This is one of my favorite pictures of Rob and Kristen.
It was the beginning...
I really don't have any pithy comments anymore.
I'm kinda tired of the endless twitlongers
expressing anger/sadness/regret
about something that doesn't concern us.
I'm tired of all the judgement and accusations
about a relationship that we have only seen minutes at a time.
I'm tired of the undeserved hatred that Kristen Stewart has been
getting in this fandom from day one.
I'm tired of the assumptions and speculation made by
people who just want to profit off other peoples pain.
I'm tired that people seem to forget that Rob and Kristen
are flawed human beings...
and they have feelings just like you or me.
All I will say is that I want Rob and Kristen to find happiness
Wherever that road leads.
Yes.
I think when they come out on the other side...
They will be together.
But that's just me.
This fandom is incredibly selfish.
We don't want what is best for Rob and Kristen
We want what is best for us.
Let's face it...
The outcome we desire
whatever that may be
Isn't based on what will make Rob and Kristen happy...
It's what will make us happy.
I just want them to be OK.
No matter what I want or think will happen.
They deserve happiness.
I want people to just fucking leave them alone.
Rob is going to be on TV next week
promoting Cosmopolis.
I wish people could just focus on that.
I wish people could let Rob do his job
without having to put up with people screeching at him
about private intimate parts of his life...
Like they think they are entitled.
Next week is about Cosmopolis.
Rob is proud of this movie.
Rob is so proud of this movie that he is willing
to subject himself to some of the worst
this fandom has to offer.
Good Luck Rob.
I hope you have a LOT of security around you.
(and maybe some silver bullets?)
(and maybe some silver bullets?)
Final thoughts.
Normally I wouldn't post a pap picture of someone's baby...
But since you can't see baby Marlowe
I wanted to comment on something that I love about this picture
(Besides Tom... hair knot and all)
How protective Thomas is.
Look at him.
His arm is wrapped around the handle of the buggy...
He is holding on tight to his little girl.
He is holding on tight to his little girl.
How fucking adorable is that?
How adorable is HE??
Green Sheep.
Fucking forever.
2. I leave for Hawaii tomorrow morning.
I will be gone a week.
So...
I doubt I will be posting anything in that time.
Unless I'm sitting in a chair like the picture above
(which I plan on doing a lot, I may add)
and I get on my Ipad and post a picture or two.
It will definitely be hit or miss.
I have a dear friend watching the blog for me.
So all is taken care of.
Aloha!
Until next time.
Bye for now
And if you don't know where you're going
Any road will take you there
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HOLY HEY-ELL! What in the world did I miss? A little too much excitement for me, I think! The batshit crazy nut's posts have obviously been deleted - thanks to whoever is in charge. Although my curiosity was aroused, I think it's best that those comments are gone for good...
I am always amazed at the incredible discussions that take place on here - and today my heart is warmed by the love, support, mercy, and understanding I've seen. AND, I'm impressed - SO impressed - with the fierce way you all shot down that sick-o!! You people are awesome.
I stayed off the internet last night - told another friend on here that I needed to pay attention to Sox. But, I caught up with the interview, the pictures, etc. - and want to add my 2 cents.
I thought Rob was gracious and charming and perfectly Rob on TDS. I like Jon Stewart (I may not always agree with his opinions, but I think he is funny) and in my opinion, he was the perfect person to visit with Rob. He was upbeat, kind (yes, I thought he was kind), and although he did bring "it" up, he did it in a way that Rob was able to handle (deflect) gracefully and appropriately.
Hope you're all having a great day! We miss you, Rose! Hope you're having fun, soaking in the sun, and sipping on a Mai Tai!!
Freddie: You certainly haven't offended me.
Now stop being troubled and get back on here! :)
Hi all.
Robert
I hope you are right. I really don't want to argue but I don't think it's as easy as you think. Even if the parties aren't asking, people choose sides and in this case they are clear who they prefer. When you are told that if you care about a project, the best thing to do is back out, that's telling. Everything she does is overshadowed by this. It's the asterisk by her name forever, no matter what the truth is. You have what poison she is now to anything and anyone. It's not about the work, it will always be about this. Doesn't matter what really happened, it is now true because the public believes it of her. You might want to say fuck it but not in this business. If your spouse was a director wd you want her working with him/her? Like I said, no disrespect but this is permanent.
dottie :)
DK, thanks! :)
I love the quotes from Rob himself.
I pray that Kristen is doing ok. The world is not just full of hateful comments, it also has love from your fans.
I think Rob looks fantastic if you look at the surface but he breaks my heart looking into his eyes. There is real sadness in those eyes. And his smile and laugh was all off. I realize that a lot of it was nerves with this being the first time out in public but I could see the sadness in his beautiful sun-kist face.
I hope if he really has to do this without Kristen then maybe his sister can accompany him on some of these outing. Because if he is as hurt as he looks like he is then he is not going to be looking for a womans company for a while.
I just wish the best for him AND for Kristen. I also feel bad for her as it that she has just given up. She is young and there is a life out there for her. I just wish she would come out and show her beautiful face also.
Hello all...
I feel I need to take a moment and say I'm sorry too if anything I've said has hurt someone's feelings, made them feel uncomfortable, or in any way caused them to not feel welcome here. I promise, unless you're a proven troll, that's not my intention. The people here have always been one of the best things about this blog, and I know we can agree to disagree without things turning into a war of words. Again, for my part, I'm sorry.
Perdido- I agree with all the nice things you've said about Rob, and I feel those same things are true of Kristen. I just hope she can believe them about herself :)
I also believe she will work again. Many more people have done far worse than she's being accused of and still had successful careers. I have faith in her.
Perdido, I don't know much about it but I really hope you are wrong. People have short memories and actors have come back from so much worse, haven't they? She is so young. Time will heal and this will fade. I just hope in the meantime she has all the love and support she needs. There are so many people who love her and are rooting for her.
Hi Rhonda, I accept you apology :P
Perdido : There are many actors and actresses who have proven that no scandal is insurmountable, be it affairs, breakdowns, substance abuse and on and on..... The list is long.
Rhonda, That should be YOUR. That's what I get for trying to be a smart ass! LOL
Damn….I have to get off this board……but one additional comment:
Perdido – I sincerely hope that your perception of the situation is being coloured by the recency of the events. I truly believe that as time passes this will diminish. Time truly is a good healer and people do have short memories – even in Hollywood I would wager. The people on this board have certainly reminded me that one mistake should not be allowed to define a person. Kristen is a wonderful actress – all those that are in a position to truly assess this have commented as such. There will be those who are more focused on the quality of the project – which will benefit from her participation - than events of the past. Others in Hollywood have stumbled and have recovered. I’m sure it won’t be easy for her, but somehow, I think if someone can do it, she can.
Thanks ladies for the kind words… Now…I’m off….for a mental break….
Perdido - I'm not an expert in the film industry but while I agree the dust probably needs to settle on this, I truly don't believe it's permanent.I feel that it's hitting harder because Kristen has genuine integrity and has found herself in a situation that is so at odds with her normal values that she is really struggling to come to terms with it right now.
I can honestly say that I never give a thought to an actor/singer's past when I watch them give a performance unless they've done something awful i.e child neglect, in which case I wouldn't want to see them but I'm going to have to be flippant here and I'm sorry for that but it's the only way I can make the point - If people refused to work with anyone who'd ever made a mistake or crossed a line they shouldn't have with a colleague,I think there'd be very few films being made.
Digressing for a second, I'd be more than happy for my husband to work with Kristen anytime,even when I'm 6000 miles away.She's a good girl who made a bad decision.That's it.
Dottie and Rhonda
I wish you two were right but when the general sentiment is like JS said--kick her to the curb-its obvious nobody is forgetting or forgiving. People have done worse but not to someone as innocent and loved as Rob. It's unforgivable and unforgettable for everyone. Wish it wasn't that way but ....
@perdido
time will tell i guess, but we all know that the only color that matters in hollywood is green and the fact of the matter is that at the end of 2012 only one actress will be able to claim that she was the headliner of two films, that grossed 300,000,000$ worldwide, while simuLtaneously generating oscar buzz for OTR. [Anne Hathaway was not the lead in DKR]
So i think she's going to OK
Dottie- Thanks :P
Perdido- it hasn't been long enough, but it will pass. Kristen is too talented, and I have every confidence this will not end her career.
Hmmmm - I don't usually come on to disagree, but when I watched TDS, I saw JS saying "kick her to the curb" as a way to parody immature girls' reactions to a break-up. Maybe I'm wrong...
Anyway - I also think Kristen will survive this. She is so well thought of by so many directors, producers, and actors in the business. "This" - whatever "this" is, we don't know - will not define her, professionally. Many bigger stars have survived much worse.
I'm sorry. I'll shut up. I respect you all so much. I know you are hoping it's true that things will get better with time. I don't think they ever will. Sometimes when you fuck up and hurt people you love and things you care about its not possible to make it okay no matter how sorry you are. The good thing is its not tainting Rob. He is doing so great and people are being professional generally. If he comes out of it with this just being a footnote in his life, if his career shines and he finds happiness with someone who deserves him and won't hurt him, that's probably the best anyone can hope.
Perdido- I'm living proof of forgiveness and second chances. As someone said earlier, it's what you do with those second chances that matter. We all make mistakes, but we don't have to be held captive by those mistakes.
Perdido:
Kristen has to believe that herself.............Start with that and take baby steps from there.
You sound as if you think that because Kristen made a huge mistake she should feel shame forever with no chance of forgiveness.
She can want the very best for Rob but she needs to want /believe in the very best for herself too.
Hi all, I want to thank you again for all the things you've told me to look forward to in life. LOL.
Perdido,
I'm feeling quite sad reading your thoughts on what you think Kristen's future is. Surely, time will heal all things and she will be able to make the movies that she loves. No one wishes that for her, that her career ends. And I agree with Litmom that Jon S. was just trying to act like a young woman consoling a friend. He didn't mean the kick her to the curb statement, not literally.
In case anyone wonders, I've changed from a lj acct to blogger but it's still me with all my annoying tendencies.
Perdido, We will keep hoping for the best. Rob may not agree w/what you are saying, I don't know. Not arguing w/you, it just never seemed like an unforgivable offense to me. But again, I'm only on the outside looking in. <3
If
If you can keep your head when all about you
Are losing theirs and blaming it on you;
If you can trust yourself when all men doubt you,
But make allowance for their doubting too:
If you can wait and not be tired by waiting,
Or, being lied about, don't deal in lies,
Or being hated don't give way to hating,
And yet don't look too good, nor talk too wise;
If you can dream---and not make dreams your master;
If you can think---and not make thoughts your aim,
If you can meet with Triumph and Disaster
And treat those two impostors just the same:.
If you can bear to hear the truth you've spoken
Twisted by knaves to make a trap for fools,
Or watch the things you gave your life to, broken,
And stoop and build'em up with worn-out tools;
If you can make one heap of all your winnings
And risk it on one turn of pitch-and-toss,
And lose, and start again at your beginnings,
And never breathe a word about your loss:
If you can force your heart and nerve and sinew
To serve your turn long after they are gone,
And so hold on when there is nothing in you
Except the Will which says to them: "Hold on!"
If you can talk with crowds and keep your virtue,
Or walk with Kings---nor lose the common touch,
If neither foes nor loving friends can hurt you,
If all men count with you, but none too much:
If you can fill the unforgiving minute
With sixty seconds' worth of distance run,
Yours is the Earth and everything that's in it,
And---which is more---you'll be a Man, my son!
Rudyard Kipling
Hi All, there are too many names for me to respond to each comment.
I've been working non-stop the last few days so haven't been able to read each and every comment like I would normally. However, there seems to be debate about Kristen's career, hope I'm not wrong.
ROB: I think he did very well last night. Haven't been able to watch all the interview videos yet but what I did see was impressive. He did what I expected him to do. HE WAS WORKING!!! Yes, he knew his every movement, expression and word would be dissected to the "nth" degree. He was thinner but that could have been because of getting ready for his next movie, what do we know, right? I do think his smile was sometimes a bit forced, certainly not his usual self. Apparently The Daily Show was somewhat scripted but whether it was or not, it was handled very well by both parties. I would expect that after GMA tomorrow, he'll feel better because he is fairly close to Josh on MTV and will have discussed everything with him before the interview. "And that's all I have to say about that right now."
KRISTEN: I believe 110% that her career is going to be fine, not a problem. She is not Lindsay Lohan, she's always been totally professional in the making of her movies, never any complaints about her acting up, and is usually always on time. Apparently she doesn't party and show up hung over, etc. So, I think when she is ready to get back out there, she'll be fine. I believe she dropped out of Cali to work on herself AND her relationship with Rob. If I were 22 and made the mistake she did and realized I'd made the huge mistake of losing the person I loved, then I would do ANYTHING to make it right and get him back and earn his trust. Otherwise, she might always wonder if she did enough to make amends, if they never get back together.
BD2: I believe the first time we see them together is going to be the nail-biter for most of us. Of course, everyone will be reading all the body language, the facial expressions or lack thereof, etc. If they fall into their usual bubble which was there long before they were together, that's going to hint to the world that all might eventually be well for them.
I know I'm probably still living in LaLa Land but DK had to "drag me back into LaLa Land this morning" as I was completely devastated and physically ill every time I heard a mention of "the breakup" of Rpatz and Kstew as they mentioned on GMA today. Of course, they were trying to get everyone to tune in tomorrow. I just can't seem to get over the fact that they might be broken up at the moment. I can only imagine how painful it all must be for both of them. I hope they are still talking as they were last week. That gives me hope.
Liz in NC (otherwise known as LaLa Land!!!
Perdido - No need to be sorry and no need to shut up.
I must respectfully disagree though. Kristen has been far too big a part of Rob's life to ever be relegated to a footnote. The best thing for Rob is whatever or whoever he wants most in life. The apparently easy path is rarely the one that brings the greatest happiness and I'm speaking from experience here. The things that mean the most to me are the ones I had to fight tooth and nail for. Kristen has never struck me as someone to back down from a challenge.
Aww Dk:
I love that poem. Thank you! Big hugs❤
Hey Lucky. Don't be too scared I stretched the truth a tiny little bit
DK- I love that poem :)
Everybody got their decoder rings? LOL, I just watched a video of Rob in NYC from today. His pants were falling down in the back and it looks like he was wearing the same striped boxers that he wore in BD in the scene where Kristen is trying to seduce him by wearing her black negligee... SO, DOES ANYONE ELSE THINK THIS WAS HIS "SIGN" TO KRISTEN THAT HE WAS THINKING ABOUT HER?
Liz in LaLa Land .... free drinks for those that agree!!!
Good point Angelica. Rob's career can be better than ever but if he doesn't have the person he loves it is meaningless. This scandal will pass. I know it feels so big now to those involved but it will fade and there is a whole life left to be lived together. What a shame to miss it.
Angelica- so true, nothing good ever comes easy...
PERDIDO
Kristen is a wonderfully gifted actress!!! Also most everybody that has ever worked with her has attested to her talent, her absolute passion for her profession and the characters she has played.
Kristen was SET UP in a publicity stunt....she has stumbled hard, yes but she is young but she is strong, and I do NOT believe that this defines her life or her future...only if she allows it!
Yes, she needs time to reflect and re group but PLEASE DON'T GIVE UP ON HER!!! If our teens or twenties defined the rest of our days, it would be the most tragic thing for the whole human race!!!!
Think about Elizabeth Taylor...for example. Geez, she stole her best friends husband from her!!! People were outraged, but time has a way of helping people put things in perspective and many years later, she actually apologized to Debbie Reynolds! Kristen apologized ALREADY and it's only been a few weeks!
I believe Kristen can mature and grow from this...I believe that Rob will forgive her in time ...if he has not already...I believe she can pick herself up and continue to enjoy her career and life...
Good Evening ROSELAND.
Hope everyone has had a good day:)
My goodness! So sorry for all those deletes. Blogger went crazy!
@Annie
Plans changed, a family crisis averted with calm, clarity and strength of heart. <3
@Perdido
If I've made you happy, in any small way, then we together have made our world one step closer to what it really is, a place of love, within our hearts.
As for Kristen, my magic wand is in constant motion for her, and its effects cannot be turned away from bringing and her receiving her own goodness.
Rob is always on my radar, too.
No one is alone.
@Robert
I am crushed that you have not answered any of my 200 emails, recently sent with X & O's.
gladly if you tell me how
Robert - There should be a little dustbin icon just below your comment, click on it.
Thank you :)
@Dottie
You do! You and Rose! Come to think of it, millions upon millions of us see exactly like you two. Do!
Robert - Thank you so much. I really appreciate it :)
@ Dottie.....I hope you're right. :)
DK, Did I ever tell you that I love you? :)
angelica
no problem
who was that masked man?
Robert - DK is mailing you :)
@Super
Elizabth T. would be on the line with Kristen right now, saying most of these things:
"I've been through it all, baby, I'm mother courage."
"When people say, 'She's got everything', I've got one answer - I haven't had tomorrow."
"You find out who your real friends are when you're involved in a scandal."
"I fell off my pink cloud with a thud."
"I'm a survivor - a living example of what people can go through and survive."
"It is strange that the years teach us patience; that the shorter our time, the greater our capacity for waiting."
Damn straight!
DK- <3
DK
to paraphrase mark twayne: rumors of your e mails to me have been greatly exaggerated but i did send you a couple back
In case you haven't heard, supposedly Universal has dropped Kristen from the eventual SWATH sequel. They are reworking the sequel so that it focuses on The Huntsman.
If Rupig is still attached (and they say he is) I don't think she would have done it anyway, so all is well.
I think there is going to be a backlash soon over all this negativity towards Kristen. People are getting fed up w/it and the tide is going to turn.
The Hollywood Reporter has an exclusive stating that Universal has dropped Kristen for the SWATH sequel, but Rupert Sanders could return. It's nauseatingly sexist that the 41year old married dude who hotly pursued someone half his age is unscathed from this debacle while everything that matters to Kristen could be lost. The unfairness of this is appalling.
Dottie: I agree.
Universal is really thinking of having Rupert Sanders return as director?
Wow just fucking wow!
Unfortunately, in the world of "Hollywood" men have the power.
An older male director vs a young woman actress? No question which side studios & some in Hollywood would choose.
We've all seen those pix, there are 2 people and I know which one sure as hell seems like the instigator or aggressor.
But facts & truth matter little in an industry like that.
My heart breaks for Kristen. With time, I think her reputation and professional capabilities and integrity will win out. It may just take some time.
If I could talk to her, I would tell her my hope for her is to focus on herself and what's most important. And to fight like hell for it.
Everyone deserves forgiveness and a second chance. She is worthy of that. And of love.
I hope she can start forgiving herself and can accept Rob's forgiveness as well.
Nothing is black & white and I believe there is a lot more to all this than any of us will ever know. And rightly so. Its private.
I think the media and some fans are making it worse, feeding the frenzy and creating it to be something worse than it is. And poor Kristen has to take all of that hate and downfall on her own.
I hope she has good support from good people, and if Rob wants to be one of those, I hope she let's him and realizes that she is good enough for him. Afterall, he would know. If he chooses to forgive her and stay with her then I hope she let's him support her through all this.
He is a good man and seems compassionate.
She hurt him, yes, but I believe her when she says she is sorry. And people may be throwing hate around, but she is probably hating herself more than anything.
And I hope she realizes that holding on to that isn't going to help her recover from this.
I hope she knows she is loved and worthy of that love and I hope she realizes that she is worth a second chance, even if right now she may not feel like she is. I hope she let's the light in to take away some of the darkness that may be surrounding her.
All my best as always to both Rob and Kristen.
The Hollywood Reporter just announced that Universal is dropping Kristen for the SWATH sequel, but Rupert could return to direct. It's nauseatingly sexist that the 41year old married director who hotly pursued an actress half his age has escaped this debacle unscathed, while the toll for Kristen keeps rising. The unfairness is appalling.
Bravo Groovie! You said it all.
As for SW2, it's their loss. I honestly never saw the need for a sequel.
Eventually the truth will out and the "instigator" will get a big dose of karma.
My wish for Kristen is that for every bit of negativity that has been thrown her way she gets back double the happiness.
The old saying, "All's fair in love and war." remains a truth in this world! Can be used for good or ill. Either one. War is hate. Love is love. Which prevails despite all?
We can all, choose again.
Kristen can, Rob can, I can, you are, we did. Zero tolerance for hate is a new saying, for it ends in love and is changing the world, one person at a time.
Hey Everyone, here's a post from
@real_pr_pro... I don't think she'll mind me quoting her:
"Take a look at what the Deadline article actually says and you'll see that this probably is an attempt on CAA's part to use a book deal that they made with Universal to make it look like there is interest in another CAA client, Rupert Sanders.
Let's start with the headline - Universal Acquires 90 Church for Sanders and Roth Films. Why the hell would they acquire a book for a director who doesn't have an ongoing relationship or even a current deal with the studio?
The article mentions that Sanders is "squarley in the middle of the deals" for both of the two versions of SWATH being considered - but has no options "tying " him to the films. That's a nice way of saying he has no deal for them.
The article makes no mention at all of the scandal or Kristen - probably the first article to mention Sanders and SWATH in the past three weeks that hasn;t done so.
And finally just as this was came out THR reported that Kristen has been dropped from SWATH and the writer given a big contract buy out. But we're supposed to believe the guy involved in derailing that would still be under consideration for not only the alternate sequel but also ANOTHER movie that the studio acquired just for him?
To me this looks like the a standard Hollywood play of announceing something to make people think someone is in demand when they aren;t. JMHO. "
Sydney- I read that Universal might be planning to do that as well. But, yeah, their timing sucks!
Groovie- she is worthy, and I wish those same things for her.
Groovie - you said everything that I wish I could say, too.
In the end, love is the thing most worth fighting for.
I think it remains to be seen if it ever gets made anyway. Pond Slime's direction was pretty universally criticised, I'd guess without Kristen on board, they'd be relying on Chris Hemsworth's bankability and he's a busy man these days.
My gut tells me Kristen will one day realise she dodged a bullet here.
Hi DOTTIE and ALL...
I will do as ROGUE suggested and refuse to spend one dime of my money in any of Rupigs future endeavors...and yes, I believe karma is a bitch...
@Groovie
Your "groovy" thinking has scratched my grooves, in the best of ways and the music is better as a result. I hear singing and there's no one there, angel.
It's really great how supportive and dedicated you all are to Kristen...Very honorable of you all...As you know I have never thought Kristen to have talent...She could not carry a movie on her own before Twilight, and it is the same now...Only worse, because she has lost the respect of so many people...So many believe in morals and family values...Cheating on a man like Rob, whom so many have a high respect for and belief he is genuinely one of the good guys...Then to do so with a married man with children, I have to agree with Perdido...She really screwed herself big time...She is going to loose roles left and right right now...She is not a big box office draw as so many of you think, and no one wants to risk that right now...Maybe in five years she will be able to get back some respect in the indie film industry, but right now many are disappointed and angry with her...But Kristen said she wanted something bad to happen to her, and this time her wish came true...She sabotaged her career, and that is of her own choice...Sure things like this have happened before Brad/Angelina/Jen, but there were no children involved, so in humanities eyes, it was easier to forgive...But What Rupert and Kristen did by breaking a family is not as easy to forgive, plus like I said Rob is highly respected by so many...He's not perfect as we all know, but many have the poor guy up on a pedestal...Really though it. is great that she still has fan support, as I don't know how much support she is getting from her family and friends...I'm sure they are their for her, but I guantee there is disappointment as well...Like I said though she made a very bad choice that is going to cost her a lot, including her career...Five years from now though she may come back, and be completely transformed into a sophisticated intelligent young woman with true passion for her art...Honestly after BD2 is out of the way, I bet Kristen will step away from Hollywood...Maybe behind the lens...
Kristen doesn't need to work right now IMO.
I agree with Robert with this,she can afford to stop working if she want and do something else like writing/producing/directing.Or just not doing anything for a while.
If this is true that Universal is dropping Kristen for SWATH,and Rupig is still on board,then I call it foul,I think the whole situation oozes suspicion.
@Nina
Broken records can be repaired, if they are valuable and anyone cares enough. 50-50 isn't bad in your case.
See you on a clear day at forever.
@Holy,
Scroll up and read my repost of Real PR Pro .... oh, yes suspicion, indeed.
Sydney - My Twitter timeline is flying, people are raging over this. They've had enough of people taking unfair swipes at her
Angelica & Sydney- I'm seeing the same...
Sorry to rescind my earlier post about the SWATH sequel, but Gossip Cop is reporting that no decisions has been made by Universal yet. I apologize if I prematurely added to the angst and drama that's already in extreme surplus.
DK I love your poems and quotes, it's sweet.
Sydney I wasn't talking about Cali but same thing applies there. Right now it's like she is poison. You all are such fans, you are biased but to everyone else she's just a fuck up. Yes they will hire Lindsey Lohan but only as a punch line in a joke or things nobody else wants.
super -even if it was a set-up she didn't react right or handle it right. Nobody cares why they just think she fucked around with him and tried to ruin his family. Even if it's not true, it's true now.
Angelica- I respect what you are saying, just disagree. If you ever did anything wrong it seems like you are such a cool person and so kind, you would be easy to forgive.
Im sorry to not respond to everyone. I keep losing my place. Sorry. I read it all. You guys are so hopeful but just my opinion, sometimes there aren't happy endings and people do ruin their lives and aren't forgiven. Sometimes the best thing, the only thing if you know it's just going to hurt someone more is to stay away and let them go on to better things. Maybe that's the only way to try to be better.
@perdido after reading ur last few posts. I just feel like u could use some hug to cheer you up. Things might seem hopeless but I feel great things are yet to come for Kristen that will amaze us all more than we already are.
hope everyone is having a greatweek so far. my family is bumbed we dont have the
olympics to watch anymore. excited to be able to be one ticket towards Rob's goal to beat Batman in box office opening weekend.
@Dk keep up the good tunes!! :)
Angelica,Sydney,and Rhonda: Even people who were angry w/her before are supporting her now. Enough is enough! It's not just about SW2. That was just the final straw.
When I think of the horrible things that male celebs/athletes have done and not only got less hate but even profited afterwards it makes me RAGE!
@Nina
that's your prediction I respect that and wish you all the best in life,as for Kristen I will include her in my prayer every single night so your prediction about her wont come true.
Peace everyone
Perdido- I have to disagree. There can be happy endings, even after bad things. I don't know what the inner workings of Rob and Kristen's relationship is like, but I do know from experience, that if the love is there, and they both still want it, a happy ending can be found. I'm not saying it doesn't take time, but it can be done...
@Perdido
Sweets are treats but they don't cut it in real life.
There are happy beginnings when endings blow up and implode.
Kristen is very fortunate to not be able to live anyone else's life, and there is freedom and redemption in that.
Others will decide for themselves, and so on and so on, and scooby dooby do, chicka.
@Dottie
Marry me, and let me be your wife or husband, you choose. (I adore you, and want that new house!)
@Rhonda
Hearts on fire!
@Sydney
Me, two. <3
@Liz,(at Lala land),I'm glad,you agree with me.
DK: I DO!!!! Just gotta break the news to Mr Dottie! haha
ur kinda stubborn Perdido :) Kris is beautiful n smart n so talented everyone can see that n there are happy endings always n staying away cause u think it's best for the other person doesn't work cause u take away their choice that's just me what i think but idk okay guys I gotta go plz stay okay
Oh dreamer ur still adorable :)
Perdido -
Granted, we're biased...so be it, so maybe we see things differently. Thing is, I am certain that Kristen has a ton of fans that aren't posting support for both her and Rob in places like Roseland...doesn't mean that they aren't supporting both of them. She is not poison....yes, the hate is loud...but there is also a lot of quiet support out there.
I have to say that I respectfully, but totally disagree with you on thinking that sometimes it is better to just stay away because you think that they should just be allowed to go on to better things. There has to be communication in any relationship....sometimes it works and sometimes it doesn't, but one person can't make decisions of the heart for someone else because that's what they think they need or to protect the other person. I won't blow sunshine up your ass....love is hard....but it is worth fighting for.
oh n forgot to say even if u try to stay away or push them away they'll stick around bc they love u n that I'm sure of
just in case u see this ilu
@Em
Talk about adorable, you wise old soul in a cynical world.
You radiate love, and amazingly have taught me almost all of the cyber slang/speak I know and enjoy.
Perdido – do you think that Kristen has learned from this experience? Do you think she would hurt Rob again or treasure a new relationship with him? I’m thinking she’s learned from this. If she still wants the chance for a life with him, I think she should fight tooth and nail for it. It might work out. It might not, but this way she’ll never have to live with the regret of not trying – wondering forever what might have been.
Hi ladies - you ladies are impressive as always..
Thanks Marley
I miss Rose so badly.
Dottie I wish it were true. It's hard to accept that lies and mistakes define someone's future. Its so hard to imagine what you say is true but it's nice to think people have hope.
Nina what you say seems true but I don't think she sabotaged herself like on purpose. I think she went to help bc he was her director and friend and there wasn't any intention on her part. She so stupid and I think tried to joke and just keep the peace like in an awkward situation. She didn't react right but nobody would go there to have a fling. Its too public and like if that was even a thought they cd have gone to a fucking hotel. I don't think she knew and I think he did. I think it was like two minutes of awkward and the story has become like some huge fucking affair when they just did it bc they could. Only, like I said it doesn't matter what or why, it's all decided she's this home wrecker and they fucked around for years or whatever. But I think she wouldn't have ever gone if she knew. She wouldn't have gone with Rob's ring or hat or whatever. I think she is stupid and everything is fucking ruined now bc of that. I don't think it was purposeful.
@perdido
your explanation of what happened is the most insightful thing i have heard on the subject.
chin up, our girl is a fighter, she's fucking snow white for god's sake
@Peridido - nice usual name by the way; is very simple...
Kristen is in love with Rob and Rob loves her very dearly. Now yes, we can't change what has happened and on a public platform it looks bad. But one thing needs to be pointed out here - their lives are how they define themselves and they owe it to no one to excuse that. They are both very stubborn people and both can be pig headed at times, but they both have so much compassion for each other and a stupid, lapse of judgement does not alter that.
We can all live by the golden rule of 'what ifs' but you know what, in all my years as a professional therapist, you can't live your life on what if's you have to move forward with 'what have i become' and that is very simple.
Kristen has this hurdle she has to overcome, but it's a hurdle she faces and she faces it with strength and determination. Is she going to let this rule and dictate how it should be done? I would think not. IF she loves Rob like she says she does and how she has always shown, then bloody well fight for him and allow him to fight for her. I don't believe he has stopped loving her, he wouldn't have been with her this length of time just to simply give up now, when she needs him more than she has ever done, he is not that heartless.
Maybe the media need to take a step back and stop trying to analyse this relationship to death. People have been hurt, real people, now it's time for those people to start healing.
Em- <3
That's why I love being here. See, all the ladies and gent are positive and supportive and are willing to embrace differences in perspective (as long as being respectful of coures). :)
Monica from Asia
Perdido - Even if it doesn't seem like it, most people do actually get that and a lot of people who maybe had extremely negative kneejerk reactions to begin with, have seen the probable truth of the matter now. Yes, you'll always have that small but loud,group of total fuckwits but they're no more relevant than they were a year ago or whatever. I guarantee in 6 months time, Kristen will look back on this as some distant nightmare and then get on with bulding her extremely bright future
u see what I mean dreamer adorable n I'm glad I was able to reach something for a change lol
Hii Rhonda <33333 long time no talk
Mel how's the headache? I been trying to find out but hope ur better
Hi Melinda - thanks. I tried to stay away but I seem to horribly bad at doing what the logical side of my brain is telling me to do.
That should have said "couldn't give a rat's ass)...
Oh and Nina (I'm sure you will be back) get your facts straight before you talk out of your ass. In the Jen/Brad/Angelina thing there was a child. Angelina was the mother of a 3 year old at the time.
the vilification on one young woman has astounded me and saddened me the lengths that some females, media and photogs have gone to bring her down and down they have done so.
But it's like the myth of the Phoenix rising from the flames and Kristen has such an uphill battle to win but win she bloody will do. She is a strong woman, she has been categorised as this 'villain' when the real villain is running around without a care in the world.
I have seen some Hollywood disasters and Kristen Stewart is not one of them. maybe some people need to open their eyes and stop trying to place a fairy tale story on two people's heads, they have faults and they have made mistakes and it's been the media's way of taking someone down when she has been at the top of her career and it's sickening.
Rob for all we know of him is a very loving, compassionate and caring young man and he is bound to know what kind of hell Kristen is going through right now and i don't believe for one second he doesn't care, but what he has had to do was planned months in advance and in the situation he is currently in with his private life, he had had to plaster on a smile and do his job. I am sure Kristen is not far from his thoughts in all of this and i am sure he is well aware the media are scrutinising every single thing he is doing, saying, reacting and judging him on it - as are his obsessive fans and haters of the one girl who 'got to him'
Em- we need to talk food soon. I could use some new cookbooks ;)
Hi! Roseland!
What a beautiful group of people.
Time heals even when darkness is all we can see at the moment.
I tell my son, life is meant to be lived, stand up and fight for what is important to you, because in the end your heart is what will make you happy.
Linda
@Freddie
I've lied about leaving here and broken promises to shut up. Logic does not rule anything worth doing.
@Em
You may have the last word since you are. <3
The lies that have been told are starting to unravel, people are looking at the evidence with clearer eyes. Haters have always been haters and supporters have gathered around. It is not the end of the world, time heals and changes and those changes define who we are. Love is difficult and it is not without it's challenges but love when it is needed is always there, when it is always wanted will be around and when it is accepted it is truly given.
Roseland, I am stunned. What is all this about Kristen being poison? It's not HER that is the problem, it is the pig. And I can guarentee that any SW sequel is going to be a flop without Kristen. She doesn't need 5 years to get over this, or go behind the camera. This is getting beyond absurd. What is happening to her is an outrage. Jealous people want to punish her. How much dirt does she hve to eat? Peridido, I
must disagree with everything in your post. Kristen can hold her head high and I pray that she does. As I said before, the world is not just full of hate. Although it may seem that way, IT ISNT!
Rhonda I'm down whenever u want!
Mel just saw n replied glad ur better
@Wild
You must be better! <3
@Marley
Musica, one just for you, soon.
@Tempest
Play that tune! It's hauntingly beautiful.
Dottie- then call me Braveheart2, because I agree with everything you just said :)
Play away @DreamnerKind, play away...
Em- you can find me on twitter if you want. My shoes are the same ;)
Melinda – Tomas is stable – I guess that’s the way to put it. He’s been having wheezing problems when he breathes so I was convinced it was lung cancer (the loon that I am) since they had detected small spots on an X-Ray a year ago. We re-did the x-ray a couple of weeks ago and luckily it shows nothing. So his vet thinks its asthma. He has lost some weight and his kidney problems, that were stable for while, have flared up again so we’re trying new supplements in his food. So far so good. He’s still the most loving animal around - but I'm hardly biased. LOL. Thanks for asking.
Hi Linda, Jentoo – nice to see you guys popping in more often
Hi to everyone else.
Hi! DK yes feeling better and loving all the positive and supportive thoughts for Kristen.
Rhonda, All we lack is war paint and kilts! :)
Hi Tempest, Meadow, Em, Wild, Mel... everyone
Dottie, - I can supply both!!
Rhonda I'll try but twitter hates me lol n how do I look for ur shoes? okay guys I really have to go now hope u all have a good night bye
Hi to everyone- if I list names I'll forget one :)
Night Em !
Hi Freddie,Wildhart,Melinda,Jentoo,Tempest, Meadowgirl
Freddie-
Aw that sucks for the little guy. I hate seeing animals in pain and stuff. Go ahead and be biased. I'm sure if he could talk he'd say has a great mom...
Angelica, I like my kilts extra short! :P
Hi Freddie and Jentoo, I'm sorry I missed you earlier.
Nighty night Em!
Dottie-LOL!
Em- lol I have a love/hate relationship with twitter too, mostly hate, but you can find my shoes there @imkindaok
;)
Dottie - Kewt :)
Angelica- I want my kilt with matching shoes ;)
Hi, Dottie, Freddie, Rhonda, Angelica, Melinda and anyone I've left out!
Dottie I like the war paint and kilt idea! You all are fierce!
Let me add to my post that the part of Peridodo's post that I do agree with is the description of what happened. Something planned by the pig to get Kristen alone. And it was indeed awkward. Does she have to eat dirt for the rest of her life for it? Does she have to eat dirt for another single second? No no and no.
Rhonda - Not a problem,I have just the thing!!
I love this place. You have all made a really special home and should be proud of that. You are very special people and I can't see how some of what you say can ever be true but I love you for saying it. The people I'm with, they aren't very hopeful, just angry, disappointed and ashamed for what Kris did. They don't believe or want to hear excuses or reasons. I think the most horrible thing is some people saying Robert cheated when I don't believe he ever did, or ever could or they say he must not have been good enough to keep her. I think that's complete bullshit to somehow blame him. He couldn't have caused any of this and is completely blameless. It's one thing if everything is fucked for Kristen bc she went and was stupid and then tried to handle it on her own but if Robert bets hurt or blamed, that's a fucking crime.
Em I see you. Go to your appt and behave.
<3 to you all--
Yes matching shoes for Rhonda! Preferably Converse!
Thanks Wildhart. I've been up since 5:30 this morning. I think I'm starting to get a little punchy.
Night Jentoo
Meadow, I'll add another NO to that!
Oh...and hi back to everyone above:) Sorry I missed that. Goodnight.
@DK...what selections to you have for us tonight?
Does it make me a bad person to eagerly await the professional downfall of one Rupert Sanders? How about daydreaming that I am kicking him around a bit causing all these lovely bruises and then to top it off with setting my German Sheperd on him...with my loyal pooch going right for his groin.
what do u mean u see me n how do u know I'm not home but I'll be there later I am behaving just out a bit lusmsfm bye
Peridido; if you believe in one thing then believe in this.
Those who could not fathom Kristen doing anything to hurt anyone, never mind Rob where the first to believe something was not right in all of this.
Those who only liked her because she was with Rob were the first in line to cast the first stone, and those that always hated her, well their hate feels like justification.
But, what people don't know is what goes on beyond that. People are shocked, hurt, disappointed yes, but that's until they started realising that there is more to this than meets the eye.
I am sure Kristen has people around her who do care and do feel exasperated from all of this, yes she could have handled the situation but she is only 22 and at that age we all think we can handle what life throws at us but we can't.
I don't believe anyone in here has ever contemplated the other scenarios and that i don't believe that anyone in here believes Kristen went out intentionally that day knowing what happened was going to happen. And if people still think there is more to this than that, then they are no better than the media who are enjoying pulling her apart.
So you have to think to yourself, stop listening to other people, stop believing in other people's points of view, believe in what you think is right.
If Rob is listening to the views of everyone around him then he will never hear the truth.
Does he believe Kristen could have handled herself better - possibly but she made a mistake, a momentary mistake that i believe, yes i believe she will never make again. Second chances happen for a reason and i do believe strongly that Kristen should be given a second chance.
DK, I know that you are the song source for Roseland, but may I submit this one? It is by Rachel Lampa called, "Beauty is just a word." You can look it up on youtube to hear it.
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Tick tock and the clock won't stop
You need more time but the curtain drops.
Hanging by a thread, end of a rope you find hope.
You fall just short of the finish line
just like you've done time after time.
And all that's left to lift you is your faith,
You'll find grace.
Raise your eyes so you can see
you're right where you're supposed to be.
(Chorus)
It's dark so you can see the light and it's hard
so you can know it's right.
And pain nothing ever grows without you.
I Didn't think that the sun would rise,
I kept confusing all the truth with lies.
Something told me I just could not let go, now I know.
And holding on is gonna see you through,
So go don't let go no matter what you do.
And Love through the anger, love through the pain.
Love through the storm and love through the rain.
(Chorus)
It's dark, so you can see the light and it's hard.
so you can know it's right.
And pain, nothing ever grows without you.
And hurt is just a chance to heal,
And tears are just a call to feel
And pain, Beauty's just a word without you.
Yeah, Beauty's just a word without you.
And the sun is breaking through the clouds,
can you feel it shining on you now?
You were lost and now you are found
and don't forget ,no don't forget.
(Chorus)
It's dark, so you can see the light and it's hard.
so you can know it's right.
And pain, nothing ever grows without you.
And hurt is just a chance to heal,
And tears are just a call to feel.
And pain, Beauty's just a word without you...
And pain Beauty's just a word without you,
And pain Beauty's just a word without you.
Hi! Jentoo sorry I missed you.
Hi! Perdido, you are hangin with the wrong folks. I believe Kris needs love and support and is a good person who made a mistake.
I also, believe she has a good heart and will survive this and be stronger for it.
I also, believe Karma is a bitch and a certain director will pay up.
Linda
Perdido - Do you need me to come and slap the shit out of those people for you? Negative people drain all the life out of you,don't allow them to.
Kristen knows Rob better than anyone and vice versa. The others don't matter.They need to follow their hearts and to hell with the others.
Hi dottie~thanks for the "No!"
Also, I am part Scottish so I'd love to join in on the kilts and warpaint. Sign me up
Hi Linda :)
Meadow- I'll toss in a 'No' as well ;)
Hi everyone..Wow we are coming out tonight to support Kristen. Everyone is right alot of us have never believed the lies that the rag mags have been telling. She would never have gone there wearing Rob's hat, the ring he gave her. Anyone can tell that Kristen loves Rob with all her heart she would never hurt him intentionally.
I hope she knows that her fans will never turn their back on her. Last week ladies I work with were believing that junk and I sat them down and explained the theories as to why we believe she did not do what they say she did.
Now I have everyone of those ladies supporting her again. They won't buy the magazines and they now don't believe anything they say.
It's a battle but it's a battle we will win. I have faith in Kristen that she will rise stronger and better than she ever was. I believe in her and I know deep down she believes in herself.
She is a fighter. She's not a loser. I hope she digs deep into herself and comes out with gloves on ready to reclaim her life. Stand proud because she did nothing to be ashamed of, all she did was trust someone she shouldn't have. We've all made those mistakes.
My advice to her would be to show her enemies that they aren't going to win this one. Show them that she can rise again. Fight for what they are trying to take from her. Fight for love and fight to take control of her life again.
She's worth it. We wouldn't be here tonight if we didn't believe that. Her fans won't let her down becaue we believe she won't let herself down.
My shout out to Kristen would be GET UP DUST YOURSELF OFF AND GET YOUR LIFE BACK. FIGHT FOR ROB. CONTINUE TO MAKE US PROUD AND MOST OF ALL MAKE YOURSELF PROUD. WE LOVE YOU KRISTEN AND THAT ISN'T GOING TO CHANGE.
Goodnight everyone...it's late here so I have to go but I've never been prouder of you ladies here. I've never been prouder to be a Kristen fan than I am tonight. God Bless You All and God Bless Rob and Kristen too.
Wise words Dottie.
Heading to bed...its been another draining day both physically and mentally.
Good night to everyone. Sweet dreams.
Hi! Maria, Em, Tempest, and Meadowgirl25!
Tempest I've never spoken with you but even though I can't afford you I need you. Your thoughts this last week have comforted me.
DK Your music always is enjoyable. Thanks for listening to me.
Dottie I'll chose moccasins for my foot apparel. It's been a 5:30 day for me also.
Rhonda Tn is representin'
Angelica Hope your labs are doing okay, mine are whining to go out now.
Linda - My Labs are laid here snoring :)
On that note I've gotta get to bed cause 5:30 will be here before I know it.
Love and hugs to each and everyone of you. You are all special and have huge hearts!
Linda
dottie and oneheart~what great posts. Thankyou! I am also very proud to be a Kristen fan and to be here tonight. Perdido, dottie is right. Please!! Surround yourself with postives.
Hi Rhonda~your no has been added to the collection. :)
I am always here if anyone needs me.
I can say one thing and that is this...
Hollywood has shown itself for what it is, a seedy underbelly of messed up ideals. The media have been allowed to destroy one girls confidence and for what - to justify that cheating is bad? She did not cheat, she had a few minutes of an awkward situation and it was blown out of proportion.
IF Robert Pattinson believes everything that happened in the press is what happened in reality, then he doesn't know Kristen at all, which i don't believe for one minute he does. She is hurting, she is confused and she will be angry with herself and will try and push everyone she loves away from her, because she believes she doesn't deserve anyone's love, sympathy or pity.
She is lost and it is up to those who love her and have always loved her to make her see she is not on her own. To hell with Hollywood and it's twisted sense of idealism, to hell with the media and it's money grabbing self preservation, and to hell with those who have turned their back on her, they were never all that important to begin with.
Kristen needs the one man she is possibly turning away right now and hurting both of them more by doing so. She needs to understand she is loved, she is wanted and despite what has been done, people forgive, people move on and so can she and so can Rob.
If there was one thing i would say to Kristen it would be to pick herself up and fight back. She is not tainted, she is not tarnished and she will get back what is hers. Don't make Rob choose, he chose 4 yrs ago and will still want what he believes he wants and needs. Don't make him walk away, you will always regret never listening to him when he needed you to hear him the most.
Hi everyone!
@Perdido Kristen is a brilliant young woman who made a somewhat naive mistake. Rupert took advantage of that lapse in judgement.
I keep saying over and over again that a high speed camera catches literally seconds of time. And some of the frames of those "seconds" are missing from the 50+ pics released to the public at large. Something is amiss... I still believe the interaction between RS and KS was so brief that a video would most certainly tell the true story. Papz always seem to have an accompanying video with their stalkerish invasions of KS and RP's lives, I am just shocked a video didn't accompany this one... I am thinking that it was because it would actually indicate what you said about the lapse in judgement by just "helping" out her director friend.
I know Kristen is being hard on herself. She put herself in a situation that she would change with hindsight in a heartbeat. Unfortunately, her mistake was displayed center stage in the court of public opinion... so unfair. I guarantee you that every person on this blog who has posted on here has made "significantly blundering" mistakes in their lives. *raises hand* I definitely have, multiple times over... It doesn't get much worse than accidently causing fatal harm to an innocent animal due to a "lapse in judgement". Trust me, I won't say much else, because that one hurts like you would not believe...but I shared and admitted it because Kristen needs to see that the severity of her mistake can be similar to others'.
Like Angelica said, it's what we did to correct or resolve that mistake that defines our character, morals, strength, perseverance, and most of all, the ability to be trusted again.
Kristen will persevere, the cruelty will stop, and some other majorly blundering mistake made by some other celebrity will take center stage and everyone will have moved on... I don't wish that on someone, but I am selfish enough to admit that I want the media and public to leave Rob and Kristen alone. We (media/fans) owe them the respect and love they deserve to do so...
Perhaps the people in you life should read some of the posts from us...maybe it will help them gain some perspective.
Kristen may feel "lost" or "undecent", but I can assure you that the reasonable and sane people of the world no better about her character. Rob knows her character too. If he hasn't already, he will eventually open up and allow the free flow of communication with her. I am sure of it.
Just had to share my thoughts with you.
Take care and have a great evening everyone.
Perdido,
I'm sure for Kristen it may seem like her world is colorless right now. It's up to her to put the color back in. A little purple here, a little red there...and the masterpiece that comes from it can be so beautiful. That the beauty of life itself.
I don't know what's going to happen in the future but I do know that what I've seen over the past 3ish years was love. For two people who fought so hard to be together it would be a shame to see it thrown away. I believe clarity will come, it's just going to take time...
To borrow an expression from a good friend, what an epic clusterfuck.
If only we could turn back time and advise her not to do it, flatten a tire, hide her phone, deport the director... If only.
Real life being what it is, it is what it is.
There is not going to be a quick fix for this mistake. If there is even a small flicker of a chance that they may move on, with or without each other, it's going to take some serious time.
Rob is a better man than me. (Yeah, we know I'm a girl, but you know what I mean)
It takes an extraordinary amount of inner strength to put on a brave face when your heart is broken. He smiled and did his job, but the sadness was in his eyes and he appears thinner.
As much as I would love to give the guy a hug, and maybe a dozen or so chocolate chip cookies, it's not my life. He and Kristen are the only ones who know the state of their relationship and if it can be fixed.
Time to fly...goodnight everyone...
tempest, I can't afford you either but you have been priceless. Thanks for being here. :) Hugs
@ Perdido, wow I am feeling like you need more than hugs but here are a bunch more for you. They aren't much but hope they help a little. It breaks my heart to hear that you feel the people around you aren't hopeful. At least you have US!! I can see if they are some of those things at first but they should NEVER be ashamed...and I'm sure it is horrible to know that they don't want to hear or believe what she has to say, but honestly it's their loss. Eventually they will hopefully come around but for right now the person that Kris needs to take care of is HER!! I agree with Dottie and angelica1 100%.
@DK I can't wait!!
Hey everyone again, I just posted under GreenEyedGirl. I have to gmail accounts and didn't realize I was logged into the other one... I just thought would let you all know that if you see it once in awhile, it's because I forgot to logout of it... LOL.
hugs
IEM
@Angelica have you been to bed yet?
Perdido, I can tell you're a person who doesn't have an agenda in this situation. Your comments are true and what you're feeling at the moment.
I hope however that these aren't the feelings Kristen is having, not to this degree. I will admit it, I've been angry and I still am angry because of what happened. I know I have no right to be, this doesn't concern me one way or the other. But when you see something special damaged it makes a person angry.
Having said that, I do not hate Kristen, I truly hope that she is not berating herself over things out of her control.
This for lack of a better word 'mess' is not going to hurt Rob's career, even if he and Kristen reunite and have a long and happy life together it's not going to hurt Rob's career. This will not taint him or his career. Kristen has enough guilt on her shoulders without taking that on there too and I really hope if she ever felt those feelings she stops it.
Kristen is going to have a tough time for a while, yes. Is it fair, not really, but it's the hand she has been dealt. I think if she handles it like the person she is, she will come through this a stronger, more confident person.
I hope and pray that she realizes that people being upset with her doesn't mean hatred. Anger comes and goes in life, you deal with it and move on.
Lastly I think the person that Kristen hurt the most in all of this is herself. This is rough, it's not pleasant but it's going to pass and she will get through it. Maybe if nothing else she has learned that even someone with an amazing bullshit detector sometimes gets unexpectedly covered in bullshit by someone they trusted.
I think that Kristen is going to come through this just fine, right now it doesn't feel that way, but she will and before long there will be a new scandal and people will forget all about that. It's a blessing and a curse that the public has such a short memory. Very few people remember that before this story hit, everyone was fixated on Katie Holmes and Tom Cruise.
@GreenEyedGirl I couldn't have said it better myself!
Perdido I forgot to say that if people are saying Rob cheated and other horrible stuff then they are not people who know him or are worth even giving a second thought. I don't belive for one second that he would ever do that to her, nor that she would ever do that do him. maybe a good boxing workout would be good for you and Kristen!
well said Monica!!
Oh, I have caught up the recent comments a bit. I have to say I've been bothered a but by @perdido's comments, particularly the one mentioning "Rob finds happiness with someone who deserves him and won't hurt him". I think many others give great responses and I won't repeat.
Even I'm still young and inexpeienced (I'm in my late 20's), I know love is not easy. If it's something worth fighting for, you don't let it go easily. I believe utter hapiness comes to those who make effort and fight hard. Of course, you can give up when encountering hurdles, but great love is not like that. IDK, maybe I read too many love fictions. One thing I' sure is there are many possibilities in life. Never say never. Isn't there a say "No love is without forgiveness. No forgiveness is without love."?
Regarding Kristen's career, sigh, it'll be hard for her. But I guess if fans stay loyal and supportive, her career will be safe. Hollywood is about box office and sales, i.e. money at the end of the day. Btw, I'm glad that she disconnects from SWATH2. Linking herself with the movie only brings back unhappy memories of people.
Monica from Asia
@marley, I'm sorry that I deleted my post and added a few more words in it. That's why my comment appears after yours. Thx for acknowledging my comment btw. :P
@Tempest, wow, your words touch my heart every single time. I wanna say I love you lots!~
Monica from Asia
Just popping back for a sec. I was just on twitter before shutting down for the night. So much praise for Rob and Cosmopolis. Yay! So proud for him.
There is also SO much support for Kristen. Eddie Redmayne tweeted support for her after the SW2 news came out. What a doll! There's tons more from all kinds of people in the business and just ordinary people. The tide is turning. Can you feel it?
Just wanted to leave you all w/some good news. Good night!
@Dottie, glad to hear Eddie Redmayne speaks up. Don't forget people who have worked with Kristen always speak highly of her. I'm so happy they show their support in this difficult time. There are kind people truly.
Monica from Asia
@Perdido
I have to go back and address the "Rob moving on to find happiness elsewhere" comment you made, (sorry I hadn't read all of your posts yet in my first post). Um, here's what I have witnessed:
1. Rob has always looked at her like she is the world to him.
2. It is so obvious to us (the fans) that she has always come first in his life since meeting her.
3. We (fans) can just tell by his mannerisms, body language, and vision that he KNOWS she is his soulmate.
4. And last, there will never be a love like the one "true" love a person experiences. He knows it with every fiber of his being, he has said it 100 times over in abstract, elusive, and round about ways in so many numerous interviews.
Kristen would only be hurting him worse if she didn't fight for him with every fiber of her being.
If she loses the fight, and never gets him back, well then she will have no regrets. She will know she tried with everything she has to fight for him.
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I'll tell ya... Kristen needs to seek justice against Rupert though. That man manipulated and planned this... he is getting what he wanted in all of this. I believe that whole heartedly. He hurt two young peoples lives to further his own agenda. I am sure of it.
Any Lawyers in the house? In the scenario that @Pardido presented, would she have legal recourse?
@IEM - she was set up- I am no lawyer but unless he forced her I don't think there is anything that can be done since it was all in public.
I wonder what the hell Ruth is doing seems so odd there is no damage control going on at all.
*waves* Hey @Ginger
I agree sweetie. I too think that SWATH2 was not what she needed nor would have been wise to continue on with that role.
I also don't think this "blunder", "misstep", "lapse in judgement", or "mistake" will impact her career like @Pardido posted.
She has the respect of colleagues that have worked with her and care about her and love her. This "indiscretion" doesn't affect them, so I am confident they will see it as just that...
Hey, if Drew Barrymore can bounce back from her wicked ways as a cocaine addict, party girl, and all around fuck up in her teens, then Kristen can reshape everyone's view of herself too.
I actually think someday that Lindsey Lohan might get a clue and clean her life up. She may just use that god given talent of hers again to be in an independent film that just by the stroke of luck is critically acclaimed along with her performance.
If Lindsey's career has hope, then Kristen's has hope 100 times over.
just saying...
@Ginger, I have wondered that myself. I know she is just a publicist, but you would think she and Kristen's agent would be doing damage control. WTF?
@IEM - wave back at ya. She will be fine she just has to believe it herself. Her haters will fade in the back ground - the mob will find a new target - all takes time I just wish we could bypass the storm to see the fruits of the rain.
Hey, Ging aand IEM!
@DK - hey - big hugs for you
WOW!!!! I want ALL of you guys in my corner! What a wonderful bunch! Rose will be proud!
It has taken me quite a lot of time to read all of the comments but your compassion, hope, caring and love shines!
Dottie~your messages made me smile
Freddie~I can't believe I missed you again!
DK~Wave that magic wand and let the HEALING begin!!!!!!!!!!
Rose, great place you've created here <3 Always nice to read what you have to say and all the positive comments.
@Perdido
This story will define Kristen's life only if she allows it to. It's really up to her how to react to it. She must be beating herself up over this, but if she truly regrets her mistake, as I believe she does, she's definitely worthy of forgiveness. If she feels that she's not worthy, she's allowing herself to think like all the assholes that are crucifying her. Condemning herself forever without giving herself the chance of redemption. Giving up without even trying!
I truly hope that she can find strength to deal with this and to fight for her happiness and for her career! She still has an huge fanbase and even outsiders are starting to react to the absolutely disgusting hatred directed at her.
And when she comes back, I hope to see her with her head up! She doesn't owe us anything and she deserves to be treated with respect, like everybody else.
For Marley A Daydream Believer
What A Day For A Daydream
Lovin Spoonfuls:
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=fwH4wPz-URM
What a day for a daydream
What a day for a daydreamin' boy
And I’m lost in a daydream
Dreamin ‘bout my bundle of joy
And even if time ain’t really on my side
It’s one of those days for takin' a walk outside
I’m blowin’ the day to take a walk in the sun
And fall on my face on somebody's new mowed lawn
I've been havin’ a sweet dream
I been dreamin’ since I woke up today
It’s starrin’ me and my sweet dream
Cause she's the one that makes me feel this way
And even if time has passed me by a lot
I couldn't care less about the dues you say I got
Tomorrow I'll pay the dues for droppin’ my load
A pie in the face for bein’ asleep before dawn
And you can be sure that if you're feelin’ right
A daydream will last along into the night
Tomorrow at breakfast you may pick up your ears
Or you may be daydreamin for a thousand years
What a day for a daydream
Custom made for a daydreamin’ boy
And now I’m lost in a daydream
Dreamin ‘bout my bundle of joy
Thank you/Oldrecordclub
Seeing so many ordering multiple bottles of Florabotanica.
Plus those 6 cinemas Rob mentioned (lol) where Cosmop will play, will be filled to the rafters.
Glory, glory, stickin it to ya, media!
thanks DK! funny that you picked since I was just doing this while learnig how to play a game of chess.
Hats To Helmets Fashions Change
Golden Helmet Of Mambrino
Simon Gilbert (1972):
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=eQ8iZu-BAVM
Thou Golden Helmet of Mambrino
With so illustrious a past
Too long hast thou been lost to glory
Th'art rediscovered now at last
Golden Helmet of Mambrino
There can be no helm like thee
Thou and I now, ere I die now
Will make golden history
I can hear the cuckoo singing
In the cuckooberry tree
If he says that that's a helmet
I suggest that you agree
But he'll find it is not gold
And will not make him bold and brave
Well, at least he'll find it useful
If he ever needs a shave
Golden Helmet of Mambrino
There can be no helm like thee
Thou and I now, ere I die now
Will make golden history
Thank you/junikid
@Marley
I love hearing that!
@Perdido:
There have been some beautiful comments made here .........I hope those comments are passed on and embraced.
Everyone is deserving of love, forgiveness and a second chance..........I hope Kristen allows herself to be forgiven.
The Game Of Pick Up Sticks
That Haunting Melody
Al Jolson (1911):
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=96CmSEbQEgw
Tell me have you ever
Heard this melody
A melody that's made
An awful hit with me
I don't know where I heard it
But I liked it from the start
It seems that I preferred it
Cause it got right to my heart
It lingers in my brain
I've nearly gone insane
Oh how I love
That strain of melody
Where have I heard that melody
It seems so familiar to me
It goes..
It's floating in the air
It's everywhere
I hear it here
I hear it there
I love
I love, I love it so
It follows wherever I go
Where is it from
I cannot help but hum
Wild about
Can't do without
That haunting melody
Thank you/warholsoup100
Long post, be warned...
Okay i have had some time to contemplate everything that has been posted here so i will speak directly to all of you. I am a newbie on here but i have been following Rose's blog like many of your for a couple of years.
Regarding Kristen;
we all loose sight of what is important and sometimes we get lost along the way. But strength helps us make our way back and you, young lady need to now find the strength to get back out of that dark tunnel you are in.
Shit happens; it's not nice, it's not good and it stinks but it happens. The three ringed media circus are playing this story out and the world is lapping it up. They chose the villain and pointed the finger at you, the chose the victim and she is playing her hand really well, and they chose the audience and they are at the end of their seats. You are an actress, you know how this all works. You have seen the scenes play out in front of you, the wrong one accused and the real villain get away with it...until the very end when the plot is twisted and the real villain is revealed.
Some people were too blind to see this, too foolish to believe the very thin plot line, too caught up in pointing the finger at the wrong person. You became the villain and people believed you were so callous to do this to a man who loves you...when in fact it was simply - smoke and mirrors.
You see Hollywood is so transparent, so false and so hypocritical of people's lives. They build you up to tear you down and they have been doing this for weeks. Kristen Stewart is being tagged with the name - homewrecker, why, whose home did she wreck, whose perfect marriage did she ruin? AS far as i can see the perfect happy marriage stands on a strong foundation and if that foundation was made with weak materials then it crumbles.
She cheated, really?
In my eyes cheating means to consent to a sexual relationship, i never saw one in those photos sorry, but what i did see was a glimpse of a very vulnerable girl. I did not see a calculating marriage wrecker, i did not see a willing participant in an on-going affair, I saw a very young, confused and somewhat pensive looking woman put in a situation that she didn't know how to handle, until it was too late.
cont...
Well I'm out for the night I hope everyone gets or has a peaceful night!
@Perdido more hugs to you and I hope you get a good nights rest and wake up refreshed with a little bit more hope and pep in your step and for every day to come. You derserve it!! As does everyone. sweet dreams and happy thoughts.
@DK thanks for the tune, I hope to switch gears and go deep sleep dreams and resume my daydreams tommarrow!! have a great night.
tempest :)
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But the media wanted you to see it, they wanted you to buy into their story, one paps little spun web of lies, backed up with 53 photos.
Wow, so little for such an ongoing steamy affair? Really?
We all get it, we all understand the need to make a public spectacle out of all this, but to label this girl as the poisonous apple fallen from the tree, a little too much of the sanctimonious drivel don't you think?
One lapse of concentration, or judgement and we have to assume she wears the sack cloth and ashes for the rest of her life? Is that repentance enough?
Meanwhile the one who should be looked at with disapproval is allowed to walk around, allowed to get on with his life, allowed to play the doting father, the repentant husband - give me a break!
The man is a law onto his own, calculating, cunning he played the game well. A set up, why is that not a surprise - greed is always someone's downfall, the need to rise from the gutter they lived in and have the kind of life style only they can dream of - at what cost?
The cost of one girls life, one girls love, one girls happiness?
Not enough.
We as fans in here have seen the injustice of it all. We have stood by and supported why, because we believed. Of course there is more to this than meets the eye, but the media doesn't care, it wants it's pound of flesh and Kristen takes the fall.
Of course she is hating everything about it right now, she will be feeling the world is against her and that everything she will touch from now on will rot. She will push away people she loves, not accepting their sympathy and pity, for she doesn't want pity she wants judgement but won't get it because she believes no one wants to hear her. She is destroying herself from the inside out and those who want to help her she is not listening to.
In some misjudged insight, she believes she is getting what is coming to her, for having such a good life, a happy life, a contented life - the world has 'fucked her up' good and proper, except Kristen believes she has done the 'fucking up'
We all believe we can do things better when we are faced with our own fears. We all believe if we could have just been given some insight into what was awaiting around the corner then we would have stopped the mess from happening, but life doesn't work that way, we learn from lifes lessons.
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