fajita with salsa and sour cream!!

Kami said...

Hey Freddie, yes they are in the dryer as we speak. It's silly to get so excited over a washer, I know but I am lol

*I*Believe* said...

enjoying

LizzieD said...

Hi Roseland!!!

I am so "giddy" this afternoon BECAUSE I was just at the grocery store and guess what??? I didn't have to hide any magazines, isn't that wonderful? Neither one of "our kids" were on a magazine. Of course, in my small town, the store doesn't carry ALL the rag mags but still, it means things are getting better.

LIZ IN LALA LAND ...

Super RN Gas Passer said...

ALI MAC

Thank you for posting your picture! I'm so glad to "see" you! Mexican was GREAT!!!

30

I am truly heart broken over Ryan. I will call his mother as soon as I get back next week. He is such a wonderful person....How could this happen to such a young man? I am reading Suzanne Somers new book BOMBSHELL where she interviews the top doctors in the country on anti aging medicine. I was just reading a chapter last night with an interview she did with a neurosurgeon who has also written several books on neurotoxins. Did you know that aspartame, a common sweetener in diet sodas causes brain tumors???? Our world today is so toxic....it is scary and cancer rates are escalating at an alarming rate!

No, I'm not trying to be negative today...lol...Just the facts!

ali mac said...

Super glad your mexican was good, I'll not have to think what to make for dinner tomorrow night, I know what I want already :) It's nice to know what the people we are talking to look like.

Super RN Gas Passer said...

ALI MAC

Yes, I agree but of course I understand people feeling uncomfortable doing that on a public blog. Question for you...do you have hurricanes in Ireland?

LizzieD said...

DK -- so glad you are better. Was going to send out a search party for you!!!

ali mac said...

Totally agree super it's taken me a long time to put one up and I'll only leave it a short time!

About the hurricanes, no we don't as a rule, there may have been one a couple of hundred years ago. We sometimes get a bit of bad weather after one in America and people say it's the tail end of hurricane such and such. No doubt someone intelligent will tell me I'm wrong and of course Ireland gets hurricanes lol

I'm going to bed now as it's past midnight. Goodnight everyone xx

Jane said...

Have any of you ladies seen Cosmopolis? I would love to hear your feedback, good or bad.

gargamel said...

ROBERT PATTINSON AND KRISTEN STEWART!!!!!

Freddie said...

Hi Jane,

I saw Cosmopolis and really enjoyed it – maybe not as much for the story but for Rob, who I thought was exceptional in the part. It is definitely not what I would call a conventional story – it’s not light and funny (although there is dark humour). There are no car crashes or flashy visual effects – but lots of thought provoking dialogue. While a couple of people walked out on it in my showing (because I suspect it wasn’t what they expected) I sat there with a huge smile on my face throughout, because I was so proud of Rob for his performance. The last scene with Paul Giamatti and Rob was so well played and worth the price of admission for me.

beacullen said...

If I read "from a reliable source" one more time I'm gonna freak the fuck out hahaha. I'm over it, I'm sick of seeing the same crap posted then changed a little and reposted. On ENews they posted that Rob is moving on, apparently he's putting his house up for sale...according to US magazine. OMG!!! REally? UGH so annoying lol. Great post Rose, makes total sense to me!!!

Karen in NJ said...

@IB - I am with you, not over it yet. trying to twirl in La La land!

@Liz - I said the same thing when I was in the grocery store the other day. I heaved a big sigh!

Good evening everyone!

DK - glad you're feeling better!!

LizzieD said...

IF the house is up for sale, it's because THEY need to be in a more secure place. Perhaps a gated community would be better?

Annie said...

Good evening all.

Super: Just saw your question about the top three NYC restaurants .......That's a tough one.
We have a top three in $, $$, $$$ and $$$$.

This list is from a friend who eats out a lot!
It's easy to find more info online.
Hope it helps.

Al Fiori   $$$$

Aldea.   $$$

Butter   $$$

David Burke Townhouse $$$

Dos Caminos.     $$$

The Spain Restaurant. $ to $$

Fishtail   $$$

Gotham bar and grill $$$$

Flex Mussels $$$

Jojo.     $$$

Jonoon. $$$

Franchia.  $$

Souen. $$

------------------------------------

PL: Thank you........I plan on having a very good time. :)

Freddie: I really hope you're feeling less sad and you too Super and *IB*

Kami: I feel your washing machine pain. Good grief!

Hello to everyone else.

Annie said...

Super: Oops........ Meant to write that It's easy to find info on each of the restaurants listed online as they all have websites but if you need more choices, my friend has a long list. :)

Super RN Gas Passer said...

ANNIE

Thank you! I was interested in your perspective and I don't necessarily want to spend a fortune to eat...lol. We will be staying at the Marriott Marquis across from MTV on Broadway....anything within walking distance of the hotel???

Annie said...

Super: :) Will get back to you with a revised list!

Ginger with a Soul said...

Hahaha - I get to fan girl for a minute - I follow Brandon Boyd on twitter and he just posted a picture in the big CO - I am so stoked for the show tomorrow and for BEER!

Holy said...

Hello again.

@Liz,you're like my daughter,she hides the magazines with R/K on it, in the meats section when we went grocery shopping last week.

If it's true that he's selling the house,then good for him.The media already knows where they live.R/K will definitely not going back to that house anymore if they want privacy.

LizzieD said...

In case anyone is interested, Taylor Lautner is now on Twitter. @ActualTaylor ... has been verified to be real.

LizzieD said...

HOLY -- LOL, I actually never did hide any, in a small town grocery would be too obvious... but I wanted to.

Yea, that house was too accessible and paps would block up the street. They need a gated community or something more private.

Super RN Gas Passer said...

LIZ

Verified to be REAL??? REALLY???? Lol. I love Taylor Lautner. Thanks for the info...when I can figure out how to reset my password on Twitter I will search for him:)

ANNIE

Thank you again! I appreciate you.

Ginger with a Soul said...

@Liz - I am laughing so hard at all the truly sane fans telling him to run and run fast off twitter - they crazy ones well - poor Taylor

Ginger with a Soul said...

@Super - he has already gotten marriage proposals -poor poor Taylor

LizzieD said...

GINGER & SUPER -- Some are taking bets on how long before he shuts it down. I'm just "guessing" that maybe he was given a little "incentive" to get on and promote BD2? Sorry, sorry, didn't mean to speculate... just the timing seems to point in that direction.

LOL on the marriage proposals...

Ginger with a Soul said...

@Liz - it is already being reported as fake - it was funny couple of minutes though, some of the people I follow are too funny - like I would die to have them all one room - it would be a great time hot damn

jentoo said...

Hey everyone:)

In case anyone is curious...after spending the last couple of hours helping the hubby fix our generator, (which was working perfectly fine right before the hurricane btw) after much scientific research, I have determined that mango flavored Smirnoff ices are much more tasty than the cherry limeade flavor. Just trying to do my part for hurricane preparedness research.

I think this was the slowest moving hurricane ever! We're just now getting the high winds & they're supposed to be gone in a few hours. Lots of people in the New Orleans area not near as fortunate, sadly.

Hope everyone here has had a good day.

DK...glad you're better. I was worried when you mentioned west nile!

Hope everyone has had a great day:).

Ginger with a Soul said...

@jentoo - I am so glad you are safe and in good spirits

jentoo said...

Ginger...thanks :). It ended up being nowhere near as bad a we thought. We've lost quite a few shingles & we'll probably be without power for about 24 hrs or so. Our last bad one, we lost power for 2 weeks, so this will be a breeze.

LizzieD said...

Ginger -- yea, I just popped over on Twitter and found out. Like you said, a funny couple of minutes. Good grief....

tufenuf55 said...

Well, I posted a very long and excruiating post of my feelings and yet it is not showing. To summary: Kristen and Rob, you do owe your fan base the truth. We have supported you both in all your ventures. Would you have done so well without our support? I doubt it. You both have amazing talent. We don't want to know specifics. We want the truth. Yes, you do owe it to your loyal fans to stop the drama; to stop the speculations. We only want to know if you are together or apart. That's all. No more. We will continue to support you regardless of being together or apart. Just stop the drama; the rag gossip mags. We deserve the truth and only you can provide it. We fans love you both, together or apart. Yes, you do owe us that much respect.

Holy said...

@jentoo- thank god, you guys are okay.

jentoo said...

Holy....fine and dandy, safe and sound & all that stuff. :). Thanks!

DreamerKind said...

Good evening!

@jentoo
So glad you are doing alright. Was watching the weather channel and hearing how surprised people were at the severity of the storm. They wish they had evacuated.

I'm okay, thanks. Drained, literally, lol.

DreamerKind said...
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jentoo said...

DK...yes.. I saw the footage of the people in New Orleans being rescued from their roofs by boats. Scary stuff!

Sorry you were so sick...glad you're better. Sometimes our bodies just have to get rid of the yucky stuff in any way possible, I guess!

DreamerKind said...

@jentoo
I totally believe in the power of a natural cleanse.

ladyevenstar22 said...

you know what you're right ! these past four years were the best...wait the greatest years of my life as a fan following actors !
sure the road is a bit bumpy right now ,but as sappy and corny as it is after the rain/storm you get a rainbow!

Anonymous said...

@tufenuff55,

Sweetie, they really don't owe us the truth. They are just normal people like you and me that make mistakes in life. If you were in their situation, you would not want anyone to know your business either. Heck, my only sister, whom I am really close to, still to this day, has not given me an explanation as to why she broke up with her on and off again ex-boyfriend of 7 years. He was considered part of the family already and when she broke it off, we were shocked and confused and hurt by her decision because we thought they would get married someday. Yet, she refuses to tell us why. If anyone, she would tell me, but she didn't. So, imagine what that is like for Rob and Kristen, instead add the media and lunatic fans like us to the mix.

Anything they say to us or the media will be used against them, no matter what they say. Rob can come out and make the most heart felt statement and say, "I forgive you Kristen, because I can't live without you, I need you, I love, I won't let you go." But there will be many who will say this is PR and they're just doing it to save their careers, blah blah blah, you know what I mean?

I know you only want the best for them, we all do. But they are not our puppets, you know.

I don't know about everyone here, but I still have not watched any interviews of Rob since the incident, I just cannot bring myself to watch them yet. HOwever, my husband actually saw the Jon Stewart Show, and he is no fan of Robert Pattinson, he doesn't hate the guy. So out of curiosity, I informed him about their love story, and he said that during the daily show interview, Rob gave nothing away as to the status of their relationship. I asked him why, and he said because he thinks Rob is trying to protect his career because if he said anything it would probably backfire on him and he can't predict anything so it's best for him not to say anything. And how about whether or not he thinks they broke up or not, I asked? His answer was basically that Rob did not say anything to indicate the status of their relationship. So we don't know anything about their status. This is coming from someone who I forced to watch Twilight and New Moon with me, ok!

My opinion is just my opinion, based on common sense and gut instinct:

They will never come out and say it, but they are not over. She is still wearing her ring. They are missing. No one knows where they are for days now.

Sweetie, you just need to be patient and wait, BE VERY PATIENT because something like this just cannot be resolved so soon.



Anonymous said...

@tufenuff55,

I mean, look what happened to Kristen when she apologized. People criticized her for doing it just to save her career instead of seeing it as a sincere apology to Rob. I actually felt hurt and disappointed at fans who thought she was lying.

PamH said...

Hello everyone

It's like no matter how hard you try to stay away from all the stuff being said about R/K by not looking on the crap sites and the rag mags we still can't get away from it. While listening to my regular radio station stupid Ryan Secreast has to come on with the Hollywood Sleaze to inform us Twihards to" don't get our hopes up but Rob and Kristen may be reconciling" then a coulpe hours later has a women on his show who proceeds to say "Rob is selling his house because there's to many memories there"
There's just know getting away from it!!!
I wanted to scream " Don't interrupt my music to talk about gossip"

@Liz

Poor Taylor its a good thing that wasn't true . Could you imagine how many people would be hounding him to find out about R&K . The haters would corrupt his sweet mind :- )))

@ ginger

Make sure you have enough fun for both of us and take a drink for me ;-))))
No concerts in my near future... But in Sept. My hubby and I are going to Scarefest ( we are horror movie lovers) in Lexinton, KY it's all thing horror movies and paranormal, just happens this year Scout Taylor Compton is going to be there,

Glad everyone that weathered the storm is OK

jentoo said...

Well, DK....I responded to your 'natural cleanse ' comment but I've no idea where my response disappeared to...lol! I think my Internet's gone wonky! It'll probably post in the middle of the night or something. It just said I should probably stop drinking these drinks so I won't naturally cleanse all day tomorrow;)

jentoo said...

Goodnight everyone. ..I'm off to let the hum of the neighborhood full of generators lull me to sleep.....

ladyevenstar22 said...

well...i just read all the comments, i've been without internet for the past week!
yeah i want to talk about what's going on in rob and kristen personal life because i dare not go anywhere near any of the members of the shitlist sites to discuss it!
but at the same time its not easy been their fan , even before they became negative tabloid fodder it wasnt easy , because even before it was a narrow line to travel on being their fan, wanting to know everything about them and yet you love them so much you want to be the kind of fan they'd approve of

which implies making do with what they show us and tell us and not drinking up the unnecessary fiction the media craved and thus churning out weekly in their rags

and well it is hard to argue with the logic and soundness of rose's posts and some posters level-headed remarks !
i think i'll take a break from here and just pursue other interest for awhile, i will peek in and comment if and when i get to see cosmopolis otherwise i'll be back in november for BD2!

and please don't worry i'm not offended by any comment but you can't deny there's a latent edginess in the atmosphere of the blog! we may not have the right to feel affected by this but all the same the truth is we were affected to one degree or another and everyone has had diverse reactions and method of copping ,heck i haven't even followed any other stars i like because i won't allow myself to go on those site for fear of seeing/reading things that will hurt me whether or not i have the right to feel hurt by a situation that is of no concern to me

anyway see you when i see cosmopolis until then i'll pretend i live in a world where twilight rob and kris do not exist

that said believe me when i say this place is a sane haven for any rob and kris fans! you were of great comfort these past weeks...

i'm going to try this clean break and see how it works for me

Ginger with a Soul said...

@Pam it is like we can't scream enough loud enough - these are adults too - I keep saying to myself karma happens, but I wish it would work a little faster this time around. I look at my girls and it scares the crap out of me to think of the world they will grow up and live in. I almost feel like women as a whole have been teleported back a 100 yrs.

I will totally have shot or 2 for you . I've thought about doing the Stanley Hotel thingy here but I am the person that hears a noise and I am outta there. My ex is half Lakota Sioux - the stories he used to tell me scared the crap out of me. I have even seen or been part of some super scary stuff - I shudder

Kami said...

DK, I'm so glad you're feeling better, I was worried about you last night.

Deb, glad I brought back some good memories for you with my story.

Annie, I don't know exactly when you are going on your trip but in just in case I hope you have a wonderful time.

If anyone else has directed any comments my way I apologize for not responding, I've been trying to figure out my washer, which I know makes me sound like the biggest idiot in the world lol, but I THINK I've got it figured out, the clothes are clean, and I was able to change the little song it plays when the clothes are finished to something other than "La Cucaracha" (I hope I spelled that correctly)

Have a good night every one and Jentoo I am so glad you made it through the Hurricane with very little damage.

Gia said...

Nice post, Rose. I love your optimism.

I’ve been trying to stay positive too, but I’m also trying to keep my expectations low.
I wonder if he will be able to forgive her and if she will allow herself to be forgiven. It’s not easy to trust again and it’s not easy to not be trusted anymore.
I’ve always believed that Rob and Kristen had something really special and rare, and I still do, but I wonder if their love is strong enough to overcome all this obstacles. They have a lot to deal with and I can’t help thinking that their lives would probably be much “easier” if they stayed apart. Especially Kristen’s.
I read some comments today regarding the whole Rob and Katy Perry “thing” and, even though it’s just one more rumor, part of the always over invested robsessed world is already tearing the girl apart. “She’s not good enough for him”… “He can do so much better than that”… “She will hurt him for sure”… Déjà vu? How predictable… No one will ever be perfect for him. Especially Kristen Stewart, of course, who was never good enough and now has committed the horrible crime of making a mistake.
I wonder if her love for him is stronger than her desire to have a more peaceful and private life. Especially after this. She’s been dealing with crap from his fans and the media for a long time and now it’s completely out of control. How much can she take? How much can anyone take? I wonder how the “incident” would have been interpreted if her boyfriend was just some guy, not Robert Pattinson. I’ve a feeling that the villain of the story would be the married director and father of two taking advantage of his position to seduce the much younger leading actress of his movie, not Kristen. I guess we’ll never know…

I wonder if his love for her is stronger than his pride. He was inadvertently put in a very embarrassing and humiliating position and he’s expected to not accept her back. It’s no surprise that almost everyone is assuming that he broke up with her and is single again. Everyone will understand if he doesn’t accept her back. And many will not if he decides to stay with her.
I understand his silence, but I also understand why his silence is being questioned and interpreted as indifference and not caring. It’s hard to see her being vilified like this and to not see him standing up for her. It’s disgusting to see so many people enjoying this.
I’m keeping my expectations low because I understand if they decide to take the easy road and stay apart. But I’m also hoping that, for them, staying apart is not taking the easy road…
They can move on and start fresh with someone else. But if what they had was really THAT special and rare… it will not be easy to find again. I hope they make it.

gargamel said...

KRISTEN AND ROBERT....married! ( I just woke up...don't crucify me)

gargamel said...

This is what amazes me in this fandom. They 'understand' what these two needed. From the beginning...they begged for the privacy of their relationship and these fans are giving them JUST THAT. They have given us enough fun by whisking us away to la-la-land of romance over the years. They never asked us to be put in the pedestal ...if anything....they were actually terrified of the fame and the overwhelming 'support' from us. It was what drove these WILD BEASTS pesterazzi and rags for the BIG KILL. They were the DEMONS of this entertainment industry. They cheapen the prestige and glamour of it although they won't admit. These ANIMALS try to put the fingers on the loving and supporting fans. We want NOTHING of all the craps they PHOTOSHOPPED. They are re-hashing the POOP news because they LIKE to think they are actually have one.
Agree with TOPAZ...these two actors/lovebirds DON'T owe us NOTHING. We do OWE them their privacy stolen. And that's why we're TRYING to return it to them by IGNORING the SHITLIST.
Peace.

ali mac said...

Have a great day. The sun is shining and I'm going shopping ;)

Leni said...

Great post, Rose! Thanks!

DreamerKind said...

This is what I believe is a fair and balanced commentary! From Tempest's blogpost:

http://doidazzle-you.blogspot.com.au/2012/08/rob-and-kristen-put-your-arms-around-me.html#comment-form



DreamerKind said...

Guess I can actually stay awake inbetween naps!

@Gwen
Nice to see you here, dear girl. You always made good sense.

@Ali mac
You look charmingly in your pic.

@Annie
I loved your restaurant list and hope to see NYC one day myself.

@jentoo
Rose told us that some posts go directly to spam on here and she doesn't know why. Sorry to miss your comment.

Annie said...

Morning everyone.

DK: How are you feeling?
You've never been to New York? I think when you finally get here, you'll love it.
Such a diverse city with something for everybody and the other boroughs are just as interesting.
The restaurants here are letter graded for cleanliness .....A B C F. The grades are publicly displayed at the restaurants.

Look up the restaurant Per Se at the Time Warner Center.........$$$$$$!
Restaurants here really do run the gamut in pricing........Restaurant gems exist everywhere here.
-----------
Kami: Is your washer one of those HE washers because with those the clothes have to be loosely packed and the tub barely half full.
My experience with that type of washer is hilarious!

R/K Clan said...

So agree Rose :) Thanks

ali mac said...

Annie all the restaurants in our county have a number rating for cleanliness, it's great to know a place is clean before you eat there !!

Thanks Dk, I'm glad you are feeling and sounding like yourself xx

ali mac said...

Ok home from shopping and back to reality, two laundry bags full of clothes to be ironed :(

Annie said...

Ali: Hi .......Morning!
It is.
It forces the restaurants to be vigilant. Some well known restaurants around here were hit with a very low grade and some were forced to shutdown and clean up their act........Oh, the drama!

Annie said...

Ali: :) I find ironing relaxing.....I know, it's strange as all hell!

Ginger with a Soul said...

So I guess my wish for karma came a lot faster than I thought for Ken Baker - people in glass houses and all - I am terrible person but I actually laugh at the media taking their gut punches and reality checks

@DK - no more cured meats and I hope you are on the mend

@Ali enjoy that sun - I am going to be chugging water today so I don't get dehydrated tonight been so stuffy here lately - we have really dry heat but it keeps playing like it wants to rain, figures it will probably rain tonight but I sat through Kings of Leon in the rain and they played an extra hour because we all stuck it out - turned out to be one of the best concerts I have ever been to

Mary said...

Hi Ali and Annie,

I do not iron, Mr PL does it because he is sooooo fussy and much better at it than I am and I plan on keeping it that way.

I have one of the new top load,HE washers with no agitator in the center. It was quite ridiculous to see my husband and myself standing over this washer watching the entire load wash and we kept saying how is this getting the clothes clean, there isn't enough water? We even did a little shake every time the washer did it's balancing act.


Gwen
Good to see you drop by. It's been a very long time for you and I've wondered how you've been.

ali mac said...

Lol I love all the washer stories, so glad to hear I'm not the only one that has watched my washing going round lol

I have also been known to stare into the oven and watch the dinner :

Annie I don't mind ironing really, I usually catch up with tv while doing it.


Ginger have a great time at the concert!!!!!

Pl I have a great mental picture of you and your hub doing your little dance :)

ali mac said...

Annie one of the restaurants in my home town got the lowest scorepossible because he wouldn't let them in to do their check. He Had a real superiority thing and thought he was to good for it. But he ended up having to let them in as his low score was damaging his business. Stupid man !!

Kami said...

Good morning. Another day, another load of clothes for my new washer. Is it odd that I had nightmares that this washer kept chasing me around the house saying "You are the weakest link Good-bye" and then it would try to bite me?

Annie, it's a "He" machine, my second actually. The first we bought 3 years ago and apparently when we moved from Kansas to Houston, the movers dropped it and cracked something that caused the transmission (who knew washers have transmissions?) to burn out eventually causing water to pour out onto my brand new floor.

This is a front load, it will take some time to get used to it, but I think I will.

Speaking of crazy machines. Last weekend my husband and I went to town to buy the washer, and I didn't like the station he had the radio on, we have a car that has an automated hands free option that you push a button on the steering wheel and tell the car what you want it to do..call someone, directions, temperature, radio etc. and then the car will obey.

So I punched the button and the car said "Please say a command" and I told the automated lady which station I wanted and every time there would be this 'fail' music followed by "Sorry didn't register please say a command" so finally the third time this happened I was frustrated so when she said 'Please say a command' I said "Oh go eff (using the actualy word) yourself" and this EVIL hag who I am not totally convinced IS automated said to me "Turning to Out there radio. Topic: You're a bitch"

I am of course livid, my husband is laughing so hard he's about to wreck the car and I'm sitting on the passenger side stuttering at an automated voice in my car.

So finally my husband shuts up long enough to say "Here let me try" and says a station and this damn evil car said "Turning to the Power. Topic "You're the boss"

So ever since last weekend if I disagree with my husband he says "hey don't make me get the car to tell you who the boss is."

Ok off to brave the washing machine.

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Vangie said...

i am so, lost! with these kristen heaters, i am not her fan, but the hate is getting to me,ad even though i love rob allot and what kristen did was unacceptable, and have no hate in me for kristen, in fact i am pissed because rob has put the house for sale, and maybe moving back to the UK, i call that Quitting, and running!sad but true, God says forgive and pride that rob seem to be full of is not of God,b Rob it's your fault, because you seem to put kristen first, that is in front of God1 i know some do not believe in God, respect due, he still loves you, but those fans of rob whobso beliees rb will never take back krisen,is them i dislike now, they make me sick!i really feel sorry for kristen, now they are saying, krisyen don't want rob back

Kami said...

Ali Mac I know...don't you just want to smack her? I mean ours sounds smug and arrogant. I know it's just a recording but still

Vangie, I can sense your upset over this,and I can understand how you feel but just remember, it's going to be ok. The gossips are out right now and they are picking up all the chatter happening right now that they hear people saying in chat rooms on boards and on blogs and are reporting it as fact.

So just remember that the only ones who know the full story are Rob and Kristen. So deep breath, and let it out, relax and just remember to take those gossip comments with a grain of salt

isis said...

Hi ladies : )

Tempest has a new post and ksibtu has a new post too. Good reading for two of the most talented and beloved fans of rob and kristen. They write what we all want to say but don't have the talented to write :)

ksibtu have two articles from kristen fans that are beautiful. Please anyone here who already have proud of being her fan, after read the articles more proud of our kristen will feel.

Litmom said...

Random and totally off topic---

New Orleans area Roselanders...do you know if Uptown has power yet?

My daughter lives there, and neither she nor any of her friends are there right now to know if their power is on yet!

ali mac said...

I deleted my comment accident Kami, so incase anyone wonders I had said that I fall out with my sat nav regularly and that I'd swear she sounds smug sometimes. I hope that makes sense lol :P

Ginger with a Soul said...

@ Vangie - I get really upset at the hate too - enough is enough - some of the things needs real consequences to be handed down so maybe people will think twice about some of the things they do or say - like her or not, fan or not she is a human being and while I am not a religious person I know that God does not have room for what is going on.

On the other stuff no one is talking so they are making up any story they can - some one said it is like throwing spaghetti noodles at a wall to see what will stick - I wouldn't believe anything anymore without tangible proof - I am even scared to say photo's since they staged the u-haul pic. Their level of depravity is astounding.

Ginger with a Soul said...

@Litmom - I hope your daughter is ok

I am not sure where Jentoo was but she lost power yesterday but thought it would be back in 24 hours.

Ginger with a Soul said...

@Ali and Kami - I hate my smart phone with directions - when you past the street I swear I wait for it call me stupid before it tells me to make a u turn at the next intersection

@Isis - I read both and Tempests post made me tear up. How are you today ? :)

isis said...

@Gia- hi honey : ) i understand what you said in your post. I feel the same and most of here feel too. Kristen is being victim of a plan to destroy her. This is the way i see it. Because in these moment i think we all agree that the hate comments from the media and rob's crazy fans, don't have nothing to do with the "pics". It's personnal. And yes it's because of Rob. His fans think that is their mission on earth to take her down. And they will not stop until rob gives them a very clear mensage.

I have the same feeling that you have about kristen reaction to all his fans against her. It's obvious that she knows very well since 2009 that they don't like her.Just because Rob loves her. Yes we know it's a logical reason...
She knows, her family, friends and her team everyone knows that most of the hate she is being victim in this 4 weeks comes from them. Including Rob.

In this moment kristen is facing a difficult and chalenging period of her young life. She is not in a good place, maybe now she is in the process of healing. I think she is reacting to what happened to her, in the best way she can, with the support of the people who truly loves her.
She will come out from all of this, more strong, knowing herself better, what she wants and who she wants. She already made this part very clear. I hope he can see that. But she will emerge not the same kristen but a stronger kristen. And with the changing in her, probably she will have zero tolerance for bullshits. And that will include his fans too.
And she maybe accept that she doesn't want to be judge the way she is being since 2009, not good enough, not pretty enough, not smile enough, not talented enought. Yes this has been the reasons they give when they talk about her. And all this crap came from them. they are still using and we are in 2012.

I had a "hahaha" moment like Oprah : )
And if the truth is that will be Kristen to give the final decision in all of this and not Rob?
Kristen will come out of this more wide awake and maybe she will say "Enough is enough". Who can blame her? I don't.

Rob can't be blame for his crazy fans, it's true, but he knows this since 2009 and he never make nothing to stop. Yes he always made very clear to the world how he feels about kristen, the way he looks at her. It's obvious for us. But his fans are out of control. In these moment doesn't matter if he will walk the BD red carpet with kristen looking her with the same loving eyes. It will be not enought for his fans. He will have to make very clear to his fans , who he wants in his life, who he truly loves and that he will NOT tolerate hate on her. Maybe not in words but in his behaviour with his fans. Time will tell...

ali mac said...

Ginger and Kami, my car tells me when to change gears so I always try to get changed before it tells me, otherwise I feel like it's won (sad or what!!) I would be a little bit competitive ;)

isis said...

@tufenuf55- we all feel sad with the undeserving hate that kristen is being face it. Yes i would love that someone from them camp would come out and stop this. But they will not talk. Rob will not talk. There are a lot of fans who wants him to come publicly and defend her. His silence can be seen has indifference, but i think that is the way he is protecting her.
If you look close to Rob's photos from cosmopolis premiere, talk shows and interviews, he doesn't give nothing to the media. You can't know from his words if they are or not. He looked sad but not with hate or revenge. If was the case he had soo many opportunities to make clear if they are or not, and he didn't talked. You saw him in JK? He looked happy, relaxed. This is not the behaviour of someone who is facing a devastating break up. Yes he is an actor but there are things you can't fake it. If he was really devastated like the media wants us believe he would look like that.

Soo have HOPE and believe in them :) Yes it's difficult but we have to be patience : )

Ginger with a Soul said...

@Isis - the unfortunate part of society in a whole is the issue - the male - be it a movie star, rock band guy, professional athlete, is almost forced to promote an image more than themselves. They are told to act available and obtainable because that draws more interest to their platform - some get lost in that world and lose themselves while others become hardened and jaded. People lean to the glamorous superficial life they think these people live when it is so far from reality. We are told to look at their looks and appearances and not who they are as human beings - knowing the true them is losing the fantasy because no one is a god. Fantasy sells - all about the almighty green and has created a cesspool bleach would not even clean.

PamH said...

Hi everyone

@ Vangie
I guess we just have to let the haters hate because I don't see this going away anytime soon :-( We, fans of both, can only remind ourselves to only take to heart the things that only come from R/K their teams and reliable sources. I don't see this dying down even after BD2 is over until they either vocally say we are/ aren't together ( which they will never do ) or be photoed with someone else showing PDA people are always going to hate on one or the other or both if they stay together.

Staying away from rag mags and not giving hits to the crap sites will help with our SANITY but I don't think it will change the beasts. Unfortunately I think the bad ( haters) out weighs the good ( us R/K fans ) so until the next big story breaks to outshine them they will keep going JUST WITHOUT US!!!!!!


Hope everyone and your families that dealt with the storm is fine and not inconvenienced by the after affects long. I do hope some rain would make it to my neck of the woods it's getting dry here and people need it for gardens and crops.

@ Ginger
Have fun and be safe
In case I don't get to shout out to ya again before you go :-)))))

Sue from Holland said...

Rose and Tempest(your new post) thanks for your words. It made me a bit more positive again.
The last week I've been contemplating whether I should still comment or even read this blog.
I thought maybe stepping away from it all, would make it easier. I had a lot of dark thoughts last week about what happened and the flipside of Rob's deep love for Kristen.
What really got to me was that last week, unconsciously, I opened our new TV-guide and there are R&K. The scandal, her betrayel and the pic of K and dickhead standing by the railing, her hand in his hair and smiling. It made me sick all over again, I wanted to vomit. If I have that reaction how must Rob be feeling, being confronted over and over again, seeing another man holding and kissing the woman he loves.
I'm not lookin for info but it's eveywhere, the stupid English rags my partner reads(put The Sun and the Daily Mail on your shitlist to, Gargamel). Rob selling his house, Katy Perry (no I am absolutely no fan of hers so I'll try to be nice). Maybe I should just shut down internet, not go to supermarkets or open any tvguides.

isis said...

@Ginger- you are soo smart love : )
Yes the man can do everything. The woman are blame for all the bad. Is sad but is true.
Rob's image in this moment is single, move on, God, perfect. Maybe is not is fault but his team have to work in this.
Yes he has a lot of sucess, and he will continue with his career. But if he makes the decision of not want her again. And both move on, with their lifes. In the next 3-4 years, he will be famous the same way he is today, but not with kristen in his life. If everything we have seen since 2008 about his feelings for her, and the way he look at her, if is true that he loves her deeply like he is being showing all these years. He will be happy? Many actors from all generations, the most famous, always said that the spotlight is a lonely place, and doesn't bring happiness.

Vangie said...

happy thoughts!

Ginger with a Soul said...

@iSIS - I think it is just the draw back to being famous all together - it is the game they are forced to play. I actually feel horrible for them. I don't see Rob or his team as a bad people at all in this - it is just a very unfortunate draw back to having to be marketable. No one goes to see a movie where the lead actor is snaggletoothed,500 pounds, and unattractive - not as a romantic lead anyway.

Women have careers as long as they are pretty and thin enough - always judged or criticized for everything they do. I refer to above - same standard.

I remember being young and being a very judgmental person - the day I had my oldest daughter is the day I opened my eyes. I love her to death so don't get me wrong but she is my karma - it is easy to be callous about a lot of things in life until you have to protect someone from people that thought like you did once. I have done a lot of things that my younger self swore I would never do, changed opinions and well grew up. My boss and I were talking a while back about regrets (she is the one that wants to poor dish soap in my mouth) and when I told her I didn't really regret anything in my life she was shocked. I told her I didn't have time for regrets because things happened and I can't change them - they made me who I am today so I have to look at them as lessons.

It is easier to judge someone meaningless to you them to judge yourself - people are afraid of what they might find there.

Ginger with a Soul said...

@Pam - THANK YOU !!!I am so ready - I will have to take a good picture for my avi with the 5 of us going.

ali mac said...

Ginger is the concert tonight or tomorrow?

Ginger with a Soul said...

@Ali - tonight - it is a little after 2 PM right now for me and we are going to get there about 6 PM so we can get our T-Shirts and stuff. We are 11th row center stage so we are right in the thick of it. I almost bought Pit tickets but my daughter is 5'4 and 110 pounds - I was afraid she would get crushed

ali mac said...

Great seats Ginger, I hope you have a ball and the teeth give you no bother :)

Ginger with a Soul said...

@Ali - awwww - I might kick my dentist - just kidding they are feeling so much better :)

Holy said...

Hello everyone.

This is driving the media and tabloids crazy because,nobody from R/K camps are talking to them.They will going to continue to make ups some BS over and over.

@Ginger-hey, have a good time.

@ali- enjoy you're shopping.

@gargamel- hahaha,you're funny,did you dream that.

ali mac said...

Holy my shopping is over its 9.30pm here now. It was great though. I LOVE shopping <3

My son who is seven just caught his first fish (he has caught tiny ones before but this is the first one we can actually eat) He is very proud of himself. So it looks like Rainbow Trout for dinner tomorrow :0)

Holy said...

Rose,I'm laughing so hard when you pisses off the haters when you where tweeting Robert Pattinson and Kristen Stewart names.Holy sh@t that is just hilarious.

Ginger with a Soul said...

@Holy - Thank you :)

Holy said...

@ali- I love shopping too.My hubby can't stand it though.He threaten me to sell all my clothes and shoes,if I don't stop.

ali mac said...

My husband cannot get his head around the shoe thing at all, he just can't understand why we need so many different styles colours etc

deb said...

@DK I to loved what T said and I heard Kristen say maybe more then once that she LOVED the fan's BUT i ask myself now what dose she think of them? Yes she dose have FAN's who are her true fan's and want the best for her BUT dose she know that with all this BS going on? I hope she dose.I hope that with all this HATE she feel's the love we have for her. And i believe that ROB DOSE NOT LOVE all the HATE she is getting HE NEVER DID.I hope where ever their at right now that they are having a loving and happy time away from all this. Like alot of you have said THEY HAVE been THROUGH this before and was there for each other I believe they are still are. I also think the way we can be their TRUE FAN'S is to TRY and DROP this and let them take care of this them self. just go see their movies like they want. I TRULY want the best for each of them. :) DEB.

gargamel said...

@holy...
I think the same way. Stoopid RAGS are going bananas why r&k aren't coming out to clear their names.
I think WE are winning. They're getting brain punk'd by r&k and fans.
SHITLIST IS STILL UP ladies and gentlemen.

Clarisse said...

I would like to read Tempest's post...
@Isis or @Ginger: ¿would you mind giving Tempest's blog address? Thanks.
:)

LizzieD said...

ROBERT -- Where are you?

Karen in NJ said...

@Clarisse - Tempest's blog is "do I dazzle you" sorry I don't know how to link but you can google it.

Kami said...

Here's the link to Tempest's blog
http://www.doidazzle-you.blogspot.com.au/2012_08_01_archive.html

Clarisse said...

@Karen: Thanks ever so much, dear

Clarisse said...

@Kami: You're very kind, thanks

Robert said...

@LIZ [and eveybody]

i'm good. we never lost power, but i did lose the internet for about a day and a half, which is why i have been unable to post

by the way, i knew i was right about the shoes

this has been the strangest hurricane. what was NBC thinking when they sent Al Roker out in the wind and rain. that dude has trouble standing up on a sunny day

Geo said...

Hi Rose and everyone!

I have not posted in...well, I cannot remember when, but I have enjoyed reading your comments and been right there with you on this rollercoaster ride. I just tend to lurk mostly.

I am going to avoid the elephant, hyenas and any other native African animal (haha) and tell you all about a good movie I watched called Death at a Funeral. It is a British comedy that I thought was hilarious. If you need a good laugh I recommend it. It's on Netflix instant right now.

Back to lurking...bye *waves*

LizzieD said...

ROBERT -- So glad you are okay. Guess it's the folks to the southeast of NO that have taken the brunt of flooding.

I heard your song!!! At least a very short portion... for some reason it cuts off around the 30-second mark and says something like corrupted file.

Maybe you can download again and resend?

Robert said...

LIZ

great, i'll try to send it again

how were you able to listen to it?

wig4usc said...

Hello, Roselanders!

Whew, lots of comments to get through, you guys have been busy!

Super - I have a marg recipe for you, its really is wonderful:

One can of limeaid frozen concentrate, dump into a pitcher

using the limeaid container, fill that with Cherry 7-up, put in pitcher

Fill container with tequila(I often fill 3/4 full), put in pitcher

Pour one beer of your choice into the pitcher

stir, or blend with ice, serve as you would any other marg!

Enjoy!

Robert said...

this is for eveyone. i hope this is okay; if not, Rose just tell me and i will shut it down

my band's web site is up and you can go there and dpwnload all of our songs

just visit
shakeyheadandtheboys.com
and click on "steal the music"

p. s. i will keep working on the other one

Robert said...

that should be

shakyheadandtheboys.com

sorry i don't know how to make it clicky

Monica said...

@Ginger, words of wisdom! You should start yr own blog and I'll be the 1st one to read. :)

Monica from Asia



LizzieD said...

ROBERT -- I downloaded to RealPlayer and also Itunes, had same problem with both, only about 30 seconds.

Was good!!!

gargamel said...

@ Sue
Will do ma'am.
SHITLIST has been UPDATED to include THE SUN and THE DAILY MAIL.
KRISTEN STEWART AND ROB PATTINSON were in SONEVA GILI RESORTS in the MALDIVES. A remote but accessible island where paparazzi are UNWELCOME.
The alarm clock went off so don't ask where they went after. I need a double dose to see that.

Robert said...

thanks LIZ

Did you check out the website

which should actually be

www.shakyheadandtheboys.com

Second Chance said...

Is there a better bet than love?

http://vimeo.com/25876777
Great song choice Maika J.

LizzieD said...

ROBERT -- Yes, just went to website. Will have to wait until the weekend to "steal the music" as I've got to go to bed. Have to work early tomorrow.

Have a good night!!

GOODNIGHT ALL!!

LIZ IN LALA LAND ...

Anonymous said...

Rob's so called fans are out. of. control. they say rob and kristen broke up but the their hate for kristen escalated to a whole new level, it's almost as if she has personally wronged them in some way. sometimes I wonder if twilight was worth it. Does the money, fame, fans, opportunities out weigh the hate, media scrutiny, death threats and invasions of privacy.

gargamel said...

Guys please be strong and resist the urge to click on the SHITLIST.
What we all predicted that these RAGS will be singing a different tune after the smoke clears IS HAPPENING TOO EARLY THAN EXPECTED!
Same RAGSHITS are quoting each other as the source again. One twi-blog is reporting a positive article bout d baby girl. I think the blog-owner just turned her site into a web-tabloid out of desperation to win back her frequent flyers.
No CLICK...NO COMMENTS...NO HITS....NO MONEY!

gargamel said...

@Vanilla
Im sure we know why. They didn't hate kristen stewart. They just FOUND a reason to hate someone. It's just the NATURE of a hateful person. It's got roots....psychological...most common is being UNLOVED....
So we just leave them alone. Nothing will change that.

DreamerKind said...

Good morning!

My internet is very slow and I need a new modem which will come on Saturday afternoon. Please forgive any slow responses to your emails or comments. Plus I cannot post songs since youtube will not load.

I miss you all but I am around.

@Ginger
Know you are enjoying your concert and beer and am thinking of you!

@Super
New York! New York!

@Annie
I've seen NYC on my way to a wedding on Long Island, from a bridge. Does that count? :)

DreamerKind said...

@Deb
Tempest makes sense all of the time and calms people down. It's very good to read her blog, I agree.

Omoiyari said...

I hope that Robert's so called fans are not going to Toronto film festival.
these women have a fucking obsession.

DreamerKind said...

Goodnight, Lovelies!

See you soon. Fare thee well.

Birdie said...

DK,
I just missed you. Are you feeling better? I hope so!

Maria said...

Goodmorning Roseland!

Its been a crazy busy week on my end, kids went back to school on Wednesday, and haven't had much time to catch up and comment.

@DK...I hope you are feeling much better.
@Robert, jentoo and all Roselanders effected by the hurricane...I hope that you are all doing okay.

I've been feeling a little edgie this week. Can't quite put my finger on a reason...could be one of many...but its held me back from commenting...can't put a coherent thought down in writing when I'm in this state of mind. ;-)

I enjoy reading all of the comments here posted by the respectful posters...from the optimistic to the cautiously realistic, from the analytical to the ones that no longer feel the need to comment on the incident incessantly. Everyone has something worthwhile to say, to express their thoughts and feelings; look at it as a type of therapy.

Just watch and wait and keep the faith...wringing our collective hands in anxiety won't resolve things any quicker.

Still sending positive thoughts to R & K.

TGIF. Heading down to the Cape for the long weekend tomorrow. Last free weekend for the next two months.

Ta ta for now.

Annie said...

Morning all:
DK: :):) A view from a bridge........Yes, that counts! :)

Super: Didn't forget.......waiting on my friend to send that updated restaurant list. Hopefully at some point today.

Have a great day everybody.

gargamel said...

ROBERT PATTINSON LOVES KRISTEN STEWART!!!!!

Ginger with a Soul said...

Morning ladies and Gents

@Monica - you are so sweet but Rose does it so much better than I ever could.

@DK - Check Facebook out either tonight or tomorrow - we should be uploading all the pictures we took between my sister and I and man there was a lot - she indulged me taking pictures of my little crush while I was singing - good times:)

So I survived - lost my voice and wanted to crawl to the car after jumping and dancing for 4 hours, my feet hated me. Probably one of the most amazing concerts I have been to and the best show I have seen of Linkin Parks - we have been religiously seeing there shows for 10 years now every time the come here. I took a shot or two for everyone - drank a couple beers and over all enjoyed one hell of a night.

On today's anniversary of Princess Diana's death - this is my wish - the media backs off all these stars - you are destroying them and for what? Does it make you better to take someone down? Chatter and White noise on the internet - my wish is you learn the value in shut the fuck up - when you hide behind your screen and bully someone to the point that they attempt to or do take their lives it makes you an asshole - I am for freedom of speech but anonymity has allowed vile people to become the worst of bullies and some one needs to take accountability.

@ vanilla-sparks - I don't think Twilight was the evil part but I bet if Kristen was honest she probably wouldn't have done it knowing what she knows now - who would.

The internet is a blessing and a devil at the same time - I wish the social network part of it was never created - the world might be a little quieter if it hadn't and the assholes would have no one to talk to but themselves.

Ginger with a Soul said...

@ Omoiyari - I think TIFF is probably a little to high class for them but I am more than sure Kristen's team has photo's and such of these people and they will be removed as they have in the past - they wouldn't get within 100 yards of her.


Oh before I forget Robert Pattinson and Kristen Stewart

ali mac said...

Ginger sounds like you had a really great time :)) glad it was great !!

isis said...

Hi ladies : )

Balenciaga muse and actress kristen stewart : )

I love the statement that Balenciaga made about kristen and florabotanica.

The funny part in this is we all can imagine the haters reading that Balenciaga talk about kristen and in their heads is like" they gonna drop her", and they in their desilusions minds send the link to all the trolls haters from twitter. And they are all happy because they think that Balenciaga will made public they are droping her and then they all open the link to the article and they read: " Balenciaga MUSE and actress kristen stewart..." : )lol

And to think that in all this 4 weeks they have been soo 100% sure that balenciaga will drop her. They have been waiting to read balenciaga statement about Kristen and florabotanica. And that day come but not the way they expected. I'm not surprise i always knew that Balenciaga didn't care for the stupid lies.

isis said...

@Ginger- hi sweetie : ) looks like you had a funny night : )

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