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Saturday, January 8, 2011

Rob and Kristen- Just Because

Um...

This is supposed to be my 'good' post.
You know...
All sunshine and lollipops and sugar and spice
All kinds of nice.

It's why I'm still here.
Day after day...
Year after year.
I'm still trying to figure out why stuff makes me feel the way I feel.

Like.
Robert Pattinson.
and Kristen Stewart.

I mean... on the surface
being intoxicated with Rob is pretty natural... isn't it?
Talented, witty, intelligent, gorgeous man.
(he's so much more than that, but you get the idea)
The same things can be said about Kristen...
Talented, intelligent, beautiful...
But that's not what I'm trying to work on.

WHY do I feel so protective over them as well?
My post yesterday was in response to the ridiculous attacks on Kristen
for her 'behavior' at the PCAs.
Although no matter what she had done at the show
she would have been vilified and shredded.
People in this fandom seem to forget the real stuff...
The GOOD stuff...
So easily.
It's like they would rather focus on a nervous Kristen
Speculating on what every move meant
instead of remembering that a week ago...
Kristen and Rob were kissing and hanging out.
How can you just forget that?
Because it wasn't on TV?
Or because your attention span is like a gnats on crack?

I don't get it.

This is why Rob fell in love for the Last Time.

The fact that Kristen flew over to England for the holidays...
(Second year in a row, mind you)
Spent said holidays with Rob
his family... friends...
Means nothing now?
Just because Kristen didn't hang all over Rob
on some cheesy award show
means that a week after they were spotted 
together and KISSING (how can you forget that??)
Their relationship doesn't exist?
How the hell does that work?

It's not like I had a lot of faith in this fandom to begin with...
The amount of crazy that roams free is terrifying.

You know he has looked at Kristen like this... a lot.

What I've found is that a lot of people aren't really fans at all.
They don't necessarily care that much for Rob or Kristen.
They use their 'fandom' as an excuse to hate.
Yes.
There is hate for both Rob and Kristen.
But Kristen gets the brunt of it.
I totally get that there are people out there that don't care for Kristen.
They don't have to accept them as a package deal.
But the ruthless attacks on a girl...
JUST BECAUSE Rob wants to be with her are pathetic.
And yeah...
keep clinging to Taylor helping Kristen up the stairs
(who would have thought Taylor was a nice guy?)
as some sort of relationship barometer.
Let's ignore that through it all...
Rob and Kristen 
ALWAYS
end up together.
Time after time.
And the next time a picture is released 
showing them out and about
(and it will happen)
Then what?
The same tired bullshit will be regurgitated again and again...
Tell me...
Is it as bitter coming back up...
as it was going down?

Rob going after what he wants... Kristen.

Honestly.
Even if you don't believe that Rob and Kristen are in a relationship
(IOW. Kissing. New Years Eve. Hello?)
You have to at least admit that Rob cares for her.
That Rob likes being with her...
Otherwise
Why do they keep showing up together?
He could have been with anyone in that pub on NYE...
He could have invited any number of girls along...
Maybe his mysterious blonde?
But no.
In every picture...
It was Rob and Kristen.
Next to each other.
Always.
Even Kissing.
(whisper into my mouth... I can't hear you...)


And yet... here I am
All protective and defensive about 2 people
who most certainly don't need my protection.

Twice as Nice.

So where does that leave me?

I should just be resigned to the fact that
people will always twist what is right in front of them...
To fit their point of view.
We all see things differently.
We all have our opinions.
But while that is all well and good...
Sometimes you should ask yourself the motives
behind what people are saying and doing.
Me?
My motive is two fold.
I want to understand why I continue to be intoxicated
with a 24 year old British actor...
Why I feel the need to defend and protect him and Kristen...
But most of all...
I just enjoy watching their relationship...
Seeing them looking all smitten and in love
And happy.
I'm all about the Happy.

Twirling and Laughing and Happy.
Because I know...
in my heart of hearts
in my gut
That Rob and Kristen not only are together...
But are deeply in love
and completely committed to each other.
Living together.
Working together.
Traveling together.
Vacationing together.
Together.
As always.

Hyenas are incredibly noisy...


Oh and one more thing...


Just because.

This post is brought to you by the letter *C*

C for common sense.
I guess sense isn't that common after all...
Think about it.
Open your eyes.
Really see what is right there in front of you.
Its all there.


Bye for now
♥♥♥

277 comments:

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angelica1 said...

Hi Katy :)

Kami - Yes,it did make me giggle

Rhonda said...

Super,

I need a spa day. If I drive to SC will you give me a facial :)

Kami said...

Super, not sure something about them being

"Whore of the whores...slut of the week" and my hubby reposted it with the comment "It's nice you're finally admitting what you are" or something..I deleted it.

katy said...

Hi, Angelica :)

Rhonda said...

Angelica- I guess that would make things rather difficult. I suppose it was sad all around.

Rhonda said...

Kami,

You should've left it up there. Way to go Heith :)

Mary said...

The Delete has been enforced.

Annie said...

Good evening Roselanders!

"I have to put up with two or three caterpillars if I want to know butterflies."
— Antoine de Saint-Exupéry - Author, The Little Prince.

Super RN Gas Passer said...

RHONDA...heh...Please cum see me...wouldnt that be soooo much FUN? I would love to have any of you come...except for Brains, Roger or Honey!

BRAINS...You have ALOT of NERVE!I cannot for the LIFE of Me...understand WHY someone hasnt put a stop to this nonsense. Someone WILL...its just a matter of time...You are gonna LOSE big time all the way around...What a damn shame

Mary said...

Thanks, Rose, for the cleanup.

I think maybe we shouldn't refer to them again. What do you think?

angelica1 said...

Penny - I agree

Freddie said...

Rhonda – to your earlier question, I looked up Canuck on Wikipedia and it wasn’t much help. This is what it said…

The term appears to have been coined in the 19th century, although its etymology is unclear, it usually refered to those who worked in forest, usually cultivating wood.

"The term Canuck is first recorded about 1835 as an Americanism, originally referring specifically to a French Canadian. This was probably the original meaning, though in Canada and other countries, "Canuck" refers to a Canadian." [1] In fact, the 1835 source cited refers to a foreign-speaker: “Jonathan distinguishes a Dutch or a French Canadian, by the term Kanuk.”

I don’t know how it became used in popular speech, but it’s shorter than typing out “Canadian” all the time.

Rhonda said...

Freddie,

Okay that's what we'll go with :)

Super RN Gas Passer said...

Good night everybody....

Rhonda said...

I have to go too. Hopefully will talk with you after work tomorrow. Goodnight All!

Freddie- Talk to you later :)

Freddie said...

Good night Super RN. Have a good sleep.

I'm going to pack it in as well. Have a good night all. Likely talk to you soon.

Freddie said...

Night Rhonda. Have a good one.

Anonymous said...

Dear Rose,
Love this blog, I hope you never get tired. I love R/K for one of the reasons you do - watching them - the love oozes out of them. As far as the PCA show - Taylor is sturdy on his feet - Rob trips over his own and does somersaults on the floor part of what we love about him. If I'm wearing 8 inch heels I'm going with Taylor. Rob and I sprawled on the floor not so pretty. Also if I were Kristen I know hanging on Taylor (who I view as a litter puppy brother) I'm not going to forget where I am and grab him inappropriately. Rob and Kris get in their bubble and they forget where they are and who's watching. LOL Thanks SunnySRZ aka CrazyPeople

Barbara Fenwick said...

Rose, I feel the exact same way about Rob and Kris, and really don't understand why exactly. I feel so protective about them knowing they do not need my protection. They are deeply in love with each other, and it is there for everyone to see, if you open your eyes and just look at them. I really wish the haters would just leave them alone, they deserve that peace, just like anybody else. Take care.

Aeden said...

Lovely Rose,

how are you? Hope you're having a nice day despite all the pathetic attempts of people to make a big deal over nothing...

No matter what Kristen does, people will always have something to say..And Robert to..

People are so pathetic that they're making up excuses to deny their delusions--

ROBERTLOVESKRISTENANDKRISTENLOVESROBERT

WITHACCEPTANCECOMESPEACE

Wake up people..Robert & Kristen will always end up together-
It's a fact proven time & again

Thank you Rose for defending Robert & Kristen from those Pathetic people

Have a wonderful day
KEEP SPREADING THE ROBERT&KRISTEN LOVE

Eclipsed said...

My only expectation for the PCAs was that they both showed up. Everything else (matchy outfits, teary-eyed Robert, pretty audience pictures, etc.) was just gravy.

P.S. The "Twice as Nice" picture that you posted of Robert has become one of my favorites. Thank you for posting it Rose.

KMenchette said...

They are probably starting this again in hopes they will get mad enough and just come out and officially tell the world they are indeed together so they can get their "money shot" Just leave these two alone already. In my opinion I don't know anyone who can spend 24/7 with someone especially in an environment like making breaking dawn must be. It has to get stressful no matter how much fun they say they are having. They are only normal and have to get exhausted which will lead to some crankiness. I love your site by the way. You do such a great job you can tell how much you love it as well as how much time is put into it. Keep up the good work.

Magnolias-blooming said...

Top of the mornan to ya Rose & of course Roselanders.....just dropped in to say "hi"!
Rose love the new banner......How comfortable does Rob look beside a beast that has the strength and ability to squash him in seconds......He looks at ease and i think the elephant doesn’t mind it either....lol...Animals can sense comfort too.....
Not going to put my 5 cent in the politics in the earlier comments. People here are suffering flood and devastation down under. With flood water still not receding. Whilst others quarrelling about trivial nonsense......Or shall I say why did she touch him and not the other? Or whatever they are saying earlier.
• Really let us get our priorities straight here people....The "nons" need to get a life and look at the real picture....
Just enjoy reading what your opinion is Rose and looking at all the pretty in the related pictures you always post......Like someone mentioned.....The "Twice as nice Rob" pic is one of my personal "favs also......He looks deep in thought.....Without a looking fake.....Just my opinion.....
Gotta go my ‘dau’ is going on a cruise today and I have to take her to the dock.....Im a bit nervous cause this is the first time she has gone on holidays by herself.....

Have a good day everyone....

Rhonda said...

Hi Rose and Roseland,

Hope all have enjoyed a nice Sunday :)

I must confess I'm a little sad today. The people of Arizona are weighing heavily on my heart.
I don't think a motive has been given yet..but, I wonder...What could possibly have been the motivation for this?

Kami said...

Rhonda, I too am just sick about this whole shooting drama.

From what I've read, this was a disturbed young man who left letters saying he planned his assasination of Rep. Giffords. He, according to the early reports from investigators, did not like Rep. Giffords because of her party affiliation.

Most likely he had no intention making it out alive yesterday. Was most likely intending to commit suicide with the help of the Police.
He has a long history of mental illness it appears.

Rhonda said...

Kami,

I can't get the picture of that little girl out of my head.

bach said...

Hey, please do yourself a favor and change your blog site name to Robsten or Tom Intoxication, more fitting IMO. I used to read your blogs before because I am a big admirer of both Rob and Kristen. But then your blogs have become ridiculous and immature and instead thrived on calling more attention to this non-entity called the nonstens. And I don't believe for a second now that you're still a Rob fan. Rob signed on to the biggest project in his career and landed no less than Cronenberg's Cosmopolis and you couldn't devote a good blog on that? So please, stop the pretense and change your blog title and stop using Rob to get more hits. I'm sure TomStu could use the blogosphere love.

Rhonda said...

Are you kidding me?

Kami said...

Bach as it seems that Rose is busy, let me just say.

Please feel free to start your own blog and call it whatever you like. If you do not like Rose's take on HER blog, please feel free to bypass it. You do not have a gun to your head forcing you to come here. This is Rose's blog, she chooses what to write about and the rest of us choose whether or not to come here.

Vangie said...

New Moon

Rhonda said...

Kami,

I couldn't agree more :)

Freddie said...

Hi Rhonda and Kami - hope you are both well today. Boy it looks like this place was really quiet today. Is everyone focused on the football playoffs today? Is Rose a Green Bay Packers fan? If so, she should be happy about now.

What's new?

Sydney said...

Bach:

In my experience within this fandom, I have found Rose to be one of the biggest, truest Rob fans out there. Her defense of him and his life choices has exposed her to viciousness neither you nor I will ever know.

And yet, here she is, daily posting her love and admiration for him, not to mention her defense of him and ungrateful, entitled fans like yourself come here and criticize her for her positively unflinching, stalwart support of Rob. Shame on you. It's not her fault you're not bright enough to know what's going on.

If you think you can do better, have at it. Put up or shut up.

angelica1 said...

JFC!Is it International Brainless Moron week and someone forgot to mention it? What kind of f**kwit would bother to read something that doesn't interest them? I'm allergic to nuts,when you ladies post recipes with them, I just don't make them. It's called common sense.

Rhonda said...

Hi Freddie,

I'm good, thanks for asking. While I'm sure a lot of people have enjoyed a good day of football..we are still trying to come to grips with this shooting in Arizona.

So a bit sad today..

Rhonda said...

Hi Angelica,

Obviously some people just don't have any common sense :)

Freddie said...

Hi Rhonda,
Yes, it's a really sad situation. I'm terribly sorry for the people that lost loved ones. If as Kami said, the person had a history of mental illness, it's unfortunate that he didn't get the help he needed before it came this sad, unfortunate outcome.

Hi Angelica and Sydney.

Sydney said...

Angelica:
God, seriously. And what's with people having NO sense of humor whatsoever? Why so serious all the time? You do realize you're whining about celebrities right? Jesus. I'm feeling some serious secondhand embarrassment for these sad sorry sacks.

30 said...

I swear,

SOME people are so fucken ungrateful it's pathetic. Just reinforces my reason's for keeping too myself and NOT be affiliated with people like "Batch" and these so called fans of Robs. Ugh

And Batch, NO ONE forces YOU too come here. YOU of all people. I am sure are well aware of what Rose is all about, half you fuckers stalk Roses blog and twitter and Rob and Kristen's life like a crack whore.

Sorry all, I am PMSing and tired of this shit all the time. lol

Rhonda said...

Freddie,

Yes it's sad all around. Are you back to work tomorrow?

Hi Sydney :)

Freddie said...

Hi 30 - hope you are well today.

Rhonda said...

Hi 30 :)

30 said...

I am sorry, it was Bach?, Batch? or was it BITCH? I got the name wrong in my post. What ever it's all the same regurgitated shit anyway.

30 said...

Hi Rhonda, Hi Freddie. I am just doing a quick drive by after working all day. I have another long day tomorrow. I hope you have a great night. :)

Rhonda said...

30- Very true..LOL..

Freddie said...

Hi Rhonda, yes I'm back at work tomorrow. Things will start to get busy again, which means that the time will pass very quickly. That's the good thing. Work is generally not boring.

How about you?

Rhonda said...

30- Have a good night and a great day tomorrow :)

Sydney said...

Hi Rhonda, Freddie, Angelica, 30, Kami! Pretty pleased with the NFL's outcomes today. Especially watching Baltimore kill Kansas City. As a Bronco fan, I hate the Chumps. Good weekend though. It's snowing, we're drinking wine and watching the Nuggets.

Freddie said...

30 - have a good rest of evening.

30 said...

Thanks Rhonda, Same too you. Night all. :)



Good Night BI ACH!!!

Rhonda said...

Freddie,

That's good. I don't know about you but I like to stay busy at work. I probably drive my patients nuts!

No, I'm off now until Tuesday.

Rhonda said...

Sydney- That sounds like a good evening to me..

Freddie said...

Sydney - I saw parts of the Baltimore/Kansas game. Baltimore played well and the Kansas crowd got pretty quiet by the end.

The game last night with Indianapolis and the Jets was pretty wild too.

Rhonda said...

Freddie,

I'm disappointed the Colts lost..I love Peyton Manning :)

Freddie said...

Rhonda - any plans for tomorrow or are you just planning to mellow out?

Freddie said...

Rhonda - I was really surprised by the outcome too, although the Jets having been playing well. I like Peyton Manning as well. Understandably, he looked pretty somber in some of the post game interviews.

Sydney said...

Rhonda, I was disapointed the Colts lost too. Don't tell Kenzz but I can't stand the Patriots. I though the Colts would give them a harder time, but Go Jets, I guess.

Rhonda said...

Freddie,

I'm supposed to meet my bff for lunch if the weather holds out. They are forecasting snow and ice here tomorrow..so we shall see.

I also planned to visit my favorite used book store :)

Rhonda said...

Sydney and Freddie,

I agree the Colts just didn't seem to be on their best game.

Freddie said...

I'm definitely not all that knowledgeable about the NFL, but for some reason I've always liked the Colts and Patriots (sorry Sydney). And this dates back to before Tom Brady. Even though I'm closest to Buffalo, I could never get behind the Bills. Sorry to any Bills fans.

Freddie said...

Rhonda - that sounds like a good day.

Kami said...

Hi Y'all, I'm very happy with the outcome of today's games. I do not care for Michael Vick and being a Cowboy's fan, I don't care for the Eagles. Don't hate me Sydney but my husband is a Chargers fan and I like them too so I'm glad the Chiefs got beat.

I know everyone is upset with Bach for their comments, I was too, but they weren't a troll..just a disgruntled reader, I only responded because I felt they insulted Rose.

Hope said...

Hi Rhonda and Freddie...
Just wanted to tell you that we got our snow today...not much but it was enough to cover the landscape and go sledding. My daughter was so happy and well...that is a gift.

Hope you all had a relaxing day...off to make sure she is getting ready for bed. Sweet dreams to all....

Rhonda said...

Freddie,

Yes, we always have fun. We have a tradition that we never exchange Christmas gifts in Decenber. We always wait and do it in January..so that's what were doing tomorrow :)

Then I'm going to my bookstore. She never goes with me because she hates to read and get this..she's a teacher!

Rhonda said...

Hi Hope- I'm so happy about the snow..that's wonderful!

Hi Kami- I found it offensive too and you did a great job..thanks :)

Freddie said...

That's great Hope. I remember some great times sledding as a kid as well. Glad she had a good time. It's special memories.

Have a good evening.

Rhonda said...

Goodnight Hope

Freddie said...

Rhonda - LOL - I can see perhaps, how a teacher might feel like they already spend too much time reading.

Kami - as you pointed out, Bach is entitled to her opinion. I'm just surprised that people come here criticizing Rose and expect that she's going to immediately act on their wishes. You catch more flies with honey, and all.... (well not the Honey we all know and love....*cough, cough*)

Sydney said...

Kami- a Chargers fan? Say it isn't so. I'm afraid that'll have to be the end of our association. Okay, maybe I can let it go. Maybe. Its inbred in me to despise the Chargers. Though it's pretty much just whiny baby Philip Rivers that I don't care for.

I'm sure it was just a disgruntled reader, but it still pisses me off. Where do they get off? I would never be so disrespectful as to go on someones blog and insult them. No matter how much I disgreed. I mean, get over yourself. It's just rude and presumptuous and classless.

Rhonda said...

Freddie,

That's what she says too :)

Sydney- I agree. I don't know why they come here either....Makes absolutely no sense.

Freddie said...

Well, I'm going to step off. Gotta go feed, then medicate the cat.

If I don't talk you later, have a good evening and day tomorrow.

Rhonda said...

Goodnight Freddie :)

Magnolias-blooming said...

You know you're right....Nobody is holding a gun to my head to come on your site and just read...sometimes comment....Thank you for calling me what you did...You did it all so eloquently.......I was just making an observation....to all what seems "trivial" to me. But after thinking about this "AGAIN!" May have some great importance to you.......We do after all, we lead a different life style....Do we not?

Question: why do I come to your site and read whatever is going on?

Answer: Well I still dont have one.....[an answer!]

Call it an addiction or will I dare say INT.....N , who knows?
Dont hold it against me for voicing my opinion?
Christ it wasnt that nasty......Read it again....see it wasnt that BIATCHY either....

Be nice and be my friend......Ya know you are still mine.......Love all of you! ya know that dont ya? lol

Now who's got the bone to pick with me? Feel free I'm all ears!

Wildhart007 said...

Morning Roseland!

It's beautiful outside! 6inches of snow! A rarity around here.
Downside is I gotta go to work and drive. Vacation is officially over.

Been reading all of Rose's old posts and comments.(finally made it to 2010) It has been an interesting and angst ridden journey. Just want to say thank you Rose for all your honesty, you have made me rethink my journey as well.

Annie said...

Good morning Roseland.

At 11:00 AM Eastern time today there will be a moment of silence led by the President for those who lost their lives in the horrific tradegy in Arozina this past Saturday.

Wherever you are please honor those lost, those who survived and a state and a nation trying to understand why this tragedy occurred.

Kami said...

Annie, there is not explaination. This happened because a deranged young man, saw and heard what others were saying about this congresswoman in a re-election campaign. They never expected to be taken literally when they posted things like "Don't back down, reload". Unfortunately this person decided to take it literally. I do not blame those people who in the heat of a campaign said what they did. The only one at fault is the one who held the gun.

Just because we have the freedom to say something doesn't mean we should. There are consequences to every action whether they are good or bad.

Kami said...

Sorry, I don't know why this part didn't show up

that was supposed to be..

"Annie, as I remembered those people I realized that there is no explination."..sorry

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