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Thursday, August 20, 2009

Defending Kristen Stewart...


I've been thinking about Kristen Stewart.
A lot.
Maybe it's because it has been pretty quiet
on all things Rob...
But I always find my thoughts going
back to her...

I like her.
And the weird thing is...
I didn't expect to.

Honestly, I really didn't know who she was
when I heard she was cast as Bella...
I had seen "Panic Room", but she was so young...
I didn't get a feel for her until MTV started doing
Twilight Tuesdays.

And there she was.
Pretty, petite... and awkwardly shy.
And flirting up a storm with Rob...
I didn't like that very much.
(hey, unlike others, I can admit that I was jealous
of her close proximity to Robert)
She was very touchy-feely with Rob...
They were always touching in some way...
A lot of their interactions were very intimate...
They always had sly looks for each other...
like they had secrets and were keeping everyone else out.
They were always laughing and smiling around each other...

And most of all?
Rob looked seriously happy whenever he was with her.

Yeah, sure... there was Oregano...
But come on, you knew that he was on the way
out as soon as Rob appeared in the picture.
I mean... HELLO?
The little spice boy didn't stand a chance.
Oh, its not like he didn't fight for her...
He did.
He was fucking glued to her for months.
Everywhere Kristen was...
There was the stumpy spice
lurking in the background.
Poor Oregano.
Eventually he became stale and green
(because he was jealous... and well...
because he is Oregano)
And disappeared altogether.

I like Kristen Stewart.
She's confident.
She's talented.
She's doesn't dress to please anyone but herself.
She's smart.
She knows what she wants.
And even if she is nervous and awkward
in interviews...
That's part of her charm.
And oh man...
She is simply... gorgeous.

So many haters out there.
The delusional Twi-Twats
who actually think they have a chance with Rob.
They are constantly attacking Kristen...
Calling her names...
Making fun of her...
Some have even stated that they would
"beat her up" if they ever saw her.

What.The.Fuck.
Are you fucking kidding me?

And again...
Seriously...
If you are reading this...
and think I am talking about you?
I fucking am.
No doubt.
You. Are. A. Twi-Twat.

So.
Over the past year...
There have been zillions of pictures...
Showing Rob and Kristen...
Gazing into each others eyes...
Touching intimately...
Nuzzling and smiling...
And perhaps even kissing.

Why does this make me happy?

Kristen is perfect for Rob.
Outside of the fact that they
are obviously attracted to each other...
They share a love of reading...
Music...
Quirky fashion...
And they always seem relaxed
and happy when they are together.

Kristen knows what Rob is going through.
She is in the same Hurricane...
huddling with Rob in the calm center.
And they are holding on tight...

I like that thought.

Bye for now

34 comments:

maria said...

oh my God Rose I swear sometimes I think you have Rob's ability to read minds!!Because you can certainly read mine!! I feel the exact same way!!
What are these people thinking?? Are they blind? Do they not see the breathtaking beauty of this woman?Are they deaf? Do they not see the intelligence and depth of her words in interviews? Are they stupid? Do they not see how incredibly fit she is with Rob?? Those two just fit..they are two parts of awkward, beautiful, smart, un-hollywood talents and from the second they met, that was it!!!
I couldn't be happier for them, because they truly deserve each other!!!

Suz said...

Beautiful post Rose.. just Beautiful.

Laura said...

Rose, as usual, you are so spot on!! Kristen gets SUCH a bad rap! She said in that new EW interview that in the beginning of Twilight, she got SO NERVOUS during interviews, that she did not even act like herself! Then she said people thought that's how she really was...Not ONE costar has said anything negative about her, and the fan reports for her are great, too! And Rob seems to enjoy hanging w/ her A LOT. Conclusion: Kristen is a really cool, fun chick!!!! :)

Again, GREAT POST, ROSE! :)

Trixie said...

Rosie!

What a wonderful post!

It is nice to see someone defend Kristen for a change. It must be awful to be constantly vilified simply because she is dating Robert Pattinson.

The last picture of her is absolutely gorgeous.

<3 you BFT 4evah!

Anonymous said...

Every single line in this poem---exactly how I feel. Don't I wish I were Kristen Stewart...

lovelyblue27 said...

You're SO right, they "get" each other and in their line of work I'm sure they need that type of support! He DOES look happy when she's around, SHE does too... let them be happy together!

Kelly said...

First, I love your post... and I love that you can just put it out there.. come what may. Really beautiful.

I have never been a Kristen hater.. I think she is different.. but I think she is young.. She went into this at 17, possibly younger depending on the casting time frame and, as they have all said, she had no clue what she was dealing with.. not really. I think she has one of those personalities.. she's not easy to get.. and you either get her or you don't. I think she is still discovering herself... and sometimes when I see pictures of her.. I worry that perhaps she is falling into the trap so many young females do before they find themselves.. you tend to morph into what you think the guy you are dating wants... just an opinion.. and I'm not saying it’s bad, we've all done it.. at her age, she doesn't know herself.. but I think she has intelligence and will gain experience and grow into herself.

I believe she is an attractive young woman.. and I have no problem with her and Rob together at all.. if it makes him happy.. I'm happy.. it wouldn't really matter to me whom he dated because it wouldn’t stop me from what I do daily here on blogs, looking at pictures, watching interviews, hoping for something new, another piece of the puzzle that is Rob, and that will never change for me.. no matter where his life leads, or whom he is with, I know my feelings where he is concerned will never change.

I just wish these blogs could go back to what they started out as... and get away from the personal life speculation... Let's get back to basics... get back to Rob, if that was your interest, or back to Twilight, if that was your interest....

Until any of us has had a chance to spend extensive quality time with any of these people.. we don't really know them... keep the fact that they are not perfect and they are human in the back of your mind.. and keep you fantasy where it belongs.. none of this is real... it's fun.. but it's not real.

Sorry for the long post.

chonga said...

Nicely said. RobstenLove.com

Webb and Weaver said...

Rose....my Dear....you have done it again! This is a great post and we love you. This is why I have your blog posted on MY blog...love ya girl!

kristenfan said...

Rose,whoever you are,i love you for writing this wonderful article.it touched my heart :)

Jakeward aka Emmward said...

Thank you for this. FINALLY, someone has hit the nail on the head. No one ever had a chance with Rob, before or after he met her. He waited, as a gentleman should, until she was ready.

There is a light in her eyes and smile when she is near him or watching him; no one else does that to her. She is simply the most beautiful young woman out there.

I could go on about her talent, but we all know all too well how deeply talented she is.

Twi-twats - back off. There are more of us supporters than there are you haters!

Again, thanks for posting this. You are right. And we all agree.

debbi said...

What a great post. So glad someone is defending Kristen for a change. I realize that she's not everyone's cup of tea, but that doesn't make it ok to maliciously tear her apart on message boards and other public forums. People need to put their energy in better places. I've stopped reading most message boards for that reason - the negativity in general has become ridiculous.

Obsessing over Rob should be a lovely distraction in life, not a steel cage death match over opinions and who's right or wrong.

I adore Rob and think Kristen is a cool and beautiful girl. It's all good.

Anonymous said...

WOW!
This was fantastic and very brave. It seems to be the cool thing these days among many of Rob's fans to trash this talented young lady. I've seen every one of Kristen's movies and have been a fan long before Twilight.

Kristen is exactly the same as she has always been ..with her personality..her way of dressing..her musical interest and her awkward shyness..etc. Those who don't know Kristen beyond Twilight should really check into her work and even her image before she was cast as Bella. She has not changed a bit despite what Hollywood and some of the fans would like her to become. She's true to herself.

Whatever the nature of her relationship with Rob she keeps it quiet and between them. Considering the fact that Rob is the hwood "it" guy right now any other girl would be flaunting their closeness and connection with Rob. That is the reason she has my respect.


Once again thank you for going against the norm and having the guts to post this.

hot4pattz said...

this is a fabulous description of a very talented young lady who is very savvy in the business. i love how you have meshed her with rob and described them together just perfectly! thanks so much for the post i love both of them!

Anonymous said...

Nice post. Agreed 100%! Rob and Kris seem like two peas of a pod IMO so why the hate for the girl? Go Kris!

jerseygrl2 said...

Totally awesome post! ITA. Very well stated and so true!

Kathy said...

Rose, I so wish I had said all of this as eluoquently as you. I'm glad you said it and wished it was printed around the world in all the mags and rags..You are so right and it makes me happy..and just a little bit hot...thinking reading it!

Anonymous said...

thank you for this!
very beautiful writing.
I feel the exact same way.

Dreea said...

Hi Rose, love your perspective as always! It does get so tiring to read all the negative, "twitchy, troubled girl", "she’s bad for Rob", "we want her Bella hair back" commentary! Yeah, Kris is most certainly not your squeaky clean teen row model – she smokes, drinks [underage], is photographer without wearing makeup, wears quirky clothes and sometimes appears not to brush her hair. Gasp! As for her behavior in public, if I was 19, subject to public scrutiny, hounded by paparazzi and stalked by fans while all the while trying to figure out how I really feel about a guy that millions of women would kill for (and millions of others think I was scr#$ing behind my boyfriend’s back) – I would be more then a little twitchy and inarticulate myself at times. And mullet, bra-less, grungy T’s and all she’s drop dead gorgeous – real raw beauty, not the manufactured type! I didn’t think I could love her more until reading the Dazed interview – the girl is FIERCE!!! So grow up for 19 - yet so vulnerable at the same time…

Re. Kelly’s comment… Sure, with every Robsten discussion we’re making a lot of assumptions about personal matters without any tangible information other then stolen glances and reading between the lines. But is it really so wrong to worship Robsten for the simple reason that their undeniable chemistry enables us to "fall in love with the whole idea of being in love"? [I borrowed the bit in quotes from a comment on Robsten Lovers, just loved it!]

Kelly said...

@Dreea - I didn't say there was anything wrong with anyone's assumptions.. my point was that people are putting WAY TO MUCH feeling into assumptions... No one should be trashing this girl.. no one... it's like high school for goodness sake... there is no need for the fighting and mean comments... some of the assumptions get out of control and are no better than rag mags that start most stories anyway. That was all I meant.

I applaud Rose for getting out there and laying her true feelings on the line.. most don't have the courage.

My comments were not directed at the assumptions regarding whatever relationship they have.. my comments were directed at the fact that people are getting mean about it.. and really there is no reason to.

It's all opinion no matter what side people fall on.. I just think people should be a bit nicer about the whole thing... sneering at each other and calling each other names never solved anything. People need to appreciate the differences we each have, because everyone brings something to the table.. whether you use it or not is another matter.

My sincerest apologies if my comments have in anyway offended anyone. They are truly just directed at the whole and the backbiting that is going on... not at any one person or topic.

Dreea said...

@Kelly: My apologies - no offense taken! My intent was not to argue with you, just being philosophical, really... I would have to agree, there's definitely a down side to all the feeling/pressure we're putting in these assumptions, even though we mean well...

Anonymous said...

This is PERFECT. She's wonderful. I honestly really like her. She's a breathe of fresh air in Hollywood.

Anonymous said...

I love KStew and agree with everything you said about her :) BUT I really don't think she and Rob are a good match. If they are together they will have a destructive relationship, mark words. And as much as Kristen "seems" sophisticated she is not well read like Rob (when did she ever talk about books?), she didn't even go to high school. She grew up in Hollywood bubble and has no "real life" friends/experiences.

Rob said it best when he was describing his infatuation with Kristen. He was in the mindset of Edward thinking THIS is the girl, thinking he is obsessed with her.

When all is said and done. She is not Bella and he is not Edward. They have nothing in common except for dressing like totally cool hobos :))

And as much as you bag on Angarano HE was a good match for Kristen. Another Hollywood baby who grew up on sets and glam LA.

I hope they (Rob and Kristen) won't destroy each other...

Anonymous said...

Anonymous from above con'td:

And once again, I feel like I should repeat that Kristen is a great actress,I respect her as an actress and completely agree with all your praises for her. She is strong, doesn't give a crap and is honest. She is just not right for Rob.

Vampsus said...

Rose-You changed the rob pic at the top to another one of my favs, but then I'm "moved" by all of the pics in your gallery.

That shoulder pic of K takes my breath away. It's just a zillion kinds of hotass poetry, and fits perfectly with your poetic discription of her (and what she has to get up to everyday).

I give you full credit for setting in motion the positive tone of the above posts. You rock on.

maria said...

And how exactly would you know this??
Do you know Rob?Do you know Kristen?
I only see the smile in both their faces, the way they look at each other and talk about each other, and that's all I need to see...we don't know these people truly, we don't own these people...they are free to do whatever pleases them and we are certainly not in the position to tell them they should or should not date..jesus...

Vampsus said...

@maria-I re-read Rose's post after reading your comment, and I just don't see where she is telling them what to do or who they should date. What I liked about her post was that she simply reflected what is there for everyone to see....KS/RP are all huddled up in the middle of a fan/pap hurricane, and they have enough in common that they, thankfully, can lean on each other.

maria said...

@Vampsus oh no my comment was for the Anonymous post above your previous post! The one that said that Kristen isn't good enough for Rob!
I am the same maria that wrote the first comment here so you can understand if you read it that I fully and completely agree with Rose!

Joni said...

u r so awesome you totally "get" it :D
Joni

Beluu said...

First time I've ever read this blog, just got here by chance. Seriously, THANK YOU for standing up for Kristen! I must admit that at first I didn't love her, I tried not to hate her. Jealous much? Maybe! But seriously, I have an unhealthy girl crush on her now(well, NOT unhealthy, but pretty big). She's talented, beautiful, intelligent, charming... And while reading the Dazed and Confused interview I became completely aware of how the media manipulates quotes and facts to make up a character out of somebody. I did know that before, but it became awfully clearer. The quotes that EVERYBODY picked out about paparazzi and how they're trying to steal her soul? Please, that was taken SO out of context! If all those bloggers had read the whole interview before jumping into conclusions, and if they had done that MONTHS ago when all this craziness was starting, when nobody knew what Twilight was and the movie was being made, maybe they'd have a different perception of her. Sure, she may be a little awkward, but she seems genuinely taken aback by all this sudden fame. All I have to say is, both to Kristen and to you: you're amazing :)

Bee said...

First of all, sorry for bad english! =)

You definitily saw all KStew's fans side, AND Robstens side. I mean, I'm brazilian, and this text just came into a community where we're so positive 'bout them.

I always liked Kristen, since I saw "Speak", but never heard of her anymore, 'till Twilight. I was so happy she was Bella, I mean, she's so talented and gourgeus. And than, I met Rob. So charming, funny, with that sexy hair, eyes and accent.

I'm so pissed of with this all bullshit they say about her. She's actually amazing for him. So, Rob fanatics, deal with it! They're amazing couple on/off screen. Even with the "not-coming-out" thing, we all know they're together.

Well, I put this site on my favorites. Thanks for the support!

Anonymous said...

I efing love Kristen…in fact I’m actually in love with her, thank you Rose for defending her…1 of the commenter said KS not deep enough for Rob bc she not “well read”…well bb find a little bit of your time (from drooling on Robs pic) and do some research about her.
Again Rose TQ.

Anonymous said...

What a beautiful post. This tall, lean, handsome British guy loves that intelligent,slender,beautiful American gal. To think he crossed an ocean to meet her, it just blows my mind.

Stacey said...

THANK YOU! Whoever you are. I got linked to this page from Twitter, methinks.

Anyways, I seriously love this girl. And I'm sick of the hate she gets. When people crap on her (eeespecially on her acting), I want to kick their asses. Because acting is something she truly loves. She is an ACTOR, not a celebrity out for fame. She acts because it's who she is and she wouldn't know who she was without it. That kind of passion--even if you were bad at what you did (which she isn't)--is worthy of respect ONLY.

She's a chill, down to earth, wickedly funny chick and anyone who can't see that...well, I can't attribute that to anything but jealousy.